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@amygrier.bsky.social
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amygrier.substack.com Writer, classical pianist, singer, dog-lover, traveler. Writing memoir about surviving childhood abuse and family estrangement. Living with chronic blood cancer for 30+ years. I am hard to kill and I look fabulous.

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Amy ☀️ @amygrier.bsky.social · 30/01/2025
This is compelling. How many short pieces do I have? So many! Piece by Lara Lillibridge. @laralillibridge.bsky.social #writingcommunity #books #writinghacks #writingquestions tinyurl.com/yeyvuand
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Turn Your Short Pieces Into a Finished Nonfiction Book | Jane Friedman
If you’ve amassed a heap of assorted essays, flash pieces, chapters, and ideas, here’s a step-by-step guide to shaping them into a book.
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Amy ☀️ @amygrier.bsky.social · 28/01/2025
Sonja Livingston's short, speculative essay, based on her ancestor's experience of the Irish famine, is live on the Brevity Blog. With amazing art by Char Gardner. #writingcommunity #nonfiction #essays #litmags @dintywmoore.bsky.social tinyurl.com/4y5avvjk
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Bridget Horan Rises from the Dead and Speaks Words Into My Ear | Brevity: A Journal of Concise Literary Nonfiction
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Amy ☀️ @amygrier.bsky.social · 25/01/2025
Serianni dispels the myth that writing success will make our lives better. While it may make us more confident, we still live the same lives with the same challenges, loss, grief, and struggles. @dintywmoore.bsky.social #writingcommunity #authors #writersky brevity.wordpress.com/2025/01/24/w...
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Writing Success Won’t Fix a Damn Thing
By Natalie Serianni This past year was one for the record books. As an emerging writer who is quietly becoming established, I’ve had success in teaching and getting essays published, even landing a…
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Amy ☀️ @amygrier.bsky.social · 20/01/2025
Back from my travels and reunited with my boy, Tiberius 💕 #dogsky #chi-pin #chihuahua #smooshface
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Amy ☀️ @amygrier.bsky.social · 18/01/2025
Washington DC.
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Amy ☀️ @amygrier.bsky.social · 18/01/2025
View from my hotel room this morning. Folks gathering for the #peoplesmarch in Philly, joining many happening around the country today.
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Amy ☀️ @amygrier.bsky.social · 17/01/2025
Spent the day in one of my favorite cities, #Philadelphia, PA! Glad to see that even historic Elfreth’s Alley has a Little Free Library. #booksky #library #books #reading
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Amy ☀️ @amygrier.bsky.social · 13/01/2025
At the #warhol museum in #Pittsburgh, PA #popart #artsky
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Amy ☀️ @amygrier.bsky.social · 12/01/2025
At the Pittsburgh Symphony Orchestra enjoying #Prokofiev, #Sibelius, and #Debussy — La Mer #classicalmusic #classicalsky #orchestra #symphony
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Amy ☀️ @amygrier.bsky.social · 11/01/2025
All the ❤️❤️ for poets Michael Mercurio and Robbie Gamble @mwmercurio.bsky.social @robbiegamble.bsky.social
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Amy ☀️ @amygrier.bsky.social · 11/01/2025
Had a marvelous time at the Lesley University MGA alum reading yesterday! What a talented group of folks.
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Amy ☀️ @amygrier.bsky.social · 09/01/2025
Just a beautiful honey oat milk latte at Café Nero in Cambridge, MA. Looking forward to seeing Lesley MFA friends tomorrow :-)
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Amy ☀️ @amygrier.bsky.social · 20/12/2024
Don't give up! Your story matters. In 2024, "267 authors got memoir deals as of December 15th. This is 85% higher than 20 years ago... the past several years have been consistently high, with most years between 279 and 322 memoirs sold annually." #memoir #writingcommunity tinyurl.com/ynxunyp5
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Fear Not: Publishing is Alive and Well — Yes, Even for Memoir and Literary Fiction
By Peter Mountford As 2024 draws to a close, I’ve been sifting through the stats on Publisher’s Marketplace for the year and am pleasantly surprised that SO MANY books have been accepted for public…
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Amy ☀️ @amygrier.bsky.social · 13/12/2024
I just like to throw this out there once in a while. There's no reason my dog's name is Tiberius.
