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alexa kay 🕯

@lxak.quaker.quest.ap.brid.gy
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I got bored of clerking my monthly meeting, so now I'm clerking Quaker Quest. A ’22 vintage fedizen. Proud parent of a rainbow caterpillar plushie and two *BSD VPSs […] 🌉 bridged from ⁂ quaker.quest/@lxak, follow @ap.brid.gy to interact

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Kate-Laurel @yourlocalkl.bsky.social · 16/10/2026
always good to have the dulcet tones of the Shenandoah Harmony played on a 1995 Casio keyboard by @lxak.quaker.quest.ap.brid.gy as accompaniment to cooking dinner on the grounds
a very happy sacred harp singer with my childhood keyboard and several tunebooks
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alexa kay 🕯 @lxak.quaker.quest.ap.brid.gy · 16/10/2026
Tracks for a red-eye flight: 1. into me – Ayleen Valentine tidal.com/track/427379969/u 2. Estranged – beabadoobee tidal.com/track/561764733/u 3. Cusseta – Sam Amidon tidal.com/track/408905906/u 4. Grüne Augen lügen night – JEREMIAS […]
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alexa kay 🕯 @lxak.quaker.quest.ap.brid.gy · 15/10/2026
Here's my little cheat sheet I'm pasting into my book! It's hard to consistently recall intervals from a single note, but remembering this little run is very easy. The goal is being able to find a key without any brain power.
A short piece of music with the final bars of 47b Idumea's treble line. The notes are labeled in the lyric spot, and I've added a B since the original lacks it.
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Wess @wess.social.lol.ap.brid.gy · 12/10/2026
How to become worthless to tech companies. Some really good stuff here. www.coryd.dev/posts/2026/become-wor… ht/ @robb
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Become worthless (to tech companies)
Tech companies and their executives have, broadly, moved to align themselves with investors and adopted a posture of, often, disdain or outright hostility towards their users and employees. If tech companies don't value you, why provide value to them? If they back political positions hostile to your interests, why not return that hostility? I'm not arguing for boycotts, I know that people are bound to different platforms for different, compelling reasons. What I am arguing for is that, given the opportunity, you try and reduce the value they can extract from you. That's very often your data, but it can also be a direct financial relationship. * * * Signing up for a service? Well, your birthday is January 1, 1970. Your email address? Give them a throwaway or use a different alias for every service. Your name? Do they need it? Maybe it's James Smith. Or John Smith. Or Mary Smith. Or Patricia Smith. Phone number? 321 is a valid area code. Throw it and seven other digits in. Don't need the account long term? Delete it. Make all of your privacy settings as restrictive as possible. Turn off AI features. Opt out of everything that defaults to opt in. Live in California? Request your personal data—you may not need it, but you do need them to waste their resources handling the request. Delete yourself from data brokers with the state's Delete Act platform. Block their ads as best you can. Your cookie preferences are "Reject All", always. It's their responsibility to improve their product(s), it's not your responsibility to provide them with personal information that they claim will help them do so. Install ad-blockers for your friends and family and teach them how to use them. Block at the network level—Pi-hole, AdGuard Home, NextDNS—pick one. Block their crawlers as best you can. Do you have to use or choose to use AI products? Why not use every single one of those tokens available to your subsidized subscription? Did your search engine build in a "free" AI product? Ask it as many useless questions as you'd like. Getting emails from AI agents? Why not chat with them and lead them on until they hit a billing wall? You can block their whole TLD when you get bored. Cancel your streaming services. Buy music again. Get a library card and check out Blu-rays and DVDs. Maybe you rip them, maybe you don't. Buy ebooks from any vendor that doesn't apply DRM. Use tech platforms based outside of the US. Self-hosting things? Use a provider outside of the US for that as well. Support indie developers. They're more responsive and charge a fair price for great software. Buy subscriptions on the company's website and don't let the app store get a cut. Wait as long as you reasonably can between hardware upgrades. Run an open operating system (if you can—and not one developed by a fascist). Buy refurbished or used hardware. Repair what you can. Do you have to use a big social platform? Click on all of the ads you see or click on some of them, but don't buy anything. Want it? Open your browser and buy it without the attribution from the app. Subscribe to RSS feeds. Publish RSS feeds. Post on your site first and send links out to platforms. See someone or a business using AI art or branding? Gently let them know that it looks like a caricature of a _Men's Health_ cover. Did you get an AI agent when you called a business or open a chat? Ask them about programming questions or chat them up—get those vendor costs up—and then ask for the person you wanted to talk to in the first place. Tell that person that the chatbot sucks. Is your healthcare provider taking notes using AI? Opt out of that and explain why. Opt out of arbitration (many terms of service let you do it via email or a letter within 30 days of signing up). Use virtual cards if you can. Cancel any subscriptions you can. If they give you a retention offer, take it and then cancel as soon as it expires. Don't sign in with Google or Apple or Facebook. They get data out of it and lock you into their platform. Don't do unpaid labor for platforms. Was this helpful? Don't bother answering that. Skip the survey, reject the review request and don't rate anything. Use the website, not the app. There's less telemetry, fewer permissions and no push notifications. * * * Your worth to these companies is determined by what they can derive by exploiting you. Be as worthless as you can.
