IDK what to call it; I’m not full “no contact” with my whole family, and “low contact” isn’t hitting. Then one of my Twitter oomfs in a similar boat hit it outta the park: I have Quiet Quit my family.

Incredibly shitty, fucked up, and unfair realization that’s been beating my ass to a bloody pulp: The only way out of the bullshit is to go through it

Donate to Help aj unfuck life after long stint of isolation & abuse, organized by a.j. LastName

Donate to Help aj unfuck life after long stint of isolation & abuse, organized by a.j. LastName

Honestly, I’m way more open to professional collaborations than personal intimate relationships right now and I just have to lean into that.

The thing fucking me up the most right now is the realization that I am not suffering more at this time than I was prior to my life blowing up, I’m just way more conscious and aware now

Woke 1.0 really fucked up people’s perception of what “checking your privilege” was originally supposed to mean, which is really tragic because it’s such an important part of creating a fairer society

Actually realized today the degree of how much my phone is ruining my life and the ways in which it serves as an emotional crutch

I'm happiest when I just shut everyone out who tries to make me feel bad for the fact that I'm a really weird person who's constantly saying crazy shit

I held my infant nephew and said aloud that I love him very much and I'm heartbroken that I won't get to see him much as he grows, because his dad is incapable of demonstrating basic respect for me.

I'm gonna be so real with you guys, the way I'm getting by right now is by telling myself repeatedly all day that everything is ultimately working out for me, and my motivation is pure spite.

The tragedy of getting caught in a toxic relationship that was ruining your life is that you'll only learn after you've already left that everyone else but you could see it.

I don't think any adult has to project anything at all onto a gender non-conforming child actually. I think we should both leave them alone to truly self-actualize and also love them unconditionally.

How come the most vile bigots imaginable are allowed to say whatever disgusting evil shit they want to us trans people, but it's a problem when I say "no no no sweetcheeks, kill *YOUR*self" in reply?