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Monica McLaughlin

@rococopacetic.bsky.social
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Named after the patron saint of difficult children I write Dearest, a newsletter about beautiful, unusual and occasionally batshit stuff at auction: dearest.substack.com

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Monica McLaughlin @rococopacetic.bsky.social · 08/10/2026
Just looked up a weird weed that’s cropped up in my yard and am delighted to tell you all that it’s called a “Clammy Groundcherry”
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Monica McLaughlin @rococopacetic.bsky.social · 04/10/2026
i hope everyone appreciates my Septa pants
Obnoxiously loud comfy pants with a bright pattern of Philadelphia regional rail signs (also, notably, the signs have the old R- designations, which are the only route names I will acknowledge) (because saying “R5” is a hell of a lot better than saying “Paoli Thorndale” when I don’t even know where tf Thorndale is)
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Monica McLaughlin @rococopacetic.bsky.social · 22/09/2026
I'm sorry to do this to my murder husbands, but
Hannibal Lecter (Mads Mikkelsen) standing closely behind and breathing in the scent of his beloved Will Graham (Hugh Dancy)
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dec scary @1milliondollars.bsky.social · 28/07/2026
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Monica McLaughlin @rococopacetic.bsky.social · 15/09/2026
Getting flirty eyes from the giant cute conductor makes taking the train at 5:30 in the morning way more fun
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Monica McLaughlin @rococopacetic.bsky.social · 12/09/2026
Monarch butterfly caterpillar on my swamp milkweed!
Yellow, black and white caterpillar on the stem of a milkweed plant, munching away on a leaf
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Monica McLaughlin @rococopacetic.bsky.social · 01/09/2026
Anybody in Center City? There's a La Colombe cart giving out free cans of cold brew on the corner of 18th & Walnut
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Omar Rayyan @omarrayyanart.bsky.social · 01/09/2026
Rabbit Rabbit!
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Monica McLaughlin @rococopacetic.bsky.social · 01/09/2026
listen, today's the start of my birthday month so you jokers better be ready
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Monica McLaughlin @rococopacetic.bsky.social · 01/09/2026
Goddammit, I love this museum!
share.inquirer.com
The Academy of Natural Sciences is closing its museum after nearly two centuries
The closure does not affect the rest of the institution, which builds and maintains the collections and conducts research through departments such as the Patrick Center for Environmental Research.
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Chris Conroy @conroyforreal.bsky.social · 25/08/2026
Shut it down. National day of mourning.
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Monica McLaughlin @rococopacetic.bsky.social · 25/08/2026
that motherfucker better not say ONE SINGLE WORD about her
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🌈Tyranny🫧Sparkles🏳️‍🌈 @tyranny.sparklenoise.com · 25/08/2026
Dolly Parton with Keith Haring in 1985, incredible woman and supporter of LGBTQ people for decades going back to a time when few others dared.
Black and white photo of Dolly Parton with gay artist Keith Haring.
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Fergal @fergalc.bsky.social · 25/08/2026
Strange to say but the fact that Dolly Parton was such a great person actually sort of distracted from her towering artistic genius.
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slate @pleasebegneiss.bsky.social · 25/08/2026
hi i’d like to report a mistake? you took the wrong 80 year old
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Monica McLaughlin @rococopacetic.bsky.social · 25/08/2026
oh no!
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Monica McLaughlin @rococopacetic.bsky.social · 19/08/2026
Was behind a dumpy little sedan today that had "classic car" tags, and when it turned I saw it was an Oldsmobile Calais, THE CAR I DROVE IN COLLEGE JFC
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Monica McLaughlin @rococopacetic.bsky.social · 18/08/2026
There was more with this tiny badass on the early morning news: "I put up my hands like I was gonna fight. I blocked my face, made sure that my center line was protected, and then he also started to put his hands up, but I could tell that he had never been in a fight before" 6abc.com/videoClip/19...
6abc.com
Woman recalls encounter with masked man terrorizing people in Center City
Woman says she kicked the man in the chest after he confronted her while wearing a Chucky mask
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Monica McLaughlin @rococopacetic.bsky.social · 05/08/2026
