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Zoe Llewellyn (Moxie Monoxide) @invisigirl.bsky.social · 05/02/2025

My baby starts high school tomorrow. I'm really anxious because high school was such a horrible experience for me, but I definitely won't be telling them that. They'll be ok. Things are different now. And they have support. #audhd

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Zoe Llewellyn (Moxie Monoxide) @invisigirl.bsky.social · 03/02/2025

Self care is kicking my partner out of the house and watching Wrestlemania in my underwear.

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Zoe Llewellyn (Moxie Monoxide) @invisigirl.bsky.social · 21/01/2025

What's the point in putting in the work to be mentally healthy when the world is turning to shit around you?

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Zoe Llewellyn (Moxie Monoxide) @invisigirl.bsky.social · 21/01/2025

Cruel irony no. 436 - when your love language is acts of service but you're also easily overwhelmed and struggle with demand avoidance.

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Zoe Llewellyn (Moxie Monoxide) @invisigirl.bsky.social · 20/01/2025

I am so sick of being constantly overwhelmed by the pace at which life moves.

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Zoe Llewellyn (Moxie Monoxide) @invisigirl.bsky.social · 17/01/2025

You know that you're a middle-aged #autistic when you have to start wearing an elbow brace to bed due to chronic inflammation in the joint from sleeping on your own t-rex arms 🦖😂

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Kelly @broadwaybabyto.bsky.social · 12/01/2025

Before you judged someone for being disabled, unhoused or struggling …remember that most people are one accident, medical emergency or stroke of bad luck away from same fate. Judge the capitalistic system that treats us as cogs. Judge those who value economic contribution above everything else.

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Zoe Llewellyn (Moxie Monoxide) @invisigirl.bsky.social · 13/01/2025

Self diagnosis is always valid. Official diagnosis is a luxury that not everyone can access, to my eternal frustration. #neurodivergent #audhd #actuallyautistic

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Zoe Llewellyn (Moxie Monoxide) @invisigirl.bsky.social · 13/01/2025

No, I don't want to 'earn a living'. I didn't ask to be born into this capitalist hellscape. Tried to opt out a couple of times and apparently that's the wrong answer too. 'Life is precious'. Only so long as you can attach a dollar figure to it, fuckers.

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Zoe Llewellyn (Moxie Monoxide) @invisigirl.bsky.social · 13/01/2025

Really disappointed to find out that this is apparently standard across the world 😞

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Zoe Llewellyn (Moxie Monoxide) @invisigirl.bsky.social · 13/01/2025

My sister called me crying because she hasn't been able to find a pharmacy who can supply her antidepressants in 8 days. WTaF Australia? Feels like a war on mentally ill people at this point.

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Zoe Llewellyn (Moxie Monoxide) @invisigirl.bsky.social · 13/01/2025

Undisclosed roller derby league: Our culture is perfect and if you have a problem with it then YOU are the problem and you should leave. Me: K, bye. Undisclosed roller derby league:

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Zoe Llewellyn (Moxie Monoxide) @invisigirl.bsky.social · 11/01/2025

So this is happening in my home state. 200 doesn't sound like a lot, but considering it's already almost impossible to get an appointment, it is a lot. People will die because of this. #mentalhealth #mentalillness

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Zoe Llewellyn (Moxie Monoxide) @invisigirl.bsky.social · 11/01/2025

Where my #rollerderby people at?? I hope you're coming to the #jrdaworldcup in July... It's going to be epic!!

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Zoe Llewellyn (Moxie Monoxide) @invisigirl.bsky.social · 11/01/2025

This leaves people entirely reliant on their spouse. Too bad if the relationship gets toxic and you need to leave. Should have thought of that before being disabled.

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Zoe Llewellyn (Moxie Monoxide) @invisigirl.bsky.social · 11/01/2025

Did you know that people receiving a #disability pension in Australia do not have marriage equality? We cannot get married without risking decrease to our payments, which are already at, if not below the poverty line. If your partner works you can lose it altogether.

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Zoe Llewellyn (Moxie Monoxide) @invisigirl.bsky.social · 10/01/2025

When I was a kid I used to have to walk to school with an ice-cream tub on my head with eyes drawn on in spring so I didn't get attacked. You're not Aussie til you've been terrorised by a magpie!

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aslynn is just a ghoul 👻 @aslynnromano.com · 09/01/2025

I mean I'm not giving anyone medical advice on the internet and CERTAINLY not regarding Cannabis, but I am gonna leave this here: "The use of cannabis for ASD is well tolerated, safe & appears to be effective in relieving symptoms (especially seizures, depression, restlessness and bouts of anger)."

pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov

Cannabis and cannabinoid use in autism spectrum disorder: a systematic review

Autism spectrum disorder (ASD) is a neurodevelopmental disorder characterized by persistent deficits in social communication and social interaction, associated with the presence of restricted and repe...

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Zoe Llewellyn (Moxie Monoxide) @invisigirl.bsky.social · 09/01/2025

How do you manage tolerance? I'm currently on a self-imposed break because I found myself smoking more for less result. I'm not having a good time, everything feels SO INTENSE.

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aslynn is just a ghoul 👻 @aslynnromano.com · 06/01/2025

And that, in fact, there are OTHER zebras! Some of which who have great ideas on dealing with this frustratingly horse-driven world. We are not some lone failure when we get together we ✨dazzle✨

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Zoe Llewellyn (Moxie Monoxide) @invisigirl.bsky.social · 06/01/2025

It is incredibly valuable to find out that you are in fact a zebra, not just really bad at being a horse.

