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Kim Borrowdale: The Question That Rewrote Her Story After Suicide Loss
The question that rewrote my story
⚠️ Content advisory: this episode discusses suicide & self-harm prevention and grief & loss, which some listeners may find distressing.
If you need support, you're not alone. Help is available:
• Lifeline (24/7 crisis support): 13 11 14 · lifeline.org.au
• GriefLine: 1300 845 745 · griefline.org.au
Kim grew up in a small Northern New South Wales beach town, curious and creative in a sports-obsessed community. After leaving for Brisbane, then a decade in London exploring different cultures and working in communications, she returned to Australia following a breakup. Her aunt's death by suicide while she was away shifted everything. It reframed her career from corporate communications to suicide prevention work at Suicide Prevention Australia, then into coaching individuals and organisations to share lived experience stories safely. A therapy session years later asked her a question that cut to the heart of her whole life's work: was she helping others be heard because she herself had never been heard? Now she trains people in storytelling, celebrant work, and public speaking, believing that vulnerability and preparation are what move audiences.
Kim Borrowdale is a storytelling coach, celebrant, and communications strategist who spent a decade in London before returning to Australia to work in suicide prevention. After losing her aunt to suicide, she shifted her career focus to helping others tell their stories safely and powerfully, founding training programs that combine trauma-informed communication with narrative craft.
In this Kintsugi Heroes conversation with John Milham, Kim shares the story behind the moments below.
🎙️ IN THIS CONVERSATION:
• Suicide grief is categorically different from other loss because it leaves unanswered questions and triggers relentless self-blame about what could have been done.
🕒 CHAPTERS:
00:00 The question that changed everything
02:40 Small town childhood, running barefoot
06:18 The creative kid in a sports family
08:59 Why she left for Brisbane and London
14:11 Finding meaning in corporate communications
17:13 The breakup, Egypt, and coming home
19:01 Her aunt's suicide and the turn inward
23:08 Working in suicide prevention and safe storytelling
30:05 From freelancer to story coach
35:10 The counselor's mirror
42:48 Why storytelling matters and how it moves people
46:13 The next chapter and what she wants to share
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📌 RESOURCES MENTIONED:
Lifeline Australia: https://www.lifeline.org.au
Borodale Communications: https://www.borodalecommunications.com
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