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Amy ☀️ @amygrier.bsky.social · 13/12/2024
If you're stuck on #memoir structure, I found Nash's Impact Outline to be helpful. It switches the focus from "this happened, & then this happened" to "this happened, & because of that, this happened." Free resources here, too. #writersky #writingcommunity #amwriting jennienash.com/memoirbluepr...
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MemoirBlueprint — Jennie Nash Book Coach
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Amy ☀️ @amygrier.bsky.social · 12/12/2024
I've started using blue text for the parts of my memoir that are reflection--the moments where author Amy is making connections and sharing realizations that the character Amy may not be able to do yet. #memoir #amwriting #writingcommunity #writinghacks #wrtiersky #bluefont
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Amy ☀️ @amygrier.bsky.social · 12/12/2024
It's easy for me to get hyperfocused on #writing goals. I forget that so much magic can be discovered by playing around, experimenting with different genres, just seeing what happens. #amwriting #writingcommunity #memoir #writinghacks @dintywmoore.bsky.social brevity.wordpress.com/2024/12/12/t...
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Ménage à Trois: How Writing in Three Forms Illuminated One Essay
By Charlotte Wilkins Every couple of months I excavate forgotten fragments of sheer brilliance scrawled on paper scraps, backs of envelopes, and yes, tea-stained napkins, all buried at bottom of my…
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Amy ☀️ @amygrier.bsky.social · 05/12/2024
93 resilient writers and counting! Still room for more--let me know if you'd like to be added to the pack. Don't forget to click through and follow everybody. #memoir #trauma #cptsd #ptsd #writingcommunity #writers go.bsky.app/MG3fqTH
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Amy ☀️ @amygrier.bsky.social · 05/12/2024
My favorite idea here is taking a memoir you love and figuring out what makes it tick. For me, mapping the structure helps a lot. #memoir #writing #writingcommunity #amwriting @dintywmoore.bsky.social brevity.wordpress.com/2024/12/05/h...
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Sick of Your Memoir? 5 Hacks to Make it Feel New Again
By Katie Bannon So you’ve finished a(nother) draft of your memoir…now what? If you’re anything like me, you’ve reread your words so many times they barely make sense anymore. Your prose might be go…
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Amy ☀️ @amygrier.bsky.social · 04/12/2024
Impressed with how much there is to to see at the Smith College Museum of Art, including this Rodin sculpture ( Walking Man) #art #rodin #sculpture
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Amy ☀️ @amygrier.bsky.social · 04/12/2024
Allison K. William responds to The Walrus' article by Tajja Isen about memoir being "impossible to sell." She and Jane Friedman are quoted in the article. #memoir #publishing #booksky #writers #trauma brevity.wordpress.com/2024/12/04/i...
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Are Memoirs “Impossible to Sell”? Only If Narrowly Defined
By Allison K Williams Last week, Canadian magazine The Walrus published “Memoirs Are Almost Impossible to Sell” by Tajja Isen. “Publishers are turning away from personal stories. Have readers stopp…
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Amy ☀️ @amygrier.bsky.social · 03/12/2024
Normal or not, loneliness hurts like a sickness. It has the impact of a disease. My reading choices lately make a lot of sense: Too Loud a Solitude, The Remains of the Day, and Vaster Wilds. #loneliness #trauma #survivor #abuse #adulting #earlyriser amygrier.substack.com/p/loneliness...
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Loneliness and the Adult Survivor of Childhood Abuse
We can understand ourselves better by contextualizing and reflecting on our loneliness. We're not lonely because we're broken, and it's not our fault. But it still hurts.
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Amy ☀️ @amygrier.bsky.social · 02/12/2024
Latest publications from alums and faculty of the Lesley University MFA program, including me :-) Lesley people are the best. cambridgecommonwriters.org/publication-...