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Zoe Llewellyn (Moxie Monoxide) @invisigirl.bsky.social · 06/01/2025

The stigma around #ADHD #medication still exists. I have spoken to many parents of ADHD kids who hesitate to try meds because they are scared to be seen 'taking the easy option'. No. If your child had diabetes would you deny them insulin because maybe their pancreas just needs to work a bit harder?

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Frieda grosgean @bernaharbor.bsky.social · 12/11/2024

Hoping to be able to recreate here the productive and enriching beehive of souls that taught me so much on Twt As an intro, here the link to one of my most popular talk (23K) re adult autism. Looking forward reading and learning from you all :) bernadette www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZQVw...

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And if it was Autism? Adult Autism without Intellectual Disability: Key Facts. B.Grosjean. MD.

YouTube video by bernadette grosjean

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Zoe Llewellyn (Moxie Monoxide) @invisigirl.bsky.social · 01/01/2025

I am spending the first day of 2025 crying in bed between panic attacks because this is what it has cost me to make it through the holiday season #audhd #burnout

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Kelly @broadwaybabyto.bsky.social · 24/12/2024

I wish disabled people weren’t viewed as invisible. I wish people respected & listened to us. Perhaps if they did - more folks would be masking and demanding clean air. More people would be proactively protecting their health because they would realize they won’t be the exception.

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Zoe Llewellyn (Moxie Monoxide) @invisigirl.bsky.social · 23/12/2024

I'm very much in favour of out and proud but I know that doesn't work for everyone and not should it have to. Totally up to you my friend!

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Thinking Person's Guide to Autism @thinkingautism.com · 22/12/2024

Today in HELL YES, RESEARCH! Motor coordination is an ACTIVE process for many autistics, even those who can excel physically. Eating, walking, or just sitting can require concentration, and if that concentration gets broken, they can have accidents. journals.plos.org/plosone/arti...

Square Canva graphic. The background is a photo of a silhouetted person leaping among mountainous terrain under a clouded blue sky.

Black text at the top reads, "Today in HELL YES, RESEARCH!"

Next, white text reads, "Motor coordination is an ACTIVE process for many autistics, even those who can excel physically. Eating, walking, or just sitting can require concentration, and if that concentration gets broken, they can have accidents."

Small white text at the bottom reads, "@ThinkingAutism
tinyurl.com/AutisticMotorSkills"

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Zoe Llewellyn (Moxie Monoxide) @invisigirl.bsky.social · 23/12/2024

If you feel resentment for me as a seemingly able-bodied person for not "having" to work full time, I suggest you sit with that and examine your true understanding of #disability, #productivity and #selfworth.

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Zoe Llewellyn (Moxie Monoxide) @invisigirl.bsky.social · 23/12/2024

Accepting that you have a #disability and cannot work full time also comes with some more hard truths. I will never own a home. I will likely never repay my #hecs. My #superannuation will not support me when I am elderly. I simply cannot attain the same milestones as my peers due to my disability.

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Zoe Llewellyn (Moxie Monoxide) @invisigirl.bsky.social · 22/12/2024

When I tell people that I cannot work full time, they often look at me like I have two heads. Full time work is the base level of participation in society for most, particularly when you appear to be 'able-bodied'. #actuallyautistic #audhd #disability

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Zoe Llewellyn (Moxie Monoxide) @invisigirl.bsky.social · 21/12/2024

I have the odd privilege of working for the NDIS while also being a participant. The system is horrendously stacked in favour of service providers. It's so convoluted and complex that many who need it cannot even begin to access it. Vulnerable people are being failed every single day. What a joke.

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Zoe Llewellyn (Moxie Monoxide) @invisigirl.bsky.social · 21/12/2024

I hate December so much. The increased social expectation. The lack of structure and routine. Can't wait for it to be over! #actuallyautistic #audhd #merrychristmas

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Zoe Llewellyn (Moxie Monoxide) @invisigirl.bsky.social · 21/12/2024

Hello friends. I have decided to start a blog. Tell me your opinions re: #ghost vs #wordpress.

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Zoe Llewellyn (Moxie Monoxide) @invisigirl.bsky.social · 21/12/2024

Somewhere in an alternate universe, I like to think that I exist as a cat who lives in a book store 📚🐈‍⬛

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Thinking Person's Guide to Autism @thinkingautism.com · 15/12/2024

Because holidays, we're resharing our list of often non-obvious things that can cause distress for an autistic person. We hope that by highlighting such stuff you can help the autistic people in your life (or yourself) thrive during this challenging time. thinkingautismguide.com/2022/01/auti...

Square graphic with a black-and-white background photo of a crowd watching a 1962 nuclear bomb test in Nevada.

A semi-transparent red rectangle is superimposed on the photo. It contains text reading, "Too many autistic people learn—often quite early in life—that they have no choice other than to submit to discomforts, and also people in their lives may not even register or believe that their distress is real.

"This means autistic people may seem excited about things that are less uncomfortable/painful to them, which is not the same as enjoying or even neutrally tolerating those things."

"@ThinkingAutism"

"tinyUrl.com/AutismDoomChecklist"

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