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Mirella Stoyanova @mirellastoyanova.bsky.social · 03/05/2025

Wonderful conversation with Stephen Robinson, aka @playtyperguy.com, about cross-cultural adoption, identity, and the memoir that I am querying. Thanks again for having me on, Stephen.

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Mirella Stoyanova @mirellastoyanova.bsky.social · 22/02/2025

I’ve been asking my family to pronounce my name correctly for 18 years, which is over half of my life. They still can’t do it. This essay is about how we honor who we are and where we come from when the people who we love can’t (or won’t). www.businessinsider.com/my-family-ca...

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I was adopted as a child by an American family. They still can't pronounce my name correctly.

I was adopted when I was 5, and my parents Americanized my name. I've been trying to correct my family for 18 years.

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Mirella Stoyanova @mirellastoyanova.bsky.social · 20/01/2025

I have to believe something good can come of this. I have to believe, because the minute I stop believing is the minute I lose my ability to do anything about it. #inauguration

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Susan Kiyo Ito @thesusanito.bsky.social · 12/01/2025

Loved having two adoptee meetups this week! 🥚@saraeasterlyauthor.bsky.social @mirellastoyanova.bsky.social

Two smiling women in glasses overlooking the water and an island in the distance

Two smiling women one in graying chin length hair and glasses and the other with long curly dark hair, standing next to a white curtain

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Mirella Stoyanova @mirellastoyanova.bsky.social · 06/01/2025

One week later and it still hasn't set in. After 3+ years, my manuscript of my debut memoir is finally query ready. #writingcommunity #amwriting #amquerying

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Mirella Stoyanova @mirellastoyanova.bsky.social · 06/12/2024

It’s all fun and games until suddenly you’re drafting a book proposal. 😂😅

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Mirella Stoyanova @mirellastoyanova.bsky.social · 25/11/2024

This past Tuesday, a record-breaking storm knocked out the two tallest trees on our property and I was reminded not to wait to express my gratitude, not even for a national holiday. #thankful

Poem: “Don’t Hesitate” by Mary Oliver

If you suddenly and unexpectedly feel joy, don’t hesitate. Give into it. There are plenty of lives and whole towns destroyed or about to be. We are not wise, and not very often kind. And much can never be redeemed. Still, life has some possibility left. Perhaps this is its way of fighting back, that sometimes something happens better than all the riches or power in the world. It could be anything, but very likely you notice it in the instant when love begins. Anyway, that’s often the case. Anyway, whatever it is, don’t be afraid of its plenty. Joy is not made to be a crumb.

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Susan Kiyo Ito @thesusanito.bsky.social · 25/11/2024

If anyone would like a personally inscribed book for a gift, I’d be happy to do that. 🥚

Book cover of "I Would Meet You Anywhere: a memoir" by Susan KIYO Ito, showcasing a tranquil indigo scene with embroidery of origami cranes that evokes a sense of connection. Silver sticker that says National Book Critics Circle Award Finalist.

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Amy ☀️ @amygrier.bsky.social · 22/11/2024

Up to 75 resilient survivors writing about trauma and family estrangement! Still room for more if you'd like to be included in the pack. #memoir #memoirists #writingcommunity #amwriting #CPTSD #trauma #resilience #writingsupport #estrangement go.bsky.app/MG3fqTH

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Kayleigh @kayleighj.bsky.social · 17/11/2024

“We can disagree and still love each other unless your disagreement is rooted in my oppression and denial of my humanity and right to exist.” - Robert Jones, Jr.

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Lina Lau @linalau.bsky.social · 13/11/2024

It's like a breath of fresh air over here.

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Mirella Stoyanova @mirellastoyanova.bsky.social · 15/11/2024

Although I am mainly preoccupied with completing my memoir (while parenting a toddler), I am proud of this piece I published @huffpost.bsky.social in September, and look forward to writing more short-form pieces in the future. #amwriting #writingcommunity #writing www.huffpost.com/entry/son-ne...

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I Spent Years Fighting For Control. Then My Son Nearly Died In Childbirth — And I Was Forced To Face A Painful Truth.

"While trauma may have altered my upbringing, I am proud that it doesn’t have to alter his."

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Mirella Stoyanova @mirellastoyanova.bsky.social · 14/11/2024

Migrating a few of my favorite picture-posts from the old country. This one feels especially relevant these days. #writingcommunity #art #illustration

A list of ways to build community, surrounded by colorful illustrations of a city community. List is as follows: Turn off your tv, leave your house, know your neighbors, greet people, look up when you're walking, sit on your stoop, plant flours, use your library, play together, buy from local merchants, share what you have, help a lost dog, take children to the park, honor elders, support neighborhood schools, fix it even if you didn't break it, have pot lucks, garden together, pick up litter, read stories aloud, dance in the street, talk to the mail carrier, listen to the birds, put up a swing, help carry something heavy, barter for your goods, start a tradition, ask a question, hire young people for odd jobs, organize a block party, bake extra and share, ask for help when you need it, open your shades, sing together, share your skills, take back the night, turn up the music, turn down the music, listen before you react to anger, mediate a conflict, seek to understand, learn from new and uncomfortable angles, know that no one is silent though many are not heard, work to change this.

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