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Mako Allen

@makoallen.bsky.social
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Author Podcaster Software Developer ....and shark-obsessed kinky age playing, polyamorous Taoist. www.onlydoing.net My behavior charting, communication enhancing, relationship toolkit app is coming soon: weminder.app 18+ only

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Allison Gill @muellershewrote.com · 08/10/2026
It's Artificial Intelligence. It's Twitter. It's the Gulf of Mexico. It's Lake Ontario. It's the Department of Defense. It's the Kennedy Center.
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
So excited! Drew and Fly had me on their excellent sass & surrender podcast to talk about my app, weminder. youtube.com/playlist?lis...
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Sass & Surrender Podcast - YouTube
Hosted by real-life domestic discipline couple @drew_spanks & @I_Fly_Away, Sass & Surrender dives deep into the world of consensual kink, domestic discipline...
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Oh Joy Sex Toy @ohjoysextoy.bsky.social · 15/09/2026
Femdom gives @jovixen.bsky.social a sense of power and control, which she doesn't always get to feel as a woman in a patriarchal world! Find out how this sexy play started in the sheets and transformed her life in the real world. www.ohjoysextoy.com/drawing-powe...
Drawing Power From Femdom by Jo published 9/15/2026 on ohjoysextoy.com/drawing-power-from-femdom-jo

Jo illustrates in an elegant, cartoony style with a muted palette of lavender, browns, maroons, and sandy hues. 

Two cisgender women sit at a bar, drinking their glasses of red wine. 

"I'm so glad we finally found the time to hang out!" Laughingly exclaims one woman with tan skin and a short burgundy pixie cut. She wears a sheer long sleeve with a blue tank top and some earrings. "Life's been so hectic lately... Work is crazy busy, then I go home and feel like I'm drowning in chores... and when the heck am I supposed to run errands!?"

"Ugh, I know the feeling!" Jo agrees while taking a sip of her wine. She has light skin and long, light brown hair with bangs. She is wears a magenta colored dress, a few earrings, and a nose ring. "sigh. Who knew being young independent women would be SO hard? LOL!"
"I know you're joking, but seriously!" The short-haired woman continues. "I feel like I only get to truly relax on the weekends when I see my boyfriend. Let's just say he's been... exploring his dominant side lately, which has been GREAT for me." At the mention of her boyfriend, the friend flushes, pressing her palms to either side of her cheeks as she remembers her time with him. The background lights up with flames of desire and little pink hearts, and a caption over her head asks, "whew, is it getting hot in here?" Letting off puffs of steam, she adds, "It's like I finally get to turn off my brain for once and let him take the lead! But enough about me, what about you?"
"You're a dom, right? But you also work, just finished grad school, and do your art on the side... how do you have the ENERGY for it?"

"Haha!" Jo laughs. "Well of course you would say that as a huge sub! For me, being dominant just comes naturally... in many ways, it makes me feel empowered in my everyday life."

"Oh, tell me more!" Her friend encourages. 

