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dame aylin’s heavenly strap @thirteenthdilemma.bsky.social · 02/10/2026

right now i’m at $50/100 for october’s rent!! i need to order groceries as well bc all i have left is a couple cans of vegetables and some instant ramen. i was referred to a case manager but i haven’t heard anything back yet

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lee @paperwasp.bsky.social · 25/09/2026

i must not have a Take. Takes are the mind killer

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lee @paperwasp.bsky.social · 02/10/2026

forgot we were interviewing a candidate today and i'm on the committee and i am wearing... no bra, a fireball t-shirt, basketball shorts and birkenstocks

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Kat Tenbarge @kattenbarge.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

Just a reminder that people don’t always realize they were raped in the immediate aftermath. It can take hours, days, months, and even years to realize you were raped, and it doesn’t make it any less true. There are many kinds of responses, including fawning and trying to appease your rapist

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lee @paperwasp.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

trying a few different yoga youtube videos to get some gentle movement in and there really is a wild range of what's considered "beginner friendly"

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lee @paperwasp.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

when the last sip of coffee tastes like bitch if you swallow this we're puking up the whole cup

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lee @paperwasp.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

new coffee shop a couple towns over is running a Harry Potter drink special and donating some of the proceeds to a local trans org. jfc just do like horror themed or something it's fkn October. The Thing themed iced coffee with a mess of raspberry syrup or something. owner's sibling is trans btw.

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lee @paperwasp.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

it's a sufjan stevens kind of sick day

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lee @paperwasp.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

watched the love hypothesis movie last night. our expectations were low (booktok romcom amazon slop about a PhD student fake dating her PI but all the faculty is ok with it? hello???) but goddamn that was TRASHHHHH

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lee @paperwasp.bsky.social · 27/09/2026

thinking about how fucking bad my dad hated al gore. the politics of it were scary of course but his vendetta felt personal which was kind of funny. one time he made us sit outside in the hot sun to watch ice melt in a cup of water to prove that global warming & sea level rise weren't real

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lee @paperwasp.bsky.social · 27/09/2026

good morning from my terrible daughter who wanted to be up so early

dove, a gray and white cat, looking with wide eyes at the camera, one paw outstretched, lying on a green bedsheet

photo taken a second later of dove on her side with her head upside down, paws curled, still looking at the camera

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lee @paperwasp.bsky.social · 25/09/2026

i must not have a Take. Takes are the mind killer

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Alejandra Caraballo @esqueer.net · 25/09/2026

They used the existence of kids with ADHD and autism to delay and dismantle care for trans youth. Now they're delaying and dismantling care for kids wtv ADHD and autism.

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lee @paperwasp.bsky.social · 25/09/2026

yes I only got halfway through the headline "baby elephant calf rescued something something something" before i started crying. yes i cried yesterday over a story about an injured pelican being helped. what of it

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lee @paperwasp.bsky.social · 23/09/2026

googling the same symptoms i always have once a week and making the surprised Pikachu face when the diagnosis is the same every time

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lee @paperwasp.bsky.social · 22/09/2026

butch lesbian garrus vakarian send post

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lee @paperwasp.bsky.social · 22/09/2026

midsize bitches love to talk about how it's Uniquely Difficult for them to find clothes

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lee @paperwasp.bsky.social · 19/09/2026

fucked up in the crib (one beer + many weed) making potions (roasted chicken and chicken broth for various other meals this week)

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lee @paperwasp.bsky.social · 19/09/2026

me: i don't experience pathological demand avoidance me when my body needs something: i will take care of that when i physically cannot ignore it anymore bc it pisses me off that I have to address it

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lee @paperwasp.bsky.social · 17/09/2026

now why is my mom making a dinner reservation for 5:30 pm when she knows I work til 5 and live an hour from the restaurant

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lee @paperwasp.bsky.social · 17/09/2026

"warning: this piece includes descriptions of nonconsexual sex" yeah so there's actually a word for that @wired.com

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Imani Gandy @angryblacklady.blacksky.app · 16/09/2026

Trans rights is inherently a bodily autonomy issue. Just like abortion rights is. We can't have gender equity or reproductive freedom without trans rights. Full stop. You can yell at me and make up shit that you claim I've said if it makes you feel better. I don't care. I'm right. And you know it.

