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Toni Tomkins 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️

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“What I lack in talent, I make up for with arrogance” Outreach Coordinator- BRR LGBTQ+ Community Coalition CPR and Stop the Bleed Instructor Veteran 🇺🇸, Mechanic, Parent and Spouse They/Them tomkinsforutah.com

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Toni Tomkins 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ @howcanihelp.bsky.social · 15/04/2026
The Mormons have been warning about hot drinks for more than a century. It’s in their scripture.
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Box Elder Democrats @boxelderdems.bsky.social · 11/11/2025
On November 11, we take time to honor Veterans. We recognize the diversity of veterans and the struggles that many of them have. May we work for a better world that avoids conflict at all cost and helps all struggling veterans.
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Toni Tomkins 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ @howcanihelp.bsky.social · 14/10/2025
Had a great time with @katie4perry.bsky.social at the 2025 Equality Utah Allies Gala. She is a wonderful supporter of the LGBTQ+ community and because of this, I am personally endorsing her in her run for Perry Utah City Council. Thank you Katie! #equalityutah #utpol
Katie Reed in a blue sequin dress standing next to Toni Tomkins in a purple sequin dress, while they are surrounded by a balloon arch containing different blue hued balloons and balloons shaped as dolphins.
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Toni Tomkins 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ @howcanihelp.bsky.social · 01/10/2025
The VA is openly blaming the government shutdown on the Democrats. These systems need to stay out of partisan politics to best serve the fine people who have served this country.
As you may be aware, funding for some government agencies, including portions of the Department of Veterans Affairs, expired at midnight this morning.

President Trump opposes a lapse in appropriations, and on September 19, the House of Representatives passed, with the Trump Administration’s support, a clean continuing resolution to fund the government through November 21. Unfortunately, Democrats are blocking this Continuing Resolution in the U.S. Senate due to unrelated policy demands.

During the current lapse in funding, the vast majority of VA benefits and services will continue uninterrupted, but the government shutdown is not without consequences to VA. Here is what you need to know:
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Toni Tomkins 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ @howcanihelp.bsky.social · 01/10/2025
The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints has filed a brief with the Supreme Court that suggests that trans rights will interfere with religious freedom. My right to exist does not infringe on your right to worship as you please.
supremecourt.gov
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Toni Tomkins 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ @howcanihelp.bsky.social · 29/09/2025
My heart is with my friends and family in the Latter-day Saint community. Many people admired President Nelson and his contributions to the faith and may his passing be a reminder for the good things he stood for. I am also heartbroken at the horrific attack in Michigan. Be safe, love your neighbor.
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Toni Tomkins 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ @howcanihelp.bsky.social · 29/09/2025
Individual Democrats are more likely to be trans friendly in general, but in a state like Utah are afraid to be out about their politics. If we advocate for more trans friendly community leaders, who are usually Democrat, we can improve trans people’s lives at the local level.
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Box Elder Democrats @boxelderdems.bsky.social · 20/09/2025
Hanging out at Brigham City‘s first Pride in the Park at Horsley Park. Come check us out until 6pm tonight!
Toni, Katie and Candice standing behind a table with a Box Elder Democrats banner. There is a pride flag in the background.
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Toni Tomkins 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ @howcanihelp.bsky.social · 18/09/2025
Celebrated Constitution Day with the Constitution Party of Box Elder County. This is part of my initiative to build bridges in Northern Utah between those who would normally be opposed. We walked away as friends and are planning to work together on the things we agree on.
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Toni Tomkins 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ @howcanihelp.bsky.social · 15/09/2025
There appear to be some other great people starting their own runs and I will post about them when they are off the ground a little.
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Toni Tomkins 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ @howcanihelp.bsky.social · 11/09/2025
It’s crazy to think it has been 24 years. Terrorism and violence should have no place in our world and may we work everyday to influence it towards peace. #neverforget
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Toni Tomkins 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ @howcanihelp.bsky.social · 10/09/2025
It’s stupid that this is even a way I have to think, but I am scared for when my spouse travels without me. Could she be targeted? Would they arrest her and take away the kids? If the government can target people simply by skin color and languages spoke, we are screwed as a society.
Conservative Justice Brett Kavanaugh wrote in Monday's decision that the lower court's restraining order went too far in restricting how Immigration and Customs Enforcement (ICE) agents could carry out stops or questioning of suspected unlawful migrants.
"To be clear, apparent ethnicity alone cannot furnish reasonable suspicion," he wrote.
"However, it can be a 'relevant factor' when considered along with other salient factors."
