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AABF's Further Fuzzy Fuckery @fuzzyfuckery.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

Did a gym thing today for the first time in weeks, yay me - very sure I'm going to hurt tomorrow... Also had a coworker walk in right after this was taken and I'm not sure if the thirst-trapping was obvious or not 😛

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AABF's Further Fuzzy Fuckery @fuzzyfuckery.bsky.social · 27/09/2026

Didn't sleep enough cuz apparently I'm a restless insomniac now... Still dragged my ass out to bike to a social event with my work team and then bike home up our big hill. Batteries, both social and physical, are drained 😮‍💨

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AABF's Further Fuzzy Fuckery @fuzzyfuckery.bsky.social · 24/09/2026

I have a gay nerd group that I enjoy people wise, but I don't actually have fun when we play mtg. I feel like the shitty attitude friend every time because I don't think it's compelling to spend 3 hours playing 2 games that ended on turn 2 and it shows... 😢

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AABF's Further Fuzzy Fuckery @fuzzyfuckery.bsky.social · 21/09/2026

Quicky after work run on a brisk Minneapolis evening - lightning 28 hour visit entirely full of meetings 😮‍💨

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AABF's Further Fuzzy Fuckery @fuzzyfuckery.bsky.social · 16/09/2026

Midweek moistness courtesy of 63% humidity (actually pretty pleasant out but sticky when running)

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AABF's Further Fuzzy Fuckery @fuzzyfuckery.bsky.social · 07/09/2026

Did a lil waterfall trek this morning before some coffee treats and errands with this cute boy 🥰 Tbh exactly what I needed.

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AABF's Further Fuzzy Fuckery @fuzzyfuckery.bsky.social · 04/09/2026

Mentally hardest run of the summer 😩 but at least we have flowers and sunshine

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AABF's Further Fuzzy Fuckery @fuzzyfuckery.bsky.social · 26/08/2026

Convinced my coworkers that mustaches and Hawaiian shirts is the right vibe for our big project launch today. I guess we're dad-maxing for a living now 🤷🏼

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AABF's Further Fuzzy Fuckery @fuzzyfuckery.bsky.social · 26/08/2026

Convinced my coworkers that mustaches and Hawaiian shirts is the right vibe for our big project launch today. I guess we're dad-maxing for a living now 🤷🏼

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AABF's Further Fuzzy Fuckery @fuzzyfuckery.bsky.social · 19/08/2026

Post run photo from earlier - the humidity has been pretty nuts this month

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AABF's Further Fuzzy Fuckery @fuzzyfuckery.bsky.social · 12/08/2026

Was getting shaggy so time for a little change of look 🥸

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AABF's Further Fuzzy Fuckery @fuzzyfuckery.bsky.social · 12/08/2026

Made it to the gym after weeks of working too much to go, yay! (Weird erasure edits to remove coworkers names from lockers)

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AABF's Further Fuzzy Fuckery @fuzzyfuckery.bsky.social · 04/08/2026

It's a beautiful summer evening, but humid as all get out

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AABF's Further Fuzzy Fuckery @fuzzyfuckery.bsky.social · 02/08/2026

I think there's too much context to share for full details, but I think I actually did the thing tonight where I manage a conflict by just expressing my hurt and sadness directly and honestly to the person. Doesn't change that I feel sad about the thing, but it felt powerful to just own my feelings

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AABF's Further Fuzzy Fuckery @fuzzyfuckery.bsky.social · 20/07/2026

Hottubs and hikes at a little cabin weekend with some of my softball boys

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AABF's Further Fuzzy Fuckery @fuzzyfuckery.bsky.social · 10/07/2026

Pretty sure I'm dealing with dopamine deficiency across a variety of symptom areas, gonna assume that social media spaces are at least part of the problem and retreat a bit. Installed an app screentime limiter to constrain them so I'll be minimal but not totally absent ✌🏼

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AABF's Further Fuzzy Fuckery @fuzzyfuckery.bsky.social · 04/07/2026

Fancy frosés after lotsa walkies in the heat

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AABF's Further Fuzzy Fuckery @fuzzyfuckery.bsky.social · 02/07/2026

Off to Toronto for AJ's birthday and the long weekend, accepting recommendations if folks have favorite spots!

