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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC

@ffireboy.bsky.social
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Depth, anatomy & pacing • The FlareForward Method • Bookings only • No casual play/DM advice • Free FF guide ↓ ffireboy.com 🔞

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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
Application: ffireboy.com/application
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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
October availability is open. 👊 If you’ve been thinking about getting into in-person training in NYC or virtual coaching, I have availability this month. Personalized training for individuals and couples. Interested? Submit an application through my website.👇
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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
Full 40-minute recording available here: the-flareforward-method-shop.fourthwall.com/products/dep...
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Depth is Psychological: Exploring the Mind Behind FF
What happens psychologically when we explore depth? Depth is Psychological examines the mental and emotional dimensions of FF and deep exploration, going beyond anatomy to explore how we perceive, int...
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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
This is one of the most common questions I get. 👊 This clip is from the Q&A portion of Depth is Psychological.
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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
When your partner isn't into fisting. What does that actually mean for a relationship? I wrote about sexual compatibility, changing desires, couples who experience FF differently, and why your partner doesn't necessarily need to share every part of your sexuality. New blog 👇
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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
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When Your Partner Isn’t Into Fisting
During my Depth is Psychological webinar, someone anonymously asked me a question about being a receptive partner with someone who has a particularly large hand. Their concern was that their partner w...
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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
When your partner isn't into fisting. What does that actually mean for a relationship? I wrote about sexual compatibility, changing desires, couples who experience FF differently, and why your partner doesn't necessarily need to share every part of your sexuality. New blog 👇
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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 26/09/2026
By special request… I’m now offering sounding for those looking to include it alongside FF training. If you’re interested, submit an application through my website and mention sounding in your description. Curiosity is welcome, but commitment is required. 👊
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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 26/09/2026
By special request… I’m now offering sounding for those looking to include it alongside FF training. If you’re interested, submit an application through my website and mention sounding in your description. Curiosity is welcome, but commitment is required. 👊
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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 22/09/2026
Fisting is physical, but the experience doesn’t happen in the body alone.
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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 22/09/2026
Fisting is physical, but the experience doesn’t happen in the body alone.
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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 21/09/2026
For those looking for more consistency, I also offer training packages for ongoing support and progression. 👊
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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 21/09/2026
Psychological safety matters in fisting. 👊 ✨
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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 21/09/2026
For those looking for more consistency, I also offer training packages for ongoing support and progression. 👊
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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 20/09/2026
If you’re curious, intentional, and ready to put in the work, applications are open. Link in bio.
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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 20/09/2026
Ready to take your FF practice more seriously? 👊 I offer in-person training and virtual coaching for individuals and couples, with personalized guidance around anatomy, body awareness, communication, pacing, and skill development. 📍 NYC 💻 Worldwide
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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 20/09/2026
Interoception is our ability to sense what’s happening inside the body. In this clip from Depth is Psychological, I explore why that awareness matters when we’re having an FF experience. 👊✨
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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 19/09/2026
Fisting is about being attuned to your partner. 👊✨
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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 18/09/2026
If you were curious about the conversation but couldn't make it live, you can now watch it at your own pace. Now available for purchase: the-flareforward-method-shop.fourthwall.com/products/dep...
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Depth is Psychological: Exploring the Mind Behind FF
What happens psychologically when we explore depth? Depth is Psychological examines the mental and emotional dimensions of FF and deep exploration, going beyond anatomy to explore how we perceive, int...
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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 18/09/2026
If you missed the live Depth is Psychological webinar, the 40-minute recording is now available. 👊✨ We explored some of the psychological pieces that can shape our experiences with fisting, including body awareness, attunement, trust, vulnerability, and cultural conditioning.
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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 18/09/2026
Thank you to everyone who joined me for Depth is Psychological last night. 👊💙
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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 17/09/2026
Tonight 👊🌊 Depth is Psychological: Exploring the Mind Behind Fisting happens at 7 PM ET on Zoom. We’re getting into the psychological side of fisting: interoception, anticipation, self-monitoring, attunement, trust, vulnerability, and psychological safety.
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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 17/09/2026
You might have experienced some of these things before without ever having the language for them. Free live webinar and no psychology background required. If you’ve been meaning to sign up, this is your last call. ✨ REGISTER HERE: www.flareforwardmethod.com/depth-is-psy...
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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 17/09/2026
Tonight 👊🌊 Depth is Psychological: Exploring the Mind Behind Fisting happens at 7 PM ET on Zoom. We’re getting into the psychological side of fisting: interoception, anticipation, self-monitoring, attunement, trust, vulnerability, and psychological safety.
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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 15/09/2026
Ready to dive in deep with me? 🌊🧠👊 Depth is Psychological is happening in 2 days. Sign up for my free webinar here: www.flareforwardmethod.com/depth-is-psy...
