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srxl @ruby.isincredibly.gay · 06/09/2025
you're looking for @foxgirl.engineering. go there instead, this account is dead
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ruby @foxgirl.engineering · 06/09/2025
welp. i guess i'm back here. maybe. tangled.sh has gotten me somewhat interested in the atproto ecosystem. after looking into how it all glues together and doing some selfhosting, i think i have a way to engage with this place that i'm somewhat okay with. dunno how active i'll be. prob not very
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tightly-knit social coding
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srxl @ruby.isincredibly.gay · 20/12/2024
welp, the week is out and a grand total of Nothing has happened. guess i'm outta here. won't delete this page, i think i'd prefer that last thread stay here. definitely won't be using it anymore though. logging out, won't be checking for notifs or anything. see ya elsewhere, i guess
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srxl @ruby.isincredibly.gay · 19/12/2024
i had to fucking mangle the shit out of this to get it in the character limit. godforsaken design. can't say anything meaningful in 300 letters
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srxl @ruby.isincredibly.gay · 19/12/2024
It's time to explore new ideas. It's time to learn from the past failures. It's time to make something truly, meaningfully new. Because if we just keep trying to do Twitter over and over again, we're never going to have places where we can truly feel safe. [end]
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srxl @ruby.isincredibly.gay · 19/12/2024
If we, the members of social media spaces, want to meaningfully escape these problems, we have to start doing things differently.
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srxl @ruby.isincredibly.gay · 19/12/2024
To bring all of this together - the current problems with Bluesky aren't new. They're an inevitability brought about by it's decision to be little more than another Twitter, save for some theoretical decentralization sprinkled in.
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srxl @ruby.isincredibly.gay · 19/12/2024
It's early days now, and it's still quite Twitter-y due to us using off-the-shelf software to get started, but we're here to experiment with new website designs too.
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srxl @ruby.isincredibly.gay · 19/12/2024
Hell, I believe in it so much that I'm working on making it happen - the Website League is an attempt at exactly this model. It's built of smaller groups all agreeing to come together under a shared set of rules and values to form one cohesive network.
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srxl @ruby.isincredibly.gay · 19/12/2024
Island networks are a way we can bring that intentionality back to the model of the Fediverse, and I, personally, believe this is a direction worth - at the very least - some experimentation with.
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srxl @ruby.isincredibly.gay · 19/12/2024
The concept of "island networks" is starting to catch on within Fediverse-adjacent spaces - networks where communication between groups is opt-in, not opt-out.
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srxl @ruby.isincredibly.gay · 19/12/2024
Intention is key - a collective of groups can only be cohesive when there's something underlying their unification, and the Fediverse just doesn't have that consistency.
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srxl @ruby.isincredibly.gay · 19/12/2024
Where I feel the Fediverse breaks down, unfortunately, is the lack of intention in it's structure. Putting all of these groups in the same room and just expecting them to get the unwritten vibe was never going to work.
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srxl @ruby.isincredibly.gay · 19/12/2024
Allowing smaller, intentional, independent groups to all coalesce into a larger fabric of groups freely associating with each other is a solid idea in my opinion, and I'd like to see it explored further.
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srxl @ruby.isincredibly.gay · 19/12/2024
What does that look like? I've got ideas. The Fediverse is certainly not without it's flaws, but I think its model of federation and decentralisation is a step in the right direction.
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srxl @ruby.isincredibly.gay · 19/12/2024
We have to build spaces that serve each other - because if we don't, they'll never be free of the harm and exploitation that underlies the foundation of everything that's come before us.
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srxl @ruby.isincredibly.gay · 19/12/2024
It's time to move on. We don't need to make Twitter again. Our communities aren't beholden to capital and the Rot Economy - they're beholden to us.
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srxl @ruby.isincredibly.gay · 19/12/2024
No more praying. It's time to start designing. Our social spaces need to be consciously designed to resist bigotry, harassment, and vitriol, and to foster community, acceptance, and healthy engagement. Twitter was only one of the possible shapes of social media, and it's failed.
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srxl @ruby.isincredibly.gay · 19/12/2024
The shape of social media needs to change. We can't keep jumping into the same thing and hoping, praying that this time they'll get it right, only to be swiftly disappointed when the marginalised and most vulnerable inevitably get sacrificed at the very same altar everyone is praying at.
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srxl @ruby.isincredibly.gay · 19/12/2024
It was doomed to repeat the same failings as Twitter/X, because it's just the same thing again - same design, same founders, same venture capital dependence, same moderation philosophies. But that's the appeal, isn't it?
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srxl @ruby.isincredibly.gay · 19/12/2024
But now that it's caught up, Bluesky has solidified itself as "the place where everyone went after X". We should have seen the failures coming from a mile away. I did - it's why I didn't jump to Bluesky right after Cohost shut down.
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srxl @ruby.isincredibly.gay · 19/12/2024
It was perfect timing. Right when X got too unbearable for people to stay, Bluesky was there and ready to offer a brand new "Twitter 2" - a place people could move without any user friction, save for the inevitable lag of the network effect.
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srxl @ruby.isincredibly.gay · 19/12/2024
But Bluesky? That's a fresh slate. It works just like Twitter - hell, it literally came out of Twitter. Moderation? Maybe - they haven't had a chance to prove themselves yet, it could work. They're even talking about that whole "decentralisation" thing that all those Mastodon nerds love!
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srxl @ruby.isincredibly.gay · 19/12/2024
Cohost? Maybe - if you were willing to deal with the intentional discovery and Numbers limitations, plus the general uncertainty of it all.
