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Kaitlin Shetler

@kaitlinshetler.bsky.social
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writes so-so poetry and dorky fanfiction, flaming heretic, unsettling fascination with horror tropes, and fan of a democracy not crumbling into fascism

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Kaitlin Shetler @kaitlinshetler.bsky.social · 12/08/2025
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Kaitlin Shetler @kaitlinshetler.bsky.social · 12/08/2025
here’s what you’ll need to survive: a strong stomach a soft heart a clear head cunning eyes sharp ears a waiting patience a careful body
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Amy @lolennui.bsky.social · 01/08/2025
I’m a real life human woman and my secret advice for men is to talk to us like we’re people
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Kaitlin Shetler @kaitlinshetler.bsky.social · 04/06/2025
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Kaitlin Shetler @kaitlinshetler.bsky.social · 21/05/2025
You don’t get to opt out of the bad stuff if you’re going to claim to be a part of this group. #deconstruction #deconversion #exvangelical #christianity #atheism
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If You Stand for Nothing
Then What Will You Fall For?
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Kaitlin Shetler @kaitlinshetler.bsky.social · 07/04/2025
#poemsfortheresistance my third grader went to sleep last night holding her stuffed rabbit and talking about minecraft she tells me funny things about school her friends play a game under a tree she calls it “queen of the world”
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Kaitlin Shetler @kaitlinshetler.bsky.social · 01/04/2025
#poemsfortheresistance this is a soft apocalypse a gentle genocide the slow boiling of values and decency a southern politic at church potlucks and neighborhood lynchings
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Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez @aoc.bsky.social · 14/03/2025
Among the material devastation to everyday people, Senate Dems have now blown a hole in their ability to work with the House. We had an agreed upon plan, House took immense risk, then Senate turned around midway and destroyed it w/ a fear-based, inexplicable abdication. They own what happens next.
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Chris Hayes @chrislhayes.bsky.social · 13/03/2025
The institutional Democratic Party is guided by an almost pathological level of conflict avoidance in almost every direction. “What can we do to make the least number of people mad?” is just a bankrupt way to operate.
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Kaitlin Shetler @kaitlinshetler.bsky.social · 26/02/2025
A man who makes an “exception” for abortion in certain cases, does not actually care about “the unborn,” but his ability to control a woman’s body.
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Kaitlin Shetler @kaitlinshetler.bsky.social · 24/02/2025
We need to bring back anti-propaganda posters. #trump #musk #democracy #usa
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Kaitlin Shetler @kaitlinshetler.bsky.social · 22/02/2025
#poemsfortheresistance when they take your voice use your feet to make trouble and when they take your feet use your hands to make waves and when the hands go use your eyes to burn warnings and when your eyes fail use your heart to beat change
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Kaitlin Shetler @kaitlinshetler.bsky.social · 19/02/2025
A story: There was once a little boy who was born with a strange magic. Unlike the other children in his town, he wasn’t able to fly or heal or even change rocks into bread. His magic didn’t help people at all—it did something different, something the people had never seen before.
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Kaitlin Shetler @kaitlinshetler.bsky.social · 17/02/2025
#poemsfortheresistance a woman once died from toxic empathy the coroner said her heart gave out after it was crushed by the weight of all the needs she carried on her back “toxic empathy,” the coroner said, “killed this woman.” “beware,” the king said, “because it might be catching.”
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Kaitlin Shetler @kaitlinshetler.bsky.social · 17/02/2025
This was so much fun!
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Kaitlin Shetler @kaitlinshetler.bsky.social · 14/02/2025
Happy Valentine’s Day (2025 Edition)!
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actioncookbook @actioncookbook.com · 13/02/2025
looking back, AOL had it right. 30 hours of internet per month was the right amount.
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Kaitlin Shetler @kaitlinshetler.bsky.social · 13/02/2025
