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I made a ton of reels and tiktoks from Renfaire because I was really excited about this look and I had been saving sounds for months but so far every single one has flopped and I have like 10 more to post lol social media is so fun and cool

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V @feelinggrimm.bsky.social · 22h

Last year vs this year's renfaire outfits. I usually do a spooky witch character so I really wanted to challenge myself with this all white ensemble for this year and I was literally so smug about how great it turned out, I looked AMAZING.

Two photos of the same plus sized woman side by side. On the left she is in a Renaissance themed Rarity from My Little Pony Cosplay- long white dress with off the shoulder cape sleeves and a thigh high slit on the right, white corset with white belt over on which hangs purple ribjon, a purple rabbit plushie pouch, a white waist bag with a cutie mark brooch with purple ribbons, and a cream colored beaded pouch. On her head is a French hood style hennin with a heart shape front that is white with pearl beading and has a white veil on the back. Her hair is long purple curls with pearls and beads decorating it. You can see several tattoos on her arms and legs and she is wearing black boots and standing in front of a forest area. On the right side she is wearing a Kuromi styled as a D&D Bone Cleric outfit. It is a purple underbust dress with embroidered ribs and gathered at the skirts, black pleather top with pink corset lacing, black off the shoulder puffy sleeves, black ripped tights and black boots. She has several ourple ribbons and skulls draped around her waist. Her hat is a double pointed hat with black and purple veil on the back and Kuromis skull on the top. She has pink hair and spooky black undereye makeup.

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V @feelinggrimm.bsky.social · 06/10/2026

Almost makes all the extreme bullshit I went through last year seem worth it to have done so much cool stuff this year.

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V @feelinggrimm.bsky.social · 06/10/2026

Someone told me that the year you get married is the worst year and the year after is really "your" year. When I think about what I've done so far this year- Japan, Vegas, Germany, not to mention freaking Oktoberfest, Puroland, Tokyo Disney, MCR again. It's really been the most unbelievable year.

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V @feelinggrimm.bsky.social · 05/10/2026

I had an incredible time being Rarity for renfaire this year! Our My Little Pony group was insanely popular, I've never been asked for so many photos. Of course I picked the muddiest year to wear all white!

A plus sized woman wearing all white with purple hair and a white Renaissance hennin. It is a cosplay of Rarity from My Little Pony done in a Renaissance style. She has a low cut long white dress with off the shoulder sleeve cape and a long slit on the right showing tattoos on her thigh. She has a white corset with a white belt on top and purple ribbons, a purple plushie pouch, a white waist bag with a purple brooch ribbon white Rarity's cutie mark of three blue crystals. Anothe rpouch is visible on the side. Her hat is while with a heart shaped front and has white fabric hanging down as well as a unicorn horn. Her hair is purple in curls with pearls and crystals decorating it. She has on black boots. She is standing in front of green trees evoking a forest setting.

A masculine figure in a D&D monk inspired cosplay of Rainbow Dash standing with the same Renaissance styled Rarity cosplayer. The Rainbow Dash outfit has a light blue long vest with open chest, rainbow large beaded necklace, a black thick waist belt, light blue pants, black ankle and wrist wraps and brown sandals. Their brown hair is in braids with rainbow colors woven through and light blue horse ears. They have glasses and a beard and are wearing a cross body brown messenger bag. They are posed with the Rarity cosplayer listed in the prior photo and she is standing with one hand up to her face and eyes closed smiling. They are a couple. They are standing in front of the green forest trees area.

The setting is the Museum of Unnatural History which has a facade of brown wood and a large section of hundreds of weathered skulls. Many form a fountain with a sign calling it the Cursing Well. The Renaissance Rarity cosplayer is standing in front with her arm raised and head thrown back in evil laughter, she is also holding a mug out in the other hand in a "cheers position.

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V @feelinggrimm.bsky.social · 05/10/2026

Feeling like the worst reply guy trying to get group photos from my friends from our Renfaire trip like Heyyy ladies can I get them pics Can I get them Can I get them pics????

