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Kio Stark

@kiostark.bsky.social
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I talk to strangers. I write stuff. Wallet full of library cards. Here to help. Books: WHEN STRANGERS MEET (about why you should), FOLLOW ME DOWN, a novel. New novel underway about theater people. Also writing some fucked up folktales.

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Kio Stark @kiostark.bsky.social · 06/10/2026
Today's folktale index raid: "In order to destroy the young man, the antagonist arouses in his sister (rarely: in him himself) a desire to possess wonderful objects, the attempt to obtain which is deadly dangerous. The young man sets off to obtain the objects." (Berezkin/Duvakin)
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Monteiro @monteiro.bsky.social · 05/10/2026
Looking for the perfect gift to put in your beloved’s Bela Lugosi stocking this Halloween? I got you! What could be better than my new book, How to die (and other stories)? It’s spine-curdling! www.mulebooks.com/store/how-to...
A very stupid diorama containing my book, a giant green chocolate Frankenstein head, and a green Jimothy. All laying on pink peanut hearts.
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Kio Stark @kiostark.bsky.social · 05/10/2026
Today's folktale index raid: "The abandoned one turns into a bird and returns home faster than the one who abandoned him." (Berezkin/Duvakin Motif Catalogue)
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We Need Diverse Books @weneeddiversebooks.bsky.social · 05/10/2026
Want to learn more about the fight against book bans? Follow and support these groups/organizations!
Gold-colored graphic with a dotted line border. There is one question and its answer displayed at the center of the graphic. Question: “How Can I Learn More About the Fight Against Book Bans?” Answer: Follow and support these organizations/groups: Ad Astra, American Booksellers for Free Expression, American Library Association, Authors Against Book Bans, Authors Guild, EveryLibrary, Florida Freedom to Read Project, Freedom to Read Foundation, Massachusetts Freedom to Read, National Coalition Against Censorship, PENAmerica, Publishing Professionals Against Book Bans, Texas Freedom to Read Project, and Unite Against Book Bans.
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Kio Stark @kiostark.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
I just realized my happy place is pretty much anywhere with high quality eavesdropping.
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Jim Ray @jimray.net · 29/09/2026
We, being decent people, hate self-promotion because we are enlightened beings whose work speaks for itself and will surely be recognized in our lifetimes. Right? NO! And the assholes who are naturals at it are ruining the world, so learn how to get good at that part.
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Monteiro @monteiro.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
A reminder that you could be using the office copier to make these amazing zines that help people overcome barriers to voting. They’ll never know. howtovote.tips
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How to Vote / Cómo Votar
A free field guide to what stops people from voting, and what to do about it. English and Spanish, ready to print.
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Monteiro @monteiro.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
Please join us this Friday for our last Summer School session of the season! We are hosting a SELF-PROMOTION CLINIC. Bring us your problems. Bring us your hesitation. Bring us the little voice inside your head telling you that you aren’t worthy. WE’LL CRUSH THEM WITH MALLETS!
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Self-Promotion Clinic
We will help you get out of your own way and put your best self out there.
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jessamyn @librarian.bsky.social · 15/09/2026
I am an election official who is a complete pain in the ass about everyone who is even remotely eligible being able to vote (I am lucky because in Vermont this is not a weird opinion/practice) and I read this through and it is EXCELLENT. Good job.
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Kio Stark @kiostark.bsky.social · 15/09/2026
This is so incredibly cool. Print it and hand it out! Bring them with you to every event you go to. Bring them to your coffee shop, your regular, your church, your temple, your mosque, your library, your farmer's market. We've got this.
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Game Devs of Color Expo @gdocexpo.com · 14/09/2026
🔓Full decryption complete! Turns out all you needed was launch day 👀 The 2026 GDoCExpo merch collection is here! T-shirt, our first-ever hoodie, enamel pin, keycap keychain (made with MKRO), & a diecut sticker pack - all live now at @theyetee.com! #gdocexpo
Full collection for game devs of color expo merch!
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Kio Stark @kiostark.bsky.social · 12/09/2026
Behold, @mollycrabapple.bsky.social’s Here Where We Live Is Our Country in the wild of a tiny town bookstore.
Books displayed flat on a table at a bookstore, with colorful covers. The writer of this post calls attention to a book by Molly Crabapple in the left side of the photo.
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Kio Stark @kiostark.bsky.social · 11/09/2026
Today's stranger: Pest control guy is a hoot. Got his life story, coaching on how to plug mouse holes, demo of a deluxe foam gun, a detour to see a tree stump that's more ants than stump. Then, it's gone on too long so I do the thing. I take just a baby step back. And we're done. Works every time.
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Kio Stark @kiostark.bsky.social · 05/09/2026
There is also “be joyful that you are curious beautiful humans who are here to learn, and learning is part of the fight.” Or something. A little St. Swithin’s Day energy.
