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Quekern

@quekern.bsky.social
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52yo nerd, mother, wife, and "con mom". Lover of Anime, RPG/TTG, video games, cosplay, and danmei. I may be older, but I'm not dead. I can be vocal with little filter. Always have an ear if anyone needs to talk. I'm a good listener, ask my kids' friends

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Quekern @quekern.bsky.social · 04/07/2026
Watched Project Hail Mary tonight with family. I adore Rocky.
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Quekern @quekern.bsky.social · 02/07/2026
I don't do #artfight (my kids do) but I am so excited to see all the artwork and ocs.
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Quekern @quekern.bsky.social · 06/06/2026
Anniversary dinner was great. Change of plans on karaoke. Our dj was at a country club and even dressed up we wouldn't fit in. Ah well
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Quekern @quekern.bsky.social · 05/06/2026
Today is my 22nd wedding anniversary. My husband and I have been together 26 years. It hasn't always been easy, but its been better with him beside me. We aregoing to a chain restaurant for dinner then to karaoke. Our first real date was to karaoke so it seems appropriate. Same DJ will be hosting.
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Quekern @quekern.bsky.social · 25/05/2026
Karaoke with my husband and 2 kids. Rotation is at least an hour closer to 90 min. Fun night out in the middle of con crunch
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Quekern @quekern.bsky.social · 05/05/2026
My birthday/Christmas present from my kids
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Quekern @quekern.bsky.social · 14/04/2026
New wangxian tattoo done by Yeni at Valhalla Tattoos. She's an apprentice and killed it. Exactly what I wanted. #wangxian
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Quekern @quekern.bsky.social · 10/04/2026
Bad news: Ended up at ER. Had fallen and sprained wrist, fingers, and knee.Nothing broken. Good news: I fell at a rescue getting my new baby. my mom wanted pictures of diff kittens and I tripped over a kennel. Meet Wei Ying. Worth the pain.
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Quekern @quekern.bsky.social · 29/03/2026
Celebrated my birthday early since kid was home from college. This was my cake #wangxian
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Quekern @quekern.bsky.social · 30/01/2026
Kid's prof was telling them at any interview students would have to admit to using ai. Said using the fill button to draw was ai and was no diff than gen ai. Students were arguing back. Assistive ai and generative ai ARE NOT the same. Prof admitted gen ai was stealing but eh. Kids were not happy
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Quekern @quekern.bsky.social · 26/01/2026
6 hours from home. Have to drive through 3 level 3 snow emergency counties (essential personel only or possible arrest/ticket) and husband's employer tells him they won't accept a call off. Stress is making me physically sick. Admin he has to appeal to isnt at work yet due to weather. irony?
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Quekern @quekern.bsky.social · 25/01/2026
Took kid back to college and got caught by snowstorm. Originally planned to leave today but level 3 snow emergency keeping us at hotel. A staff member at hotel who we always talk to gave us a tray to bring food from breakfast, waffles, stuff for pbj, sausage. Plus hotel has dinner and drinks later.
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Quekern @quekern.bsky.social · 19/01/2026
Went to a midnight MTG tourney the other night. A girl there said she liked my wx stickers on my phone. She is high school age and reading book 4 of tgcf so said she asked her teacher for a postit to cover the cover, lol. Met 2 others we pushed towards mxtx works. Fun.
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Quekern @quekern.bsky.social · 11/01/2026
I keep forgetting that taking my kids to book stores is not a smart idea. So many new books, lol. Thry have been like this since they were very little, always preferred books to toys. So many danmei.
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Quekern @quekern.bsky.social · 03/01/2026
Last night power went out. 12 hours, no electricity/heat in 19 degree weather. Finally back on. House is 30 degrees. Brrr. Nowto wait for heat pump to catch up.
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Quekern @quekern.bsky.social · 01/01/2026
Happy New Year. May your dreams be fulfilled and you find happiness
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Quekern @quekern.bsky.social · 30/12/2025
Had reverse total shoulder replacement this morning. Had nerve block. Good news no pain. Bad new fingers dont work on one hand. Also brace isn't made for people of my weight so hurting my waist, sigh. 27 years of shoulder issues due to ex. 5th surgery. Hopefully fixes. Also iv in upper inner arm.