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V @feelinggrimm.bsky.social · 04/10/2026

New personal best of potatoes consumed at the Renfaire: potatoes wedges x1, mashed potatoes x2, baked potato x1

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V @feelinggrimm.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

Living in hell (my company forced me to take mandatory AI training)

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V @feelinggrimm.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

To do list before Renfaire on Friday: Dye hair orange ✅️ Finish wig ✅️ Paint nails Unpack from Germany Repack for Renfaire Embroider/sew beads on waist pouch

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V @feelinggrimm.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

TBH very impressed with how much German I understood on this trip, even though my speaking skills are still pretty bad, I was able to follow most conversations between my mom and our relatives. Thanks Frau Brafford for 4 years of German skills and drills in high school!

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V @feelinggrimm.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

Hoping I beat the jetlag from coming back from Germany by being awake 25 hours in a row before I slept a full 9. I do not reccomend this method.

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V @feelinggrimm.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

I saw the sun rise this morning in Germany and I'm now watching it set in America. And I'm still an hour away from home.

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V @feelinggrimm.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

You did warn me but my sister didn't check the labels

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V @feelinggrimm.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

Me: Trying to be respectful in Germany and order my coffee in German The German barista: So you want coffee with milk?

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V @feelinggrimm.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

Asked my sister to grab a couple waters at the nearby grocery so we can hydrate before our very early flight in the morning and she got the two biggest waters I've ever seen. I just cracked one open and they are sparkling waters. What is the deal Germany???

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V @feelinggrimm.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

I was a bit self conscious in my dirndl on the first train we took because literally everyone was staring at me but when we got to Oktoberfest a few German women asked me where I bought it from because they liked it so much and that felt so validating. I'm a real German lol

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V @feelinggrimm.bsky.social · 27/09/2026

Between our Japan trip, our Vegas trip, and now this Germany trip I don't remember the last time I had a vacation where I wasn't exhausted and sleep deprived for a big chunk of it. Yeah I did so many cool things on each one but none of them was getting restful sleep.

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V @feelinggrimm.bsky.social · 26/09/2026

Not sure if the jet lag is working for or against me, I only got 5 hours of sleep and now it's midnight and I'm wide awake.

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V @feelinggrimm.bsky.social · 26/09/2026

Our Germany trip started off w/ a bang when my mom got hit in the face by a giant metal bottle on the plane & then we had an issue checking into the hotel she started worrying the trip was doomed. But our family reunion was today and everyone welcomed her so warmly it was worth it after all.

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V @feelinggrimm.bsky.social · 23/09/2026

If my family doesn't want me to pack my Halloween clothes on this trip because I'll be a neon orange American in a more conservative German city, then I'm at least packing all my bat print goth clothes so I can get some moody pics with the cathedrals.

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🦇Victoria🦇 @gothvic.bsky.social · 22/09/2026

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V @feelinggrimm.bsky.social · 22/09/2026

Going to Germany in 2 days and my mom wants to see a church, my sister wants to see a museum, and I'm just like are there any cool cemeteries I can visit???

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V @feelinggrimm.bsky.social · 21/09/2026

Packing for Germany: 0% done Renfaire crafting: 80% done Halloween decorations: 95% done

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V @feelinggrimm.bsky.social · 20/09/2026

After going to sleep at 3am I woke up at 7am and was completely unable to go back to sleep, felt like shit but managed to run some errands I really needed to get done and then follow through with my evening plans. Then decided to sew for renfaire for the last hour??? Why am I awake rn 😴

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V @feelinggrimm.bsky.social · 19/09/2026

Who else up overthinking at 3am cause someone left a comment on your tiktok about plus size brands to buy alt clothing from insinuating you aren't a real alternative girl because you have 50 pairs of tights

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V @feelinggrimm.bsky.social · 18/09/2026

I've been working on positive mindsets in therapy for years and you know what it does help a lot. I still have crazy anxiety but I'm generally happier and more resilient when I try to think positive.

