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Jessamy Barker (they/she/he)

@jessamybarker.bsky.social
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Serving genderqueer drag and goth looks Brit living in California Genderqueer Drag as www.instagram.com/lordofmxrule Painted rocks www.instagram.com/stained_stones

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Jessamy Barker (they/she/he) @jessamybarker.bsky.social · 29/01/2026
Weasel Wear dress I'm going to be sharing a video performance in a few weeks. As a disabled person, living trapped in my house by extreme chronic fatigue, this is something of a major deal. By the end of the year I'm hoping to have performed on stage in my wheelchair. First steps are being taken
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Jessamy Barker (they/she/he) @jessamybarker.bsky.social · 29/01/2026
Mirror edit
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Jessamy Barker (they/she/he) @jessamybarker.bsky.social · 25/01/2026
I'm mostly on Threads but have some pics
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Jessamy Barker (they/she/he) @jessamybarker.bsky.social · 18/12/2025
Today!
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Dark Star Radio @darkstarradio.bsky.social · 18/12/2025
Tunein to @xianiquelefaerye.secondlife.bio 10PM-12AM Chicago Time darkstarradio.com
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Jessamy Barker (they/she/he) @jessamybarker.bsky.social · 13/12/2025
Just the bum
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Jessamy Barker (they/she/he) @jessamybarker.bsky.social · 13/12/2025
A few recent looks
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Jessamy Barker (they/she/he) @jessamybarker.bsky.social · 24/11/2025
Walrus
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Jessamy Barker (they/she/he) @jessamybarker.bsky.social · 24/11/2025
Me today
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Jessamy Barker (they/she/he) @jessamybarker.bsky.social · 17/11/2025
If you see this please hit repost! We are so so close to target
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Jessamy Barker (they/she/he) @jessamybarker.bsky.social · 17/11/2025
Over 80% funded folks!
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Jessamy Barker (they/she/he) @jessamybarker.bsky.social · 17/11/2025
Over 80% funded folks!
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Jessamy Barker (they/she/he) @jessamybarker.bsky.social · 17/11/2025
We'll tear your soul apart
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Jessamy Barker (they/she/he) @jessamybarker.bsky.social · 16/11/2025
Chain dress for my SECOND OUTFIT OF THE DAY! This is the energy we like to see! (Still bed bound more than not but tomorrow I'm taking my wheelchair to the goth club for a wee bit)
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Jessamy Barker (they/she/he) @jessamybarker.bsky.social · 16/11/2025
Ribbit 🐸
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Jessamy Barker (they/she/he) @jessamybarker.bsky.social · 16/11/2025
Thank you thank you thank you @meactnet.bsky.social 💖💖💖
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Jessamy Barker (they/she/he) @jessamybarker.bsky.social · 15/11/2025
Please help my friend @talmandaniel.bsky.social help his friend Rich who needs life-saving help with his highly unusual combination of medical conditions. www.gofundme.com/f/Help-Me-Ge... This is OVER SEVENTY PERCENT FUNDED! Your dollar could really save a life here
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Jessamy Barker (they/she/he) @jessamybarker.bsky.social · 15/11/2025
Thank you @belasco.bsky.social for doing this, I see you and I appreciate you
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Jessamy Barker (they/she/he) @jessamybarker.bsky.social · 12/11/2025
If you're anywhere at all in the online drag, goth and costuming internet then you know @yourdandy.bsky.social Please chip in whatever you can via venmo @phil-powell-1 to help him make rent for December. He's made us happy time and again with his art - let's make him happy with a roof over his head
iamadandy.com
I Am a Dandy
All about my revolutionary fashion art from the past to change the future
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Jessamy Barker (they/she/he) @jessamybarker.bsky.social · 12/11/2025
My friends please click through and repost this, thank you!
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Jessamy Barker (they/she/he) @jessamybarker.bsky.social · 12/11/2025
If you're anywhere at all in the online drag, goth and costuming internet then you know @yourdandy.bsky.social Please chip in whatever you can via venmo @phil-powell-1 to help him make rent for December. He's made us happy time and again with his art - let's make him happy with a roof over his head
iamadandy.com
I Am a Dandy
All about my revolutionary fashion art from the past to change the future
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Jessamy Barker (they/she/he) @jessamybarker.bsky.social · 01/11/2025
Indeed. I'm sure it's bollocks (and racist bollocks at that), but also I would rather my tax dollars paid directly for fifty people to get their nails done than let one person FUCKING STARVE
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Jessamy Barker (they/she/he) @jessamybarker.bsky.social · 01/11/2025
CW spiders and webs!
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RSPB @rspb.bsky.social · 31/10/2025
Birds but they get spookier each time. 🎃👻 Enter if you dare...🚪
A black background decorated with gold illustrations of branches, stars, swords, ravens, and tiny ghost shapes. In the centre, bold text reads: “BIRDS BUT THEY GET SPOOKIER EACH TIME.” Two ravens perch on bare branches at the bottom, with candles glowing beside them.
