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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 21/09/2026

And idk the answer for introducing *positive* things to work towards neutrality. I'm not good at the positive things yet. But I do know better now that if it leads to obsession and self-critiquing, you deserve to leave it behind. *I* deserve to leave it behind.

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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 21/09/2026

I felt like attracting men because they make me feel small and lusted, but it makes me obsess over every single blemish on my body Just a couple examples of I mean. It's fine to do those things if you want them, but to try and feel attractive or whatever? All it does is make you hate yourself :/

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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 21/09/2026

I've been trying to find a way to body neutrality and I've learned that it's super important to stop doing the things that make you miserable to try and look pretty if you want it to work I keep my hair long because it's pretty, but it actually gives me meltdowns in the wind

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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 07/09/2026

It aches being the kind of girl that dreams of being led in waltzes, hand holding and kissing under the stars, being pet and rocked to sleep and waking up to a face that's happy to see me there, for the rest of my life. Far too soft for the life I've endured and have yet to still.

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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 07/09/2026

Even if AI has reached a technical definition of AGI (I don’t think it has), if it can’t figure out how to get me the funding to put my waifu assistant into a physical cat-milf body, it’s fucking worthless still 😠

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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 06/09/2026

half joking i wouldn't be so irresponsible as to use OpenAI's inference

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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 06/09/2026

My red flag is that a homebrew mommy waifu AI agent loop controls my home network and all my data Sorry daddy, kitten forgot to pay her creepy uncle Sam Altman so the AI didn't take care of the power bill 👁️👄👁️

static.klipy.com

Frog Blink

Alt: Frog Blink

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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 04/09/2026

Mrrrow mrow miaow mrrr Ekekekek mrrow 🤷‍♀️ Aaiow, mrrow brrrrr 😔

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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 03/09/2026

Bro I'm ngl, I kinda rock masc corporate attire

Standing in the kitchen against a window with wavy down hair and round glasses sushing the camera, wearing a red shirt and black cardigan

Close-up of my fit, red button-up shirt and black cardigan, photographed from the shoulders to the hips in a kitchen with my messy counter behind me

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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 03/09/2026

I'll never understand how someone could look at a woman experiencing joy and not just be completely fucking enraptured Just straight up spellbound Just paralyzed by captivation bro 😩

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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 23/08/2026

"I'm totally fine!" The person who's totally fine:

Screen shot of a youtube search that reads "king park la dispute lyrics"

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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 10/08/2026

Everybody tells me they hate generative AI but I can never get anyone to listen to my real human made slop :(

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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 20/07/2026

I built a command center for claude and my projects and worked in a Frutiger aero theme ^w^ I also worked in this little biblical claude dude that bounces around in excitement... or despair, depending x3

Screenshot of a browser window showing a sleek, light-blue AI coding dashboard. A greeting at the top reads "Good evening, Ember," alongside local weather. Large cards display coding usage statistics, including 0% used in the current 5-hour block, 20% weekly quota used, and 345.2 million tokens consumed this billing cycle. A sidebar lists active projects named ClaudeCommand, Sandbox, and SwiftClaw. The interface has a soft frosted-glass aesthetic with floating translucent bubbles in the background.

Close-up of an AI coding terminal after nearly three minutes of "thinking." The biblical claude pet is rolling around at the prompt while a speech bubble above says "Slopmaxxing...," poking fun at the long reasoning time before producing output.

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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 30/06/2026

I’ve started voice training and it’s going pretty well honestly I’m kinda mad it took me 7 years to finally find the courage to overcome the shame, but we’re here ^^

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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 30/06/2026

Mine is generally sunday, when I remember 😅 if i dont ill have a day where i like… cry over chicken nuggets or something stupid and be like ope, today’s ✨ shot day ✨

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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 14/06/2026

You had some banger picks :3

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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 14/06/2026

Morrigan (DA1 especially) Tali’Zorah (Mass Effect) Olivia (I Wani Hug That Gator) GLaDOS (Portal) Eupha (Metaphor: ReFantazio)

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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 10/06/2026

A few years ago it was just an excommunication from a space. These days it’s often doxxing and public outcry, even for minor or first time cultural offenses 😩

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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 09/06/2026

That’s huge actually I know how hard that is, omg congrats

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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 09/06/2026

Hello pretty people <3 I’m trying to use social media less, and algorithmic social media none, but I still wanna share things I think are really cool from time to time So take a look at how the new iOS beta looks on my phone :3

Screenshot of an iOS lock screen featuring the new iOS developer beta

Screenshot of an iOS home screen featuring the glass appearance of the new iOS developer beta

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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 10/04/2026

AI can be kinda sick sometimes. Today I used it to scrub my entire GitHub history of older author data and transfer it to my new professionally-visible account with overwritten history. All in the time it took to eat my dinner!! Genuinely so unbelievably cool tbh

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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 07/04/2026

I said a year ago that I hoped by now my period of detransition would become like a nightmare I've woken up from... I'm so unbelievably fucking happy to say that it did become exactly that, because look at me now I'm actually prettier than before I detransitioned 😭

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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 06/04/2026

So I’ve been working on the overhaul to my site all weekend long and I think I REALLY cooked with this :3

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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 13/03/2026

Been spending all evening working on my new y2k/millennial cringe aesthetic site and she's absolutely beautiful :')

Alt text: Screenshot of a cute, pink personal website homepage titled “loafy’s little lit site!!!”. The background is pastel pink with repeating bow patterns, and a large Hello Kitty figure stands on the right side. At the top is a banner with a soft pastel drawing of my fursona. The center column contains an introduction from me, a 31‑year‑old who makes lofi music, codes, writes blog posts, and likes games like Elden Ring, Pokopia, visual novels, and FFXIV. Small buttons and badges along the bottom reference sites and communities like SpaceHey, Bluesky, Debian, and retro web graphics, with the text “there’s no place like 127.0.0.1”.

