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Jessica Price @delafina777.bsky.social · 02/10/2026

Mamdani just out here regularly reminding everyone it’s possible to have nice things.

Rochelle @nonnumberchar.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

Yep. And this infantilization is part of the abuse too. My parents are in so deep that they're unable to treat me like a whole human being. They never intended to, why would they? I was supposed to fit their mold. When I divorced my abusive husband, they left our wedding photo up on their wall. 🙃

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Rochelle @nonnumberchar.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

Yep. The moment parents make a choice *they* don't like, such as supporting their trans kids, the facade goes out the window.

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Rochelle @nonnumberchar.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

Thank you! So often us homeschool alum are ignored, but there's people who might listen to the point of view of a homeschool parent saying the same things. And thank you for doing what's best for your son. That's what's most important.

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Rochelle @nonnumberchar.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

Exactly. And when we read them, I knew I was the kid. And my parents knew their role too. They occasionally referenced a passage in Deuteronomy telling parents to have their disobedient children stoned to death. I was very obedient and walked right into an abusive marriage as a result.

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Karen Attiah @karenattiah.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

I've been reading bell hooks, and she talks about children being the most oppressed class in society. To this end, the United States has not ratified the UN Convention on the Rights of the Child-- I wrote about this years ago www.washingtonpost.com/blogs/post-p...

washingtonpost.com

Why won’t the U.S. ratify the U.N.’s child rights treaty?

The non-ratification of the Convention on the Rights of the Child is hypocritical.

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Rochelle @nonnumberchar.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

No one checked up on us. We only had to send in an annual standardized test, that my mom proctored. And if they took the religious exemption she wouldn't have even had to do that. And I was in one of the more regulated states. Children have essentially no rights and no safety net.

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Rochelle @nonnumberchar.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

There's a Bible story - Abraham almost kills his son because God says to, and only stops because God then tells him not to. I knew, as a kid, that my parents could have *thought* they heard something from God and disappeared me and no one would have ever known, because I was homeschooled in the US.

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Jacqueline Sweet @jsweetli.bsky.social · 02/10/2025

15 years of writing about how men can find virgins just to be ready to write it in Bari Weiss’s Free Press. Dedication

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Rochelle @nonnumberchar.bsky.social · 25/08/2026

Something something protect women's sports 🙃

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Rochelle @nonnumberchar.bsky.social · 23/08/2026

Mmhmm! "All men are created equal," -Thomas Jefferson, who held men, women, and children in forced labor and sexual slavery. What makes the modern usage particularly hypocritical, imo (because they do fuckin love hierarchy) is that they switch definitions depending on the situation.

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Rochelle @nonnumberchar.bsky.social · 23/08/2026

They vary their definition depending on whether or not they want to overtly agree with what someone is doing with their freedom. Basically: CRT should be opposed because freedom is only the freedom to do what is good. Racism must be allowed because people should be free to do what they want. 🤷

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Rochelle @nonnumberchar.bsky.social · 23/08/2026

Since they believe that, say, my being non-binary is inherently self-destructive, they'd say that I'm *less* free for being allowed to use they/them pronouns. Freedom would mean living my best life as a tradwife (again). I'm not kidding, this is what they are arguing for these days.

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Rochelle @nonnumberchar.bsky.social · 23/08/2026

One of the things I've started seeing regularly in the right wing circles I grew up in is a redefinition of "freedom". They define it specifically as being allowed to do the things that *they* believe are right and virtuous. The doublethink is kind of wild tbh.

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SoundOfTheForest @soundoftheforest.bsky.social · 02/08/2026

I didn’t asked them because I just wanted to have title ideas given to me. I asked them as a form of human connection. I wanted to spend time with a friend. I wanted to experience the creative process with another human and build community. They missed out on that.

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Rochelle @nonnumberchar.bsky.social · 15/07/2026

Wait so if I sign up they'll give me free T? Sounds like a win. (Absolutely not worth joining the US Military for but it's a funny theoretical to me)

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Rochelle @nonnumberchar.bsky.social · 15/07/2026

Hey, you should probably be aware that that gif is of the Sandy Hook shooter. (I'm assuming you just searched up DDR, I wouldn't have known either if I hadn't run into it for work.)

