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Jennifer C. Martin

@notreallyjcm.bsky.social
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Dirtbag Christian, writer, editor, and speaker Polyamorous, bi, mom, communist, theology nerd, foodie, southerner, gamer, reader, and lover of both low art and high art. Calvinists DNI Located in RVA. She/her. linktr.ee/jennifercmartin

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Museum of Twitter @museum-of-twitter.bsky.social · 10h
@hudlion

sometimes, I think it would be worse to be an insect and wake up one morning and find you had been transformed into a guy with a job
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Rob @thedeathsiren.bsky.social · 12h
Today @notreallyjcm.bsky.social and I talk to "Radical Ambient" musician and @trippnasty.bsky.social's buddy, Trond Jervell. In addition to his theories on music, he also tells us about life on a remote Norwegian island that is often light or dark for 24 hours/day. open.spotify.com/episode/5y3o...
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PPA - Trond Jervell (Norwegian Radical Ambient Musician)
Platonic Polyamory (fka Undressing Underground) · Episode
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Jennifer C. Martin @notreallyjcm.bsky.social · 13h
There’s zero benefit for our enemies in bombing San Diego or Los Angeles, lol. Those of us on the east coast know that we are the real targets. I’m two hours south of DC and surrounded by military complexes in Virginia. RIP me
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Bookshop.org @bookshop.org · 06/10/2026
Anti-Prime Day starts…NOW! 🥳 Today through midnight on 10/7, enjoy free shipping site-wide, all while supporting local, independent bookstores.
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Arienne Childrey @ari4ohio.bsky.social · 05/10/2026
Today, I resigned as Vice Chair of the ODP Pride Caucus. The state party expects us to be a sales team, censoring our voices when we beg candidates not to trade on trans lives. I am still a Democrat, but I will not value party approval over true, defiant advocacy. Full text below. 👇
Part 1 of an open letter of resignation by Arienne Childrey, stepping down as Vice Chair and member of the Ohio Democratic Party (ODP) Pride Caucus. She states that party leadership treats the caucus as a recruitment and sales team rather than a representative body. She cites an incident where the ODP censored and denied permission for the caucus to post a letter by two trans leaders addressing harmful comments made by Democratic gubernatorial candidate Amy Acton. The State Party Chair reportedly called the letter an "unwelcome distraction," which Childrey notes demonstrates how little party leadership values the voices and dignity of LGBTQ+ Democrats.
Since that decision, every Caucus plan, every potential post, and every path forward has been filtered through a lens of strict compliance and ODP approval. That may very well be the party's rule, but following those rules right now is a dereliction of our duty to the LGBTQ+ community.

For me, any rule that silences advocacy for the trans community during this time is an unjust rule, and I see no obligation to follow it. In alignment with the words of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. in his Letter from Birmingham Jail:

“One has not only a legal but a moral responsibility to obey just laws. Conversely, one has a moral responsibility to disobey unjust laws.”

We are living in incredibly dangerous times for the trans community. We are in an era where the GOP has so thoroughly weaponized trans lives that even some formerly self-professing allies within our own party have fallen prey to the rhetoric. Looking at the national trend towards Democratic anti-trans triangulation, as well as our own internal conversations, it is clear to me that this shift is much more than a simple coincidence.

We have to speak up—loudly, strongly, and unapologetically—or I fear what our 2028 choices may look like. The ODP would like everyone to believe they are a "big tent" party. However, their successful efforts to silence even the Pride Caucus—even in cases where we are simply begging our candidates not to trade on our lives for perceived electoral advantage—has proven otherwise. The tent hasn't gotten any bigger; it has simply shifted, leaving many trans individuals, progressives, and allies out in the rain.

I will continue to advocate, organize, and fight for our community with everything I have. But I can no longer compromise my own moral principles by remaining part of a caucus that appears more interested in party approval than in true, defiant advocacy.

Sincerely,
Arienne Childrey
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Jennifer C. Martin @notreallyjcm.bsky.social · 06/10/2026
I’ve got nothin’ very Christian to say about Jim Bakker or any other televangelist, so I’ll just let y’all know he’s dead. I’m glad his son took a different path.
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Jennifer C. Martin @notreallyjcm.bsky.social · 05/10/2026
The only single serving cookie that is acceptable. Man I want a cookie cake now.
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Jennifer C. Martin @notreallyjcm.bsky.social · 05/10/2026
“Single serving cookie recipe” is against my religion
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elia ayoub @ayoub.bsky.social · 04/10/2026
The primary purpose of an Israeli ‘ceasefire’, whether in Gaza ir Lebanon, is decreased media coverage. And Israel was proven right on that.
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Joel S. @joelhs.bsky.social · 03/10/2026
The reason we need more religious studies education is because the "New York Times" can just allow someone to say in an interview that wokeness is like the Old Testament, which supposedly has no forgiveness, and the assertion goes unchallenged.
"I mean, you happen to be right. And by the way, I’m not being dismissive of you. I’m just saying that my friends have tested me more than yours, and maybe I’ve tested them. I’m not religious, but I’m a Christian, and God forgives. That’s what it’s all about. The problem with quote, unquote, wokeness — and don’t get me wrong, it is great that marginalized people have a voice; it is great to advocate for anybody that feels marginalized — but the problem is we’re in the Old Testament right now, and the Old Testament has no forgiveness. The Old Testament didn’t work, so they had to write a remix called the New Testament.

