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Mako Allen

@makoallen.bsky.social
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Author Podcaster Software Developer ....and shark-obsessed kinky age playing, polyamorous Taoist. www.onlydoing.net My behavior charting, communication enhancing, relationship toolkit app is coming soon: weminder.app 18+ only

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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
So excited! Drew and Fly had me on their excellent sass & surrender podcast to talk about my app, weminder. youtube.com/playlist?lis...
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Sass & Surrender Podcast - YouTube
Hosted by real-life domestic discipline couple @drew_spanks & @I_Fly_Away, Sass & Surrender dives deep into the world of consensual kink, domestic discipline...
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Oh Joy Sex Toy @ohjoysextoy.bsky.social · 15/09/2026
Femdom gives @jovixen.bsky.social a sense of power and control, which she doesn't always get to feel as a woman in a patriarchal world! Find out how this sexy play started in the sheets and transformed her life in the real world. www.ohjoysextoy.com/drawing-powe...
Drawing Power From Femdom by Jo published 9/15/2026 on ohjoysextoy.com/drawing-power-from-femdom-jo

Jo illustrates in an elegant, cartoony style with a muted palette of lavender, browns, maroons, and sandy hues. 

Two cisgender women sit at a bar, drinking their glasses of red wine. 

"I'm so glad we finally found the time to hang out!" Laughingly exclaims one woman with tan skin and a short burgundy pixie cut. She wears a sheer long sleeve with a blue tank top and some earrings. "Life's been so hectic lately... Work is crazy busy, then I go home and feel like I'm drowning in chores... and when the heck am I supposed to run errands!?"

"Ugh, I know the feeling!" Jo agrees while taking a sip of her wine. She has light skin and long, light brown hair with bangs. She is wears a magenta colored dress, a few earrings, and a nose ring. "sigh. Who knew being young independent women would be SO hard? LOL!"
"I know you're joking, but seriously!" The short-haired woman continues. "I feel like I only get to truly relax on the weekends when I see my boyfriend. Let's just say he's been... exploring his dominant side lately, which has been GREAT for me." At the mention of her boyfriend, the friend flushes, pressing her palms to either side of her cheeks as she remembers her time with him. The background lights up with flames of desire and little pink hearts, and a caption over her head asks, "whew, is it getting hot in here?" Letting off puffs of steam, she adds, "It's like I finally get to turn off my brain for once and let him take the lead! But enough about me, what about you?"
"You're a dom, right? But you also work, just finished grad school, and do your art on the side... how do you have the ENERGY for it?"

"Haha!" Jo laughs. "Well of course you would say that as a huge sub! For me, being dominant just comes naturally... in many ways, it makes me feel empowered in my everyday life."

"Oh, tell me more!" Her friend encourages. 

