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my gender is the queervoid @ohheyletusvent.bsky.social · 16/04/2026

Primarily Tumblr users recognize things aren't just "Tumblr" issues challenge impossible lol

my gender is the queervoid @ohheyletusvent.bsky.social · 16/04/2026

One of my frustrations with Tumblr is people acting as though anti-transmasculinity discourse is almost entirely a Tumblr thing with maybe some Twitter stuff but Twitter is a cesspit so they mostly discount that anyway.

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my gender is the queervoid @ohheyletusvent.bsky.social · 16/04/2026

This is still the case. Will try to check in more often!

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my gender is the queervoid @ohheyletusvent.bsky.social · 10/02/2026

Thanks! My PCP recommending me is a trans guy (the main reason I chose him after looking forever lol) so I'm hoping he'll be able to help smooth the process

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my gender is the queervoid @ohheyletusvent.bsky.social · 10/02/2026

Like this is also after I didn't think I could get it in the first place because I have too high of a BMI, but they recently added another surgeon that has a higher BMI limit It's just so wild that I'm in my 30s & still not trusted to make decisions about my own body! Preaching to the choir, I know

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my gender is the queervoid @ohheyletusvent.bsky.social · 10/02/2026

No worries! I'm not sure I have any bills that allow that but I'm hoping whatever my therapist can say about it will work. I've also been on hrt off and on for over a year (not required for top surgery here but might work for the "living as gender" requirement The whole thing is so frustrating

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my gender is the queervoid @ohheyletusvent.bsky.social · 10/02/2026

This is a rhetorical question btw it's just frustrating that it so clearly doesn't have nb genders in mind.

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my gender is the queervoid @ohheyletusvent.bsky.social · 10/02/2026

"How long patient has been living in gender – one year required for GRS" (from the letters I need for top surgery) What does that even mean when you're nonbinary I've been out online and to some friends for years but it's not like I can change my gender at work or present a specific way or anything

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my gender is the queervoid @ohheyletusvent.bsky.social · 09/02/2026

I am not super active in here as much because I got sucked back into Tumblr lol Might change off and on Interesting seeing the different flavors of anti-transmasculinity and other trans in fighting here vs there and also how much is the same

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cat's futch bitchsona era ✨️🧙‍♀️🏹🌌🌷🍷🪄🎠🧭🎉🔬👀 @therapatical.bsky.social · 28/11/2025

"the main and probably only trans guy who helped work on whipping girl is a former lezsep and current Mormon" was not on my bingo card I'm ngl

"While trying to distance herself from the college educated coastal elites, I mean uhh, "transgender revolution" authors, Serano collaborated with trans man Patrick Califia on Whipping Girl. Califia is an interesting person. Much like Serano, I think some aspects of his work are very insightful and others are.... not so much, specifically because it is shaped by his own history (again, like Serano, who I think is kneecapped in the world of theory by her position as a biologist). I think the important context for Califia is that he is a former lesbian separatist and is still an active, practicing Mormon. His history is necessary not brought up to disparage Califia, I very much support queer people with complex relationships with religion and find his work on sexual liberation in particular very interesting. It is, however, brought up to highlight a contrast between the trans men Serano aligns herself with vs the nonbinary trans people she attempts to distance herself from."

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cat's futch bitchsona era ✨️🧙‍♀️🏹🌌🌷🍷🪄🎠🧭🎉🔬👀 @therapatical.bsky.social · 21/01/2026

the same woman who made up a nickname to mock me for being sexually assaulted (& when confronted just decided to misgender me in response, but not address it at all???), deciding to AI generate an FBI letter was...... not on my 2026 bingo list, that's for sure

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River doesn't know what to say @riverraven.bsky.social · 14/01/2026

There is transmasculinity in Les Misérables (2012), and when I saw that I thought, oh of course. In the movie the revolutionary falls in love with the high class woman, aided by the low class woman,

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my gender is the queervoid @ohheyletusvent.bsky.social · 10/01/2026

I mean they do have Gare who is nb and def not on the mostly transfem leaning side of nb from what I've seen, so I don't think I'd go that far

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my gender is the queervoid @ohheyletusvent.bsky.social · 09/01/2026

Like this is what I rely on the podcast for! To introduce me to concepts and resources and people I don't know! This is not my area of expertise and I shouldn't have to learn new skills to fill in the gap in the podcast that *should* be doing this work!