#poemsfortheresistance despots have it so easy in america they can just point and the christians attack ready-made soldiers already armored for the lord
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Kaitlin Shetler @kaitlinshetler.bsky.social · 05/02/2025
#poemsfortheresistance violent criminals deserve violent deaths say the violent men who write the laws it’s jesus’s will to cut the wheat from the chaff say the men selling the wheat profiting off the labor of the migrants they force to cut
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Kaitlin Shetler @kaitlinshetler.bsky.social · 02/02/2025
#poemsfortheresistance it’s called resistance for a reason but exercise has never been my forte and i’m afraid when the going gets tough i hide under weighted blankets and doom scrolling
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Kaitlin Shetler @kaitlinshetler.bsky.social · 30/01/2025
When the world is a shell of what it was, when this country is powered by the bodies of all those “criminals” labeled such by monsters and opportunists, what will happen next? #trump #gop #fascism
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Consequences
How Germany and America Differ
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Kaitlin Shetler @kaitlinshetler.bsky.social · 27/01/2025
#poemsfortheresistance the price of eggs is important to families struggling to put food on their tables to farmers, maybe but not to billionaires not ever to billionaires
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Kaitlin Shetler @kaitlinshetler.bsky.social · 26/01/2025
#poemsfortheresistance someone said consent was like tea which is great metaphor for kids but not for men
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Kaitlin Shetler @kaitlinshetler.bsky.social · 24/01/2025
Even mild church experiences can be harmful. Because it’s not always the community that is dangerous, but the theology itself.
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Kaitlin Shetler @kaitlinshetler.bsky.social · 22/01/2025
Here's a guide for pretending to be Christian in a Chistofascist government. (From a former born-and-bred-fundamentalist-to-progressive-Christian-now-atheist)
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Kaitlin Shetler @kaitlinshetler.bsky.social · 21/01/2025
#poemsfortheresistance handle an oligarch the same way you’d handle a god defer defend devote tell him he’s in charge
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Kaitlin Shetler @kaitlinshetler.bsky.social · 21/01/2025
“What an upstanding man of faith, refusing to use the Word of God as a prop like any other politician would.”
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Kaitlin Shetler @kaitlinshetler.bsky.social · 20/01/2025
#poemsfortheresistance i don’t think freedom dies quickly i don’t think it is assassinated in secret places
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Kaitlin Shetler @kaitlinshetler.bsky.social · 19/01/2025
I don’t disagree that the TikTok ban is a big deal, but there’s only one site I would burn this country down for.
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Kaitlin Shetler @kaitlinshetler.bsky.social · 19/01/2025
I feel like there’s probably a book out there about this.
picture of tiktok pop up that says it’s not available right now
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Kaitlin Shetler @kaitlinshetler.bsky.social · 16/01/2025
I read the Variety article about Neil Gaiman tonight. I’ve been up a while thinking about it. It was great reporting of a terrifying and predatory experience, and I’m thankful for the journalists who continue to advocate for survivors of sexual abuse, despite a society that denies their validity.
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Kaitlin Shetler @kaitlinshetler.bsky.social · 10/12/2024
#poemsfortheresistance hi i’m your warning your worst nightmare your cautionary story
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Kaitlin Shetler @kaitlinshetler.bsky.social · 09/12/2024
#poemsfortheresistance flowers bloom where they’re planted but i’ve never had a green thumb my seeds have always fallen on rocky ground
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Kaitlin Shetler @kaitlinshetler.bsky.social · 05/12/2024
When I went to Harding, there was a policy that said women could not speak during the official chapel time. If there was a woman speaker, chapel time was "ended" with a male-led prayer and *then* a woman could give her talk.
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Kaitlin Shetler @kaitlinshetler.bsky.social · 04/12/2024
#poemsfortheresistance “mary and bright”
i think i would have said yes, too
if i were fourteen
i think i would have said
my body is god’s 
because when i was fourteen 
i read “she said yes” 
and my youth minister said we were made to die for the lord

