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Ember

@loafykitten.cafe
151 followers 87 following 724 posts

31, she/her, demisexual big of heart, dumb of ass

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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 03/09/2026
Bro I'm ngl, I kinda rock masc corporate attire
Standing in the kitchen against a window with wavy down hair and round glasses sushing the camera, wearing a red shirt and black cardiganClose-up of my fit, red button-up shirt and black cardigan, photographed from the shoulders to the hips in a kitchen with my messy counter behind me
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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 23/08/2026
"I'm totally fine!" The person who's totally fine:
Screen shot of a youtube search that reads "king park la dispute lyrics"
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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 10/08/2026
Everybody tells me they hate generative AI but I can never get anyone to listen to my real human made slop :(
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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 20/07/2026
I built a command center for claude and my projects and worked in a Frutiger aero theme ^w^ I also worked in this little biblical claude dude that bounces around in excitement... or despair, depending x3
Screenshot of a browser window showing a sleek, light-blue AI coding dashboard. A greeting at the top reads "Good evening, Ember," alongside local weather. Large cards display coding usage statistics, including 0% used in the current 5-hour block, 20% weekly quota used, and 345.2 million tokens consumed this billing cycle. A sidebar lists active projects named ClaudeCommand, Sandbox, and SwiftClaw. The interface has a soft frosted-glass aesthetic with floating translucent bubbles in the background.Close-up of an AI coding terminal after nearly three minutes of "thinking." The biblical claude pet is rolling around at the prompt while a speech bubble above says "Slopmaxxing...," poking fun at the long reasoning time before producing output.
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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 09/06/2026
Hello pretty people <3 I’m trying to use social media less, and algorithmic social media none, but I still wanna share things I think are really cool from time to time So take a look at how the new iOS beta looks on my phone :3
Screenshot of an iOS lock screen featuring the new iOS developer betaScreenshot of an iOS home screen featuring the glass appearance of the new iOS developer beta
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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 07/04/2026
I said a year ago that I hoped by now my period of detransition would become like a nightmare I've woken up from... I'm so unbelievably fucking happy to say that it did become exactly that, because look at me now I'm actually prettier than before I detransitioned 😭
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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 06/04/2026
So I’ve been working on the overhaul to my site all weekend long and I think I REALLY cooked with this :3
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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 13/03/2026
Been spending all evening working on my new y2k/millennial cringe aesthetic site and she's absolutely beautiful :')
Alt text: Screenshot of a cute, pink personal website homepage titled “loafy’s little lit site!!!”. The background is pastel pink with repeating bow patterns, and a large Hello Kitty figure stands on the right side. At the top is a banner with a soft pastel drawing of my fursona. The center column contains an introduction from me, a 31‑year‑old who makes lofi music, codes, writes blog posts, and likes games like Elden Ring, Pokopia, visual novels, and FFXIV. Small buttons and badges along the bottom reference sites and communities like SpaceHey, Bluesky, Debian, and retro web graphics, with the text “there’s no place like 127.0.0.1”.
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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 07/02/2026
So my bestie dyed my hair cool colors! 😁 This is definitely the wildest thing I've ever done with my appearance lol, but it came out so good and makes me so dang happy.
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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 25/01/2026
I also got these cool ass headphones that make me the FeMC of Persona 3 😤
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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 25/01/2026
The iPod mini I bought finally came in and the first thing I put on there was my own lofi albums and I couldn't help but cry because as a kid I was too poor for an iPod, and grew up in an environment where being a musician was a pipe dream 😭 Second thing I put was Paramore, thanks soulseek peeps :3
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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 21/01/2026
Me at 30 listening to The Used at 2am on a work night like ALL ALONE, HE TURNS TO STONE WHILE HOLDING HIS BREATH HALF TO DEAAATH TERRIFIED OF WHAT'S INSIDE TO SAVE HIS LIFE HE CRAWLS LIKE A WORM FROM A BIIIIRD
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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 21/01/2026
I pwn'd a terf earlier and thought my bsky homies might appreciate my art :3
A screenshot of a threads post from gemmagemlouise and my reply as loafykitten.

gemmagemlouise: "Proving breasts don't make you a woman. They are man boob's, not a female feature"

loafykitten: "Man boobs, woman boobs, I'm just happy to not be an illager looking ass snowroach like you

To the shadow realm you go, you insignificant terf"