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Kio Stark @kiostark.bsky.social · 02/09/2026
As someone who hears routinely from both Mike and Erika to stop overthinking and just do things, I give this my absolutely highest recommendation. Do this.
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Kio Stark @kiostark.bsky.social · 30/08/2026
That actually applies to the unnamed movie at hand as well. Fucking men, amirite?
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Kio Stark @kiostark.bsky.social · 30/08/2026
Based on watching this exact same unnamed movie, I concur. Who is the original dead girl upon whom a plot turns? We can name it after her.
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Kio Stark @kiostark.bsky.social · 27/08/2026
Woman w/ bike & a bleeding knee gets on the train. 1 person gives tissues, another shares water. Folks keep giving up their seats. All have eyes on a grimacing, hugely pregnant woman who says she's fine. It's not the kindness itself that strikes me. It's how people look around to see who is in need.
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Kio Stark @kiostark.bsky.social · 26/08/2026
Today's stranger. Long subway ride, I'm sleepily looking over a guy's shoulder while he plays a word game on his phone. I try to guess the rules. After a while, he's stuck, & says, w/o looking at me, "can you solve it?" I do. After a few stops, he gets off the train. That's called fleeting intimacy.
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Monteiro @monteiro.bsky.social · 17/08/2026
Hey, who wants something to look forward to? This Friday, @stephmoney.bsky.social and I will be talking all things newsletter and answering all your questions! It’ll be a good hang. Come join us! www.eventbrite.com/e/1996742234...
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How to Start a Newsletter
You wanna tell people what you’re thinking. How do you get started? And how do make sure the first issue isn't the last one?
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Kio Stark @kiostark.bsky.social · 15/08/2026
Good one! buttondown.com/monteiro/arc...
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How to usher in an era of abundant vengeance
A lot of people on the Internet who I once respected seem to have full-blown AI brain worms. Am I going to get conned like them at some point? Have you ever been conned by something as pervasive as th...
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Kio Stark @kiostark.bsky.social · 12/08/2026
Outside, there is a banana peel on the sidewalk. I pick it up, just in case this is a universal problem today.
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Kio Stark @kiostark.bsky.social · 12/08/2026
Today's stranger: I've been klutzy all morning, can't even get words right. At the bagel place it takes 3 tries to say my order right. Clerk laughs. When he rings me up, he keeps getting the total wrong. "I've had 2 left feet all day!" I tell him me too. "Let's both have a better one now, ok?"
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Kio Stark @kiostark.bsky.social · 11/08/2026
Talking about the weather is kind of great, & wrongly maligned. It's a momentary acknowledgement of shared experience, with "we're in this together as humans" energy. Sometimes an opening to more talk, to connecting with your neighbors. And hey, you can't have a revolution without your neighbors.
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Monteiro @monteiro.bsky.social · 10/08/2026
You should be out making friends in the park or grocery store. But meeting people is hard, especially when the world’s most unfriended nerds want you to use slop machines to make slop friends. This Friday, @erikahall.bsky.social and @kiostark.bsky.social will teach you How to Talk to Strangers!
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How to Talk to Strangers
There are 8 billion new friends out there. Or at least encounters that can make memories and good stories. And that’s all life is, really.
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Kio Stark @kiostark.bsky.social · 09/08/2026
Yesterday strangers, bookstore: I hear teens looking 4 gift &wondering which Sally Rooney is 'next.' "It's not a series," I interrupt. Then kids unsure which one friend is reading now, ask 4 other ideas. I say Maggie O'Farrell, literally any of hers. They leave w/Hamnet & cheerful teenage gratitude.
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Kio Stark @kiostark.bsky.social · 01/08/2026
If you would like some high quality interactions with strangers, start by talking to their dogs. I am in no way kidding about this. You will make the dogs very happy. And usually when you greet a dog, the person on the end of the leash greets you. And if they don't, you have still enjoyed a dog.
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Kio Stark @kiostark.bsky.social · 31/07/2026
Downtown F train 2:14 pm. Approx 40 people in this car. Four conversations, four reading paper books, three drawing. 13 ( I think) looking at phones, everyone else just looking around.
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Kate Tuttle @katekilla.bsky.social · 31/07/2026
And also, as we all continue to talk about the source material, the translations, the movie versions, the movie reviews, the book reviews -- this is the way culture works! This is the fun stuff! And I feel so lucky to be a part of the maelstrom.
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Kio Stark @kiostark.bsky.social · 31/07/2026
Today’s strangers: at small town train station. woman w/ fancy suitcase is beaming genuine smiles. goth kid reading a library book, it’d be too creepy if I went to ask what book. older woman drawing in a notebook. I get 6 steps over to peek what she’s drawing, Fancy suitcase says “you a pacer too?”
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EMILY WILSON @emilyrcwilson.bsky.social · 31/07/2026
No professional accomplishment has ever made me happier than this. theonion.com/translator-o...
