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Hank & Townes’s Mom @katehascats.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
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Hank & Townes’s Mom @katehascats.bsky.social · 03/10/2026
Really enjoyed this article on Townes: faroutmagazine.co.uk/why-wasnt-to...
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Why wasn't Townes Van Zandt a star?
Many of the songs he wrote became hits for other artists, and he was revered by the best in the world, but some men just aren't built for the fame machine.
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Hank & Townes’s Mom @katehascats.bsky.social · 03/10/2026
When I think about the first people who walked through this forest, more than 15,000 years ago, I wonder if they felt peace? Or if the sound of falling trees became monsters for myths.
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Hank & Townes’s Mom @katehascats.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
(mysterious old lady flips CBC results around revealing iron saturation of 16%) Me: is that good.
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Hank & Townes’s Mom @katehascats.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
(mysterious old lady flips CBC results around revealing iron saturation of 16%) Me: is that good.
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Hank & Townes’s Mom @katehascats.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
Zephyr has the hiccups
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Hank & Townes’s Mom @katehascats.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
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Hannah Bowman @hannahnpbowman.com · 01/10/2026
End the death penalty. End it now. There is no reason for it, never.
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Hank & Townes’s Mom @katehascats.bsky.social · 30/09/2026
I’m so tired of the bad people winning. We have to stop them.
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Hank & Townes’s Mom @katehascats.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
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Hank & Townes’s Mom @katehascats.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
The AI “biography” of Kaleb some ghoul listed on Amazon less than a week after he died was very painful and disturbing. Someone said he’d think it was funny. No, he wouldn’t, and also, he’s dead, *I* don’t think it’s funny and I want to inflict physical pain on the person who did it.
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Charlie @theuptownfive.bsky.social · 22/09/2026
I still miss Kaleb popping up out of seemingly nowhere to envelope me for a while in a time and place I wasn’t expecting.
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Charlotte Prong @charlotteprong.bsky.social · 21/09/2026
“I desperately want to hear his voice, to receive a sign, to know I’m going the right way. There is no one here with me.”
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sirena73.bsky.social @sirena73.bsky.social · 23/09/2026
Grief is such an wild, unwieldy animal. This piece really gets it, right down into the bones.
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Luke O'Neil @lukeoneil47.bsky.social · 21/09/2026
One year ago this week we lost the great writer Kaleb Horton. I am still very sorry that I won't ever get to read anything new by him ever again. Today his partner @katehascats.bsky.social joins us to write about her experience of loss and grief.
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There is only before and after he died
Losing Kaleb
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Hank & Townes’s Mom @katehascats.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
One year ago this morning I landed in Burbank and laid in his bed after the coroner took him away.
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Hank & Townes’s Mom @katehascats.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
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Hank & Townes’s Mom @katehascats.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
My boys. I’m visiting the Redwoods today with Kaleb’s brothers.
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Hank & Townes’s Mom @katehascats.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
My favorite guy. I love him so much. I miss him more than I can express.
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Hank & Townes’s Mom @katehascats.bsky.social · 26/09/2026
I think focusing too much on gratitude can be toxic. Allowing yourself to sit and feel your suffering is how you accept the pain and loss. I have done plenty of that, and will continue to do so. However, I am deeply grateful to be with Kaleb’s family this week.
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Hank & Townes’s Mom @katehascats.bsky.social · 26/09/2026
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Hank & Townes’s Mom @katehascats.bsky.social · 24/09/2026
One year and I still don’t know how I can possibly live without him.
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inthefade @ihavethatonvinyl.com · 24/09/2026
we lost kaleb horton a year ago today. i still think about him all the time. i think about his writing, and about his life, and how much he's missed right now. he would have become the voice of a generation mattdpearce.substack.com/p/the-last-m...
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The last magazine writer
What left with Kaleb Horton.
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Holly Anderson 🍇 @hollyanderson.bsky.social · 22/09/2026
“Everyone else is down in the valley. They think we’re all supposed to get back to them, to rejoin society and act like we didn’t just go through all of that. Instead I make camp in Gethsemane.”
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Hank & Townes’s Mom @katehascats.bsky.social · 21/09/2026
I wrote about grief for Welcome to Hell World. Thanks to @lukeoneil47.bsky.social for holding space. www.welcometohellworld.com/there-is-onl...
welcometohellworld.com
There is only before and after he died
Losing Kaleb
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Hank & Townes’s Mom @katehascats.bsky.social · 23/09/2026
I would love to hear your favorite memories of Kaleb, funny stories, quotes, or even just your favorite pieces of writing or tweets.