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Rochelle @nonnumberchar.bsky.social · 07/07/2026

This message brought to you by "Why does the power run to the garage before the house, resulting in a breaker in the garage that controls power to the whole house? Idk, because Chuck probably."

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Rochelle @nonnumberchar.bsky.social · 07/07/2026

If you buy a home I strongly recommend learning at least the first name of the previous homeowner. When you discover something absolutely fucked it helps to be able to shake your fist in the air and shout "Chuuuuuuck!"

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Rochelle @nonnumberchar.bsky.social · 08/06/2026

Every bit of this happened in my marriage. I developed a chronic pain condition. I left about when I realized I was going to have to teach my future children to be as broken as I had become. badwoman.substack.com/p/mens-weapo...

badwoman.substack.com

Men's Weaponized Bad Moods

The eternally indisposed and grumpy men that set the tone for everyone else.

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Rochelle @nonnumberchar.bsky.social · 15/05/2026

Devastating: Main character in your favorite show was renamed in the finale to the extremely rare first name of your worst ex.

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Shit Homeschool Parents Say @shit-hs-parent-say.bsky.social · 25/04/2026

Homeschool parents: please let your kids be coached by a sexual predator and wife beater. #THESA #TexasHomeschool #homeschooling

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Rochelle @nonnumberchar.bsky.social · 24/04/2026

lmao guess there's not really much talking your way out of that

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Rochelle @nonnumberchar.bsky.social · 24/04/2026

You're right, I do know enough about your life to know what you think about someone dating their employee. Knowing that you've done that is another part of why I was coming to a reasonable conclusion, not making a bad-faith leap. It was a bad call when you did it and it's a bad call to excuse it.

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Rochelle @nonnumberchar.bsky.social · 24/04/2026

I think what you're missing is just what a big deal it is for someone to provide housing to their employee and then try to get sex from them. That's not just standard young adult behavior, and it's not nearly as far a leap from there to my exhusband's behavior as you seem to think.

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Rochelle @nonnumberchar.bsky.social · 24/04/2026

...my ex husband was 22 when he started r*ping me so I guess that's chill then. Also she was her boss AND provided her housing? Consent *has* to be freely given, if you want a relationship with someone you have power over you gotta give that up first. ffs this is such a bad take

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Rochelle @nonnumberchar.bsky.social · 02/02/2026

*opens twitter* *shudders* *closes twitter*

Image of a tweet from Elon Musk. The visible portion of the tweet reads: "Nobody has fought harder for full release of the Epstein files and prosecutions of those who abused children more than I did, knowing full well that the legacy media, far-left propagandists and those who are actually guilty would:

1. Admit nothing
2. Deny everything
3. Make counter-accusations against me"

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Rabbi Danya Ruttenberg @theradr.bsky.social · 10/07/2025

It doesn't matter if they are ever coming for you. It was always ever already too much that they were coming for anyone.

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Katie Mack @astrokatie.com · 19/06/2025

Chatbots — LLMs — do not know facts and are not designed to be able to accurately answer factual questions. They are designed to find and mimic patterns of words, probabilistically. When they’re “right” it’s because correct things are often written down, so those patterns are frequent. That’s all.

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TC @tcustodis.bsky.social · 01/06/2025

Happy Pride Month 2025 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ Be gay do crow stuff #pridemonth #pridecrows

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Rochelle @nonnumberchar.bsky.social · 23/05/2025

It's hard not to burn out when dealing with stuff like this. Do get rest.

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G Elliott Morris @gelliottmorris.com · 23/05/2025

open chart, keep scrolling down www.gelliottmorris.com/p/republican...

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Rochelle @nonnumberchar.bsky.social · 23/05/2025

Growing up in a Tea Party family, they were SO fixated on the national debt. I thought it actually mattered to them or something.