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Amy ☀️ @amygrier.bsky.social · 02/12/2024
Saw this book in an indie bookstore in Northampton, MA. The featured model is Tiberius’ long-lost twin! #dogsky #chihuahua
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Amy ☀️ @amygrier.bsky.social · 29/11/2024
Great to see my review of Elizabeth Shick's THE GOLDEN LAND up at The Compulsive Reader! This is a beautiful novel about how Myanmar's violent political unrest tears a family apart, and how younger generations are left to deal with the fallout. compulsivereader.com/2024/11/29/a...
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Amy ☀️ @amygrier.bsky.social · 29/11/2024
Happy Pie for Breakfast Day! Pie and coffee = happiness. #usholidays #thanksgiving #pumpkin
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Amy ☀️ @amygrier.bsky.social · 29/11/2024
My review of Elizabeth Shick's THE GOLDEN LAND is up on The Compulsive Reader! This is a beautifully written novel about how political chaos leads to family chaos, & how younger generations must deal with the fallout. #fiction #novel #booksky #reading compulsivereader.com/2024/11/29/a...
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A Review of The Golden Land by Elizabeth Shick – Compulsive Reader
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Amy ☀️ @amygrier.bsky.social · 27/11/2024
While I travel for the holiday, Tiberius is being cared for by his sitter, and he is giving her all the smiles. #dogsky #chihuahua #dogs
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Amy ☀️ @amygrier.bsky.social · 27/11/2024
Yesterday I couldn't think of the words "garbage disposal" so I told my sibling that I ran the "sink throat blades." #writingcommunity
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Amy ☀️ @amygrier.bsky.social · 26/11/2024
"By trusting the ingredients of my own life as a guide, it became clear that the tools and techniques of narrative apply to both true stories and imagined ones, the reader always being guided toward a particular emotional experience." @richardscottlarson.com #memoir substack.com/home/post/p-...
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The Memoir Land Author Questionnaire #57: Richard Scott Larson
"The most difficult thing about writing this book was learning how to apply what I’d studied in fiction workshops to a project centered on my own experience and personal development..."
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Amy ☀️ @amygrier.bsky.social · 24/11/2024
Hey @mubashariqbal.com please add: go.bsky.app/MG3fqTH
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Anesce Dremen 许梦安 @anescedremen.bsky.social · 20/11/2024
As difficult holidays approach, I wanted to share a resource for anyone who is estranged from their family: www.togetherestranged.org Together Estranged has virtual support groups and has a calendar full of events for December. Please share.
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Home Page | Supporting Those Estranged From Family
Together Estranged supports and empowers people who no longer have relationships with family members due to trauma, abuse or neglect.
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Amy ☀️ @amygrier.bsky.social · 24/11/2024
Trauma survivors: do you know what secondary abuse is? Learning about it was a revelation to me. #trauma #survivor #CPTSD #estrangement #toxic #relationships amygrier.substack.com/p/the-black-...
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The Black Sheep and Secondary Abuse: The Insidious Ways Toxic Parents Perpetuate Abuse After Estrangement
Going no-contact with abusive parents feels like a concrete moment of chosen freedom. Then the cards, emails, and comments from extended family start.
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Amy ☀️ @amygrier.bsky.social · 24/11/2024
We now have 80 resilient memoirists writing about toxic families, abuse, and estrangement! Room for more if you're writing on those topics, whether you write books, essays, flash, micro, whatever length. #memoir #memoirists #writingcommunity #CPTSD #trauma #survivor #estrangement go.bsky.app/MG3fqTH
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Amy ☀️ @amygrier.bsky.social · 24/11/2024
What's your favorite gluten-free pancake flour? Normally I use Bob's chickpea-based GF flour. Works great. Today I used a rice flour-based mix, and it's--squeaky? When I chew it? And doesn't rise, even with baking powder. #pancakes #sunday #glutenfree #gf #cooking #breakfast #squeaky
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Amy ☀️ @amygrier.bsky.social · 24/11/2024
Just completed the new 9-page intro to my memoir and I gotta say, it feels fantastic. I have a clarity about this book's purpose that is energizing and I love it. For all you adult survivors of child abuse: I see you. You are not alone. #memoir #CPTSD #trauma #survivor #writingcommunity #amwriting
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Amy ☀️ @amygrier.bsky.social · 22/11/2024
Just gonna throw this out there and see if there are any #polycythemiavera folks around. #bloodcancer #cancer #MPN #PV #pvera
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Amy ☀️ @amygrier.bsky.social · 22/11/2024
It's the #piano time of the day! And Friday! Gonna keep working on that #Chopin valse and that #Debussy piece and maybe #Faure's Sicilienne. And enjoy a nice glass of red. Piano is the best complement to writing those tough #memoir scenes that I know. #classicalmusic Here's a kitty.