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Zander Furnas @alexanderfurnas.com · 22/09/2026
"Until you suffer a tremendous loss, you cannot imagine. (As soon as I realized, I felt so guilty for all the poor support I had once offered to friends and family in the past, not having a clue.) "
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Hank & Townes’s Mom @katehascats.bsky.social · 23/09/2026
One of my favorite things Kaleb ever wrote. www.kalebchorton.com/blog/writing...
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Writing About Writing — Kaleb Horton
People have been asking me for writing advice a lot lately. All I really have to say is just start typing until you’re done, and make sure none of what you’re typing is bullshit. The first part takes ...
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Dan Sheehan @dansheehan.bsky.social · 12/11/2024
Just a heads up, if you’re getting regularly smiled at by babies and greeted warmly by dogs you are carrying a fragment of the sacred light within you and must guard it closely
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Hank & Townes’s Mom @katehascats.bsky.social · 22/09/2026
Instead of working this afternoon I worked on this poem. Still not happy with it. I need to keep asking it questions.
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Chris Mueller @chrismuellerpgh.bsky.social · 22/09/2026
Terrific and heart-wrenching in equal measure.
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Hank & Townes’s Mom @katehascats.bsky.social · 22/09/2026
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Hank & Townes’s Mom @katehascats.bsky.social · 22/09/2026
I have encountered so many grievers once I became one. Our stories are unique but we can relate to the same experiences and feelings. I wanted to share my imagery so another griever might see their grief in the analogies.
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Hank & Townes’s Mom @katehascats.bsky.social · 22/09/2026
A doe approaches the water shore Softly stepping upon the grass the rain restored Above her an owl awakens, blinking her eyes Her day is beginning as the doe’s dies
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Hank & Townes’s Mom @katehascats.bsky.social · 21/09/2026
I wrote about grief for Welcome to Hell World. Thanks to @lukeoneil47.bsky.social for holding space. www.welcometohellworld.com/there-is-onl...
welcometohellworld.com
There is only before and after he died
Losing Kaleb
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Hank & Townes’s Mom @katehascats.bsky.social · 21/09/2026
“I live upstairs from a cheesemonger” sure does sound more romantic than “I live in a mixed use building near the urban core”
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Hank & Townes’s Mom @katehascats.bsky.social · 20/09/2026
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Hank & Townes’s Mom @katehascats.bsky.social · 19/09/2026
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Hank & Townes’s Mom @katehascats.bsky.social · 18/09/2026
This is happening at universities all across Texas
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Hank & Townes’s Mom @katehascats.bsky.social · 17/09/2026
Seeing his name makes my heart stop
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The Ken In Yellow @kenlowery.bsky.social · 17/09/2026
Some days I think Kaleb Horton's "the liars are coming" thing was the only prophecy worth a damn
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Hank & Townes’s Mom @katehascats.bsky.social · 16/09/2026
Norm Macdonald died 5 years ago. Next week it will be 1 year without Kaleb. Read his obituary of Norm today (originally published in Rolling Stone). www.kalebchorton.com/rolling-ston...
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As Seen in Rolling Stone: The True Story of Norm Macdonald, Comedy’s Best Liar — Kaleb Horton
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Hank & Townes’s Mom @katehascats.bsky.social · 14/09/2026
Regarding Dolly and Tim dying being gay 9/11, and so Bob Mackie is the Pantagon…Cher, please do not be Flight 93
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Hank & Townes’s Mom @katehascats.bsky.social · 14/09/2026
Someone just asked if my partner dying a year ago meant if I was currently single. Yes. What the fuck. How would I possibly be in a relationship at this point in time.
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Hank & Townes’s Mom @katehascats.bsky.social · 13/09/2026
I love having depression and sleeping until 4pm
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Blue sky nice ghost @rajandelman.bsky.social · 13/09/2026
Could the new world struggle to be born a little faster. These monsters are killing me. Get born, dipshit
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Hank & Townes’s Mom @katehascats.bsky.social · 12/09/2026
Miss Ma’am is overweight, needs a dental, and is getting an eye ointment, antihistamine, and probiotic. But she was a very good girl getting examined and having blood drawn.
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Hank & Townes’s Mom @katehascats.bsky.social · 12/09/2026
She doesn’t know she’s going to the vet tomorrow
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Hank & Townes’s Mom @katehascats.bsky.social · 11/09/2026
My youngest staff menber wasn’t even born when 9/11 happened and I watched the whole thing on tv. Psychological time dilation is happening to me
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Shiv Ramdas Mens Rice Activist @nameshiv.bsky.social · 19/06/2025
"Was it really this dumb in 2003" guys they renamed french fries
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