Read the rest on ohjoysextoy.com
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 23/09/2026
I got something really awesome working in my app #weminder tonight. weminder.app
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 24/08/2026
I’m getting closer and closer by the day. weminder.app
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weminder - Don't just be good. Be Better...together.
weminder is an accountability app for consensual power exchange relationships. Track behaviors, share moods, keep shared notes, and manage tasks together.
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 17/08/2026
@afictionalphile.bsky.social caught you on the latest Love In Brief. Wonderful!
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 14/07/2026
I love me some Dr. Phlox. I have a special place in my heart for enterprise. That song does make me wanna sound a Reed Alert though.
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 02/06/2026
I goddamn love that book and that movie. And anyone who has a problem with that can go pound fucking sand. If you don’t like it, watch something else. People.
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 21/05/2026
I can picture you doing that
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 10/05/2026
Oooh I need to get caught up.
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 10/05/2026
I’m not just developing #weminder2, I use it in my own relationships.
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 08/05/2026
So today this also happened. Apple approved the native version of my beta behavior charting app, weminder2 Now it works on Web, iPhone, and android. And I’m still looking for more beta testers
A picture of the Apple TestFlight invitation to Test native WeMinder2
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 07/05/2026
Right with you there @cargie.baby ❤️🦈❤️
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 06/05/2026
So this happened today. :-) Google Play approved the native Android beta version of my app. I’m still actively seeking beta testers. Maybe that’s you.
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ACLU @aclu.org · 04/05/2026
BREAKING: We filed another emergency lawsuit — this time in federal court — against Louisiana officials for suspending the state's primary election after voting has already begun. Louisiana is disenfranchising voters who have already cast ballots, all in the service of stifling Black voting power.
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 04/05/2026
I’m super curious. I’m a #diaper fetish person, and an #adultbaby. I’m also an app developer. Do you track your/a partner’s stash? Do you track their usage? Both? Neither? If you do, why do you do it? Pragmatism, arousal, or something else? What matters to you and why?
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 04/05/2026
Oh I’m well aware, and very glad they did. And it doesn’t make up for what they did before. I was mad about it, and I REMAIN mad about it. It’s a tainted association for me.
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 04/05/2026
So I’m really not kidding about this. From an early age, I had, and STILL have an intense dislike of Snuffy from Sesame Street. Because he would hang out w Big Bird then vanish when Bird was going to introduce him to somebody which felt like a cruel joke, a kind of gaslighting. That enraged me.
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 04/05/2026
Snuffalupagus is a Sith Lord.
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 04/05/2026
Phyllis Entrouble?
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 04/05/2026
I love making up funny, mildly suggestive, fake usernames when I’m testing apps I write. For weminder2, for example, I have Sam Pulbottom and Tessa Topp. Now I’m trying to think of others: Neil Down Wanda Tenshun Shirley Gilltea Paul Yerpanzdown What else can you think of?
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 20/02/2026
Been a minute. Got Episode 103 out in the archive, "Ageplay Coming Out Stories" www.biglittlepodcast.info/archive/epis...
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Episode 103 – Ageplay Coming Out Stories — The Big Little Podcast Archive
For some people, sharing that they have an interest in age play comes as easily as sharing that they like Star Wars or Dr. Who. For others, gathering the courage and figuring out how to say took consi...
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 21/12/2025
This is one of my favorite movies. I know it’s got some cheese to it. But I don’t care. I think it’s a lovely movie.
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 16/12/2025
What makes this even better is that the voice of The Flash on Justice League was Michael Rosenbaum. Who played Lex Luthor on Smallville.
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 03/12/2025
I adore @aeritea.bsky.social ‘s work. Especially this piece. bsky.app/profile/aeri...
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 20/11/2025
New episode up at the archive! www.biglittlepodcast.info/archive/epis...
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Episode 102 – Ageplay 101 — The Big Little Podcast Archive
Gather ’round class. Take off your shoes, have a seat on the carpet, and make a circle. Jimmy, you leave your sister’s hair alone! It’s time to tell you about the mystical, joyous, and fabulous world...
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 31/10/2025
Being a kinky person doesn’t by definition make you a smart person or dumb, moral or immoral, worthwhile or garbage. And that is both quantitatively and qualitatively so. No one gets a pass and no one is damned by definition either. You don’t have to like it. That’s just how it is.
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 31/10/2025
Because if you know 300 people who think that someone peeing in a diaper is hot, or that it’s perfectly reasonable for you to be turned on by such a thing, and then you know one person who thinks such ideas are evil, and you need all 301 people to agree…. You’re kind of fucked.
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 31/10/2025
Which gets right back to that whole community debate. There’s a term in software development circles, “brittleness”. Code is brittle when it is hard to maintain and easily broken. I see that relying upon the judgment of others to validate who you are and what you do is brittle.