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a kitten is playing a piano with the words viralhog written below it
ALT: a kitten is playing a piano with the words viralhog written below it
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Amy ☀️ @amygrier.bsky.social · 22/11/2024
Can just mashed potatoes be a dinner?
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Amy ☀️ @amygrier.bsky.social · 22/11/2024
Been reading Sherrie Campbell's Adult Survivors of Toxic Family Members and had to write about my experience of secondary abuse. Kind of went gonzo on this one. #trauma #CPTSD #estrangement #memoir #writingcommunity #survivors #iamstillhere #blacksheep open.substack.com/pub/amygrier...
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The Black Sheep and Secondary Abuse: The Insidious Ways Toxic Parents Perpetuate Abuse After Estrangement
Going no-contact with abusive parents feels like a concrete moment of chosen freedom. Then the cards, emails, and comments from extended family start.
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Amy ☀️ @amygrier.bsky.social · 22/11/2024
Guess who turns NINE years old today? Tiberius, that’s who! Got him during my divorce after my 4-lb chi died & I lost my other dog to my ex. He kept me from getting lost in my grief by insisting that his needs be prioritized at all times. Must have worked: we’re both still here! #dogs #divorce
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Amy ☀️ @amygrier.bsky.social · 22/11/2024
Really shoulda worn gloves when I put that hot pink dye in my hair just now.
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Amy ☀️ @amygrier.bsky.social · 22/11/2024
Up to 75 resilient survivors writing about trauma and family estrangement! Still room for more if you'd like to be included in the pack. #memoir #memoirists #writingcommunity #amwriting #CPTSD #trauma #resilience #writingsupport #estrangement go.bsky.app/MG3fqTH
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Amy ☀️ @amygrier.bsky.social · 22/11/2024
I'm on number x of rewriting the opening of my memoir, where x = so many times I lost count. #amwriting #writingcommunity #memoir #hook
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Amy ☀️ @amygrier.bsky.social · 20/11/2024
Is it just me, or is Chopin's Valse in C# minor really that tricky to play? I feel like I should have a handle on it by now. It still trips me up. But I love it. #piano #classicalmusic #Chopin
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Amy ☀️ @amygrier.bsky.social · 20/11/2024
Something new on my Substack. I went through this weird, horrible time where I kept losing stuff. #grief #loss #CPTSD #divorce #memoir #trauma amygrier.substack.com/p/when-grief...
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When Grief Manifests as Real-Life Metaphor
On the inexplicability and humanity of loss
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Amy ☀️ @amygrier.bsky.social · 20/11/2024
My Facebook memory from a year ago: "I’m in my doctor’s waiting room where they’re playing a slow, easy listenin’ piano version of Smells Like Teen Spirit. Did I die? Is this hell?"
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Amy ☀️ @amygrier.bsky.social · 20/11/2024
Curious if anyone else uses #trello to manage their book outline. I'm putting my scenes on cards so I can add descriptions and move them around. Also logging research on cards. How do you manage your outline (if you outline)? #writing #memoir #writingcommunity #WritingQ
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Amy ☀️ @amygrier.bsky.social · 20/11/2024
I've reached 50 writers and decided to share, but will keep adding as requested. If you haven't yet asked to be included but would like to be, let me know in the comments! go.bsky.app/MG3fqTH #memoir #memoirists #CPTSD #trauma #estrangement #survivor #resilient
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Amy ☀️ @amygrier.bsky.social · 20/11/2024
Some years ago, Streetlight Magazine published this piece that is now revised and a key scene in my memoir. Please check them out--they are a great litmag. streetlightmag.com/2015/09/28/s... @streetlightmag.bsky.social #memoir #litmags #writing
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Something Like Poker by Amy Grier | Streetlight Magazine
Something Like Poker by Amy Grier
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