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lee @paperwasp.bsky.social · 17/09/2026

just had a woman with a 7 or 8 year old in the front seat whip around me and blow a red light cause she was mad i let someone merge. Love it here

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lee @paperwasp.bsky.social · 14/09/2026

pleased to have been right about ed sheeran all along tbh he always seemed like a sniveling spineless little worm to me

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lee @paperwasp.bsky.social · 14/09/2026

it keeps coming and going much like my will to live

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lee @paperwasp.bsky.social · 13/09/2026

1. flatbread w ricotta, chili crisp, kale, corn, tomato, pickled red onion 2. chicken broth

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lee @paperwasp.bsky.social · 13/09/2026

my sense of smell abruptly came back at the grocery store earlier thank fucking god

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lee @paperwasp.bsky.social · 11/09/2026

ok, negative rapid test for covid, gonna retest when delivery comes. still doesn't change the fact thay my brain said I will never be able to smell again and that my perfume and candle collection is now a bunch of expensive paperweights

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lee @paperwasp.bsky.social · 11/09/2026

so i might have covid :D 🔫🔫🔫🔫🔫🔫

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lee @paperwasp.bsky.social · 10/09/2026

on top of being sick i burned my tongue and soft palate sooo badly on the soup i made

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lee @paperwasp.bsky.social · 10/09/2026

monday: holiday tues and wed: dreadfully sick, did not work thurs: worked for 3 hours and then went home upon hearing some bad news that i already knew but felt different coming from my mom fri: we'll fuckin see

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lee @paperwasp.bsky.social · 07/09/2026

some selfish little shit ass bratty fucking kid got my wife sick on literally day one of class bc he wanted to talk about his feelings for 30 min before disclosing that he was sick and now i'm getting sick and i know exactly whose fault it is and i want him to get a failing grade!

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lee @paperwasp.bsky.social · 06/09/2026

just found out you can buy thc sodas at the liquor store in jersey

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lee @paperwasp.bsky.social · 03/09/2026

I have to change my cpap mask bc it's warped but instead of doing that last night i simply took it off after 2 hours and am suffering the consequences so hard now

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lee @paperwasp.bsky.social · 03/09/2026

if p*lyphiliabl*g has no haters i'm dead

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lee @paperwasp.bsky.social · 02/09/2026

just reread the Log Of Events for our last apartment's foreclosure bullshit and maintenance/communication issues and made myself mad. btw Mike Azimi aka Aurash Ghomi is a fraud and a grifter with like 50 open cases so do not rent from him #baltimore #DC

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lee @paperwasp.bsky.social · 01/09/2026

seeing a new dr for hormones is such a humiliation ritual like okay now tell me your Gender Experience........

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lee @paperwasp.bsky.social · 31/08/2026

i hate having to do work shit after work hours wtf.... it's basixally a mixer but i physically cannot relax

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lee @paperwasp.bsky.social · 31/08/2026

ok they're making me do my hematology follow up before they restart my t but that means it'll be like 6 more weeks at least

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lee @paperwasp.bsky.social · 31/08/2026

anyway GI appt is over, now it's time for HRT appt

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lee @paperwasp.bsky.social · 31/08/2026

they're out of the shit sample buckets at the labcorp i'm at so they told me I have to pick up a shit bucket at a different labcorp which is Not Happening

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lee @paperwasp.bsky.social · 27/08/2026

i got a 100 in sleep last night according to my cpap app but god i'm so fucking tired i am close to tears and i still have 2.5 at work

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