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parking lot lady™️

@muyencantadora.bsky.social
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survival is my superpower, hope is my fuel, and JOY is my strength. roll tide 🐘🌊♥️ / fly eagles fly 🦅🏆💚 let's go dodgers 💙🏆🤍 WE UP, PHILLY! 🏀🤴🏿🏀 substack.com/@muyencantadora

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jj skolnik @supremenothing.myatproto.social · 1h
like i say every time this comes up, the term for what awaits survivors who go through the official system (cops, rape kit at the hospital, the hell of a trial where you as the victim get to be cross examined by yr rapist’s defense) is called “the second rape”
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parking lot lady™️ @muyencantadora.bsky.social · 10h
and yes, I listened to all 4 of those songs last night. and I went through the original album on my drive bc I don't play about celebrating stevie lol.
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Big Lord Bunny @ceepain.bsky.social · 12h
We talk about it on the regular. Don’t trust nobody to keep you safe .. even your “friends”.
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Strictly 4 My Navigators @lizzslockeroom.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
"As" is one of the most beautiful songs ever written & recorded #ThankYouStevie #SongsInTheKeyOfLife50 🗣Just as hate knows love's the cure, you can rest your mind assure, that I'll be loving you always......
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parking lot lady™️ @muyencantadora.bsky.social · 10h
I never get over this song. I can't remember a time I didn't know it. there'll never be a time I don't love it. and I'm always in awe of the artists who create art which stands the rest of time. it's as beautiful and relevant and otherworldly today as it was 50 years ago.
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RandBall’s Stu @randballsstu.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
He looks like he’s trying to solve a murder in a town where candy grows on trees
Det. Kelce, Homicide.
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⚜️Q @q--tip.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
Funny how much the Senate prioritized this, nice to know dictating how to compensate college athletes is a high priority to them lol
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Nicole Bedera @nbedera.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
This is the article I most vividly remember. A sympathetic portrait of mothers defending their sons who were “not falsely accused” but “wrongly accused.” They were fighting for impunity for rapists. It ran the week #MeToo went viral.
nytimes.com
‘Willing to Do Everything,’ Mothers Defend Sons Accused of Sexual Assault (Published 2017)
Some of the mothers met with Education Secretary Betsy DeVos before she changed the rules on how colleges should handle accusations.
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Jessica Luther @jessicawluther.com · 28/09/2026
🧵 This is what I remember about that time period. This NYT article: www.nytimes.com/2017/07/12/u.... I remember it viscerally because if you CTRL+F for "Mock," you'll find a sympathetic, short bit on what happened to C.D. Mock's son.
nytimes.com
Campus Rape Policies Get a New Look as the Accused Get DeVos’s Ear (Published 2017)
Betsy DeVos’s Education Department is re-evaluating the get-tough policies on campus sexual assault that were enforced by the Obama administration.
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Nicole Bedera @nbedera.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
In case anyone wants another long thread on the history of Title IX, I wrote another one about disinformation and why the general public gets cold feet about expelling perpetrators:
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Nicole Bedera @nbedera.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
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Nicole Bedera @nbedera.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
In this moment, I hope all of us are thinking about how to support the survivors who are demanding more. College campuses are often the source of social change. The students find optimism in the places the rest of us are cynical. And they will be more powerful if we stand in solidarity with them.
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Nicole Bedera @nbedera.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
There is a truism in campus sexual violence advocacy that schools can violate students’ rights because they can reset the movement every four years. On the flip side of that, there is also a new cohort of students every four year who still believe rape is wrong and expect better of their schools.
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Nicole Bedera @nbedera.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
For every story like the Cornell gang rape, there are thousands more that couldn’t make it into the light. I wrote about a few dozen of them at one university in On the Wrong Side. The university’s treatment of survivors is eerily similar to what Jane Doe at Cornell experienced.
bookshop.org
On the Wrong Side: How Universities Protect Perpetrators and Betray Survivors of Sexual Violence
"Bedera dispels deeply ingrained campus rape myths and puts the innate violence of the campus sexual assault reporting process into focus."--Jezebel"The book's grim conclusions are tempered with a hop...
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Nicole Bedera @nbedera.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
And that brings us to present day. The most reliable way for a campus sexual assault story to make it into a newspaper is for the survivor to file a lawsuit against their school. And the two main vehicles survivors used to do that have been closed for years.