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Quekern @quekern.bsky.social · 25/12/2025
My tree this year is mdzs themed. Not exactly how I wanted due to family med issues but it is done. I will keep adding to it. #merrychristmas #mdzs
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𝘛𝘦𝘵é ★彡 @macaraoqueijo.bsky.social · 24/12/2025
Jingle bell jingle bell jingle bell rock (Mxtx's shous edition)❤️ #weiwuxian #xielian #shenqingqiu #MDZS #SVSSS #TGCF
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Quekern @quekern.bsky.social · 25/12/2025
Meet Fenris, our newest terror. He's my husband's Christmas present according to my youngest. Truth be told, he has been wanting a shepherd mix for years and lost his lab last Spring so when I saw this guy and his siblings I knew we had to go see them.
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Quekern @quekern.bsky.social · 24/12/2025
Husband's new pup. No name yet. All tuckered out
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Quekern @quekern.bsky.social · 22/12/2025
@mimispearmint.bsky.social at karaoke and the vibe is very much your wangxian fic. Just the type of bar and variety of people and songs.
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Quekern @quekern.bsky.social · 22/12/2025
Fun continues. At karaoke with family. New place. An old bowling alley/dive bar. Tables are folding tables, mismatches chairs, etc. Best vibe. People all ages (18-70), songs from 50s to present. Theatre kids, rap, caroles, jazz, ballads, swing, cluntry, etc. Place is PACKED. So cool
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Quekern @quekern.bsky.social · 20/12/2025
Met one of my VA meet goals today @nazeehtarsha.bsky.social. (Christmas present from my kids). They thought I was going to cry. He is one of the sweetest people. His delivery of lines for the sarcastic, arrogant, matter-of-fact, book-loving scholar, Alhaitham, helps make the character so amazing.
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Quekern @quekern.bsky.social · 22/11/2025
This is a masterpiece. Want a fic that causes angst, laughter, tears, racing heart (for more reasons than one)? This is that fic. Highly recommend.
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Quekern @quekern.bsky.social · 09/11/2025
Took kids to see Crane Wives. Great convert except my husband passed out cold in the pit at opening act. Medics could not find anything wrong with him. We did get to stay for the concert but was a svary experience. Everyone was so nice though.
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Quekern @quekern.bsky.social · 01/11/2025
Went to go to karaoke Halloween party but turned up and no one dressed. So percy, maomao, and wwx are watching kpop demonhunter sing-along. #KpopDemomHunters #MDZS #ApothecaryDiaries #CriticalRole
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Quekern @quekern.bsky.social · 14/10/2025
Surgery is done. Never been in this much pain but due to nausea can't give me my pain pills and afraid anything by iv could cause respitory failure. Trying to call PA but he is currently in another surgery, sigh. Anyone who know me knows I can handle pain, but am in tears. So phone for distraction
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Quekern @quekern.bsky.social · 14/10/2025
I probably won't be on tomorrow. Have surgery and being on social media while medicated ia not adviseable, lol.
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Quekern @quekern.bsky.social · 14/10/2025
Today I may have have cost myself some friends. One of the group said something untrue about someone I respect. I called them out with proof. When they tried to argue/gaslight, instead of engaging and making everyone uncomfortable I logged out. YesI left them to go one sided without defending myself
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Quekern @quekern.bsky.social · 12/10/2025
Tuesday I have to have surgery (total knee) and will be stuck in my room alot (2nd floor) so decided to decorate it today. Thanks to those who help fuel my obsession, especially my kids who enable me.
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Quekern @quekern.bsky.social · 24/09/2025
Is it bad when cardiologist says he needs to run tests to find out why you get shortnrss of breath/chrst pain/sweating with mild exertion but hr ferls your knee is so bad he would rather you have your knee replacement first? Ortho had said even a non-ortho could see how bad my knee is.
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Tenshi no Korin @tenshinokorin.bsky.social · 08/09/2025
DID SOMEONE WRITE A FANFIC THAT YOU FEEL WAS INCORRECT, OUT OF CHARACTER, OR SCARY SOMEHOW? TRY THESE STEPS: 🔘 Hit the back button 🔘 Log off 🔘 Tell a trusted adult about your feelings DO NOT. COMPLAIN. TO THE AUTHOR. Remember! Stories are not real! And you can always write your own! Or shut up!
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Quekern @quekern.bsky.social · 08/09/2025
Odds of my husband having heart cath at same time my estranged father is having a procedure and his wife being near me in waiting room. Been 23yrs. Not sure she recognized me. My luck SUCKS. I'm shaking. Note: my husband is fine. That's the important part.
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Foxy Joy @foxyjoy.bsky.social · 04/09/2025
The September mini comic is up on patreon! Fairy the fairy - www.patreon.com/posts/mini-c... #MDZS
fairy is a fairy.  go read the full comic on patreon! plus more!