FUCK. do I need to hide my scythe?
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Monica McLaughlin @rococopacetic.bsky.social · 30/07/2026
Union printer in Philly. Eventually retiring to the Union Printers Home (a.k.a. “The Castle on the Hill”) in Colorado Springs. Certainly an improvement on my circumstances today.
unionprintershome.com
Union Printers Home History - Union Printers Home at Printers Hill
Here you will find a taste of Union Printers Home History. You can find more on our dedicated history site as well.
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Monica McLaughlin @rococopacetic.bsky.social · 26/07/2026
Well, THIS is disturbing to quickly scroll past
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Sarah Archer @sarcher.bsky.social · 24/07/2026
You’ll be pleased to know that we’re being totally normal about it
A woman in 18th century garb holds a Philadelphia Sixers jersey
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Monica McLaughlin @rococopacetic.bsky.social · 24/07/2026
LeBron signed because he heard Pica’s finally opened in Broomall
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delco de leche @delcodeleche.bsky.social · 24/07/2026
Cecily Tynan is leaving a hole only LeBron James can fill
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Monica McLaughlin @rococopacetic.bsky.social · 24/07/2026
LEBRON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Monica McLaughlin @rococopacetic.bsky.social · 24/07/2026
Contrary to popular belief, Legionnaire’s disease did not initially spread via hotel AC condensation. It actually originated in the UK, where it was rampantly spread by Roman soldiers making out with each other. It was later brought to the US sometime around 520 AD by St. Brendan the Navigator.
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Monica McLaughlin @rococopacetic.bsky.social · 24/07/2026
A youth told me I was iconic today because I have a picture of Yul Brynner as my phone lock screen, even though she didn’t know who he was. Another generation conquered by his chest.
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Monica McLaughlin @rococopacetic.bsky.social · 23/07/2026
I looked at ONE pair of Dansko sandals on Poshmark and now my feed is 99% fugly Scandi/Amish ass mary janes
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Ramin Nasibov @nasibov.me · 20/07/2026
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Monica McLaughlin @rococopacetic.bsky.social · 14/07/2026
Womp womp
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Monica McLaughlin @rococopacetic.bsky.social · 14/07/2026
I suppose the Phanatic is wearing some historic costume or something, but it looks like pajamas from the Vermont Country Store catalog.
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Monica McLaughlin @rococopacetic.bsky.social · 14/07/2026
This home run derby is just silly
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Monica McLaughlin @rococopacetic.bsky.social · 13/07/2026
The circle................ it's calling me.....
Ominous half-circle of white flat-capped mushrooms on a green lawn, softly calling me in to dance with the pixies for eternity.
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Monica McLaughlin @rococopacetic.bsky.social · 11/07/2026
If you see a fairy ring In a field of grass, Very lightly step around, Tiptoe as you pass; Last night fairies frolicked there, And they're sleeping somewhere near
Three fairy rings in my backyard - one big, one small and one medium-sized with a bonus ring of toadstools. 
Science says they’re caused by nutrients released by rotting roots deep in the soil, but we all know it’s the Fae.
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Monica McLaughlin @rococopacetic.bsky.social · 10/07/2026
I just had to google "parts of a sleeve" because I couldn't grasp the word "cuff" from the swamp of my brain. TGIF
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Monica McLaughlin @rococopacetic.bsky.social · 09/07/2026
I've had Dean Martin singing That's Amore in my head for three days straight and I'm thisclose to homicidal
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Monica McLaughlin @rococopacetic.bsky.social · 07/07/2026
Hey guys look at my new evil schoolteacher glasses
Me with big humidity hair looking at the camera lens and wearing black cat’s eye glasses
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Monica McLaughlin @rococopacetic.bsky.social · 30/06/2026
I have a pinched nerve in my neck that hurts like an SOB and is fucking up my dominant arm and fingers and I’m trying not to be a huge whiny baby about it, but HOOOOO BOY I am being a huge whiny baby right now
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Blue Heron Farm @blueheronfarm.bsky.social · 24/06/2026
Look at this grumpy little fucker my husband found
Barely fledged bird. Maybe a mockingbird? In a tree stump