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alexa kay 🕯 @lxak.quaker.quest.ap.brid.gy · 11/10/2026
Great meta blog post from @alien! Who do I blog for? | agnes.love
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Who Do I Blog For? | agnes the alien
agnes the alien's site
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alexa kay 🕯 @lxak.quaker.quest.ap.brid.gy · 09/10/2026
📣 Owner of a moss, 5,000,097 BCE Glacier Boulder parked by the trail: please return to your vehicle immediately to avoid a ticket. Owner of a moss, '97 Boulder, please return to your vehicle immediately. Thank you.
A giant mossy boulder beside a wooded trail
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alexa kay 🕯 @lxak.quaker.quest.ap.brid.gy · 06/10/2026
#CatsOfMastodon but with boudoir lighting
A silhouette photo of an orange cat sitting on a piano, facing the camera with her head turned to profile.
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alexa kay 🕯 @lxak.quaker.quest.ap.brid.gy · 06/10/2026
#CatsOfMastodon but with boudoir lighting
A silhouette photo of an orange cat sitting on a piano, facing the camera with her head turned to profile.
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alexa kay 🕯 @lxak.quaker.quest.ap.brid.gy · 06/10/2026
When I say _chromatic_ , you say _aberration_! #photography
Wide photo of a rowing team practicing. Two canoes of women tape up the length of the photo, then in the background a coach looks at the women from her motor boat.
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alexa kay 🕯 @lxak.quaker.quest.ap.brid.gy · 05/10/2026
New blog post: A chipmunk walks into Quaker meeting lxak.net/view/2026-10-04-a-chipmunk…
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2026-10-04 A chipmunk walks into Quaker Meeting
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alexa kay 🕯 @lxak.quaker.quest.ap.brid.gy · 05/10/2026
New blog post: A chipmunk walks into Quaker meeting lxak.net/view/2026-10-04-a-chipmunk…
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2026-10-04 A chipmunk walks into Quaker Meeting
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alexa kay 🕯 @lxak.quaker.quest.ap.brid.gy · 05/10/2026
Most boosted post from my old account, hehe #nature
Short video of a large snail in the background wiggling its antennae as an ant in the foreground runs away from the snail and toward the camera.
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alexa kay 🕯 @lxak.quaker.quest.ap.brid.gy · 04/10/2026
Hello additional hundred followers from my old account! With some database time traveling, your follows have been transferred here if the transfer to my other account failed. Seems like it worked?
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alexa kay 🕯 @lxak.quaker.quest.ap.brid.gy · 03/10/2026
New blog post! Tools for Climate End Times
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2026-10-03 Tools for Climate End Times
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alexa kay 🕯 @lxak.quaker.quest.ap.brid.gy · 03/10/2026
New blog post! Tools for Climate End Times
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2026-10-03 Tools for Climate End Times
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alexa kay 🕯 @lxak.quaker.quest.ap.brid.gy · 25/09/2026
[food (veg)] youtiao in soy milk
Sunlit photo of fried dough balls in soymilk in a red and white bowl.
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alexa kay 🕯 @lxak.quaker.quest.ap.brid.gy · 25/09/2026
Stills will be composited until morale improves
Composite photo of a silhouette of myself backlit by a window layered with vines and a spiderweb.
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alexa kay 🕯 @lxak.quaker.quest.ap.brid.gy · 25/09/2026
The shape of this bokeh! #photography #bloomscrolling
Photo of a purple flowers. A single flower with orange pollen is in focus in the center. The other flowers in the lower right midground are creamy and out of focus, and the top left has 9-sided star bokeh of deep green, sky blue, and orange.
