iiinova — where your digital self keeps evolving

mallewi. 🦋 @mallewi.blacksky.app · 10/08/2026

i’ve been deep diving into the study of gentleness recently. and it’s been really re-enlightening. it’s something i feel i’ve lost—be it by the hands of society or the ones in my life who were supposed to be safe spaces for it. but i feel really hopeful i’ll get that sense of self back. i have to.

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you’re so welcome 🤍 i’ve been out of the loop for soooo long. where can i learn more?

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Rico, hausfatha of WAWG & short king CEO 🧞✨ @epereza22.blacksky.app · 09/08/2026

I’m so glad y’all were able to see my vision in the flesh — but more importantly — that so many now understand how powerful and impactful our community can be. 💛 When we come together, we can accomplish some spectacular things. If we are really all we got, then let’s continue to act like it. 🙂‍↕️

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thank you! i appreciate it — same to you! 🤍

i love a nerdy reference! (acting like i ain't refer you to my bahbur *said in a DC way*)

it's me!! 1 mane down and 40 grown pounds up! in my lavender!

you know what? i'm proud of me too! took/takes a lot of letting go of guilt for taking care of myself and being out of the social fold. thank you so much, akil 🤍

damn... this is really moving me rn. had to take some time to get myself and my life together fr. it's really sweet you asked and thought of me. 🤍

mallewi. 🦋 @mallewi.blacksky.app · 14/06/2025

i had to get outside for friday the 13th. it’s always my lucky day!

mallewi. 🦋 @mallewi.blacksky.app · 13/06/2025

like dressing up a lil and heading to brunch. i’m so introverted and been tucked away in my apartment so it’s a big lil deal for me lol

mallewi. 🦋 @mallewi.blacksky.app · 13/06/2025

mallewi is.. being social today? 🫢

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i’m mesomorphic. and never worked out to lose or gain weight bc i could never rely on the distribution of me weight in what i was able to track daily or weekly. 200lbs on me today looks far different on me than 200lbs on me last week 😅 no complaints about any of this, just a curious part of my life

aging effects were ruled out bc it’s been this way most my life. my hormone levels are fine. i don’t drink sodas or alcohols or eat in disorder, so that wasn’t it. i eat salty things but nothing unusual (esp. for the american diet 😭) idk. i love my body but my self-image has struggled bc of this.

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tmi but i have waist pin adjusters and wear snap belts exclusively for this reason. i can’t afford to have three wardrobes of essentially medium, large, and extra large clothes. 😅

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they said it may have to do with changes to my digestive system and my body naturally retaining lots of water or something. idk but it’s been this way my whole life, especially once i started eating poultry and fish again surely i can’t be alone in this. one day i wear a size 38/40, next day, 32/34

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my body has interesting ways of adapting. my weight distribution fluctuates more dramatically day-to-day than most. one day i’m all swole(ish), the next day, smol(ish). it’s not dysmorphia either. my pcp years ago made note. also, i’ve been gathering empirical evidence of this for like 4 years now 😅

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i don't know who needs to hear this but: someone that repeatedly does you wrong in order to get a reaction, response, or non-response out of you so they can ultimately justify doing the worst things they've always wanted to do as a follow-up to your reaction, does so deliberately. it is abuse.

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Terrence @beingabettert.blacksky.app · 11/06/2025

a deathiversary and several traumaversaries all in the same week or so is a lot rn. but staying still and focusing on gratitude to anchor myself. baby needs more, new, happy memories.

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As the saying goes, “Honesty without compassion is brutality.”

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you are absolutely right. i really hope you get a win so big soon that it changes whatever that feeling is for you rn

if i sing a specific a scarecrow song selection from a certain movie adaptation rn would you be mad at me?

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i ain’t know how else to describe him 😭😭😭 he was pretty cool and we talked for about 2mins after that. but yeah 😅

i looked really nice today for an interview and a "hey brother" white guy complimented my braids for like 30 seconds straight, right before i went in. he was cool. and i did really well. but i... might have to book an appointment with my braider soon. 😅

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INT. MY HOME — EVENING MALLEWI enters MALLEWI'S PERSON: welcome home, baby. i missed you so much today! [eating dinner together; watching a show together; powered by snuggles; gossiping/complaining bout the day; threaded by words of affirmation, small, sporadic kisses in seemingly random places]

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so when it happens for me, it stands out a lot. and it moves me deeply. i feel appreciative.

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this is not to say the people in my life don't care ABOUT me. i'm moreso saying that—as the strong friend—they typically aren't able to care for me when i'm going through things. whether it's bc they're going things themselves or they don't know how to (beyond how i have to lead them to, with love).

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functional depression been getting the best of me lately and my best friend has been unknowingly been coming to my rescue. i have deep appreciation for ones that embrace me when i’m not at my best bc i’m used to isolating myself, as people don’t have the capacity or capability to care for my stuff.

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oh okay! i see what you mean 😭😭😭

mallewi. 🦋 @mallewi.blacksky.app · 09/06/2025

exactly that but i’m also really glad i went with a lightweight cosplay. because things could’ve gotten real hot, real fast.

mallewi. 🦋 @mallewi.blacksky.app · 09/06/2025

thank you so much! it was a great time cosplaying at dream con. next time, imma maybe do two cosplays.

Mayor of Chuckalisa (WAWG AND DRAGONCON ATL) @scrappmusiq.bsky.social · 09/06/2025

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Y'all it's soooooo goood!!! Go check it out.

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mallewi. 🦋 @mallewi.blacksky.app · 09/06/2025

shared my dream con cosplay look on instagram. i had so much fun. 🤍

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emotion, devotion, to causing a commotion, creation, vacation, mucho masturbation! compassion, to fashion, to passion when it's new. to sontag, to sondheim, to anything taboo!!

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me reminding you of a biracial manager in the workplace is clicking down. so please explain 😭😭😭😭

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ɪᴍᴍᴀɴᴜᴇʟ ᴋᴜɴᴛ @soberthots.blacksky.app · 07/06/2025

that's my shiddddd! reminds me of sense8!

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Nobody: 4 Non Blondes:

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mallewi. 🦋 @mallewi.blacksky.app · 07/06/2025

you'll always have the right reaction in your pocket! we should compare meme hard drives like pokémon card collections.

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no offense but what the FUCK is going on?

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mallewi. 🦋 @mallewi.blacksky.app · 07/06/2025

so i just started going to the gym a year ago and been scared to try new things to supplement my workout. i've had a big jar of protein on top of my fridge for like a year. and i've been curious about creatine but idk where to even start with that or what the potential side effects are pls help? 🥺