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Monica McLaughlin @rococopacetic.bsky.social · 24/06/2026
I just gave a fox a double cheeseburger
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Monica McLaughlin @rococopacetic.bsky.social · 22/06/2026
Woke up with this song in my head so I looked up the video & it made me laugh so hard I’m wheezing. The comments are all nostalgia but we MUST address the blatant thirst trap of the guy with the hair. At one point the camera pans to his crotch as he pops a squat & there’s a big ol’ hole in his jeans
youtu.be
When In Rome - The Promise (Official Music Video)
YouTube video by WhenInRomeVEVO
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Monica McLaughlin @rococopacetic.bsky.social · 18/06/2026
I am SO glad Mamdani was mayor for this.
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Sahil Kapur @sahilkapur.bsky.social · 14/06/2026
From NCAA national champions to NBA champions. 2016 to 2026.
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Monica McLaughlin @rococopacetic.bsky.social · 14/06/2026
I’m not watching the game but my entire feed is people saying “I’m going to puke”
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Monica McLaughlin @rococopacetic.bsky.social · 10/06/2026
sooo i guess my fuckwit neighbor is going to set off fireworks after 10pm every night this week?
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Monica McLaughlin @rococopacetic.bsky.social · 08/06/2026
Sitting in a doctors waiting room (I do that a lot with a 90yo dad) and a guy just told the ladies at the desk a harrowing story about choking on some broccolini and getting a tomato lodged in his nasal passage for 12 hours
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Monica McLaughlin @rococopacetic.bsky.social · 04/06/2026
I fear my strategy of giving all my folders passive-aggressive names is not achieving the desired result in my relentless fight against The Man
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Monica McLaughlin @rococopacetic.bsky.social · 02/06/2026
Did you ever get the feeling you were being watched?
The entire right-hand side of my office floor is blocked off for repairs from a flood. The floor is covered in plastic and there's a tarp stretched across the hallway and two industrial fans positioned at either side, with holes cut in the tarp for the air and the red tops of the fans hazily visible above. It looks like two unblinking eyes glaring down at us from the hall.
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Monica McLaughlin @rococopacetic.bsky.social · 31/05/2026
Going to see the eye doctor tomorrow. I was supposed to go back three months after my last appointment and instead it’s been 11 YEARS and I am definitely going to get yelled at.
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Monica McLaughlin @rococopacetic.bsky.social · 22/05/2026
"A part of you is in love with life. By what irony I don't know, but I have evidently tried to kill just that part." Extraordinary, deeply introspective and sad (but still hopeful) letter from Arthur Miller to Marilyn Monroe towards the end of their marriage. entertainment.ha.com/itm/movie-tv...
First page of a densely handwritten 8-page letter, circa 1960-61, from Arthur Miller to Marilyn Monroe in the late days of their marriage. Text: 

"This is the truth - (not that I've lied to you, but only left things out now and then in the vain hope I could give you confidence and belief in yourself.)

I told you of my cruelty in the beginning. But I had the hope then that if I were with a loving woman I wouldn't need to be cruel anymore. But that cruelty comes from me, not because of another person, I see now. It comes now because I am thwarted - I want you to flower, to be joyful as I know you can be and have been, and instead I see that you are being ground to bits - and by me. I know enough of your past to realize that you've been depressed before; I know that had you never met me you would still suffer depressions. But there is something I do which is actively destroying you, and that is why I have been so resentful. Because the very things I try to do for you turn out the reverse. I have never cared so much what happened to another person; I have never exercised myself so much to help another person, and no other person has entered into me and changed me in so many ways.

But the fact keeps returning and I have to face it - that you feel - and somewhere in you you know that I am profoundly your antagonist, if not your Enemy. I never dreamed such a thing could be possible between us. I thought that no matter what troubles we might have there would never be any trace of ill-will. When you believe that I went to the Rostens' in the face of your desperate need for me, you believe in my ill-will toward you, and similarly with my going to look for a house. And by ill-will I mean the desire to actively injure another person, to insult or humiliate them."
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