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hj @ 🔕 @hj-skb.bsky.social · 24/06/2026

pinning this post in the shape of an empty husk like a hatched chrysalis for future archeologists to find

hj @ 🔕 @hj-skb.bsky.social · 24/06/2026

obligatory “posting to prove I’m not dead” lol jokes aside i am for real on an indefinite leave recovering from an irl personal situation that did big numbers on my health, but ironically have been baselining way better now like how one must be fully deconstructed in order to be upgraded ✌️

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Dr. Glenn Patrick Doyle @drdoylesays.bsky.social · 06/03/2026

You didn't "fail" to make an unworkable situation work. It was not on you to make the unworkable work. You should not have been put in the position of believing that it was your job to make the unworkable work. You don't deserve to be punished for the unworkable not working.

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Dr. Glenn Patrick Doyle @drdoylesays.bsky.social · 01/03/2026

There is not a thing in the world wrong w/ being unapologetically selective about who you let not just into your physical space, but your emotional & intellectual space as well. If they don't support the life & world you're trying to create, you don't have the bandwidth for them.

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Dr. Glenn Patrick Doyle @drdoylesays.bsky.social · 26/02/2026

Everybody grieves. But not everybody gives themselves permission to grieve. Especially if what they need to grieve isn't a person they're "supposed" to be sad about losing. But not all grief is that straightforward, is it? IYKYK.

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Dr. Glenn Patrick Doyle @drdoylesays.bsky.social · 05/03/2026

Wanting to quit is normal in trauma & addiction recovery. Recovery is a pain in the ass. It asks us to be present w/ sh*t that we have been conditioned to believe we cannot handle. Of course we're going to want to quit. And but also: we don't have to quit.

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Dr. Glenn Patrick Doyle @drdoylesays.bsky.social · 02/03/2026

The idea of us that exists in others' heads may be better or worse than our own opinion of us-- but what it's NOT, ever, is 100% accurate. We may be able to influence others' ideas about us, but we can't "control" what they think or believe about us. Remember & shift your focus.

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Esino @esino.bsky.social · 05/03/2026

At long last, new #Royaul! archiveofourown.org/works/80656191

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Dr. Glenn Patrick Doyle @drdoylesays.bsky.social · 05/03/2026

That thing you're feeling, that you don't feel safe telling anyone about-- it doesn't make yo "bad." Nothing you can feel makes you "bad." Human beings have feelings, some wholly "irrational"-- none of which we asked for or "control." We cannot be defined by what we don't choose.

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John Breen @breen.tech · 04/03/2026

So if Bluesky bans accounts for blocking their mod account, and their mod account can be added to mod lists, what’s stopping someone from getting a whole bunch of people banned without them even realizing they were blocking the mod account

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Dr. Glenn Patrick Doyle @drdoylesays.bsky.social · 05/03/2026

You don't owe anyone an apology for the fact that you're a work in progress. The reality is, any change worth making in your life is going to involve stretches where you're working on it, but not quite there yet. No shame. Just keep working on it, w/ realism & self compassion.

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Dr. Glenn Patrick Doyle @drdoylesays.bsky.social · 05/03/2026

You are not "ungrateful" for having complicated or negative feelings about someone who has helped you along the way. You get to feel what you feel about the people in your world--full stop. You don't "owe" anybody positive feelings if the vibe is just off for you. It's okay.

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TheShunbun @theshunbun.bsky.social · 23/02/2026

Ghostie 🤍

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Dr. Glenn Patrick Doyle @drdoylesays.bsky.social · 03/03/2026

We don't struggle w/ self love because we're "unlovable." We struggle w/ it because we had precious few examples of what "loving" us looks like. Where do you think we learn how to love & value ourselves (or anybody)? We had no models for it. We're learning self-love on the fly.

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Dr. Glenn Patrick Doyle @drdoylesays.bsky.social · 04/03/2026

Some of the most competent, "grown up" people you meet every day are actually psychological kids terrified they'll be shamed, rejected, or abandoned-- but the've gotten awesome at masking, so you'd never know. Maybe don't compare your insides to anyone else's outside.

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🔞Gilded Pleasure🔞 @gildedpleasure.bsky.social · 04/03/2026

My illustration for Ch 1 of Firsts & Seconds by @skerbbie.bsky.social !! archiveofourown.org/works/26625826 Farm Sans finds something unexpected in the fields one late autumn evening... #UTMV #Horrortale #Farmtale #UndertaleAU

Sticks (farm sans) looks down at Axe (horrortale sans) lying motionless and crumpled on the ground. Sticks looks dismayed. It is early evening. there is a wheelbarrow full of cleared dead peanut plants on a slight rise in the background.