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my gender is the queervoid @ohheyletusvent.bsky.social · 09/01/2026

Which I brought this up on the reddit one time for a partocular episode that was named being about trans people in a specific career but was only about trans women in a specific career and I thankfully got a lot of support but also got a lot of "well why don't *you* suggest transmascs then?"

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my gender is the queervoid @ohheyletusvent.bsky.social · 09/01/2026

I'm being a little unfair probably; I'm not sure I actually believe they don't care about transmascs at all, but they definitely don't care enough to understand us or our issues or really bring us on when talking about trans issues

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my gender is the queervoid @ohheyletusvent.bsky.social · 09/01/2026

Could be Like "well we got at least one transfem and nb so we're going to trust them with all trans issues and not worry about hiring or promlting transmascs" I mean if the trans people you *did* hire don't seem to give a shit about them, why would you?

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my gender is the queervoid @ohheyletusvent.bsky.social · 09/01/2026

I guess I'm more lenient with that podcast because it's not failing to report on transmasc/nb news or playing down transmasc issues or using "trans" to mean "trans women" or only sharing Whipping Girl in their trans book recs etc etc etc But yeah you're right BtB needs more transmasc/nb guests fs

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my gender is the queervoid @ohheyletusvent.bsky.social · 09/01/2026

Yeah I think they've had the trans guy from Kitchen Table Cult on there at one point and maybe one other trans guy, but that's true as well. (They're both part of the Cool Zone network and Robert Evans is one of the main ICHH hosts)

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my gender is the queervoid @ohheyletusvent.bsky.social · 09/01/2026

I'm tired of being anxious every time I listen to an episode that they're going to ignore or be shitty about transmascs and nbs, and I told myself that if they didn't mention the attack on binder companies I'd unsubscribe, and I'm following through despite the extenuating circumstances. 5/5

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my gender is the queervoid @ohheyletusvent.bsky.social · 09/01/2026

feels even more grating now that they've started to end every ED episode with "put a trans woman on your couch" when they so easily could say trans *person* is just too much for me on top of them conveniently not having to talk about the binder situation. 4/5

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my gender is the queervoid @ohheyletusvent.bsky.social · 09/01/2026

"we have trans men on we just don't announce everyone's identities," when they *know* that wasn't the point is just inexcusable when there are multiple trans people hosting episodes that should know better. And their lack of care for trans mascs in reporting and trans conversations 3/5

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my gender is the queervoid @ohheyletusvent.bsky.social · 09/01/2026

ED was one of the few series I was still listening to since it gives a good summary of what's going on, but almost never talking about transmascs and nbs throughout the podcast and often downplaying what we go through when we do while writing off criticism as 2/5

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my gender is the queervoid @ohheyletusvent.bsky.social · 09/01/2026

Okay I'm officially done with It Could Happen Here Like I understand the binder stuff happened while they were on a break from Executive Dysfunction and a lot more happened since then, but I am just so tired of them ignoring transmascs and nbs. 1/5

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The Nerdskull @nerdskull.bsky.social · 06/01/2026

Just to show you how toxic the entire Isabelle Discourse has become, I'm getting Kiwifarms users attempting to smear me with debunked lies once again.

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Malachite Tigerbunny @malachitetiger.bsky.social · 06/01/2026

Anyway before I log off I just wanna post a reminder that the mod maker was just minding her own damn business when suddenly death threats against her were getting tens tens of thousands of likes. If we're gonna to talk about not harassing trans women for nothing, we cannot obfuscate that example.