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ryan cooper @ryanlcooper.com · 22/05/2025

gotta say I did not anticipate ICE goons going after the whitest possible immigrants with American families, jobs, and in good standing legally. a freaking Danish-born welder in Mississippi with four blonde kids and a pregnant wife. just omnidirectional hate

mississippifreepress.org

ICE Arrests Mississippi Father at His Citizenship Hearing

ICE arrested Kasper Eriksen, a Mississippi father, at his citizenship hearing, imprisoning him and threatening him with deportation.

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Rochelle @nonnumberchar.bsky.social · 22/05/2025

People, en masse, don't pay attention to a threat unless it affects them. They didn't care then, and tbh they won't care *now*. They won't care until, as the poem says, there's no one left to speak for them.

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Rochelle @nonnumberchar.bsky.social · 22/05/2025

We recently moved to a colder area and he LOVES IT. 😂

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Rochelle @nonnumberchar.bsky.social · 22/05/2025

*nods* *nods* *nods* ....oh no. I take the bait every time. 🤣

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Rochelle @nonnumberchar.bsky.social · 22/05/2025

YES. My dog has been so, so good for my mental health.

A large dog, half St. Bernard and half Akita, stands on snowy porch steps. Long strings of frozen drool hang from both sides of his jowls.

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Rochelle @nonnumberchar.bsky.social · 22/05/2025

YES. My mom had me do a workbook on "Diligence". I was supposed to match a very specific mold, and it did not include my neurodivergent self. 😆

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jessica @jessduit.bsky.social · 22/05/2025

This was the first #HomeschoolChat we've done in over two years. And the first ever on Bluesky, a space where we're just starting to find our footing. The participation today was off the charts. I'm thrilled that we're able to connect with our community again this way. Thank y'all so much.

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Rochelle @nonnumberchar.bsky.social · 22/05/2025

Having friends who get it has been so helpful to me. When we were denied community like this growing up, it's so healing now. And I hope that caring parents, legislators, anyone who has the opportunity to help the kids going through it now, will listen to us.

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Rochelle @nonnumberchar.bsky.social · 22/05/2025

Therapy and medication have helped a lot. Having pets, friends, community, and safety have been huge for me. I've also cut ties with... basically anyone who would happily continue to contribute to my PTSD. Anyone I still have nightmares about. 10/10 would recommend.

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Rochelle @nonnumberchar.bsky.social · 22/05/2025

Be a safe adult for them to speak with. Be one of the few adults in their lives who is kind to them and will love them no matter who they turn out to be. Having a college prof who was open about his depression was also really helpful - it allowed me to admit to myself my own mental health issues.

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Rochelle @nonnumberchar.bsky.social · 22/05/2025

Access to a qualified mental health professional, not just a Christian Counselor who's goal would be to maintain my submission to the high-control religious system. Access to peers and friends outside the cult woulda been amazing. Not having abuse happening in the home might have helped too lol

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Rochelle @nonnumberchar.bsky.social · 22/05/2025

It wasn't. Mental health issues were presumed to be due to a lack of willpower or faith. Therapy with a qualified professional was absolutely not allowed. I wanted to study psychology in college but my parents prohibited it.

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Rochelle @nonnumberchar.bsky.social · 22/05/2025

I have a PTSD diagnosis. Much of this was due to the isolation, having nowhere to get away from the things happening in that house, and the high-control religious environment that got my parents homeschooling in the first place. I'm still recovering.

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Rochelle @nonnumberchar.bsky.social · 18/04/2025

The Trump administration is doing a weaponized incompetence. Very masculine tbh.

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Rochelle @nonnumberchar.bsky.social · 21/02/2025

And, no, it's not in the Archive either.

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Rochelle @nonnumberchar.bsky.social · 21/02/2025

Based on the timing of the archives, it looks like the page was removed sometime after Friday, Jan 24th at 7pm and before Monday, Jan 27, at 9:30am eastern time.

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Rochelle @nonnumberchar.bsky.social · 21/02/2025

The page used to look like this, and can still be found on @archive.org web.archive.org/web/20250120...

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