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Quekern @quekern.bsky.social · 24/08/2025
Just watch KPop Demonhunters sing-a-long. Seeing little kids know all the words and sing/ dance was so cute. One quoted EVERY line. She was 8? People were afraid to sing until Sodapop. Then people were having fun. The wailing of people when Jinu sacrificed was loud. Now watching Nez ha 2
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Quekern @quekern.bsky.social · 23/08/2025
Took my youngest back to college 6 hrs from home. Before we drove home today my mom called. She got home with my brother to find one of my cats deceased. No trauma. Just gone. He was only 2. He was my Kaeya. A bit wobbly. My brother covered him til we got home. Other cats are confused.
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Quekern @quekern.bsky.social · 19/08/2025
From my husband being so bad, liver failure and sepsis, his number came down to only 3x/10x and they identified bactwria and awnr him home on antibiotics. Antibiotics are oral and with no other treatment needed they sent him home.
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Quekern @quekern.bsky.social · 18/08/2025
Husband calls at 715 to say they are taking him for his procedure in 35 min. I throw on clothes and rush to hospital. His board says it is scheduled for 11. They did lab work at the 35 min pt. If he wasn't sick I would strangle him. 5 hrs sleep in 48hrs is taking its toll on me
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Quekern @quekern.bsky.social · 18/08/2025
My youngest moves into their 1st apartment this week with three roommates. I have started giving their roommates nicknames just between my kids and me. So far have Monk (ocd) and Wen Qing (premed). I am also ocd so mean no offense. 3rd is psych major who is a dumpster fire (her words) but loveable
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Quekern @quekern.bsky.social · 17/08/2025
My husband was admitted to the hospital last night. His lab numbers are 20x times normal limit for liver and he is having extreme pain and is weak. He is too stubborn to let me sit with him. I have never seen him this bad before. I haven't slept yet.
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Quekern @quekern.bsky.social · 16/08/2025
Found out my newer physical health issues may be leftover from past trauma. I am a survivor of csa, dv, and sa, with the worst being at the hands of my ex 20+ years ago. Evidently my brain decided I am "safe" enough that I can now deal with the trauma, and it is warped enough that it is presenting
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Quekern @quekern.bsky.social · 14/08/2025
If anyone has any fun fic recs I can really use a distraction today. Got call husband needs cardiac catheterization for 2 blockages. They wanted next week but kid moving to college so husband said no. Doc is allowing an extra week if he stays healthy. I am a wreck. Should I mention his job wants to
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Quekern @quekern.bsky.social · 11/08/2025
One of our first dates, first real date, my husband sang karaoke "I"ll be" by Edwin Mccain. First time I ever heard him sing. Tuesday we are taking our 2 grown kids to see Train with Edwin McCain. I am so excited. Family loves Train, but for me it is hearing the song that made me start
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Quekern @quekern.bsky.social · 11/08/2025
Last week my husband was at the ER, back/arm pain. a followup to cardiology said testing showed issues. More heart testing this week. Last night 20yo started complaining of severe spasms/shoulder pain. Trip to ER. Find out possible rotator cuff tear. Please keep fics coming. Need distraction.
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Quekern @quekern.bsky.social · 08/08/2025
My kid got their best friend to watch season 2 of tgcf. His response to ep 1. San lang got a glow up and jun wu is a really powerful, chill, good guy. Lol. Note it took til last ep of season 1 for the kid to figure out san lang is crimson rain. I swear this kid is really smart too, lol.
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dr. hazel 🕸️ @hazelmonforton.com · 31/07/2025
"ChatGPT is great for brainstorming!" Actually we have a tool for that already! It's called thinking. We use our brain. It's called brainstorming! Clue is in the name.
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Quekern @quekern.bsky.social · 25/07/2025
Healthwise I am not well. I am having TIAs at least 3x/wk of various severity. They started in Nov. I was sceheduled for neuro in June but sue to surgery it got moved to Aug. Not sleeping at night for fear of not waking up. Yesterday, I had 2 pretty bad ones. Went to ER in Jan but
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Quekern @quekern.bsky.social · 22/07/2025
My children and husband are such enablers...they convinced me it was good to buy more mxtx stuff for my walls/shrine (as husband calls it) as well as a wwx capelet with bunny ears at the con. Other danmei congoers called my husband my enabler and said I was lucky. I know I am. Lol
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Quekern @quekern.bsky.social · 21/07/2025
Confused a couple 10yos. Went in McD’s the other night and one girl was singing Sodapop. I said oh you like “KPDH”. Both girls eyes get wide and they ask how I know what it is. I say I have watched it. The show them my Spotify which showed I had just been listening to
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