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Nicole Bedera @nbedera.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
In 2025, Trump was inaugurated into his second term and immediately ordered the Department of Education to stop investigating complaints about sexual violence or other violations of women’s Title IX rights.
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Nicole Bedera @nbedera.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
In a Title IX context, “emotional damages” was interpreted to mean any damages resulting from trauma. That decision is in a long legacy of treating women as “hysterical” for being hurt by sexual violence.
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Nicole Bedera @nbedera.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
And in 2022, SCOTUS ruled on an ADA case with huge ramifications for Title IX. In Cummings v. Premier Rehab Keller, PLLC, SCOTUS ruled that even if an individual’s civil rights are violated, they cannot seek “emotional damages” from the discriminating institution.
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Nicole Bedera @nbedera.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
(There’s a separate thread to write about why Biden’s Title IX regulation was also very bad. It was written by schools, not survivors, so it actually expanded perpetrator impunity and increased surveillance of survivors. We’re honestly better off without it—even though we’re still in a bad place.)
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Nicole Bedera @nbedera.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
There was also a sense that Trump losing re-election would fix everything. But Biden dragged his feet on undoing the damage of Title IX. And then HE lost re-election and his Title IX regulation was vacated before it ever really went into effect.
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Nicole Bedera @nbedera.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
Trump’s Title IX regulation went into effect in 2020, where it received almost no media coverage during the pandemic. There were also few students on campus to participate in or protest the process. Schools went above and beyond in implementing hostility toward survivors.
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Nicole Bedera @nbedera.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
At the time, the draft received an unprecedented amount of comments raising concern about violations of survivors’ rights and the risk of turning Title IX into a vehicle of gender discrimination. They were systematically ignored. Only pro-perpetrator recommendations were accepted.
spssi.onlinelibrary.wiley.com
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Nicole Bedera @nbedera.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
Trump rescinded prior guidance on Title IX during his first year in office, then put out a new regulation that experts warned would retraumatize survivors and offer perpetrators impunity. It literally had provisions designed to allow confessed perpetrators to get away with rape.
time.com
A New Title IX Rule Essentially Allows Accused Sexual Assailants to Hide Evidence Against Them
A mere three months after its release, the DeVos administration’s new Title IX rule goes into effect on Friday, August 14. With the rushed timeline...
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Nicole Bedera @nbedera.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
The main reason you haven’t heard about campus sexual violence in a few years is because Trump and SCOTUS have made it much, much harder for survivors to come forward. You might vaguely remember that Title IX was a big battleground in his first term. And that we lost.
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my personality is "castlevania" @leokitty.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
someone took her upstairs when she was clearly not well and nobody did a thing. men help men they don't help women. gotta change this. consequences for actions a part of the whole thing.
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parking lot lady™️ @muyencantadora.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
and unfortunately, it still took women to mention that for most men to even realize it.
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local blogger @fergoe.blacksky.app · 29/09/2026
If you ever wanna know why women ain't trying to hear "Not all men," those 7 men who did it weren't the only men in the group chat. Absolutely wild that not one dude in that group chat was like "What the fuck are y'all doing"
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local blogger @fergoe.blacksky.app · 29/09/2026
Gotta nip it in the bud somehow because as a, IG post I saw said (I'm paraphrasing), "Ruin the life of young rapists so they don't become old rapists in position of power"
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Guardian US @us.theguardian.com · 28/09/2026
For every arrest that breaks through into public view, countless others happen quickly, before anyone can notice. Now ICE is anywhere and everywhere, embedded in all corners of everyday life.
theguardian.com
Gone in 90 seconds: an ‘invisibilized’ ICE is arresting more people than ever
After public backlash, the Trump administration changed its tactics from ‘siege’ to ‘soft feet’. Now, ICE is everywhere
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Guardian US @us.theguardian.com · 28/09/2026
But an increasing proportion of arrests have been made by local law enforcement in partnership with ICE, via 287(g) agreements. In many regions, it can be difficult to know when local officers are conducting routine policework or immigration enforcement. In many cases, they are doing both.
A chart showing immigration arrests by local police, which have increased steadily since ICE's new enforcement strategy began in April 2026, reaching its highest amount above 200 arrests per day in late June 2026.
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Guardian US @us.theguardian.com · 28/09/2026
The biggest category of arrests this summer were people on probation, picked up by immigration officers at their work, or who were arrested in communities across the country.