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V @feelinggrimm.bsky.social · 18/09/2026

IDC if this is a hot take or not, I simply do not trust a plus size brand that uses flexible boning in their corset pieces, that shit is gonna be S curved the second I sit down, give me steel boned corsets or give me nothing at all!

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V @feelinggrimm.bsky.social · 18/09/2026

My husband told me not to stay up too late because I've been sleeping really bad and well I haven't gone to sleep before midnight a day this week why start now?

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V @feelinggrimm.bsky.social · 16/09/2026

Shout out past me for planning a chicken veggie soup for dinner the night I got my flu vax and C0VID booster so that right now when I'm feeling like shit with flu symptoms I can eat hot chicken soup for lunch.

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V @feelinggrimm.bsky.social · 16/09/2026

Love my cat sitting here screaming at me while I WFH like you have food, you have water, you don't like being held while I'm sitting, you have access to sit ON my desk. WHY ARE YOU YELLING

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V @feelinggrimm.bsky.social · 15/09/2026

I don't know what to pack for this Germany trip, usually this time of year I'm only wearing Halloween prints but I'm already going to attract a lot of attention with how I look and my sister told me to tone it down. Plus the weather will be like a 30 degree difference morning to night.

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V @feelinggrimm.bsky.social · 15/09/2026

Did three separate craft projects tonight- adding my unicorn horn to my renfaire hat, making horse ears for my husband's renfaire outfit, and made a wisteria flower crown to go with my purple dirndl for Oktoberfest. With enough gay audacity anything is possible 💕✨️💅

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V @feelinggrimm.bsky.social · 14/09/2026

The nightmares about my trip to Germany are in full swing, last night it was that our flights completely changed to have a 9 hour layover in Iceland and I forgot to pack my clothes. I'm already super anxious about packing too, love when my regular anxiety gets combined with travel anxiety.

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V @feelinggrimm.bsky.social · 13/09/2026

I've always felt weird claiming my Puerto Rican heritage because we were never really shared the culture growing up, my grandpa assimilated & never seemed proud of it, but just found out my cousin is fully repping only as PR using his mom's last name which is funny knowing exactly how he was raised

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V @feelinggrimm.bsky.social · 13/09/2026

Strayed from my usual drink (gin & tonic) and had 3 hard ciders while out dancing tonight and I'm never doing this again I'm so sorry I cheated on you gin and tonic you never made me feel nauseous like this 🫠

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V @feelinggrimm.bsky.social · 13/09/2026

I'm at kpop night and they're playing Stay With Me and people are line dancing to it. I love this.

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V @feelinggrimm.bsky.social · 12/09/2026

Chat how do you relax your jaw

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V @feelinggrimm.bsky.social · 11/09/2026

Might have been naive of me but I totally did not expect they had to take my photo for my TSA precheck appointment. I didn't even put on mascara today and had my hair up in buns but thank god I at least had on eyeliner and lipstick.

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V @feelinggrimm.bsky.social · 09/09/2026

You would love my ex's dad. Sometimes he would talk and talk and I just replied "haha yeah" cause I had no idea wtf he said. Also had some patients at work that sounded just like him.

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V @feelinggrimm.bsky.social · 09/09/2026

Also very anxious Halloween will be ruined for me now because it was the last day I saw my dying father.

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V @feelinggrimm.bsky.social · 09/09/2026

Trying to get excited for spooky season when you're already very stressed and exhausted, your husband still doesn't have a new job yet, and then you have the overhanging gloom of last year your dad died at the end.

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V @feelinggrimm.bsky.social · 08/09/2026

Bro idk wtf I was doing in my dreams last night, woke up with intense back pain in a place I've never had it before and my thighs feel like I did 1000 squats.

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V @feelinggrimm.bsky.social · 08/09/2026

Absolutely judging people making content about my preferred rennfaire and they aren't even bothering to dress up for it, they just want to hop on the trending theme. I spent 3 hours today making a hat for it, we are not the same.

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