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Toni Tomkins 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ @howcanihelp.bsky.social · 10/09/2025
I am ending my campaign for Congress in Utah’s 1st Congressional District today. I am thankful for the support that I have been given, but given my commitments to the Box Elder Democratic Party and the LGBTQ+ community in Northern Utah, I need to step back to focus on these efforts. Thank you.
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Toni Tomkins 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ @howcanihelp.bsky.social · 09/09/2025
I would definitely not suggest to anyone to go to the DHS website and register for the job fair event in Provo taking away positions from other people and just not show up. That would be bad, we don’t do bad things. #utah #ice
dhs.gov
Expo | Homeland Security
The Department of Homeland Security Career Expo – Law Enforcement, is being held September 15-16, 2025, at the Utah Valley Convention Center in Provo, Utah.
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Toni Tomkins 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ @howcanihelp.bsky.social · 09/09/2025
Good perspective on the practice of motorcycles lane filtering.
youtu.be
If Motorcycle Lane Filtering Bothers You, Watch This
YouTube video by FortNine
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Box Elder Democrats @boxelderdems.bsky.social · 06/09/2025
Having fun at the Peach Days Parade!
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Box Elder Democrats @boxelderdems.bsky.social · 07/09/2025
Box Elder Democrats leading the charge at Peach Days Parade! Special thanks to @weberdemocrats.bsky.social @briansking19.bsky.social @merrill4utah.bsky.social @cachedemocrats.bsky.social @webcoprogressives.bsky.social and all of our lovely locals. Thank you!!
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Toni Tomkins 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ @howcanihelp.bsky.social · 03/09/2025
Super excited to be part of this Parade on Saturday! Definitely check this out. #utdem
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Toni Tomkins 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ @howcanihelp.bsky.social · 01/09/2025
This is a big reason why I am running for public office now. Be the change you want to be in the world, or some nonsense like that.
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Toni Tomkins 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ @howcanihelp.bsky.social · 01/09/2025
That makes sense. No matter who the candidate is for any elected position, I will lobby, fight, protest until they have a positive position on trans rights, even if I have to run against them to make that fact known.
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Toni Tomkins 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ @howcanihelp.bsky.social · 01/09/2025
Sorry if my comment came off in a way that suggested that you personally don’t support trans rights. Most Democrats and many others support trans rights and show love to our community. This is the reason it is so easy for a candidate to support trans rights and still get the votes they need.
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∞ Monkeys @somanymonkeys.bsky.social · 01/09/2025
Newsom was unlikely to get my primary vote long before his podcast debacle. I don't think he's actually going to make it as the nominee because at the end of the day, he's the sort of triangulator most of the base is sick of. That said, I will grant him the opportunity to do better on trans rights.
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Toni Tomkins 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ @howcanihelp.bsky.social · 01/09/2025
The bar for winning over trans people is very low. Basically saying we won’t take away your rights, or your children’s rights, to healthcare and the right to legally exist as your authentic self. Almost no resources need to be spent on winning our vote, but we still get blamed for the loss.
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Toni Tomkins 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ @howcanihelp.bsky.social · 01/09/2025
As problematic as the LDS church may be for many, it is a shame that several feel that they have to choose one or the other when it comes to living authentically. I am one of those who felt they had to choose the other, but I do find value in my good experiences from my time in the faith.
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Toni Tomkins 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ @howcanihelp.bsky.social · 30/08/2025
I know of a couple up here in Northern Utah. I have heard of some controversy involving one of the ones in salt lake and the local indivisible chapter, but I don’t know very many details.
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Cache County Democrats @cachedemocrats.bsky.social · 29/08/2025
Cache Democrats will be participating in the Peach Days parade on Saturday September 6th with our friends Box Elder County Democrats. If you would like to participate please reach out to us for more details.
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Toni Tomkins 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ @howcanihelp.bsky.social · 27/08/2025
They don’t have any safety net or the money to afford council outside of a JAG attorney. They will not have a case to say their orders are invalid if they are picking up trash. They should just pick up the trash and not ruin their lives. Let us fight for them instead.
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Toni Tomkins 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ @howcanihelp.bsky.social · 27/08/2025
This is really easy to say, but they are taken from their jobs and families to go on these orders. They are usually on the lower end of the working class in their civilian careers (like fast food and stuff) and don’t have the privilege to push back without totally destroying their lives.
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Toni Tomkins 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ @howcanihelp.bsky.social · 24/08/2025
I may not be religious, but the story of Jesus leaving the 99 sheep to save the one is kind of powerful. That story suggests that taking care of 100% of the flock is an absolute. I will gladly give up the 99% if the other 1% is treating people like equal human beings.