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Dr. Kalen Zeiger (they/he) @kalenzeiger.com · 06/01/2026

Dring a time when experts and trans folks both are issuing warnings about trans genocide, and queer folks in general are ever more under attack, this is acutely dangerous. If a kid isn't telling their parents something so basic, it's because they've made a risk assessment about it.

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maersk aerospace @maersk-aerospace.bsky.social · 06/01/2026

meanwhile people are just posting "we have to get rid of the grody perverts" as text now. which, y'know, can't help but feel has something to do with permission from big names to be assholes. just a feeling!

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Uzumaki no Lactone - θ∆ @licoricetick.eurosky.social · 06/01/2026

As someone who does regular searches to block transmisogynistic trans women and their transmisogynistic allies: completely unprovoked "man I hate nerdskull" posts are a loyalty oath to them.

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Harle A. Hyena @hyenagrin.bsky.social · 06/01/2026

"Someone I follow screenshotted a post where someone made a dog girl in a sweater vest, we've clearly reached the point where we need to talk about purging the degenerates." I've just been blocking them when I hear about them but it feels like legitimately dangerous rhetoric right now.

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my gender is the queervoid @ohheyletusvent.bsky.social · 06/01/2026

(Which idk if you know any of the Bhatt discourse and that could be a whole other rabbit hole but one of the more obvious/easy to discover issues around that time is that she told 7 trans women to kill themselves due to, again, trans discourse that is another rabbit hole.) 4/4

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my gender is the queervoid @ohheyletusvent.bsky.social · 06/01/2026

Again I might be summarizing this a little badly since it was a while ago, but that was the general gist. 3/4

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my gender is the queervoid @ohheyletusvent.bsky.social · 06/01/2026

She looked into things and decided Bhatt was super cool actually and all the criticism was from transmisogynists and/or racists and actually the term she's pushing (transemasculation) is really good and basically just wrote off all of the concerns. 2/4

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my gender is the queervoid @ohheyletusvent.bsky.social · 06/01/2026

I'd have to dig to find links for stuff since this was a while ago, but she promoted Talia Bhatt's book, T/R/F, and when people said "hey she's actually not great especially, but not exclusively, about trans mascs and is even trying to push a term for our oppression rather than the ones we use" 1/4

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Danielle Froom 🏳️‍🌈 @danifroom.bsky.social · 01/01/2026

Even in Rochester, one of the most inclusive cities in America, a dead trans man is misgendered and deadnamed by the local news, his transphobic family allowed to have the last words on his life. Every trans death is a murder. We remember you, Danny.

News report with misgendering and deadnaming blotted out.

Missing Black trans man Danny Siplin found dead in Rochester, NY.

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The Nerdskull @nerdskull.bsky.social · 04/01/2026

Self-identified transmedicalist complaining about how “goonbrained” trans women are a problem. At some point the lack of solidarity becomes pathological. Just go full Blaire White at this point.

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Victor Frankenstein's Psychoanalyst @graay.bsky.social · 29/12/2025

If I can be brutally honest for a moment it's really weird that we very rarely see the discussion of "trans men invading men's spaces" because the implicit (and sometimes explicit) threat of physical violence and sexual assault is assumed to be successful at keeping trans men out.

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my gender is the queervoid @ohheyletusvent.bsky.social · 26/12/2025

Peeked into Tumblr discourse and it remains bad as ever Not that I expected different Long posts means more room to show people wildly spinning out about transmascs but also the more you try to clarify and give nuance, giving more ammo to bad faith actors or those with no reading comprehension

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my gender is the queervoid @ohheyletusvent.bsky.social · 23/12/2025

Yuppp Like it's so funny scrolling through a trans masc blog and seeing all the reblogged posts talking about anti-transmasculinity just consistently marked red Y'all ain't subtle

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