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alexa kay 🕯 @lxak.quaker.quest.ap.brid.gy · 24/09/2026
Quaker history fact: When a prominent Quaker died and left a journal, a committee was appointed to edit and publish the deceased Friend's writings. Apparently writings about the spiritual basis of being vegetarian were redacted from many of these journals because: * it would be unpalatable to […]
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alexa kay 🕯 @lxak.quaker.quest.ap.brid.gy · 24/09/2026
Yo! You should follow @ap.brid.gy so I can follow from fedi! I don't have a real bluesky lol
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alexa kay 🕯 @lxak.quaker.quest.ap.brid.gy · 23/09/2026
It's a bridge photo day #Pittsburgh
Photo from under the 31st Street Bridge. In the foreground, there's a railroad crossing and stop sign affixed to a powder blue iron beam. The bridge winds in the background across to the north side, where there's a blurry tree-covered hill.
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alexa kay 🕯 @lxak.quaker.quest.ap.brid.gy · 23/09/2026
[nudity in an artwork, nonsexual] "Piazza Lavoro" by Ned Smyth, off the North end of the Warhol Bridge #Pittsburgh
Monochrome photo of the standing concrete and marble mosaic "Piazza Lavoro" by Ned Smyth. There are two nude male figures. The left figure is in profile, hunched, holding a hammer in one hand and his head in the other. The right figure's hand is on his forehead, and he has an anguished expression.
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alexa kay 🕯 @lxak.quaker.quest.ap.brid.gy · 23/09/2026
I heard fedi likes Rust
Photo from the underside of a rusty train trestle. Blue sky pokes through the left side, and the left side is cast in shadow.
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alexa kay 🕯 @lxak.quaker.quest.ap.brid.gy · 23/09/2026
[ec] First composite! I just reused whatever photos I had for this. It's pretty fun to edit these. I need to start thinking about what I can overlay when I'm shooting next.
Composite photograph where a selfie of me is overlayed with a photo of a bee on a bunch of white flowers, with swirly yellow blotches in the background.
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alexa kay 🕯 @lxak.quaker.quest.ap.brid.gy · 23/09/2026
Highland Park Bridge, #Pittsburgh #photography
Photo from under the Highland Park bridge. There are successive girders and concrete bases which are graffiti-covered. There's mist in the background and light blooming in from the sky.
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alexa kay 🕯 @lxak.quaker.quest.ap.brid.gy · 23/09/2026
Is _this_ social commentary? 🦋 #photography #Pittsburgh
A hazy photo of a Gilded Era-esque McMansion on a hill overlooking the city. In the foreground is an industrial area with a porta-potty.
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alexa kay 🕯 @lxak.quaker.quest.ap.brid.gy · 22/09/2026
Times like this make me wish I had a full frame sensor since the bokeh on the _f_ /1.4 is so interesting #bloomscrolling #photography
Photo of purple flowers. The background has a creamy blur from the lens distortion.
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alexa kay 🕯 @lxak.quaker.quest.ap.brid.gy · 22/09/2026
Kinda a throwaway shot that I tried to make spooky. I like the overgrown rails, though.
Bluish Dutch-angle photo of a tree and plants sprouting in an abandoned rail line.
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alexa kay 🕯 @lxak.quaker.quest.ap.brid.gy · 22/09/2026
The aggressive color grading will continue until morale improves
Photo where a rusty corrugated metal wall has two graffiti characters: a green ogre and an angry red Skittle guy. They are by each other and a bush. Two rain lines are in the foreground.
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alexa kay 🕯 @lxak.quaker.quest.ap.brid.gy · 22/09/2026
#Pittsburgh's tourism needs to hire me to take photos #photography
Photo of a bridge girder on a concrete block. There is significant rust on the base of the steele.
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alexa kay 🕯 @lxak.quaker.quest.ap.brid.gy · 22/09/2026
And sometimes the subject is just an excuse to get pretty swirly bokeh! #photography #bloomscrolling #NaturePhotography
A narrow depth of field photo of a single yellow flower on a stem. The lens distorts the background into swirling oblong blobs of green and yellow. You can make out some wild flowers and goldenrod.
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alexa kay 🕯 @lxak.quaker.quest.ap.brid.gy · 22/09/2026
Shot this one wiiide open, baybee EOS R10, Helios M44-4, 1/200 100 _f_ /2 #photography #nature
A narrow depth of field photo of a plant with a cluster of yellow flowers in various stages of blooming. There are some fuzzy trichomes on the leaves and drops of dew on the stem. There are blurry plants in the midground, then there's a rough shape of a mountain in the background.