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AABF's Further Fuzzy Fuckery @fuzzyfuckery.bsky.social · 19/06/2026

Been experimenting with being a more disciplined human this week and waking up early to take walks around the neighborhood before work. It's been a very pleasant start to the day and warm enough for lil shorts - mod to shirtless thirst trap cuz I don't have to be on calls all morning for a change

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AABF's Further Fuzzy Fuckery @fuzzyfuckery.bsky.social · 15/06/2026

Yearly drag/costume softball game fundraiser was yesterday, I think I did alright with AJ's help - and yes I played in heels (probably not the wisest choice, tbh)

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AABF's Further Fuzzy Fuckery @fuzzyfuckery.bsky.social · 12/06/2026

Help I'm signed up to be a mentor at work and probably just gonna acknowledge I'm a communist charlatan who's very good at fake-it-til-you-make-it 🤷🏼

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AABF's Further Fuzzy Fuckery @fuzzyfuckery.bsky.social · 09/06/2026

It's cool off in front of the fan kinda weather 🥵

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AABF's Further Fuzzy Fuckery @fuzzyfuckery.bsky.social · 08/06/2026

Painted lady enjoying one of our coneflowers this morning

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AABF's Further Fuzzy Fuckery @fuzzyfuckery.bsky.social · 06/06/2026

Biked to Pride to table for softball, got rained out, but still a pleasant ride

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AABF's Further Fuzzy Fuckery @fuzzyfuckery.bsky.social · 02/06/2026

Conferencing this week in Vegas, trying not to just hole up and sleep because I'm getting over a cold 😩

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AABF's Further Fuzzy Fuckery @fuzzyfuckery.bsky.social · 23/05/2026

POV you're my laundry pile in some good lighting and I'm in a biochemically-enforced good mood from running 6 miles this afternoon

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AABF's Further Fuzzy Fuckery @fuzzyfuckery.bsky.social · 20/05/2026

Last one at the polling place and I literally ran 10 blocks from a work dinner to get there in time, but I voted n'at

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AABF's Further Fuzzy Fuckery @fuzzyfuckery.bsky.social · 16/05/2026

We planted a tree today 🌳😊 "The best time to plant a tree was twenty years ago, the second best time is now."

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AABF's Further Fuzzy Fuckery @fuzzyfuckery.bsky.social · 14/05/2026

A bit shaggy and frankly pretty overwhelmed trying to keep up with everything this spring, but still here 🙃

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AABF's Further Fuzzy Fuckery @fuzzyfuckery.bsky.social · 17/04/2026

Gym on a Friday cuz it's the first day I've had unscheduled blocks that weren't scrambling to deal with something else. ...but I got approval for the team reorg I was proposing this week so I should get to promote some solid engineers into lead roles to help some of my scheduling chaos. 💪🏼

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AABF's Further Fuzzy Fuckery @fuzzyfuckery.bsky.social · 12/04/2026

Columbus opening day! Softball season is officially begun - not my best play, but not awful, either. Sunshine like we never expect in April ☀️🥎🌈

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AABF's Further Fuzzy Fuckery @fuzzyfuckery.bsky.social · 11/04/2026

After a very nice start to the day (delicious porch breakfast and lovely sunshine), it's been taxes and softball league drama. I feel distinctly less good now, even though objectively neither of these things was that bad or onerous as irritating responsibilities go. /sigh/

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AABF's Further Fuzzy Fuckery @fuzzyfuckery.bsky.social · 11/04/2026

This was a very delightful breakfast to wake up to 🤤 and AJ always makes remarkably aesthetically pleasing salads

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AABF's Further Fuzzy Fuckery @fuzzyfuckery.bsky.social · 10/04/2026

Finishing the week with some gym time after having a low energy, feeling-my-age (aware it's not that old, but nonetheless seems the apt description) sort of week. Still not feeling optimal, but at least feel more satisfyingly like I'm powering through it.

