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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

When your partner isn't into fisting. What does that actually mean for a relationship? I wrote about sexual compatibility, changing desires, couples who experience FF differently, and why your partner doesn't necessarily need to share every part of your sexuality. New blog 👇

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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 26/09/2026

By special request… I’m now offering sounding for those looking to include it alongside FF training. If you’re interested, submit an application through my website and mention sounding in your description. Curiosity is welcome, but commitment is required. 👊

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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 22/09/2026

Fisting is physical, but the experience doesn’t happen in the body alone.

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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 22/09/2026

Fisting is physical, but the experience doesn’t happen in the body alone.

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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 21/09/2026

For those looking for more consistency, I also offer training packages for ongoing support and progression. 👊

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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 21/09/2026

Psychological safety matters in fisting. 👊 ✨

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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 21/09/2026

For those looking for more consistency, I also offer training packages for ongoing support and progression. 👊

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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 20/09/2026

Ready to take your FF practice more seriously? 👊 I offer in-person training and virtual coaching for individuals and couples, with personalized guidance around anatomy, body awareness, communication, pacing, and skill development. 📍 NYC 💻 Worldwide

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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 20/09/2026

Interoception is our ability to sense what’s happening inside the body. In this clip from Depth is Psychological, I explore why that awareness matters when we’re having an FF experience. 👊✨

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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 19/09/2026

Fisting is about being attuned to your partner. 👊✨

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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 18/09/2026

If you missed the live Depth is Psychological webinar, the 40-minute recording is now available. 👊✨ We explored some of the psychological pieces that can shape our experiences with fisting, including body awareness, attunement, trust, vulnerability, and cultural conditioning.

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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 18/09/2026

Thank you to everyone who joined me for Depth is Psychological last night. 👊💙

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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 17/09/2026

Tonight 👊🌊 Depth is Psychological: Exploring the Mind Behind Fisting happens at 7 PM ET on Zoom. We’re getting into the psychological side of fisting: interoception, anticipation, self-monitoring, attunement, trust, vulnerability, and psychological safety.

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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 15/09/2026

Ready to dive in deep with me? 🌊🧠👊 Depth is Psychological is happening in 2 days. Sign up for my free webinar here: www.flareforwardmethod.com/depth-is-psy...

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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 09/09/2026

What happens when fisting becomes part of your identity? A recent research study raises some fascinating questions about how we understand ourselves as fisters. I unpack the study and explore some of the uncomfortable questions it raises about FF culture. 👊✨

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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 08/09/2026

Today marks three years since I officially launched my FF training business. As a solo entrepreneur (or "solopreneur", as we like to say lol), I think it's suuuuper important to celebrate your own milestones. So here's me celebrating mine. 👊🥳

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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 07/09/2026

Fisting isn’t just physical. 👊 On September 17, I’ll be talking about the psychology of FF: trust, vulnerability, body awareness, safety, and self-trust. Depth is Psychological 7 PM ET · Live on Zoom · Free flareforwardmethod.com/webinar

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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 04/09/2026

So… what actually happens during a fisting training session? 🤔👊 If you’ve been curious about training with me but aren’t quite sure what to expect, let me walk you through it.

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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 02/09/2026

🚗 Outcall training is leaving NYC. I'll have a car for the next 10 days, which means I'm opening up a limited number of outcall training sessions outside the city. If you've been wanting to work with me but NYC has been a little inconvenient, this might be your window. 👊

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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 01/09/2026

Curious to know… What’s your favorite FF position and why? 👊😉

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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 31/08/2026

Happy Monday! 👊 If you’ve been thinking about developing your FF skills, improving communication, or simply approaching the practice with more intention, I’m currently accepting new clients for in-person training and virtual coaching. Application below 👇🏼

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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 28/08/2026

We talk a lot about the physical side of fisting. But there’s a whole psychological side that doesn’t get talked about nearly as much. I’m exploring that in my next free webinar, Depth is Psychological, on September 17. 7 PM ET · Live on Zoom Register: flareforwardmethod.com