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Toni Tomkins 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ @howcanihelp.bsky.social · 24/08/2025
Please join us!! It will be a great event and will give much needed exposure for the Democratic Party in our rural areas.
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Toni Tomkins 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ @howcanihelp.bsky.social · 24/08/2025
By the time they got around to figuring out my lack of competence, the 29 days would be up (if they deploy for more than 29 days they have to give the troops more benefits and because they are cheap jerks, they probably don’t want to do that.)
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Toni Tomkins 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ @howcanihelp.bsky.social · 24/08/2025
I wish I was in the National Guard (I retired from the Reserve), then I could volunteer in a leading logistics role and just let all my lower enlisted (with help from the specialist mafia) screw off on their phones all day and get nothing done.
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Toni Tomkins 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ @howcanihelp.bsky.social · 24/08/2025
I’m trans and a democrat and use half or more of those terms on that list with lots of people and have not found it to be particularly problematic. With some people unfamiliar to these common terms, I will use similar language that they understand, but isn’t demeaning to these groups.
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Toni Tomkins 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ @howcanihelp.bsky.social · 24/08/2025
I went with my child and we sang with everybody in the theater on every song in the movie. Wonderful time.
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Toni Tomkins 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ @howcanihelp.bsky.social · 24/08/2025
It is fairly depressing that people are considering things like this instead of just having good policy and working to actually represent the people of the country. If we have to appease the “supreme leader” to get freedom, we have already lost.
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Toni Tomkins 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ @howcanihelp.bsky.social · 23/08/2025
Super excited to watch KPOP Demon Hunters in the theater tomorrow with my oldest. Yay! We are always singing all the songs together. #kpopdemonhunters
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Toni Tomkins 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ @howcanihelp.bsky.social · 23/08/2025
It doesn’t really change anything for my congressional race, because the suggested maps all keep me in district 1, I think, but I hope it changes and we get a contestable seat in the heart of Utah. That would be really awesome.
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Toni Tomkins 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ @howcanihelp.bsky.social · 22/08/2025
Really interested in what way this goes.
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Toni Tomkins 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ @howcanihelp.bsky.social · 15/08/2025
Exactly! The feds are coming for the gun owners!
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Toni Tomkins 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ @howcanihelp.bsky.social · 15/08/2025
We have had suburbans in the past, for hauling around family or such, but the front ends are so much taller on everything manufactured after 2006. I hate driving any truck that is newer and I’m retired from the army reserve and drove around in military vehicles all the time.
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Toni Tomkins 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ @howcanihelp.bsky.social · 15/08/2025
I have driven an uparmored humvee sliding sideways through an intersection once in Twin Falls, ID. It was fairly icy out though.
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Toni Tomkins 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ @howcanihelp.bsky.social · 15/08/2025
Another gross part about it is that part of the reason that they make them bigger is to skirt the CAFE standards for vehicles. Since it is classified as a light truck, because it is so huge, it isn’t required to meet strict fuel economy regulations.
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Toni Tomkins 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ @howcanihelp.bsky.social · 15/08/2025
If they only would have given him the honor before 2015. He wouldn’t have needed to come down that escalator.
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Toni Tomkins 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ @howcanihelp.bsky.social · 15/08/2025
Conservatives need to be on their guard right now. The federal government is coming for your guns.
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Toni Tomkins 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ @howcanihelp.bsky.social · 15/08/2025
It is ironic, because the republicans I know would usually say that a pistol wouldn’t need to be licensed because of 2A, but I guess that doesn’t apply for people of color.
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Toni Tomkins 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ @howcanihelp.bsky.social · 14/08/2025
The state party seems to be taking this initiative seriously and the county parties may start getting a different kind of support that benefits the whole state. The priority is to work local and then build the party up from there.
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Toni Tomkins 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ @howcanihelp.bsky.social · 14/08/2025
I hope we can maintain this county based mentality here in Utah. There is a lot of opportunity as we build the county parties and have them work together in their respective regions.
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Toni Tomkins 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ @howcanihelp.bsky.social · 13/08/2025
Just voted in the municipal primary election in Brigham City.
Tomkins wearing a blue shirt with a red I Voted sticker on the left side of their chest. They have purple hair and they are wearing aviator style safety glasses.
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Toni Tomkins 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ @howcanihelp.bsky.social · 12/08/2025
Congratulations!
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Toni Tomkins 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ @howcanihelp.bsky.social · 11/08/2025
Yeah, I looked at that conversation and it reminded me of what I see on threads.
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