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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 09/09/2026
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When Fisting Becomes Part of Your Identity
I've been thinking a lot about what happens when a sexual practice becomes more than something you do.For some people, FF is simply a form of sexual exploration. For others, it can become a significan...
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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 09/09/2026
What happens when fisting becomes part of your identity? A recent research study raises some fascinating questions about how we understand ourselves as fisters. I unpack the study and explore some of the uncomfortable questions it raises about FF culture. 👊✨
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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 08/09/2026
So today, I’m letting myself actually celebrate. Three years of building something that didn’t have a blueprint. Three years of figuring shit out. Three years of clients, lessons, mistakes, uncertainty, growth, and a whole lot of fisting. 👊 I’m really proud of what I’ve built.
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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 08/09/2026
But honestly, the biggest growth hasn’t been the business itself. It’s been my relationship with myself. Entrepreneurship has taught me patience, trust, self-awareness, and the uncomfortable part of accepting that I can’t control everything about where this journey takes me.
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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 08/09/2026
In the last year, I’ve continued developing my specialization around fisting, created The FlareForward Method, grown my email community to almost 900 people, and learned more about running a business than I ever expected to. And I’m still learning every day.
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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 08/09/2026
When I started this three years ago, I had no idea what the next few years would look like. Every year around this time, I have a moment where I’m genuinely surprised that I’m still doing this full-time. 😂 Somehow, I built something that kept growing and evolving.
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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 08/09/2026
Today marks three years since I officially launched my FF training business. As a solo entrepreneur (or "solopreneur", as we like to say lol), I think it's suuuuper important to celebrate your own milestones. So here's me celebrating mine. 👊🥳
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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 07/09/2026
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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 07/09/2026
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Webinar | The FlareForward Method
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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 07/09/2026
Fisting isn’t just physical. 👊 On September 17, I’ll be talking about the psychology of FF: trust, vulnerability, body awareness, safety, and self-trust. Depth is Psychological 7 PM ET · Live on Zoom · Free flareforwardmethod.com/webinar
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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 06/09/2026
Where the magic happens. 👊
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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 04/09/2026
So if you’ve been curious about training but haven’t been sure what it actually looks like… Hopefully this gives you a better idea. You don’t need to have everything figured out before you start. Curiosity is a perfectly good place to begin.
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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 04/09/2026
Ultimately, you leave with more than a technique. My goal isn’t simply to show you how to receive. It’s to help you better understand your body, your responses, and how to approach FF with more awareness and confidence.
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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 04/09/2026
And we communicate throughout. Questions, feedback, pauses, adjustments, and check-ins are all part of the training. You don’t have to wait until something feels wrong to speak up.
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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 04/09/2026
You learn what to notice. A big part of my work is helping you recognize and communicate what’s happening in your body. Not just “that feels good” or “that hurts,” but the information in between.
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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 04/09/2026
We slow things down. Training isn’t about rushing towards your FF goals. We pay attention to what’s happening as you explore: changes in pressure, tension, relaxation, breath, and overall sensation.
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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 04/09/2026
Then we figure out where you are. You don’t need to come in already knowing what you’re doing. We work from your actual experience, comfort level, and the things you want to understand better.
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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 04/09/2026
First, we talk. ✨ Before anything else, I want to understand what brought you to training. What are you curious about? What have you tried? What feels challenging? What would you like to explore?
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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 04/09/2026
So… what actually happens during a fisting training session? 🤔👊 If you’ve been curious about training with me but aren’t quite sure what to expect, let me walk you through it.
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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 02/09/2026
Session minimums: • Up to 25 miles: 2-hour minimum • 25–50 miles: 3-hour minimum Availability is limited to the next 10 days, and travel time/logistics will be considered when confirming sessions. Interested? Submit an application w/ your location via my website. ✨
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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 02/09/2026
🚗 Outcall training is leaving NYC. I'll have a car for the next 10 days, which means I'm opening up a limited number of outcall training sessions outside the city. If you've been wanting to work with me but NYC has been a little inconvenient, this might be your window. 👊
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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 01/09/2026
Curious to know… What’s your favorite FF position and why? 👊😉
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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 31/08/2026
Application: ffireboy.com/application
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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 31/08/2026
Happy Monday! 👊 If you’ve been thinking about developing your FF skills, improving communication, or simply approaching the practice with more intention, I’m currently accepting new clients for in-person training and virtual coaching. Application below 👇🏼
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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 28/08/2026
We talk a lot about the physical side of fisting. But there’s a whole psychological side that doesn’t get talked about nearly as much. I’m exploring that in my next free webinar, Depth is Psychological, on September 17. 7 PM ET · Live on Zoom Register: flareforwardmethod.com
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