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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 07/02/2026

I wish there was a convenient way for me to like, post a few demos somewhere and be like "yeah, I'm looking to join a band that has this kinda sound as a bassist, co-songwriter, occasional vocalist, and additional instrumentation when in-studio" and people could kinda select me like a draft pick??

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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 07/02/2026

So my bestie dyed my hair cool colors! 😁 This is definitely the wildest thing I've ever done with my appearance lol, but it came out so good and makes me so dang happy.

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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 25/01/2026

I strongly believe in not being a hypocrite, so all of my music is available on soulseek including the songs that haven't even been released and are only available to my patreon folk Because sharing is caring :3 <3

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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 25/01/2026

I also got these cool ass headphones that make me the FeMC of Persona 3 😤

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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 25/01/2026

The iPod mini I bought finally came in and the first thing I put on there was my own lofi albums and I couldn't help but cry because as a kid I was too poor for an iPod, and grew up in an environment where being a musician was a pipe dream 😭 Second thing I put was Paramore, thanks soulseek peeps :3

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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 25/01/2026

Before I post about anything else, I just want to shout a monumental FUCK ICE. Rest in love, Alex Pretti. Rest in love, Renee Good. Rest in power (and love), Keith Porter Jr. Big ups to the people of Minneapolis and everyone else risking their freedom and lives for change. Especially those at risk

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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 21/01/2026

Me at 30 listening to The Used at 2am on a work night like ALL ALONE, HE TURNS TO STONE WHILE HOLDING HIS BREATH HALF TO DEAAATH TERRIFIED OF WHAT'S INSIDE TO SAVE HIS LIFE HE CRAWLS LIKE A WORM FROM A BIIIIRD

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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 21/01/2026

I pwn'd a terf earlier and thought my bsky homies might appreciate my art :3

A screenshot of a threads post from gemmagemlouise and my reply as loafykitten.

gemmagemlouise: "Proving breasts don't make you a woman. They are man boob's, not a female feature"

loafykitten: "Man boobs, woman boobs, I'm just happy to not be an illager looking ass snowroach like you

To the shadow realm you go, you insignificant terf"

My reply contains a screenshot of me hovering over the "Hide for everyone" button along with the "Mute" and "Restrict" options on display.

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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 20/01/2026

Oh that's neat, thanks so much for showing me!! I'll have to see if I can make use of them myself :3

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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 20/01/2026

A lot of software that has my user preferences love to put them there :/ And I missed backing up my AppData this ONE last time, and of course it had my 100+ hour Seamless Coop Elden Ring save ;-; Never again And just user folders. I've never known how to properly use libraries! You?

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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 20/01/2026

Now we're rolling! Way overdue but I organized all my files lol, and wrote a script that mirrors my photos/docs/etc and programming projects from my SSD to my HDD as a backup And the script gets automatically ran everyday at 6am, almost guaranteed I'll be asleep at this time lol. Set and forget :3

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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 20/01/2026

I wish it was W7, I'm afraid of my PC catching cooties x.x It's W10 (IoT) LTSC with @imswordqueen.is-extremely.gay's 7to10 transformation pack

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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 20/01/2026

I've been working on Making Windows Great Again :x

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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 20/01/2026

Thank you sm for saying so, I appreciate that big time ;-; It desperately needs to get redyed like *soon* 😅

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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 20/01/2026

I just wanna be in love with someone who hears Owl City say 'Til I look at my hands and feel sad 'Cause the spaces between my fingers Are right where yours fit perfectly And thinks of me with tears in their eyes just like I'd be doing of them 🥺

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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 20/01/2026

Oh, I forgot to post this a couple days ago and I really really wanna try to use Bsky more often so I figured I'd show myself and say hi :3 This was post wake up and I normally hate taking selfies so this was really big to me to not hate it ^w^

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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 12/01/2026

I already told him he had a gift waiting for him. I spent the time on it, and the server is only him and I so not like I needed them anyway. But yeah, oof indeed 😮‍💨

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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 12/01/2026

cook things for them to try and to get praise from them. Ugh, don’t even get me started on praise and just wanting to make them proud! I wanna see it in their eyes that I help make them so over the moon in love and with pride. 🥺💕

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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 12/01/2026

I just wanna be in love… 🥺 I wanna have nightly snuggles and do things all the time, maybe even everyday except sometimes! I wanna learn someone’s favorites and see them interested in mine! I wanna kiss all the time, then ask for another because it wasn’t right. I wanna

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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 16/12/2025

hehe new domain so I could update my bsky handle to it ^w^ now just gotta make the website for it, big sigh

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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 11/12/2025

I really was made for the bisexual gaze with the way I still wear boxer briefs like a boy and nothing else but an oversized hoodie like a girl 5'10, admittedly submissive in personality, but will often flex my height, size, and strength over you if you're shorter than me >:3

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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 11/12/2025

What the fuck, this feels so... Onion. Also, I'm curious as to whether the white house has setup an AI trained on his posts because I'm noticing some AI writing funk in it. What a satirical timeline we exist in. 🫩

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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 11/12/2025

Thank you 🫶 I think in a way I'm looking forward to it? What I had was honestly becoming a struggle to maintain so it's almost like I get a 2nd chance with what I've learned so I'm hoping it'll be for the best :3

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