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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 21/08/2026

Quick heads up for anyone who submitted a training application yesterday: If you haven’t heard from me, there may have been an issue with the contact info you provided. Feel free to resubmit or reach out directly so I can get in touch. 👊

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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 19/08/2026

I accidentally walked into a fisting party in SF in 2016. I was VERY much not ready. 😂 But curiosity came later. I wrote about the journey from first exposure to participation in FF. New on the FlareForward blog + Substack. 👊✨

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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 17/08/2026

Finish the sentence: "People make FF harder than it needs to be by..." 👊✨

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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 13/08/2026

Ready to go deeper with FF? 👊 I offer in-person training in NYC and virtual coaching worldwide, for individuals and couples. We’ll work on body awareness, communication, pacing, and developing your skills with intention. 📍 NYC 💻 Worldwide Apply through the link in bio. 👊

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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 12/08/2026

I spent a couple of years making porn, and it taught me a lot about FF. It introduced me to a community I genuinely value. But it also showed me something I felt was missing... I wrote about what I learned, and why it ultimately led me to create The FlareForward Method. ✨👊↓

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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 05/08/2026

Porn can inspire curiosity. But when it comes to fisting (and sex in general), it shouldn't be your only teacher. 👊✨

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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 04/08/2026

If you could erase one FF myth from the community, what would it be? 🤔

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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 31/07/2026

August availability is now open. 👊✨ I’m back in NYC and accepting new clients for in-person and virtual coaching. Personalized guidance for individuals and couples, focused on body awareness, communication, and skill development. 📍 NYC 💻 Worldwide Application link in bio.

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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 01/08/2026

Curious to know… What's one opinion about fisting that might be unpopular? 🤔👊

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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 29/07/2026

Most conversations about fisting focus on anatomy, technique, and safety. Those things matter. But the experience is also shaped by psychology. Here are 5 psychological concepts that have changed how I think about teaching fisting. 🧵👊✨

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WsM-XX @wsm-xx.bsky.social · 28/07/2026

Another excellent little blog post from @ffireboy.bsky.social

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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 28/07/2026

Curious about FF but not sure where to start? 👊✨ I offer both virtual coaching and in-person training (NYC) focused on anatomy, body awareness, communication, and technique. Learn at your own pace. Link in bio.

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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 27/07/2026

“Am I clean enough?” It’s one of the most common questions FF bottoms ask themselves. Preparation matters. But sometimes the pursuit of being “clean” becomes something heavier: anxiety, shame, and the pressure to make the body behave perfectly. New blog 👊✨↓

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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 26/07/2026

I’ll be at Dore Alley tomorrow. Say hi if you see me! 💙👊✨🌁

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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 16/07/2026

Harm reduction is often misunderstood. Some people hear the phrase and assume it means encouraging risky behavior. To me, it’s always meant something else… Read my full reflection through the link below 👇

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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 15/07/2026

What if harm reduction isn't about eliminating risk... What if it's about helping people navigate it more thoughtfully? New blog post inspired by a recent study on FF and sexual health. ↓👊✨

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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 14/07/2026

Fisters: What's one quality that makes someone a great FF partner? 🤔

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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 13/07/2026

FF Beginner Mistake #5: Forgetting that both people shape the fisting experience. It's easy to focus on what you want to happen. Great experiences usually come from paying attention to each other, not just yourself. 👊✨

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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 11/07/2026

FF Beginner Mistake #4: Skipping the warm-up. The warm-up isn't just about preparing the body physically. It's also an opportunity to become familiar with how your body feels that day. 👊✨

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FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC @ffireboy.bsky.social · 10/07/2026

FF Beginner Mistake #3: Comparing yourself to others. Bodies differ in anatomy, flexibility, experience, and pacing. Your journey doesn't have to look like anyone else's to be meaningful. 👊✨

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