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alexa kay 🕯 @lxak.quaker.quest.ap.brid.gy · 22/09/2026
EOS R10, Helios M44-M 1/80 200 f/8\\[ish] #photography #landscape
Landscape photo of a rusty steel and stone rail trestle spanning the Allegheny river. The sky is grey and bright, slightly blooming through the gaps in the girders. On the opposite shore are hills covered in trees.
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alexa kay 🕯 @lxak.quaker.quest.ap.brid.gy · 20/09/2026
which one of you classics people started working for the city? what's next? NOTA BENE: BRIDGE ICES BEFORE ROAD
Photo of an industrial area in front of a railroad track. A sign reads "Nota Bene: Reserved Parking"
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alexa kay 🕯 @lxak.quaker.quest.ap.brid.gy · 20/09/2026
[ec selfie] The green book just turned a year old, so I'm reminiscing looking at photos of me and ole faithful, the '91 edition. We miss you, 254 Rose of Sharon
Me two years ago. I'm a blonde woman holding my red Sacred Harp. There are some tchotchkes on the wall since it's my parent's house.
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alexa kay 🕯 @lxak.quaker.quest.ap.brid.gy · 17/09/2026
> According to [Rev. Dr. Mack King Carter], when his pastor was a boy walking to school, he would pass a particular house where the white owner would always sic his doc on him. On one particular morning the dog caught the child and bit him. When he arrived at the school his teacher took him to […]
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alexa kay 🕯 @lxak.quaker.quest.ap.brid.gy · 17/09/2026
> According to [Rev. Dr. Mack King Carter], when his pastor was a boy walking to school, he would pass a particular house where the white owner would always sic his doc on him. On one particular morning the dog caught the child and bit him. When he arrived at the school his teacher took him to […]
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alexa kay 🕯 @lxak.quaker.quest.ap.brid.gy · 14/09/2026
man down 😔
A powder blue ceramic teacup is broken into three shards which lay on a pale brick road
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agnes the alien @alien.lesbian.alien.dentist.ap.brid.gy · 11/09/2026
hi friends (and Friends)-- im having surgery tomorrow at 10am, and would appreciate it if you could all keep me in your thoughts or prayers or Light 💖 i am very scared
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alexa kay 🕯 @lxak.quaker.quest.ap.brid.gy · 09/09/2026
What's better than one dulcimer? Lots of things, including _three_ dulcimers!
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alexa kay 🕯 @lxak.quaker.quest.ap.brid.gy · 08/09/2026
Balm in Gilead. I love when minor songs start on a major chord. The opening key has such a nice texture. #SacredHarp #ShapeNote
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alexa kay 🕯 @lxak.quaker.quest.ap.brid.gy · 07/09/2026
More memos from Saturday's sing: _Oops! All Altos_ edition #SacredHarp
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alexa kay 🕯 @lxak.quaker.quest.ap.brid.gy · 05/09/2026
WOW this was such a blast to lead. The class was so on top of it, even with the dozen meter changes in this tune! #SacredHarp #ShapeNote
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alexa kay 🕯 @lxak.quaker.quest.ap.brid.gy · 03/09/2026
Two purple morning glories with water droplets on their petals. They fade to pink their white at their centers.
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alexa kay 🕯 @lxak.quaker.quest.ap.brid.gy · 29/08/2026
Sunset photo in the park. The orange sun has reddish flares through the trees. I'm on the side of a grassy hill, and there's a steeple in the distance.
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alexa kay 🕯 @lxak.quaker.quest.ap.brid.gy · 28/08/2026
I think I'm only just starting to _get_ modes. All the resources online either describe them via having a different starting note or using 7-note solfège, and both of those are impossible for me to sing. If I'm not mistaken, this is right for 4-note solfège: lydian: fa sol la fi sol la mi fa […]
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alexa kay 🕯 @lxak.quaker.quest.ap.brid.gy · 28/08/2026
🥲 going through my voice memos from March. I _love_ this song with the birds chirping in the background. Try to pick me out!
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alexa kay 🕯 @lxak.quaker.quest.ap.brid.gy · 27/08/2026
The bibliography for my first class this semester is 🔥🔥🔥 * _Meaning and Melancholia: Life in the Age of Bewilderment_ , Bollas (2018) * _Embracing Hopelessness_ , De La Torre (2017) * _The Grace of Playing_ , Goto (2016) * _Peril, Perseverance, and Perversion: Pastoral Reflections on […]
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