There’s been discussion lately about how the Woke 1.0 era, which refers to the immediate post-George Floyd era, was “crazy.” Do you see that moment in time as just “crazy?” Was there anything redeeming about it? I think I just answered. Again, it’s great to help those that need help. We need more of that. The problem is when you institutionalize it. My half a joke: The Salem witch hunts — I’m sure the first three witches they caught were actually witches. But then you open up a witch office, and now you gotta start lying because you got overhead. You gotta justify the witch hunters’ pensions and [expletive]. I’m glad that all of this stuff happened, it needed to happen, and because it happened, maybe I’ve heard some voices that I probably wouldn’t have heard otherwise."
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Jennifer C. Martin @notreallyjcm.bsky.social · 03/10/2026
Trump posting Tom Cotton’s personal phone number over the DST bill of all things is so fucking funny. Funniest doxxing since Deadmau5 doxxed Skrillex
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Jennifer C. Martin @notreallyjcm.bsky.social · 03/10/2026
Extremely grateful for these two grocery store ladies recreating Prodigy’s Firestarter
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Erin Keane @erinkeane.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
I was raised by a nurse with an associates degree and a steel mill electrician. I am not denigrating the value and dignity of blue collar work when I ask how many elite national media staffers are raising future bricklayers themselves. www.theatlantic.com/ideas/2026/1...
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Time to Consider Becoming a Bricklayer
College degrees hold less value, while jobs in the trades are booming.
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Rockette Morton @rockettemorton.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
Once again #Cassunday is crashing #BandCampFriday 🐦‍⬛ Features @notreallyjcm.bsky.social w/VODE (Arvo Zylo & Leslie Keffer) The Grey Romantics (2nd time to mentioning today) & several others. Thx @thedeathsiren.bsky.social Edgar Allan Poecast - Vol. 3 grayromantics.bandcamp.com/album/edgar-...
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Jennifer C. Martin @notreallyjcm.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
Going to go vote yes three times for ballot initiatives in Virginia (preserve abortion legality, preserve same-sex marriage, restore felon rights to vote) and I’m hoping my vote will actually count this time unlike when I voted to redistrict and Virginia Supreme Court was just like lol no
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Jennifer C. Martin @notreallyjcm.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
I don't think "morally gray" necessarily equals "complex" and I also deeply believe in genuine, true evil in the form of selfishness, as evident in real life far more than even fiction, and I certainly believe that below seek themselves above all others willingly, no matter what they call themselves
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Jennifer C. Martin @notreallyjcm.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
East of Eden is pretty good, but as per usual, I wish the villain could just be a villain. Cathy Ames is probably the greatest villainess in literature and already plenty complex in her own right. I don't know if we needed the Disney villain sympathetic backstory. But, I still liked it.
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Jennifer C. Martin @notreallyjcm.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
I haven't seen it! I'm scared. I'm waiting for @thedeathsiren.bsky.social to see it and report back
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Jennifer C. Martin @notreallyjcm.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
0/100 rating from the NY Post seems completely nonsensical and impossible. Now do I want to see it again?!?!
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The Best of All Possible Oaves @erikonymous.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
Was feeling extremely gross and depressed about everything last night. The Christa Pike story is the Cornell gang rape story is the Epstein story, which is also the Trump story which is also the story of the "manosphere" and Christian nationalism. It's just hatred of women all the way down.
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Danielle Froom 🏳️‍🌈 @danifroom.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
Erik Killmonger, gesturing downward: Is this your king?
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Kilometres Davis @kilometresdavis.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
They didn’t read the part of The Art of War where Sun Tzu says “do not show your enemy’s hog on a 25-foot jumbotron.”
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Jennifer C. Martin @notreallyjcm.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
Barbaric
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Jennifer C. Martin @notreallyjcm.bsky.social · 30/09/2026
It’s too much for me
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Jennifer C. Martin @notreallyjcm.bsky.social · 30/09/2026
Same!!!
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Jennifer C. Martin @notreallyjcm.bsky.social · 30/09/2026
NOOOOO is Digger really that bad?!?!
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Dropout @dropout.tv · 30/09/2026
If you haven't watched Hundreds of Beavers (now available on Dropout for US subscribers), we highly recommend you do that immediately watch.dropout.tv/hundreds-of...
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Hundreds of Beavers - Dropout
A drunk salesman battles hundreds of beavers to become North America's greatest 19th century trapper.
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Jennifer C. Martin @notreallyjcm.bsky.social · 30/09/2026
over 30 replies yesterday
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Jennifer C. Martin @notreallyjcm.bsky.social · 30/09/2026
sorry, I trust zero political polls on anything these days
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Bob Smietana @bmietana.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
A popular Christian author and her professor author were arrested for alleged abuse religionnews.com/2026/09/29/h...
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Heather Thompson Day and Seth Day, Christian authors, arrested for alleged abuse
(RNS) — The Days are co-authors of a best-selling Christian book on relationships.
