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Danny Mercer: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 02/10/2026

This is one of the most common questions I get. 👊 This clip is from the Q&A portion of Depth is Psychological.

Danny Mercer: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 26/09/2026

By special request… I’m now offering sounding for those looking to include it alongside FF training. If you’re interested, submit an application through my website and mention sounding in your description. Curiosity is welcome, but commitment is required. 👊

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Danny Mercer: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 22/09/2026

Fisting is physical, but the experience doesn’t happen in the body alone.

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Danny Mercer: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 21/09/2026

Psychological safety matters in fisting. 👊 ✨

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Danny Mercer: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 20/09/2026

Interoception is our ability to sense what’s happening inside the body. In this clip from Depth is Psychological, I explore why that awareness matters when we’re having an FF experience. 👊✨

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Danny Mercer: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 19/09/2026

Fisting is about being attuned to your partner. 👊✨

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Danny Mercer: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 18/09/2026

If you missed the live Depth is Psychological webinar, the 40-minute recording is now available. 👊✨ We explored some of the psychological pieces that can shape our experiences with fisting, including body awareness, attunement, trust, vulnerability, and cultural conditioning.

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Danny Mercer: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 15/09/2026

Ready to dive in deep with me? 🌊🧠👊 Depth is Psychological is happening in 2 days. Sign up for my free webinar here: www.flareforwardmethod.com/depth-is-psy...

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Danny Mercer: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 08/09/2026

Today marks three years since I officially launched my FF training business. As a solo entrepreneur (or "solopreneur", as we like to say lol), I think it's suuuuper important to celebrate your own milestones. So here's me celebrating mine. 👊🥳

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Danny Mercer: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 28/08/2026

We talk a lot about the physical side of fisting. But there’s a whole psychological side that doesn’t get talked about nearly as much. I’m exploring that in my next free webinar, Depth is Psychological, on September 17. 7 PM ET · Live on Zoom Register: flareforwardmethod.com

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Danny Mercer: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 16/07/2026

Harm reduction is often misunderstood. Some people hear the phrase and assume it means encouraging risky behavior. To me, it’s always meant something else… Read my full reflection through the link below 👇

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Danny Mercer: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 06/07/2026

If you're new here, welcome. 👊✨ I've gathered all the ways you can work with me and learn from me in one place. Whether you're looking for free guides or more in-depth training, everything I create is built with care. Feel free to explore. ↓

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Danny Mercer: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 07/06/2026

“How many mirror selfies can you take?” Me: yes. 🤳

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Danny Mercer: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 30/04/2026

The post-session crash is real. 😴 💤 👊

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Danny Mercer: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 18/04/2026

Daddy’s working a 3-hr session this morning. 👊😉

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Danny Mercer: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 13/04/2026

Thank you @hankeystoys.bsky.social I’m going to enjoy taking the Boss Hogg XXL for a ride. 😉

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Danny Mercer: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 06/04/2026

Not therapy… but I get why it feels like it. 😅

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Danny Mercer: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 30/03/2026

The second guide in my Depth Series is coming out next month! Intelligence of Depth is about understanding what happens in your mind as fisting becomes more of a practice. It touches on how curiosity can turn into pressure and how progress can turn into identity. More soon! 👊🏻🧠🤓

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Danny Mercer: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 28/03/2026

Time for Daddy to work. Morning sessions are a great way to start the day imo. 😉👊🏻

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Danny Mercer: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 25/03/2026

I sincerely view fisting as a practice. Every session shouldn’t feel like a test on how wide or deep you can go. The practice itself is about learning what your body is ready for and what you find pleasurable. Progress tends to unfold this way. 👊🏻✨

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Danny Mercer: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 23/03/2026

The fantasy gets the attention while the reality is what makes it work.

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Danny Mercer: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 20/03/2026

People think my job is the session. Meanwhile I’m over here: writing emails setting boundaries and building systems so the session can even happen I know… sexy 🤓 💻

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Danny Mercer: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 01/03/2026

WOD done. 🏋🏻‍♂️ Now I’ve got a favorite on the schedule. 😉👊🏻

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Danny Mercer: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 28/02/2026

Daddy’s getting ready for a long training sesh. 😏😉👊🏻

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Danny Mercer: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 27/02/2026

My virtual work is organized into 3, 6, and 12-session coaching containers focused on anatomy, regulation, and measurable capacity building. 💻🕳️

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Danny Mercer: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 27/02/2026

My in-person sessions are now structured into Development Tracks for clients who want consistency and real progression. 👊🏻

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Danny Mercer: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 25/02/2026

Daddy’s back from Brazil. I had an absolute BLAST. Adoro o Carnaval no Brasil. 🇧🇷

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Danny Mercer: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 21/02/2026

Stay in the jungle long enough and you remember who you are.

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Danny Mercer: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 21/02/2026

What prepping looks like when you’re headed to São Paulo’s infamous gay spa: Hotel Chili. 😈

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Danny Mercer: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 20/02/2026

Different kind of depth this week. Ocean. Sun. Gratitude. 💙

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Danny Mercer: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 18/02/2026

Had to re-record my entire webinar the morning of my trip because I forgot to press record during the live session 😅 So if you ever think creators have it all perfectly together… we do not lol. Recording coming soon. 👊🏻

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Danny Mercer: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 17/02/2026

Vacation means slower thoughts and fewer words. 💙

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Danny Mercer: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 16/02/2026

Feeling proud this week because I followed through on something I said I would do: hosting my own webinar. 👊🏻💙 Depth Is Anatomical reminded me that execution is a different muscle than inspiration. Now time for Daddy to enjoy Rio! ☀️🏝️ 🌊🇧🇷

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