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Jessamy Barker (they/she/he) @jessamybarker.bsky.social · 29/10/2025
@darkodysseyevents.bsky.social Surrender in four photos (gas mask and medical staples in skin)
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Jasmin @jasmin-galvan.bsky.social · 21/08/2025
Spent the start of my week learning all about spectral bats, huge, carnivorous creatures who are shockingly sweet. Read (and watch!) what 3 months of monitoring a family of four showed us about the home lives of the tropical bats: www.science.org/content/arti... @science.org
science.org
Massive tropical bat is surprisingly family oriented, rare videos show
New footage reveals spectral bats “hugging,” playing, and bringing food to their young
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Jessamy Barker (they/she/he) @jessamybarker.bsky.social · 22/10/2025
Second set I am obviously not feeling well
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Jessamy Barker (they/she/he) @jessamybarker.bsky.social · 22/10/2025
First set is me looking well
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Jessamy Barker (they/she/he) @jessamybarker.bsky.social · 20/10/2025
Smutty pics
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Jessamy Barker (they/she/he) @jessamybarker.bsky.social · 19/10/2025
Have drastically scaled down my @darkodysseyevents.bsky.social dressing up due to ill health. Hoping to still get to my event but otherwise we're going kaftans, big boots in the wheelchair, no makeup. Paul my external brain to make packing list, Emi & I can pull together Tues/Wed. San Jose or bust!
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Jessamy Barker (they/she/he) @jessamybarker.bsky.social · 18/10/2025
Signal boost from elseweb "We desperately need AMICUS BRIEFS from LGBTQ+ legal orgs (PAID) to support our case. Please spread far and wide or reach out if you can help" www.gofundme.com/f/help-us-ho... www.sgn.org/story/157914
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Donate to Help Us Honor Indigo’s Final Wishes and Fight Unfair Laws, organized by Mia Larotonda
Indigo Greene was a trans woman, a witch, a vegan, a lover of … Mia Larotonda needs your support for Help Us Honor Indigo’s Final Wishes and Fight Unfair Laws
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Jessamy Barker (they/she/he) @jessamybarker.bsky.social · 17/10/2025
Outfit of the day
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Jessamy Barker (they/she/he) @jessamybarker.bsky.social · 15/10/2025
Second, smut!
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Jessamy Barker (they/she/he) @jessamybarker.bsky.social · 15/10/2025
I have two forms of content tonight. Rats, and smut. First, rats!
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Jessamy Barker (they/she/he) @jessamybarker.bsky.social · 13/10/2025
Me: Hello Thor have you come to see me? Thor: *ignores* Me: Have you come to walk over me on your way to eat plastic? Thor: *eats plastic*
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Caroline M. Yoachim @carolinemyoachim.bsky.social · 09/10/2025
Photos from today's walk at the Seattle Japanese Garden (thread). I was quite taken with these red leaves, dangling by a bit of spiderweb in a way that made them look like they were falling. #photography #PNW #autumn #FallColors #nature #red #31DaysOfHalloween #SeattleJapaneseGarden
Closeup of half a dozen red maple leaves, suspended mid-air by (near-invisible) spider web threads in a vertical line such that it looks almost like a composite image of a leaf tumbling down from the tree, twirling as it falls. Dark greenery blurry in the background.
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Jessamy Barker (they/she/he) @jessamybarker.bsky.social · 10/10/2025
More gas mask pics
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Jessamy Barker (they/she/he) @jessamybarker.bsky.social · 09/10/2025
High saturation photos of my world
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Jessamy Barker (they/she/he) @jessamybarker.bsky.social · 08/10/2025
Outfit of the day is pretty sexy honestly
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Jessamy Barker (they/she/he) @jessamybarker.bsky.social · 07/10/2025
Lots of legs and some booty
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Jessamy Barker (they/she/he) @jessamybarker.bsky.social · 06/10/2025
Thor!!
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Jessamy Barker (they/she/he) @jessamybarker.bsky.social · 06/10/2025
Thor!
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Jessamy Barker (they/she/he) @jessamybarker.bsky.social · 06/10/2025
My fatigue scale is measured in how blasphemously I swear. Today we're at Jesus fuck me Christ so that is pretty bad fatigue
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Jessamy Barker (they/she/he) @jessamybarker.bsky.social · 05/10/2025
So excited about the photos @sidewalkkilla.bsky.social took of me at Folsom Street Fair last week
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Jessamy Barker (they/she/he) @jessamybarker.bsky.social · 05/10/2025
Today is a lot. Emotional support toad bag Velvet is tagged in.
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Jessamy Barker (they/she/he) @jessamybarker.bsky.social · 02/10/2025
Things I love when I'm in my wheelchair - acknowledging me. Eye contact, little wave, head nod. Massively appreciated - asking consent before leaning across me - questions about my needs - not walking in front of me - not always pos to avoid in crowded places - eye contact let's me know you see me
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Jessamy Barker (they/she/he) @jessamybarker.bsky.social · 01/10/2025
Deliberately leaning into the queer trans military look to help with *gestures at everything*
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Jessamy Barker (they/she/he) @jessamybarker.bsky.social · 30/09/2025
Dedicated to the ones I love
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