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Scare Smith 💀 @evilgalprods.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
FATALITY
A tweet from Joyce Carol Oates: overall takeaway from the Curtis Yarvin profile is that there must be millions of smart-aleck show-offy kids who annoy their teachers and go on to annoy other adults through their lives with their “contrarian” pose that hardens to a carapace over their faces; until, as adults, they still harbor a delusion that, if there is a king, or a fuhrer, he’d be impressed with the guys motor mouth and appoint him to his cabinet rather than deleting him with a negligent swipe of his wrist as Stalin did routinely.
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Jennifer C. Martin @notreallyjcm.bsky.social · 30/09/2026
I wasn't going to share it but some of the rest of you were like wtf and someone else shared examples so here you go
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Jennifer C. Martin @notreallyjcm.bsky.social · 30/09/2026
Just realized that the woman murdered by her cheating pastor American Idol husband, Ashley Smith Flynn, went to my college (Lee University) at the exact same time as me. I didn’t know her, but I’m a little shook up. The capacity for violence in evangelical men cannot be overstated.
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Jennifer C. Martin @notreallyjcm.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
I would be so embarrassed to vote for a Democrat that happily endorses the same exact stance as Republicans when that’s too far even for a weak lib org like Third Way
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😱 Spooky SpectreKILLoquy 🔪 🩸 @caulimovirus.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
if Abdul gets elected they’ll make a third season of Detroiters
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Emily Gorcenski @emily.gorcen.ski · 28/09/2026
Here’s the most incredible story you’ll read today. A small plane with four people aboard crashes in a field. Another pilot witnesses it. That pilot happens to be flying a bunch of skydivers. They offer to jump to assist, are given permission. The skydivers happen to be EMTs. Everyone survives.
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Skydivers alert emergency crews, assist after plane crashes near East Troy airport
Four people were aboard the single-engine plane when it went down in a cornfield near Carvers School Road in East Troy at about 1:30 p.m.
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Curb Your Malthusiasm @manucleardevice.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
women are giving birth in Gaza without anesthesia or medication
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Mel Buer @melbuer.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
I want to make another point here, that I think Faine does an excellent job of highlighting: there isn't anything particularly wrong with putting on sex parties with consenting adults A big issue here is that women are being pressured to attend in order to network *professionally*
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Jennifer C. Martin @notreallyjcm.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
I love this one so much but also a huge fan of the Bill Burr Samuel Adams pumpkin beer taste testing one
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Jennifer C. Martin @notreallyjcm.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
I can't believe men believe they are at a disadvantage when this is how they think about women
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Jennifer C. Martin @notreallyjcm.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
I don't even have an opinion on it or her because I don't know what it sounds like. I'll get around to it!!!!!!
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Jennifer C. Martin @notreallyjcm.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
I occasionally listen to the radio, my parents live in Nashville and my mom writes about country music, and I myself listen to some country music (albeit, not really contemporary stuff) and I've genuinely never heard the song either????
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Jennifer C. Martin @notreallyjcm.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
it's okay I was just joking anyway
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Jennifer C. Martin @notreallyjcm.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
I wish I had filed a complaint. Is nearly 16 years later too long?
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Jennifer C. Martin @notreallyjcm.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
btw he was born five hours later
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Jennifer C. Martin @notreallyjcm.bsky.social · 26/09/2026
Remembering my first pregnancy when my water broke at home. It was gushing out of me. I was 40w2d with contractions. I walked into the hospital with a huge wet spot on my dress and said "My water broke and I'm in labor," and the registrar replied, "Are you sure you didn't just wet yourself?"
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Shiv Ramdas Mens Rice Activist @nameshiv.bsky.social · 26/09/2026
so many people on the internet are so damaged and they deal with it by ascribing the worst possible interpretation to everything they see online and raging at it as though it's what caused the damage in their own lives
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Rob @thedeathsiren.bsky.social · 26/09/2026
New cassette of the Edgar Allan Poecast Vol 3 (there will never be a vol 2) arrived in the wrong shell color. Featuring @notreallyjcm.bsky.social, @saracentury.bsky.social, me, Maria Bamford (really! Briefly!), and some others. grayromantics.bandcamp.com/album/edgar-...
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Edgar Allan Poecast Vol. 3, by The Gray Romantics
8 track album
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Jennifer C. Martin @notreallyjcm.bsky.social · 26/09/2026
I think it’s pretty mild personally but environmental reasons www.lonelyplanet.com/articles/cai...
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Why rock stacking on hikes can be harmful - Lonely Planet
Learn why rock stacking on trails can harm wildlife, confuse hikers and break park rules; plus, low-impact ways to enjoy your time outdoors.
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Jennifer C. Martin @notreallyjcm.bsky.social · 26/09/2026
POLYAMOROUS GREAT BRITISH BAKE-OFF CONTESTANT!!!!!!
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