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AABF's Further Fuzzy Fuckery @fuzzyfuckery.bsky.social · 05/04/2026

I feel like I should clarify for the sake of not appropriating another subculture that I am in no way a pup, nor really in dire need of "good boy" style feedback, there was just a weird amount of that theme today in my walk and I thought it was cute/fun That said, attempted affirmations appreciated

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AABF's Further Fuzzy Fuckery @fuzzyfuckery.bsky.social · 04/04/2026

My simulation is feeling pointed right now, serving up themed content 😛

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AABF's Further Fuzzy Fuckery @fuzzyfuckery.bsky.social · 02/04/2026

Off to Dallas for a few days for softball and I feel so disorganized heading into it - situation normal, I guess. @foxxybenedict.bsky.social & @eggwards.bsky.social I'll be in briefly if y'all are around. With the rain I don't actually know how much time will be at the fields vs on the town

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AABF's Further Fuzzy Fuckery @fuzzyfuckery.bsky.social · 30/03/2026

Just cleared 100 miles for the year, and my 8th week in a row of at least some gym time. I feel like for the end of March I'm in pretty good shape, but I'm also just so worn out all the time. Standing desk/walking desk at work might be more than I can handle when also trying to be active otherwise

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AABF's Further Fuzzy Fuckery @fuzzyfuckery.bsky.social · 20/03/2026

Had the weird experience last night of revisiting my blog from 2006-2011 😂 It was intermittent but informed by my stresses of that time - college pressure, post-graduation social reinvention, unemployment in the 2009-2011 economic crisis era, coming out in college, and making a home in a new city

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AABF's Further Fuzzy Fuckery @fuzzyfuckery.bsky.social · 19/03/2026

Doing the gym thing today, it strikes me that I kinda always workout solo in a nearly-always empty gym. I don't lift with specific targets or push for heavy weight, I just do it because I feel better when I exercise and stretch a bit...

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AABF's Further Fuzzy Fuckery @fuzzyfuckery.bsky.social · 13/03/2026

Gym day yesterday, so we splurged with a little thirst trap for the locker room fans

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AABF's Further Fuzzy Fuckery @fuzzyfuckery.bsky.social · 08/03/2026

Too nice out + too much anxiety = a 6.5 mile Sunday run... I have a feeling I'm going to be an endorphin slug the rest of the night.

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AABF's Further Fuzzy Fuckery @fuzzyfuckery.bsky.social · 04/03/2026

Anyone else feel like they live their life in ongoing terror of the Peter Principle? With every success and ask that I step up to something bigger, I just kinda wonder when I reach the level of my incompetence.

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AABF's Further Fuzzy Fuckery @fuzzyfuckery.bsky.social · 04/03/2026

It's very hard to make this ttrpg fun for people that are not rules-lawyering min-maxers 😛 which means I'm one of the few having a good time in combat and everyone else has to make up for it in RP

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AABF's Further Fuzzy Fuckery @fuzzyfuckery.bsky.social · 04/03/2026

A nice little moonlit meander before all this rain 😁 glad AJ's been documenting some things lately cuz I haven't been good about it

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AABF's Further Fuzzy Fuckery @fuzzyfuckery.bsky.social · 26/02/2026

Sunny and warm enough that runs have been joyful the last 2 days - I'm never 100% confident that I properly understand and affirm my positive emotions, but I'm feeling very grateful to be generally healthy, loved, and successful in spite of my doubts, so I guess that's something.

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AABF's Further Fuzzy Fuckery @fuzzyfuckery.bsky.social · 22/02/2026

Little outing yesterday to our local single-screen theater to watch the oscar nominated short films in documentary and live action categories. I missed this tradition 😁 with @bigsip.bsky.social

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AABF's Further Fuzzy Fuckery @fuzzyfuckery.bsky.social · 21/02/2026

Sunshine squinties in February? Very acceptable ahead of tomorrow's snow 😛 4.5 felt good today, too, which is nice after the weather enforced lull in January

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