Jess O'Thomson @jessothomson.co.uk · 24mSorry for whatever this was. But to be crystal clear – this thread is about how I am healing from a life of violence and hurt and suffering. Not about a fucking youtuber. 0380
Jess O'Thomson @jessothomson.co.uk · 36mSorry. Things have been rough for me for the last little while. And all of this discussion has made me think a lot. And at the end of it all, on reflection, my response to getting very hurt is not to get angry or put my defences up. Not to withdraw. It seems it's to love even harder. 2531
Jess O'Thomson @jessothomson.co.uk · 44mI don't think I am naive. I just don't think I can rewire the fundamentals of who I am. And what has always driven me. Even if it has made me incredibly vulnerable. And always will. 1511
Jess O'Thomson @jessothomson.co.uk · 45mI have often been "too" loving and honest in my life, towards people who have exploited that and hurt me. But I hope I never change. I think I would rather be crushed by the cruelty of the world than become someone who loves less freely. Who does not truly long, in my heart, for love for all. 1655
Jess O'Thomson @jessothomson.co.uk · 48mThe people who have hurt me most in the world. Who have caused me vicious, immeasurable harm. I desire no revenge or comeuppance. I simply wish they were better people, who would no longer cause that harm to others. And that this grants them all the peace and love and happiness in the world. 2687
Jess O'Thomson @jessothomson.co.uk · 50mI think I just fundamentally believe people are what they do. There is no inherently good or bad person, born or made. Our actions do not leave moral stains on our souls. We must have the agency to stop causing harm. To repair what we can. And to be better people. And I want that for everyone. 314921
Jess O'Thomson @jessothomson.co.uk · 1hIf you weaponise any of the above to go to bat for a specific youtuber. That's not what I meant and you know it's not. Fuck you forever. 0751
Jess O'Thomson @jessothomson.co.uk · 2hI don't even wish that on my rapist. I want him to become a better person and be able to live a better, normal life. Whatever that looks like. 1893
Jess O'Thomson @jessothomson.co.uk · 2hNot saying that means you should be a public figure and not disclose serious harm in your past – but I have been people say things to the effect that you should have to disclose every harm you have ever done to each customer you make coffee for in Starbucks. 31064
Jess O'Thomson @jessothomson.co.uk · 2hMy one contribution to this discourse is that the idea that if you have ever done anything harmful you should have to disclose it to literally everyone you ever interact with or work with simply must and cannot be true. That's not even carceral. It's medieval, like branding someone's forehead. 222228
Jess O'Thomson @jessothomson.co.uk · 3hIt's another really fun time to be a rape and sexual assault survivor on the internet. 3832
Jess O'Thomson @jessothomson.co.uk · 6hIt's really quite something isn't it. At least it's given everyone something fun to talk about on WhatsApp this morning! 020
Jess O'Thomson @jessothomson.co.uk · 9hNot a defamation lawyer, but my understanding is that, potentially, yes. 040
Jess O'Thomson @jessothomson.co.uk · 10hLawyers ask their clients to write reviews of them for Legal 500. Legal 500 usually curate these into positive reviews of members of the profession. It seems this time that a lot of the more negative comments from clients have ended up being published... 240
Jess O'Thomson @jessothomson.co.uk · 10hI don't fancy joining Legal 500 in the defamation suits to follow by republishing some of this stuff haha 1120
Jess O'Thomson @jessothomson.co.uk · 10hSome of the screenshots I have seen are just... wow. I expect they will be getting at least some defamation actions threatened against them. 3300
Jess O'Thomson @jessothomson.co.uk · 10hSo, Legal 500 has seemingly accidentally published a bunch of highly disparaging comments about members of the legal profession in their reviews this year, and now this is the state of the website. 4463
Jess O'Thomson @jessothomson.co.uk · 10hMakes me really sad that the sectarian hatred of the Orange Order has made Protestants feel the need to speak out in this way. These bigots should not be able to paint themselves as representatives of whole communities. 05612
Reposted by Jess O'ThomsonJess O'Thomson @jessothomson.co.uk · 01/10/2026If anyone is in touch with any of the local trans inclusive safe spaces orgs around the country can you reach out to them and ask if they would be willing to speak to me over the next day or so please. I have opened my DMs. 511883
Jess O'Thomson @jessothomson.co.uk · 01/10/2026I wish I were a spooky queer. I am, instead, mostly a seasonal depression queer. 41004
Jess O'Thomson @jessothomson.co.uk · 01/10/2026Just wanted to say I have been listening to the audiobook on the Anglo Saxons during my commute and you are a wonderfully engaging writer whilst retaining a delightful level of academic nuance and detail. Look forward to reading this, too! 100
Jess O'Thomson @jessothomson.co.uk · 01/10/2026Reminds me of GCs over here who wish to treat a single court ruling as definitive of absolute moral victory with which everyone else must now comply 140
Jess O'Thomson @jessothomson.co.uk · 01/10/2026Yes sorry I was too depressed by all of this to engage with the sarcasm 010
Jess O'Thomson @jessothomson.co.uk · 01/10/2026If anyone is in touch with any of the local trans inclusive safe spaces orgs around the country can you reach out to them and ask if they would be willing to speak to me over the next day or so please. I have opened my DMs. 511883
