I'm STILL having phone calls about the insurance nightmare from water damage we found in June. Patience is thin, admittedly. But I get off the phone today and husband, listening in the background, says "when you get angry, your Philly accent goes extreme." Go Birds?
![I was detained by ICE, one of the agents asked me out on a date and I feel scared
I (26.f) am originally from Russia (Russian mom/Ukrainian dad) and a couple weeks ago at a Target parking lot, I was on my phone speaking in Russian to my mom when two guys in masks, wearing Border Patrol uniforms stopped me.
They asked if I spoke English, I said yes, demanded to see my ID so I gave them my driver's license and passport card.
They asked me questions like what am I doing here, what is my legal status (yes I am a citizen but they should have known that given I just gave them my passport card), what do I do for work (I work for the VA) and how long I've been here, etc. They told me to sit and wait in the back of their vehicle while they checked my IDs.
While I was detained, one of the agents who stopped me told me to unlock my phone and give it to him so I complied. He checked it for a few minutes then gave it back to me.
Now last Thursday night, last week, I got a text from a number I didn't recognize but as I was expecting a call that week, I answered it.
When I answered the guy on the other line asked me "am I speaking with [my name]" and I said yes. He then tried making small talk, asking how my day was, etc and I answered his questions.
I then asked him who he was and how he got my number but he seemed to try and dodge those questions.
He then asked if I'd be free on Friday night or Saturday night.
I told him something along the lines of "maybe but I don't know you". I then pressed him again, asking him how he got my number, how does he know me, etc.
He then admitted that he was one of the Border Patrol agents who detained me and checked my phone. He went on to say that when he was going through my phone, he noticed I had Bumble and Tinder so thought he'd just take my number and try to contact me directly.](https://cdn.bsky.app/img/feed_thumbnail/plain/did:plc:s2jiq5q6f5uhl7ywqbxtsvmu/bafkreigmxvuleocz2q5pvcze3mviph6bvhumrz2xuwjba6cnp6o7qp6a64)