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Translator Of Original ‘Minions’ Epic Poem Slams ‘Sexless, Bloodless’ Film Adaptation
PHILADELPHIA—In a 4,500-word essay published in Harper’s Magazine, Emily Wilson, known for her popular translation of the Minions epic poem, blasted the latest film Thursday as a “sexless, bloodless” ...
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Mandy Keifetz @besecretandexult.bsky.social · 30/07/2026
The brilliant and delightful @erikahall.bsky.social and @kiostark.bsky.social have an upcoming event you should totally check out. The path forward runs right through Talking to Strangers and that is their bailiwick.
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How to Talk to Strangers
There are 8 billion new friends out there. Or at least encounters that can make memories and good stories. And that’s all life is, really.
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Kio Stark @kiostark.bsky.social · 30/07/2026
Thank you! We are so excited for this.
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Kio Stark @kiostark.bsky.social · 28/07/2026
Public service announcement (without guitars). Just went on a journey double-checking settings in zoom, which seems to have added like a dozen new AI settings to opt out of since I last looked. I suggest chanting NOPE, NOPE, NOPE as you toggle the buttons from blue to grey. Very satisfying.
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Kio Stark @kiostark.bsky.social · 28/07/2026
Today's stranger: The most chatty phlebotomist on the planet. She's 58, has amazing skin.Tells me about her potions & lotions she makes. I'm like, you should sell this stuff! She says oh, no, it's just my hobby. And it's you know, proprietary. Smiles, winks, shows me the limits of her public self.
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Kio Stark @kiostark.bsky.social · 26/07/2026
Come join me and @erikahall.bsky.social on Friday, August 14 to learn about why and how you should talk to strangers! tl;dr it's good for you, it's good for the world, and it's not as hard as you think. www.eventbrite.com/e/how-to-tal...
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How to Talk to Strangers
There are 8 billion new friends out there. Or at least encounters that can make memories and good stories. And that’s all life is, really.
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Kio Stark @kiostark.bsky.social · 21/07/2026
Today's stranger. I'm wearing @yourewrongabout.bsky.social shirt "IT WAS CAPITALISM ALL ALONG." A Dude asks "Hey what does yr shirt mean, what don't I know??" Me:"Uh, that unregulated rampant capitalism turns out to be the cause of many societal problems." Him: "OK I'm gonna give that some thought."
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Kio Stark @kiostark.bsky.social · 03/07/2026
TIL that the FAA, as in the agency that oversees crop dusting, doesn’t call pesticides “pesticides.” It calls them “economic poisons.” Do with that what you will.
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Kio Stark @kiostark.bsky.social · 01/07/2026
There is something very medieval feeling about having the diaphanous curtains drawn against the sun.
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Kio Stark @kiostark.bsky.social · 30/06/2026
If you have not already bought Mike's book, now you are seriously going to have to. And if you have a copy already, order this, keep the tombstone, give the book to a friend. Everybody wins!
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Kio Stark @kiostark.bsky.social · 30/06/2026
Resident teenager has not seen her 5-year old half-brother for a few weeks. Upon return to that house, she finds him changed in a way that any grandparent would recognize. "It’s like he's constantly replaced with a slightly larger and more articulate clone of himself."
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Kio Stark @kiostark.bsky.social · 30/06/2026
Down puppy, down.
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Kio Stark @kiostark.bsky.social · 19/06/2026
Have a good cry. A really good one. buttondown.com/monteiro/arc...
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How to mend a broken heart
What’s the right amount of heartache in times like these?
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Kio Stark @kiostark.bsky.social · 16/06/2026
TFW you realize you and your daughter are both eavesdropping on the same person. My work here is done.
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Kio Stark @kiostark.bsky.social · 16/06/2026
Do not sleep on this. I’ve seen these two people talk to each other, and it’s a marvelous experience.
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Jeremy Ghooooost Shipp @jeremycshipp.bsky.social · 13/06/2026
As always, today is a good day to support artists, writers, creators. If you have the means, maybe consider signing up for a Patreon. Buy a book, a game, a painting. Commission a new piece. Tell a creator what they mean to you. Signal boost their work.
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Kio Stark @kiostark.bsky.social · 14/06/2026
My tiny town bar is also extremely happy
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Kio Stark @kiostark.bsky.social · 14/06/2026
Historic use of an exclamation point in a municipal alert email.
Screenshot of a Notify NYC email “notification issued 06-13-2026 at 11:46 PM. For the first time since 1973, the Knicks have won the 2026 NBA Championships!” It goes on to describe expected traffic delays.
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Kio Stark @kiostark.bsky.social · 12/06/2026
This one really hit home for me this morning (even tho I read it after I already got out of bed). Thanks for the reminders @monteiro.bsky.social. buttondown.com/monteiro/arc...
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How to get out of bed
Mike, how do I get out of bed every day? How do I try?
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Kio Stark @kiostark.bsky.social · 09/06/2026
You're a mensch, my friend.
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