Jess O'Thomson @jessothomson.co.uk · 30/09/2026Seems pretty clear from the interview that it's not something the Order are going to accept. 100
Reposted by Jess O'ThomsonJess O'Thomson @jessothomson.co.uk · 29/09/2026🚨 We need to hear from YOU Have you had a problem accessing gendered services since April last year, outside of school and the workplace? Are you a service provider worried about remaining inclusive? PLEASE let us know through this form - and share widely goodlaw.social/mzb3goodlaw.socialMy branded typeformTurn data collection into an experience with Typeform. Create beautiful online forms, surveys, quizzes, and so much more. Try it for FREE. 0151118
Jess O'Thomson @jessothomson.co.uk · 30/09/2026Can people on the left stop backing this incredibly antisemitic man please. Thanks. 05711
Reposted by Jess O'ThomsonTransActual @transactualuk.bsky.social · 30/09/2026TransActual partnered with @scottishtrans.bsky.social and @transsolidarity.bsky.social to bring messages from this month’s Mass Lobby for Trans Equality to the Labour conference in Liverpool, and to ask the party: what now for our standing on LGBTQ+ rights? 08427
Reposted by Jess O'ThomsonMichael Spicer @michaelspicer.bsky.social · 30/09/2026Most TV is just this now. 16568761885
Reposted by Jess O'ThomsonYouGov @yougov.co.uk · 29/09/2026Support for Andy Burnham's proposal to change the triple lock in order to help fund part of a national care service, by age All Britons: 48% support / 28% oppose 18-24yr olds: 56% / 12% 25-49yr olds: 49% / 18% 50-64yr olds: 46% / 35% 65+yr olds: 43% / 46% yougov.com/en-gb/articl... 2247
Jess O'Thomson @jessothomson.co.uk · 29/09/2026Think mass harassment by idiot football fans and targeting by serious criminals involve different types of risk and are probably addressed by different types of mitigations. 250
Jess O'Thomson @jessothomson.co.uk · 29/09/2026Named individuals who can be targeted vs whole firms of people are different kettles of fish. 130
Jess O'Thomson @jessothomson.co.uk · 29/09/2026Glad to see you saying this, worried I might have been overstating it. 100
Reposted by Jess O'ThomsonJess O'Thomson @jessothomson.co.uk · 29/09/2026Tbh it was a good speech and I would really like to be able to back the man, I just need him to have a decent position on our human rights obligations. Which is also a necessary component of any future relationship with the EU. 51138
Jess O'Thomson @jessothomson.co.uk · 29/09/2026This looks a teensy weensy little bit like potentially criminal fraud... 3346
Jess O'Thomson @jessothomson.co.uk · 29/09/2026Yes, am only grieving for my curiosity, obviously a sensible decision. 130
Jess O'Thomson @jessothomson.co.uk · 29/09/2026Am still of the view that changing the electoral system specifically without a mandate via manifesto/referendum is super constitutionally sketchy, especially given AV ref result – but yes certainly there are other big things they could do which aren't in manifesto. 210
Jess O'Thomson @jessothomson.co.uk · 29/09/2026That's true of some things but not loads of massive policies. You don't really have time/capacity to use the Parliament Acts for a whole bunch of stuff. 110
Jess O'Thomson @jessothomson.co.uk · 29/09/2026The removal of the triple lock is both good and necessary. 140
Jess O'Thomson @jessothomson.co.uk · 29/09/2026I don't think the options are free or just like a private pension scheme. Just think as someone who has personally had to pay a couple hundred quid out of pocket more than once to make sure I qualify, you can see why I think "free" isn't wholly accurate. 110
Jess O'Thomson @jessothomson.co.uk · 29/09/2026It's free at the point of use, like the NHS, but it's conditional on contributions or credits, and a large part of the purpose of NI is in fact to pay for it. Just not your own individual pot. When my earnings have been short of NI I have paid the additional NI contribution to have a qual year. 120
Jess O'Thomson @jessothomson.co.uk · 29/09/2026You need 10 qualifying years of national insurance contributions, though? 100
Jess O'Thomson @jessothomson.co.uk · 29/09/2026Tbh it was a good speech and I would really like to be able to back the man, I just need him to have a decent position on our human rights obligations. Which is also a necessary component of any future relationship with the EU. 51138
Jess O'Thomson @jessothomson.co.uk · 29/09/2026Yeah I agree on the early election thing but would probs also be silly to have winter election. They might wait to see how mood is for one next spring. Have already said I would announce a bunch of very spendy policies at budget to increase popularity. 010
Jess O'Thomson @jessothomson.co.uk · 29/09/2026🚨 We need to hear from YOU Have you had a problem accessing gendered services since April last year, outside of school and the workplace? Are you a service provider worried about remaining inclusive? PLEASE let us know through this form - and share widely goodlaw.social/mzb3goodlaw.socialMy branded typeformTurn data collection into an experience with Typeform. Create beautiful online forms, surveys, quizzes, and so much more. Try it for FREE. 0151118
Jess O'Thomson @jessothomson.co.uk · 29/09/2026Ps – one reason why things often need to be in the manifesto is so you can rely on the Salisbury Convention to push them through the House of Lords. 3484
Reposted by Jess O'ThomsonSam Freedman @samfr.bsky.social · 29/09/2026Every private conversation in Westminster: "Well the triple lock obviously has to go at some point". Every commentator on Burnham: "completely mad to propose getting rid of triple lock - political suicide". 39629126