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 31/10/2025
Oh, I get entirely why people do it. And doing it says as much about them as it does about the person they’re accusing. We often fear what we don’t understand. Which is why kind & nice are not the same thing. I’m always kind. But I’m not always nice. It’s not my job to think for other people
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 31/10/2025
And also make it clear to people that much like we hold ourselves accountable for these things, we also are going to hold them accountable in the same way too.
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 31/10/2025
It’s funny @cargie.baby - over the years I have gone back-and-forth over the value of community, and our responsibilities to one another. One thing I do see is that you cannot teach other people how to think, or even to think in the first place. I think the best we can do is discuss these things.
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 31/10/2025
And it’s just not. And doing so doesn’t make you some sort of pure innocent little, it makes you a maladapted, selfish, jerk.
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 31/10/2025
The other thing that comes from this that drives me bananas, is the mistaken idea that if you see a thing a certain way, say that for age play is not sexual, but that is some sort of pass or permission card, to engage in that thing openly and non-consensually, wherever whenever, and however you like
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 31/10/2025
And adults having sex, whatever the hell that actually is, however we are dressed, however we are treating one another, isn’t inherently “dark.”
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 31/10/2025
Several things come from this that drive me absolutely nuts. First is the conflation of sexual age play as an idea with dark age play. I understand dark age play to involve themes of sadism, abuse, and manipulation. None of those things are inherently sexual.
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 31/10/2025
But people don’t think it through, and they confuse it with something else that’s quite awful. So they have this knee-jerk reaction. Which I understand. But I am not bound by. Because people are responsible for themselves, they are responsible for both what they think and how they think.
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 31/10/2025
There’s a certain way we felt back then, a certain way we were treated. And we want to be treated that way again. And for some people, at some times, that makes our penis hard, or makes our vagina wet. And do you know what? There’s not a damn thing wrong with that.
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 31/10/2025
One of the things I think that people miss, is that using these tropes to enable connection isn’t the same thing as interacting with children at all. We are reclaiming something, from the dustbin of our memory, cleaning it off and repurposing it for connections with other adults.
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 31/10/2025
But it’s wrapped in these familiar tropes of caregiving. We all know what it was like to scrape our knee riding our bike, and have a Parent kiss our boo-boo. Or to get your food cut up for you because you’re not to be trusted with a knife. And then be praised for doing a good job eating dinner.
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 31/10/2025
I’ve held the idea that for many, including myself, age play has nothing to do with ACTUAL age. It’s a medium of exchange, a language, for something else. The exchange of vulnerability. Wanting to be vulnerable to someone else, wanting someone else to be vulnerable to you.
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 31/10/2025
People have all kinds of non-consensual fantasies that are scary and problematic. Not just about ageplay. People like to be “forced” to be bi, woken up from sleep with sex, spanked until they are crying and sore enough to be sore for days. It’s perfectly OK to like any of these things.
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 31/10/2025
This is very much something on my mind, and that I have my own very strong feelings about. You’re absolutely right about those cockroaches and how awful they are. Something Spacey and I used to talk about on the podcast all the time with how there’s no such thing as thought-crime.
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 27/10/2025
You look amazing. ❤️
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 11/10/2025
Episode 101 is up at the archive! www.biglittlepodcast.info/archive/epis...
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Episode 101 – Origin Stories LIVE at CAPcon — The Big Little Podcast Archive
We all started somewhere. For this show that somewhere was Chicago at the 2014 Chicago Age Players Convention. There we convinced some amazing peeps to spend some time with us telling their origin sto...
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 04/10/2025
Curious about my discipline app #weminder2? Here’s what I’ve got so far! vimeo.com/1124498946/0...
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About weminder2
The new version of weminder is under development. Here's what we've got so far
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 04/10/2025
Another audio blog... about houses, but also about me. www.onlydoing.net/blog/2025/10...
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Under Construction — No starting. No stopping. Only doing.
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 22/09/2025
It makes PERFECT sense. ❤️ I was just noticing earlier today that there is this sort of bubble exists in ABDL play. It’s like you and your partner enter into the shared space of approval, vulnerability, and emotional intimacy. It can be so comforting, and sometimes so arousing. Sometimes both.
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 15/09/2025
Easily one of the sexiest things I’ve ever seen. Because of the open invitation and attitude conveyed.
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Mako Allen @makoallen.bsky.social · 15/09/2025
Sexy. And I love me a little kings diaper.
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