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srxl @ruby.isincredibly.gay · 19/12/2024
But where would they go? Threads? No, everyone knows Old Man Zuck has bad vibes. Mastodon? No, it's too confusing, and full of nerds. Tumblr? It was a contender for a while, but their moderation was getting pretty rough too.
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srxl @ruby.isincredibly.gay · 19/12/2024
But then Twitter went sour. Moderation started to get worse. The right-wing started to really infest the place. Elon came along and accelerated that infestation. At some point, the frog boiling got a bit too fast, and it broke the bonds of the network effect - people had to get away from there.
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srxl @ruby.isincredibly.gay · 19/12/2024
But look at what it's done to the state of social media - everything is Twitter now. Twitter is the only thing that exists. For a lot of people (especially us younger zoomers), Twitter is the only thing that's ever existed.
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srxl @ruby.isincredibly.gay · 19/12/2024
And with that many people flocking over to it, you bet your ass investors wanted to get their grubby mitts all over it. Everyone wanted a piece of Twitter. So everyone kept making Twitter, hoping they'd be able to get their piece of that success. And some did!
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srxl @ruby.isincredibly.gay · 19/12/2024
Capital. Big, stinky venture capital. Twitter was the big breakout win in the microblogging space. Twitter got huge. If anyone could have claimed to be the town square of the internet, Twitter was one of the few serious contenders.
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srxl @ruby.isincredibly.gay · 19/12/2024
And it never does. It never works. The shape of these sites just isn't conducive to forming healthy, positive communities. But it's not just that alone. There's something underlying this shape, driving it forward. There's a reason this shape keeps appearing. What's that reason?
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srxl @ruby.isincredibly.gay · 19/12/2024
No one wants to try anything new anymore - just make the same thing over and over again in the desperate hope that maybe this time, it'll work.
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srxl @ruby.isincredibly.gay · 19/12/2024
Social media seems to have a bit of a differentiation problem. Go look at Twitter, Bluesky, Threads, Mastodon (and just about everything else on ActivityPub), Tumblr, Nostr, Hive Social - fuck, even Gab and Truth Social. It's all the same fucking shape.
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srxl @ruby.isincredibly.gay · 19/12/2024
What was it that made people realise that they have to get out of there *now*? Was it Elon? Was it Trump? Was it the AI wave? Was it anything about X itself? No, I don't think so. I've got my theory. It was Bluesky.
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srxl @ruby.isincredibly.gay · 19/12/2024
No, it couldn't have been that - the exodus would have been over a year ago if that was it. Maybe that's the question here. What was the tipping point for everyone stuck on X?
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srxl @ruby.isincredibly.gay · 19/12/2024
Isn't this why people moved off of X? Because their moderation was rendered incapable of doing their job? Or was it because of the hostile takeover by one of the richest men in the world, for the purposes of turning it into a right-wing propaganda machine?
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srxl @ruby.isincredibly.gay · 19/12/2024
After watching Bluesky's T&S team show their hand and make it clear that they're either unwilling or unable to moderate the place, then watching the people they shafted get mad about it, without channeling that energy into any meaningful action, I've gotta ask... What the fuck are we doing here?
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KASHIWA Daisuke @kashiwadaisuke.bsky.social · 15/12/2024
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alyaza ΘΔ @alyazabirze.bsky.social · 14/12/2024
in practice, this meant it was only in effect for about a month before the shutdown--and so it was probably only applied retroactively. if there is anything i wish about Cohost it's "what would have happened if this was always implemented, or given time to bake"
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srxl @ruby.isincredibly.gay · 14/12/2024
t&s refused to ban known transphobe and KF associate jesse singal and subsequently dropped the least response thread to ever do it bsky.app/profile/safe...
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srxl @ruby.isincredibly.gay · 14/12/2024
as for the inevitable "go where?" retort - my original plan after cohost left was to go to my local grassy patch, until i decided to help start the website league. you can just leave. it's an option
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srxl @ruby.isincredibly.gay · 14/12/2024
i think it's going to be really interesting to see how many people here actually learnt their lessons from x and are ready to pack up and go after staff show their hands, and how much of the "you should have left twitter earlier" takes were just empty platitudes
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srxl @ruby.isincredibly.gay · 13/12/2024
anyways website league: posting.isincredibly.gay/ruby fediverse: fedi.srxl.me/@ruby webbed site: srxl.me i'll give bsky about a week to correct course. if it doesn't this acc is getting deleted. if you care about my posts for some reason, those places are where you'll find em
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srxl @ruby.isincredibly.gay · 13/12/2024
when i was talking to my gf the other day about being ready to leave bsky as soon as shit turned sour, i didn't intend that as a fucking challenge
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srxl @ruby.isincredibly.gay · 13/12/2024
only took two weeks of being here for the mod team to completely show their ass. incredible. this experiment in Post Hole might have been a failure
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srxl @ruby.isincredibly.gay · 12/12/2024
recum this post
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walking mirage @wolf.observer · 12/12/2024
sir my computer is very hot and my postgres is very sick
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srxl @ruby.isincredibly.gay · 11/12/2024
livin the LIFE my guy
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wooby @ruby.gay · 10/12/2024
i miss cohost
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srxl @ruby.isincredibly.gay · 10/12/2024
dont we all
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╚ȺƝǤɆŁ ɹǝpuıqʞ๏ØɃ 💩 @langel.bsky.social · 28/09/2023
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