if god came to me as a child
and said “let me get you pregnant. let me take your newly formed body and push a baby through it and catapult you on a journey where you will feel pain from pregnancy to your child’s death”
i would have said yes
because i was fourteen 
and my value had been wrapped in him since at least the age of accountability 

if i had been fourteen
and god wanted me to carry his son
it would not have occurred to me 
to refuse 
i never refused god
not until thirty 
and even then 
i felt undone

we teach teen girls that they are made for man (father, brother, husband, son, god) 
which is why “my body, my choice”
makes them erupt
because if men can’t dominate 
they will incinerate 
and you cannot imagine how much we factor that into our speech

i am tired of this debate 
around consent 
as if there is a question
when an all-powerful, male god 
asks a female child 
if he can irrevocably alter her body

“her consent was enthusiastic”
say the men who have always had enthusiastic women
because fear is easy to disguise with a smile
and predators never had to learn 
discernment 

there is no world where a child
birthing a child
is right
no matter culture 
age
or faith
no world where the person or god who
who asked her
who coerced her
who convinced her 
is holy 

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Kaitlin Shetler @kaitlinshetler.bsky.social · 04/12/2024
#poemsfortheresistance i think i would have said yes, too if i were fourteen i think i would have said my body is god’s because when i was fourteen i read “she said yes” and my youth minister said we were made to die for the lord
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Kaitlin Shetler @kaitlinshetler.bsky.social · 04/12/2024
#poemsfortheresistance “sometimes i wonder”
sometimes I wonder
if mary breastfed jesus
if she cried out when he bit her
or if she sobbed when he would not latch

and sometimes I wonder
if this is all too vulgar
to ask in a church
full of men
without milk stains on their shirts
or coconut oil on their breasts
preaching from pulpits off limits to the mother of god

but then i think of feeding jesus
birthing jesus
the expulsion of blood
and smell of sweat
the salt of a mother’s tears
onto the soft head of the salt of the earth
feeling lonely
and tired
hungry
annoyed
overwhelmed
loving 

and i think
if the vulgarity of birth is not
honestly preached
by men who carry power but not burden
who carry privilege but not labor
who carry authority but not submission
then it should not be preached at all

because the real scandal of the birth of god
lies in the cracked nipples of a
14 year old
and not in the sermons of ministers
who say women
are too delicate
to lead

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Kaitlin Shetler @kaitlinshetler.bsky.social · 04/12/2024
#poemsfortheresistance sometimes I wonder if mary breastfed jesus if she cried out when he bit her or if she sobbed when he would not latch
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Anthony Mills @anthony-mills.bsky.social · 22/11/2024
It's amazing how insistent Christians are that gender doesn't exist but also their invisible cloud is definitely a "he".
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Kaitlin Shetler @kaitlinshetler.bsky.social · 22/11/2024
I don’t understand how the same people who have normalized literal magic (talking animals, powerful gods, dead rising, water turning into blood and blood turning into water) are so offended by provable, reliable, empirical, reality-based science.
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Kaitlin Shetler @kaitlinshetler.bsky.social · 19/11/2024
#poemsfortheresistance when i was in ninth grade my history teacher asked me to stand up “this is kaitlin, and she believes if you it aren’t baptized, you’re going to hell”
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Kaitlin Shetler @kaitlinshetler.bsky.social · 19/11/2024
I have noticed (not studied, so don’t come at me, bros) that there is a large gender difference in social media use. My woman-centered communities are primarily on Facebook and Tumblr and Discord. Male-dominated spaces tend to be places like X, Threads, and Bluesky.
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Anonymous @youranoncentral.bsky.social · 18/11/2024
“bluesky is an echo chamber” the echo is sanity.
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Kaitlin Shetler @kaitlinshetler.bsky.social · 17/11/2024
My new personality will be talking about “Heretic” with everyone I meet.
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Kaitlin Shetler @kaitlinshetler.bsky.social · 17/11/2024
Share this quick guide with the next person who reaches out to you with a “curiosity” about your deconstruction or deconversion. You don’t owe anyone your comfort, time, or story—especially if they only want it to use it as a way to soothe their own End Times anxiety. 1/3
“i just saw a person i haven’t talked with in over six or more months post something that made me uncomfortable because i don’t really have meaningful relationships with people who don’t share my religious beliefs. should i send them a message expressing my discomfort?” a guide for the concerned christianImage of a woman in front of a computer concerned. Text says “sometimes talking to people who no longer believe in God can be frightening. especially when they used to share the same set of beliefs as you.”Image of woman by computer with hands up in confusion. Text says: “You might be thinking:  Why did they change their mind? What happened to them? *If it could happen to them, it could happen to me, and I don’t have a worldview that allows for that drastic of a change without everything else blowing up in my face.”Image of man in front of computer holding his chin in confusion. Text says: “It might make you feel things: angry, scared, confused, sad, nervous, guilty, indignant, judgmental.”
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Kaitlin Shetler @kaitlinshetler.bsky.social · 16/11/2024
Re: Biden playing nice with Trump. When I was in church, there was a phenomenon that I found difficult to articulate: men who promised they understood how harmful complementarianism was while still having pleasant breakfasts with complementarian deacons and elders.
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God @thegodshow.com · 14/11/2024
We all let Jimmy Carter down.
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Kaitlin Shetler @kaitlinshetler.bsky.social · 14/11/2024
People acting like there’s no precedent for countries losing their access to fair and free elections. He may be an idiot, but he doesn’t promise things he doesn’t try.
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Seth Abramson @sethabramson.bsky.social · 14/11/2024
Advanced memework
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