A chart showing immigration arrests by immigration enforcement in communities, where arrests peaked in late June 2026 at over 1,000 per day.
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Guardian US @us.theguardian.com · 28/09/2026
As has long been the case, ICE works with jails and prisons to take custody of immigrants after they have been booked in. Since Trump took office last year, only 46% of detainees have been previously convicted of crimes.
A chart showing immigration arrests by transfer from jail or prison, with daily arrests peaking over 600 in July 2026.
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Guardian US @us.theguardian.com · 28/09/2026
And it's clear that ICE is using both familiar and novel tactics to maximize arrests, from jail transfers to so-called 287(g) agreements that deputize local police forces to carry out immigration enforcement on ICE’s behalf.
A chart that breaks down the trend of immigration arrests into four categories:

- Immigration enforcement in communities
- Transfer from jail or prison
- Local police
- Other
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Guardian US @us.theguardian.com · 28/09/2026
ICE is now lying in wait outside convenience stores, or at busy intersections. Agents are arresting people at international airports. Local police and sheriffs, deputized by the federal government, are detaining immigrants during traffic stops. ICE is now detaining more immigrants than ever before.
A chart that shows a timeline of ICE immigration enforcement against different significant events (Los Angeles raids, Minneapolis and Chicago raids), with a line in late March 2026 that says "New enforcement strategy begins" before a peak of over 1,500 daily arrests in July 2026.
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Guardian US @us.theguardian.com · 28/09/2026
Gone are the mass raids and militarized metro operations. Gone are the pomp and pageantry. But ICE arrests have hit record levels. ICE operations are no longer concentrated in large American cities. Immigration enforcement officials are also working in suburban and rural areas, all across the US.
A map of the United States that shows immigration arrests per 100,000 people since ICE's new enforcement strategy began under DHS secretary Markwayne Mullin.
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parking lot lady™️ @muyencantadora.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
seasonal allergies and asthma are kicking my ass, but when I woke up this morning, I scream whispered (((((WE UP, PHILLAAAAAYYYYYYYYYY))))) and I just...love that for me.
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parking lot lady™️ @muyencantadora.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
and it feels like it takes 365 days
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parking lot lady™️ @muyencantadora.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
I didn't make the rules...why wouldn't I break them? why I care about your stupid rules? lmao
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Jibblescribbits @jibblescribbits.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
Tom Brady:
Monkey side eye & looking awkward
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Frankie de la Cretaz @thefrankiedlc.news · 28/09/2026
SOURCE REQUEST: looking to talk to Native or Indigenous fans of the WNBA about the loss of the Connecticut Sun. DM here or email frankie at britnidlc dot com
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parking lot lady™️ @muyencantadora.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
I'm *so tired* of certain kinda people sayin shit like, "I wasn't made for these times...I was made for quiet country roads and..." BLAH BLAH BLAH YADA YADA YADA GOO GOO GAGA WOKFKFJEIS SHUT TF UP BITCH. you alive in ***this time,*** there must be a reason. now STAND UP and GET TO WORK, BITCH
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𝑗𝑎𝑚𝑎𝑖𝑐𝑎𝑛 𝑝𝑟𝑖𝑛𝑐𝑒𝑠𝑠 🐚💗 @kiyannamonae.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
CHECK ON YOUR STRONG FRIENDS.
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parking lot lady™️ @muyencantadora.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
man, when my people are happy it makes me so happy. their joy is beautiful and contagious.
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Jeff Harris @nemalki.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
You know what? Take care of each other and tell 'em that you love and care about them. Tomorrow's not promised, and neither is today. You only have now. Now matters. And I love all of my peeps. Now, and always. Be strong, be safe, be sane, and keep creating.
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parking lot lady™️ @muyencantadora.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
my friend texted me, "random question" and I knew I was in for an autistic/audhd side quest when I was supposed to be tryna sleep but I answered anyway 😭🤣
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Brat doll @princesskitaaa.blacksky.app · 28/09/2026
Definitely should've been sleep a long time ago
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parking lot lady™️ @muyencantadora.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
I usually say certain faces are punchable or kickable. but that deadbeat dad qb's face is STOMPABLE. let me flatten it some more.
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parking lot lady™️ @muyencantadora.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
I'd love to be coach tomlin's stylist
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