iiinova — where your digital self keeps evolving

"she keeps me on my toes" has got to be the biggest cope of all times

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there aren't really solid norms online for a lot of things like I will often notice e.g. from post tone if someone is depressed, or having a hard time, or if a couple is thinking about getting engaged, etc irl there are like norms for the kinds of things you can bring up with people but idk here

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god I should have been watching so much more reality tv

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huh had thought Love is Blind was like Love on the Spectrum but w/ blind ppl

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Relationships (Type Combinations) — The Enneagram Institute

do u guys know about your enneagram relationship pairings these have been cringely accurate for me 😅

enneagraminstitute.com

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when there's a positivity bias, it benefits people to say positive things even if it's bad for the person hearing them e.g. false encouragement, setting up unrealistic expectations, no "real talk" etc consider a 'mean girl' saying "no that dress isn't too slutty, you'll look so cute!!"

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pls bluesky devs if you do make polls, allow 5 options (and/or 4 plus a default "show results")

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cant wait to get invites so I can go back to twitter posting like "who need they bluessky invate"

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kind of a bummer about urbit

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seems like there's a distinction when a social graph is small or interlinked enough that it feels like ppl are all co-present on "the same timeline"

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lisatomic @lisatomic.bsky.social · 11/04/2023

I wonder when in internet history has a whole community transferred across platforms

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me: ugh society is like, so atomized these days 🙄 also me: has never yet attempted to set my younger brother up with anyone in my social network

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lisatomic @lisatomic.bsky.social · 11/04/2023

wait a minute gonna try... #topic oh ok nvm

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lisatomic @lisatomic.bsky.social · 11/04/2023

kinda want to switch to a domain name account where I host a personal site, maybe my obsidian notes would be kinda cool to have social/bluesky/twitter more integrated into like longer form notes or writing that's more structured and less fleeting

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lisatomic @lisatomic.bsky.social · 10/04/2023

update: the hypothesis has been spoken

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lisatomic @lisatomic.bsky.social · 10/04/2023

ooh I hadn't seen it yet but you can indeed QT into replies through top right icon on the post -> share -> copy link, then when you reply paste the link and there's a little UI for "add card" or smth

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cam forever @sincerely.cam · 09/04/2023

to add to this, what’s the process like? are you actually setting up your own server or is it just the name of your account?

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what's the benefit of the domain name handle? idgi yet

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ok yea I do want this: app that sends DMs on a fixed schedule. like a train leaving the station and you have to put packages on it that way I could communicate regularly with people, and send stuff as I think of them, but without worrying about getting into real-time conversations necessarily lol

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I feel like doing smth different here than on twitter but idk what yet still on the fence with talking about things I'm interested in or working on vs having horrible opsec

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one of the things I always wondered about tpot portability is how much the whole thing depends on still being embedded in the bigger active non-tpot network-- tech twitter and culture wars and all like by giving us easy material to bring in and comment on etc

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I wonder if group chats accelerated the decline of the timeline by providing like a feedback loop mechanism bad TL --> more time spent in gcs --> less tweeting --> worse TL

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