Read the rest on ohjoysextoy.com
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 23/09/2026
I got something really awesome working in my app #weminder tonight. weminder.app
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 24/08/2026
I’m getting closer and closer by the day. weminder.app
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weminder - Don't just be good. Be Better...together.
weminder is an accountability app for consensual power exchange relationships. Track behaviors, share moods, keep shared notes, and manage tasks together.
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 17/08/2026
@afictionalphile.bsky.social caught you on the latest Love In Brief. Wonderful!
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 10/05/2026
I’m not just developing #weminder2, I use it in my own relationships.
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 08/05/2026
So today this also happened. Apple approved the native version of my beta behavior charting app, weminder2 Now it works on Web, iPhone, and android. And I’m still looking for more beta testers
A picture of the Apple TestFlight invitation to Test native WeMinder2
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 06/05/2026
So this happened today. :-) Google Play approved the native Android beta version of my app. I’m still actively seeking beta testers. Maybe that’s you.
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ACLU @aclu.org · 04/05/2026
BREAKING: We filed another emergency lawsuit — this time in federal court — against Louisiana officials for suspending the state's primary election after voting has already begun. Louisiana is disenfranchising voters who have already cast ballots, all in the service of stifling Black voting power.
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 04/05/2026
I’m super curious. I’m a #diaper fetish person, and an #adultbaby. I’m also an app developer. Do you track your/a partner’s stash? Do you track their usage? Both? Neither? If you do, why do you do it? Pragmatism, arousal, or something else? What matters to you and why?
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 04/05/2026
So I’m really not kidding about this. From an early age, I had, and STILL have an intense dislike of Snuffy from Sesame Street. Because he would hang out w Big Bird then vanish when Bird was going to introduce him to somebody which felt like a cruel joke, a kind of gaslighting. That enraged me.
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 04/05/2026
I love making up funny, mildly suggestive, fake usernames when I’m testing apps I write. For weminder2, for example, I have Sam Pulbottom and Tessa Topp. Now I’m trying to think of others: Neil Down Wanda Tenshun Shirley Gilltea Paul Yerpanzdown What else can you think of?
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 20/02/2026
Been a minute. Got Episode 103 out in the archive, "Ageplay Coming Out Stories" www.biglittlepodcast.info/archive/epis...
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Episode 103 – Ageplay Coming Out Stories — The Big Little Podcast Archive
For some people, sharing that they have an interest in age play comes as easily as sharing that they like Star Wars or Dr. Who. For others, gathering the courage and figuring out how to say took consi...
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 20/11/2025
New episode up at the archive! www.biglittlepodcast.info/archive/epis...
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Episode 102 – Ageplay 101 — The Big Little Podcast Archive
Gather ’round class. Take off your shoes, have a seat on the carpet, and make a circle. Jimmy, you leave your sister’s hair alone! It’s time to tell you about the mystical, joyous, and fabulous world...
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 11/10/2025
Episode 101 is up at the archive! www.biglittlepodcast.info/archive/epis...
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Episode 101 – Origin Stories LIVE at CAPcon — The Big Little Podcast Archive
We all started somewhere. For this show that somewhere was Chicago at the 2014 Chicago Age Players Convention. There we convinced some amazing peeps to spend some time with us telling their origin sto...
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 04/10/2025
Curious about my discipline app #weminder2? Here’s what I’ve got so far! vimeo.com/1124498946/0...
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About weminder2
The new version of weminder is under development. Here's what we've got so far
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 04/10/2025
Another audio blog... about houses, but also about me. www.onlydoing.net/blog/2025/10...
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Under Construction — No starting. No stopping. Only doing.
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 08/09/2025
A little audio blog about my weirdly solitary public life www.onlydoing.net/blog/2025/9/...
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The weirdness of being solitary and public — No starting. No stopping. Only doing.
A lot of what I do, I do for a big public audience, but I do it by myself. That’s pretty weird. And I’m gonna talk about it.
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 08/09/2025
Everything that’s old is new again. Decided to start using my blog again and using it for audio blogging. www.onlydoing.net/blog/2025/9/...
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Hello Again — No starting. No stopping. Only doing.
How about some audio blogging?
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 05/09/2025
Been leaning into my caregiver/dominant/big muscles lately, and really am loving the heck out of it. www.reddit.com/r/MakoAllen/...
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[Mature Content] From the MakoAllen community on Reddit: Been flexing my caregiver/big muscles lately, and it feels so good.
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 30/08/2025
Do you track your/your submissive’s behavior?
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 24/08/2025
I’ve been friends with Angela for many years. She’s in a really bad situation and she needs our help. Please help me help her. gofund.me/7a37042b
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Donate to Support Angela's Journey to Safety, organized by Angela Defeo
Hi, I'm in urgent need of help. I was preparing to leave an unsafe living situation a… Angela Defeo needs your support for Support Angela's Journey to Safety
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 23/08/2025
This is kind of a big deal. I've made my discipline app weminder2 just a bit more gender-affirming. Take a look! www.dropbox.com/scl/fi/wp4qc...
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 21/08/2025
For those of you who have been following my posts about my behavior chart app #weminder2 I’ve got a question for you. Would you be interested in doing some lightweight testing for a limited amount of time? Here’s more about it in my subReddit. www.reddit.com/r/weminderAp...
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[Mature Content] From the weminderApp community on Reddit: I’m thinking about opening up test sessions where you can come try the app
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 20/08/2025
Episode 100 is now up in the Big Little Podcast Archive! www.biglittlepodcast.info/archive/epis...
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Episode 100 – Buying Diaper Porn — The Big Little Podcast Archive
Porn. According to the song from Avenue Q, it’s what the internet is for. We wanted to talk about it. We wanted to get a good look at it. For this episode we purchased some clips and reviewed them w...
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 12/08/2025
What sort of notes would you want to keep a record of with your behavior chart?
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 11/08/2025
My behavior chart app weminder2 needs a subreddit of its very own. It's for updates as I work on the app. Like the one I just posted this morning about a BRAND NEW AWESOME FEATURE that old weminder never had, and which I PUT OUT IN THE BETA YESTERDAY. Woot! www.reddit.com/r/weminderApp/