My reply contains a screenshot of me hovering over the "Hide for everyone" button along with the "Mute" and "Restrict" options on display.
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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 20/01/2026
Now we're rolling! Way overdue but I organized all my files lol, and wrote a script that mirrors my photos/docs/etc and programming projects from my SSD to my HDD as a backup And the script gets automatically ran everyday at 6am, almost guaranteed I'll be asleep at this time lol. Set and forget :3
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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 20/01/2026
I've been working on Making Windows Great Again :x
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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 20/01/2026
Oh, I forgot to post this a couple days ago and I really really wanna try to use Bsky more often so I figured I'd show myself and say hi :3 This was post wake up and I normally hate taking selfies so this was really big to me to not hate it ^w^
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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 15/05/2025
New song! Some alternative emo pop type stuff. It's about me as someone narcissistic and with BPD, from the perspective of someone who's dealt w/ it intimately This is *NOT* meant to glorify either or toxic behaviors. Tbh, if you're like me I hope it makes you hella sad like it did me while writing
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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 03/04/2025
I have songs about sapphic love, songs about being heartbroken by boys who toss you aside like you're nothing no matter how hard you beg them to tell you what's broken about you Songs about the cycle of abuse and it's healing, breakup songs and moving on songs! So many songs!! nullgato - HXRTBRXKR
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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 19/03/2025
So I'm configuring a folder that is more or less my home folder synchronized across Windows and Mac. Documents, Pictures, Music, etc, and Windows and Mac will both use it as default directories.
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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 18/03/2025
I can't believe I've actually made ~$20 from my music, I'm almost crying over here 😭 I know it's not a lot and while I've made money *performing* my music before, this is completely different...
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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 12/02/2025
I'm gonna crash out bro 😐 I'm sorry but for how many people tell me that my music is good and they listen to it regularly, these stats just don't make any sense
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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 05/02/2025
I'm gonna cum 😮‍💨 I've never had this much available data locally before OwO
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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 03/02/2025
OC I made a year ago as a mostly top 💀
A box of cialis in front of a trans flag with the text “a girl’s best friend”
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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 29/01/2025
Anyway like I was saying the other day about me being ugly as shit, most of my pics are in the best lighting and best angle possible but you def don't wanna wake up to this face bro 😵‍💫 My hair sure is getting long and pretty though :3
Picture of me after waking up with messy hair sticking my tongue out at the cameraMe turning away to display the length of my red hair by showing my ponytail which goes to right below my neckMe pulling the side of my hair down to its straightest length which goes to right above my collarbone area
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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 29/01/2025
Bruh my home screen goes CRAZY. I think I gonna be using my S23U a lot more than my iPhone now lol
A screenshot of an Android home screen running on a Samsung 23 Ultra with Smart Launcher. Contains widgets disaying info like time as a clock, the date/week of the current season and year, and the forecast.
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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 23/01/2025
Heh “gridlock” Iykyk
A blue themed energy drink can with the word “GRIDLOCK” printed in all caps on it
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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 17/01/2025
We made homemade nachos! And not your white peoples nachos 😉 Homemade pickled jalapeños and carrots! Cilantro! Diced onion! Mrs. Renfro’s Mango Habanero, (Sour cream 😒), and my homemade lime-jalapeño aioli!!! So. Fucking. Good.
My pickled jalapeños and carrots, freshly cut limes, and cilantro on a counterDiced onion and jarred Mrs Renfro’s Mango Habanero Salsa on the counterSour cream and my homemade lime-jalapeño aioliA heaping pile of nachos with taco seasoned ground beef, Monterey Jack cheese, Spanish rice in a hot chicken tomato sauce, queso blanco sauce, diced onion, squeezed lime juice, cilantro sprinkled on, and salsa along with homemade aioli drizzled all over, finally topped with homemade jalapeños and carrots
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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 16/01/2025
OH I FORGOR The finished tacos of last night 🥰
Open taco frying in the pan with melted cheese and diced chicken on one halfUp close shot of a taco being spread open with chicken, diced white onion, cilantro, and a homemade jalapeño lime aioliUp close shot of the taco being spread with melted cheese, diced white onion, cilantro, homemade jalapeño like aioli and homemade taqueria style pickled jalapeños and carrots on top
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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 16/01/2025
Was curious of where I compared having retransitioned early 2024 and where I can expect to go. Ref: I started hrt at the same time then and now. In order: feb 2020, sep 2020, jan 2021, today. I’m on track, but a long way to go… I hope next year this all feels like a nightmare I’ve woken up from…
A picture of me in February 2020, 9 months after starting HRT with hair touching ever so slightly past my shouldersPicture of me in September 2020, 1 year and 4 months into HRT with hair down to the top of my breastsA picture of me in January 2021, 1 year and 8 months into HRT. About 4 years ago today, with hair down to my mid breasts.A picture of me in January 2025, today. With hair that sits on my shoulders.
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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 16/01/2025
Home made tortilla chips!! Broiled jalapeños for my homemade aioli for the tacos!! My favorite Mexican beer 😄
Uncooked corn tortilla chips frying in oilFreshly fried tortilla chips with kosher salt sprinkled on themSoft and broiled jalapeño, lightly charred, on a cutting board A front facing shot of a Coronita beer
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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 16/01/2025
Making crispy chicken tacos! 🤤 Here’s the marinade for the chicken, along with how it came out finished :3
Chicken in a bag marinated with various Mexican inspired spices and sliced onionsFour pieces of marinated chicken on a baking tray lined with foil with the marinade onions sitting on top Up close shot of a piece of marinated chickenFully cooked chicken with the onions on top, but now lightly charred sitting on a cutting board