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Basil 🌱 @basil-mage.bsky.social · 04/03/2026

Self progress

Drawing of a puppy laying on a leaf with the caption; "Don't measure your progress by someone else's rules"

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Dr. Glenn Patrick Doyle @drdoylesays.bsky.social · 04/03/2026

Part of what happens w/ CPTSD is, we get convinced the voices of bullies & abusers we "hear" in our head are somehow more real than the voices of therapists, mentors, & other "good guys" we can also "hear"-- but the truth is, w/ practice we can CHOOSE who to "listen" to inside.

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Dr. Glenn Patrick Doyle @drdoylesays.bsky.social · 04/03/2026

CPTSD is telling you a story right now about how you can't POSSIBLY handle what's on your plate. It's bullsh*t. Let CPTSD say what it's gonna say-- you focus on just the next teeny, tiny chunk of what you're doing. Breathe, blink blink blink, & focus on what's in front of you.

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AO3 Status @status.archiveofourown.org · 03/03/2026

[update] Monitoring: We have made some adjustments based on recommendations from our database vendor and will continue to monitor their impact on system stability.

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AO3 Experiencing Issues

We have made some adjustments based on recommendations from our database vendor and will continue to monitor their impact on system stability.

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Dr. Glenn Patrick Doyle @drdoylesays.bsky.social · 03/03/2026

A history that includes complicated & painful attachments can f*ck w/ our head about what "love" is & isn't-- & get us chasing people & situations that have nothing to do w/ love to fill an attachment-shaped hole in our heart.

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Dr. Glenn Patrick Doyle @drdoylesays.bsky.social · 03/03/2026

Working our trauma recovery very often means losing any ability or inclination to perform someone else's idea of "fine"-- that is, we lose our capacity to bullsh*t to make other people more comfortable. And that's a beautiful, if frequently messy, thing.

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emet-selch's forcefem aoe @ 7.56 SPOILERS!! @specterxiv.bsky.social · 02/03/2026

good posts from the other site again

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LAVI LAVU @puppylavi.bsky.social · 03/03/2026

Reminiscentia.

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Christopher J Stevens @metaphysiology.bsky.social · 22/02/2026

"If I was to use ChatGPT for my designs rather than our designer Sean, that's taking money out of the local area into the hands of a multibillionaire ... removing value from the local community and local artists [and] into the hands of some of the richest people in the world." #AIslop #refuseresist

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Newcastle pubs ban AI art from breweries to protect local creatives

As two pubs in Newcastle ban AI art, artists discuss the impact it can have on creatives.

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VIX - ⛩️🩸 @vixwytch.bsky.social · 02/03/2026

And for those of us that fall into both fetish and horror? Good luck! 🖤 🫦

top person labeled "Fetish Content Creator" holding a paper that says "Horror Content" and saying "That's kinda hot, gives me an idea"

buttom person labeled "Horror Content Creator" holding a paper that says "Fetish Content" and saying "That's kinda horrifying. That gives me an idea"

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AO3 Status @status.archiveofourown.org · 03/03/2026

[update] Investigating: AO3 is now fully down. After performing a software upgrade a few days ago, we've been unable to keep our server cluster healthy due to what we believe is a bug or issue with the new release of our database server software. We're working with our ve...

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AO3 Experiencing Issues

AO3 is now fully down. After performing a software upgrade a few days ago, we've been unable to keep our server cluster healthy due to what we believe is a bug or issue with the new release of our database server software. We're working with our ve...

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Nicole Filippone, Autistic Advocate & Author @nicolefilippone.bsky.social · 27/08/2025

Again, we're talking about two autistic people here. This isn't about forcing or unfairly demanding the other autistic person to suppress their needs. It's about figuring out how we can both be okay in a shared space.

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Nicole Filippone, Autistic Advocate & Author @nicolefilippone.bsky.social · 27/08/2025

Autistic masking is way more complicated and nuanced than I think most autistic people realize. For example, I haven't seen anyone talk about the fact that, as autistic people, we often need other autistic people to mask for us so our autistic needs are met.

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AO3 Status @status.archiveofourown.org · 02/03/2026

[update] Investigating: We are investigating reports of errors when trying to load AO3, including errors saying that AO3 is down, which seem to be related to the previous incident. We will update when we have more information!

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AO3 Experiencing Issues

We are investigating reports of errors when trying to load AO3, including errors saying that AO3 is down, which seem to be related to the previous incident. We will update when we have more information!

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