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weminderApp
Official community for weminder2 - relationship management software for discipline-based relationships, age play, and BDSM dynamics. Communication-focused tools over transactional point systems. Beta ...
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 31/07/2025
Okay. I decided to mark the anniversary of spacey's accident by getting back up on the archive-making-horse. www.biglittlepodcast.info/archive/epis... is out in the archive now. And as I remember it, it's darn good one.
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Episode 99 - Mistress Morgana Interview — The Big Little Podcast Archive
If language has power, then Mistress Morgana wields power skillfully. She is a professional dominant who also happens to have earned a PhD in psychology. In this personal interview, we dive into her e...
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April Glick Pulito @aprilglick.bsky.social · 06/06/2025
In this house we stan Jesse Welles.
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Jesse Welles
Come for the songs, stay for the songs
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 31/03/2025
I had a big milestone in my #weminder2 development yesterday. Beta testers can really use charts with partners now. Like this one I’m using with my mama.
A screenshot showing my behavior is OK, listing a punishment I got (no masturbation), as well as some good and bad behaviors
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 17/03/2025
One of the more awesome things I'm doing in #weminder2 is giving the users to pick custom icons for actions like behaviors and misbehaviors. And giving icons colors to show context. (Good behaviors are green, and misbehaviors are red.). Or you can go with default icons, too. #domesticDiscipline
A screenshot of the WeMinder app’s home screen displaying a gauge labeled ‘Mako's Behavior.’ The gauge is in the blue "OK" zone, with a list of two new behaviors and two new misbehaviors underneath. The behaviors include ‘fed the spider monkey’ and ‘cleaned the kitchen,’ while the misbehaviors are ‘spoke rudely’ and ‘did not take out my contacts.’ “
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 06/03/2025
Another little progress video. Weminder2 lets a top and a bottom always be in sync about the bottom's behavior. #weminder2
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 04/03/2025
Here's a little video of a chart GOING LIVE #weminder2
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 04/03/2025
When there's enough agreed upon actions - you're ready to go live! #weminder2
Two different screens showing negotiating. Each has a status row on the top.  In one it’s yellow and says negotiating, awaiting required approvals, the other is green and says ready to go live
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 03/03/2025
This thing is really starting to shape up #weminder2
A list of negotiation items shown in a modal.  Each item has a? Icon to the left, and shows whether it’s awaiting confirmation or proposed by you
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ABUniverse 🔜 Your Stash @abuniverse.com · 02/03/2025
Last day at @darklandsfest.bsky.social and the ABU team are here to keep you crinkly until the lights come up. Drop by and speak to our Padded Professionals at the ABDL social at 3pm (Riegillio Stage) or find us in the Community Zone until 6pm! #ABDL
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 03/03/2025
Here's a video of me negotiating chart behaviors with three different people in #weminder2 www.dropbox.com/scl/fi/skgg5...
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 01/03/2025
One thing weminder2 will allow users to do is have multiple charts with others. Here I'm in negotiation mode with three different people. One of whom is my lovely girlfriend @passionatelykuri.bsky.social
An app showing a display of three collapsible cards.  One, expanded, shows "Kuri", the status message "negotiation", and lists a misbehavior, "not wearing a jacket when it's chilly", a punishment, "early bedtime", and two rewards, "kitty rubs and orgasms", and "morning cuddle time"
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 28/02/2025
In weminder2, part of negotiation is agreeing upon ACTIONS. Actions are the behaviors, misbehaviors, rewards and punishments that you or your partner might write down in your chart.
Side by side views of iOS and Android, where a top and bottom are entering actions to negotiate.  These include, for the bottom, "I misbehaved", "I behaved well", "Miss Taken rewarded me", "Miss Taken punished me", and for the top, "Mako misbehaved", "Mako behaved well", "I punished him", and "I rewarded him"
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 27/02/2025
I’m hard at work on my behavior chart app weminder2. Here’s a screen cap as I’m developing the negotiation interface that tops and bottoms will use to set up their chart.
A modal showing negotiating a behavior chart in WeMinder2
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 12/02/2025
A little demo movie of some needle play. No, not that kind. I’m making the needle move on a gauge that tracks how well behaved you are. It’s pretty neat.
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 03/02/2025
Helping others is like glitter. When you get it on them, you can't help but get some on yourself too. This morning, I spent some time listening to a friend, and giving them some perspective. And when we were done, I found I'd helped myself, too. #mindfulness #compassion #kink
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 03/02/2025
More exciting #weminder stuff under development! www.onlydoing.net/blog/2025/2/...
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The Chart Lab — No starting. No stopping. Only doing.
I’m in the middle of developing something awesome for weminder2. It’s a feature called the Chart Lab . The Chart Lab feature is a fake behavior chart, between Terry the Top, and Bailey the Bottom...
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 30/01/2025
Demo video? yep. www.onlydoing.net/blog/2025/1/...
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Invites and Action Dots — No starting. No stopping. Only doing.
Got another weminder2 development demo video to show you. In this one, I show what inviting another user looks like, and how you know when you’ve got an invite waiting for you.
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 29/01/2025
Waves at @tehutika.bsky.social
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 26/01/2025
Another post at onlydoing.net!
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Saying No is Important!
So I’ve been hard at work on weminder2, the better, bigger, faster, stronger update to my behavior chart app. And today, I got something big working. This is the process by which you invite someone to a chart, and they, without having to have an account, can securely say, “Thanks, but no thanks.” I’m really proud of it.
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 25/01/2025
@rascalsperson.bsky.social hello!
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Stephen King @stephenking.bsky.social · 21/01/2025
As best you can, ignore him.
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 18/01/2025
One of my very favorite episodes, the Boogles Personal Interview, is now up at the archive! www.biglittlepodcast.info/archive/epis...
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Episode 98 – Boogles Personal Interview — The Big Little Podcast Archive
Tall, geeky and a lover of diapers, Boogles helped to blaze many of the trails we take for granted as a part of the online age play community. In fact, without his efforts mako and spacey may never ha...
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 18/01/2025
Episode 97 is up! www.biglittlepodcast.info/archive/epis...
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Episode 97 – Bondage & Age Play — The Big Little Podcast Archive
There are many ways to combine the sense of bondage and confinement with age play. Bondage can range from the natural to the outlandish, as well as from suggestively mental to inescapably physical. On...
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