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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 14/01/2025
YEAH I FUCKIN GOT IT LET'S GO This probably took me a total of like 10 hours to get setup and I'm so thankful to be done. Especially considering it'll likely get like zero use lmao
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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 14/01/2025
And here it is! Taqueria style pickled jalapeños and carrots! :3
Sliced jalapeños, carrots, and onion being briefly cooked in a pot with various seasoningsA jar containing pickling liquid of water and vinegar, sliced jalapeños, sliced carrots, and slice onion along with various spicesThe jar of pickled jalapeños and carrots from the top-down angle with the lid off
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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 13/01/2025
Making taqueria style pickled jalapeños and carrots today, and I can’t wait because it’s been years since I’ve had them after moving away from home 😭 Will post the result too!
Jalapeños and carrots on an onion board with a white onion in the background
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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 22/12/2024
After days of work, it came out looking so clean and the page loading speed is so NYOOOM. The days of work was mostly in architecture, optimizations, and making sure my additional layer of caching was going to play nicely with NextJS+Vercel.
Screenshot of a webpage containing information, buttons, and icons related to my music under loafymage Screenshot of a webpage containing music previews from Spotify related to loafymage Screenshot of the mailing list enrollment modal on the loafymage website
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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 04/12/2024
My skin care has been treating me so well, look how plump and soft my cheeks are :3 And it’s like this just about all over :3c
Me with my face turned to the side, pinching my cheek to display the plumpness and softness of the skin.
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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 29/11/2024
i give thanks for big tits :3 gobble gobble :3
A picture of me winking at the camera with a peace sign up laying down with my breasts not nude but very much on display against a background that is a blue wall and my closet to the left
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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 28/11/2024
thnks fr th gvng enjy yr trky
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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 27/11/2024
My old guitar is in a storage unit in Minneapolis since I had to move away so quickly... haven't been able to play it in almost a year now. So I ordered this beauty today and I'm so excited to get my hands on it!! Oh the sound I'm gonna get with this 🥰
A Jet Blue Burst Ibanez AF75 Artcore Hollowbody Electric Guitar standing upright
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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 26/11/2024
Fresh hair fresh Ember 😸
Me, gazing longingly out the window displaying a semi-side profile of my freshly dyed hair in a very cute ponytail with bangs hairstyleMe, gazing longingly out the window displaying the other semi-side profile of my freshly dyed hair in a very cute ponytail with bangs hairstyle. This time with red dye on my chest and shoulders
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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 26/11/2024
1st, my first pair of casual jeans that weren’t skinnies as an emo teen! And yes, ever lol. For 6 years it’s been black leggings. 💀 2nd, isn’t this boots/jeans combo so cute with my short lil fat leggies? :3 3rd, I know I’ve got thigh lovers following me 😏 mine are thick and soft esp when I sit 🥰
Picture of my purposefully torn jeans and cute brown bootsSide angle of my leg with the jeans and boots to show how thick my thighs areMy hand on the right thigh while sitting for a size comparison , also with a little fat girl tummy in the picture
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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 25/11/2024
I'm about to crash out fr At this point if you haven't hopped on the train, you're just missing out 😵‍💫 Live on all streaming services btw
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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 25/11/2024
Peace 😼 My lips usually look a little softer but with laser today, can’t have anything on my face. But they’re still soft just matte! :3
A picture of my from the lips down holding a peace sign with my “bountiful breasts” on display within my bra and cami
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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 25/11/2024
If Neve Gallus is a DEI character, she can DEIve right into my heart then because I’m tryna DEIve into whatever she’s got going on 🥰😻
Neve Gallus from Dragon Age: The Veilguard sitting on what I presume is her desk
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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 25/11/2024
Thigh :3
A thigh picture including stretch marks of my "Rook" from Dragon Age The Veilguard
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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 25/11/2024
Ugh, I'm just literally infatuated with my Rook!!! Not only do I wanna *be this*, but I *want* this 🤤🥰 I give it another 6-9 months before my hair is that length again and I get curtain bangs :3
A facial picture of my "Rook" from Dragon Age: The VeilguardA tummy picture including stretch marks of my "Rook" from Dragon Age The VeilguardA side body picture including stretch marks of my "Rook" from Dragon Age The VeilguardA butt picture including stretch marks of my "Rook" from Dragon Age The Veilguard
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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 24/11/2024
A chorus preview this time :3
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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 24/11/2024
This was crazy for me to read as a seasoned pirate. I use several private trackers and fully intended on uploading my own music for free promotion via the recent uploads page. 😸 I also already offer free downloads via SoundCloud because arts/culture shouldn’t only be for those who can afford it. 🤷🏻‍♀️
A reply from threads user the_esoteric_espresso_queen that reads: “It’s wild in my day of arguing over Elphaba and Glinda with MAGAts on TikTok that *this* is the most insane conversation. You can’t think of ANY ETHICAL ways to enjoy something before you can buy it? GIRL BYE. Imma go tell everyone to steal your music, but you better not cry about it, cause they “might” buy it later. ✋🏻”
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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 26/10/2024
My cat loves the boops :3 🐱
My black medium hair cat looking up towards my finger that’s touching her nose to be booped!
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Ember @loafykitten.cafe · 23/10/2024
A telegram sticker of my fursona Pocky hitting the dab. The pose, not the cannabis consumable variant.
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