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Tim Banks: VibeRel Advocate

@elchefe.me
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BJJ practitioner and teacher, empathetic technology advocate. Neurospicy, mentally ill, and unapologetic. Black/Latino, nonbinary (they/them) , pan/poly. spüße müße. Opinions are my own. EN/SP/PT

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Tim Banks: VibeRel Advocate @elchefe.me · 28/09/2026
me too 🥺
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Tim Banks: VibeRel Advocate @elchefe.me · 26/09/2026
That one time I world championships when I was floating
At the IBJJF World No-Gi Championships, a competitor in a black rash guard and shorts, with "Brazilian Top Team" printed across the back, drives over his opponent in a powerful, off-balance pass. His body forms a tight inverted arch, hips high and legs spread wide, one bare foot planted on the mat while the other kicks out behind him in mid-motion. His weight crashes down onto a competitor in a blue rash guard with a mohawk-style hairstyle, whose head is pinned beneath the chest of the man on top. The bottom competitor, wearing a green wristband, reaches out with one hand in a scramble to defend. Both are locked in a moment of raw pressure and split-second timing on the blue competition mat, framed by yellow safety barriers, an IBJJF banner with its lion logo, and a referee's dark-clad legs at the edge of the frame.
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Tim Banks: VibeRel Advocate @elchefe.me · 24/09/2026
Is there any help we can offer? ❤️
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Tim Banks: VibeRel Advocate @elchefe.me · 24/09/2026
🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂
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Tim Banks: VibeRel Advocate @elchefe.me · 21/09/2026
🥰🥰🥰
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Tim Banks: VibeRel Advocate @elchefe.me · 21/09/2026
I love you too bby ❤️❤️
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Tim Banks: VibeRel Advocate @elchefe.me · 21/09/2026
Thank you so much!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
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Tim Banks: VibeRel Advocate @elchefe.me · 21/09/2026
🥰 trying to keep up with you!
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Tim Banks: VibeRel Advocate @elchefe.me · 21/09/2026
I’m not too shabby either
A person with an impressively voluminous cloud of silvery-grey curls piled high on their head grins widely at the camera, sporting a magnificent matching beard. Warm brown eyes twinkle with amusement as they wear a black t-shirt with partially visible text. Behind them, white interior walls and a door suggest this cheerful moment was captured indoors.
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Tim Banks: VibeRel Advocate @elchefe.me · 21/09/2026
Not once. She is a fashion maven.
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Tim Banks: VibeRel Advocate @elchefe.me · 21/09/2026
Every now and then I have to pinch myself to make sure I’m not dreaming because my partners are absolute smoke shows, in addition to being so incredibly smart, talented, kind, and loving. I love these women more than I can ever adequately express. @abgushte.bsky.social @hazelweakly.me
A stunning person with ethereal presence takes a mirror selfie, crowned with a jaunty black bow perched atop elegantly styled dark hair. They're dressed in a bewitching black ensemble: a lace-adorned crop top paired with a pleated mini skirt featuring crisp white striping at the hem, all anchored by chunky black platform boots. Sheer fishnet stockings and an ornate black lace choker complete this enchanting gothic look. One hand lifts their phone to capture this moment of charming self-admiration in a cozy bedroom sanctuary.An absolutely radiant person glows in an ethereal silver sequined gown that cascades elegantly to the floor, with a daring high slit and long sleeves that shimmer with every movement. Their long chestnut hair falls gracefully past their shoulders, framing a face adorned with bold dark lipstick and sparkling jewelry. They lift their phone with a confident, luminous smile, captured in what appears to be a glamorous elevator or hallway—a moment of pure elegance and joy.
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Tim Banks: VibeRel Advocate @elchefe.me · 18/09/2026
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They Had Us In The First Half Not Gonna Lie
Alt: They Had Us In The First Half Not Gonna Lie
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Tim Banks: VibeRel Advocate @elchefe.me · 17/09/2026
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Car from a cliff - Part 2
Alt: Car from a cliff - Part 2
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Tim Banks: VibeRel Advocate @elchefe.me · 10/09/2026
For my birthday last week, i got engaged to @abgushte.bsky.social 🥰🥰🥰
A handwritten birthday card in flowing black ink on cream paper reads: “Happy Birthday, my love. You are the flame of my heart and the center of my universe. Let's get married,” followed by a small hand-drawn heart.A close-up of a hand resting on the open birthday card, its fingers curled to display a ring on the ring finger. The band is crafted from deep blue lapis lazuli inlaid in polished titanium, catching the light against the handwritten proposal text partially visible beneath.
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Tim Banks: VibeRel Advocate @elchefe.me · 10/09/2026
All is very well! I have a post to make!
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Tim Banks: VibeRel Advocate @elchefe.me · 10/09/2026
I would be content to do laundry if it meant that there was no more AI.
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Tim Banks: VibeRel Advocate @elchefe.me · 10/09/2026
Oh, you mean Yammer
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Tim Banks: VibeRel Advocate @elchefe.me · 10/09/2026
😭😭😭
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Tim Banks: VibeRel Advocate @elchefe.me · 10/09/2026
nah, AI ain’t taking me
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Resident Evil Chris Redfield Cocks Gun
ALT: Resident Evil Chris Redfield Cocks Gun
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Adriana Villela 🇨🇦 🇧🇷 @adrianamvillela.bsky.social · 08/09/2026
TIL learned the term "brolulu". Wanna know what it means? You'll have to watch @cassidoo.co, @elchefe.me, and Divyasha Pahuja on the latest episode of @geekingoutpod.bsky.social. Catch it on our YouTube channel or on your favourite podcasting app: 📺: buff.ly/IotDU8e 🎧: buff.ly/0RwXJck
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Geeking Out Podcast @geekingoutpod.bsky.social · 10/09/2026
We brought back @elchefe.me (GenX), @cassiodoo.co (Millennial), Divyasha Pahuja (GenZ) to talk about wrangling with AI at work from different generational prespectives. You can now catch it NOW on our YouTube channel or on your favourite podcasting app. 📺: buff.ly/IotDU8e 🎧: buff.ly/0RwXJck
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Tim Banks: VibeRel Advocate @elchefe.me · 30/08/2026
I did use Claude to help me format this idea out because I’ve never DM’d before. And it says 4, but we could possibly do 6.
Recruitment flyer for “The Last Course,” a D&D one-shot at Minerva’s Cauldron, a three-star restaurant at the crossing of realms. Tagline: The busiest night of the year. The most feared guest in the realms. Four hands, one kitchen. Event details: D&D 5th edition, character levels 3 to 5, 4 player seats, about 4 hours runtime, one-night session, set during the holiday “The Long Ember.” Description: tonight the realms tilt toward the dark, and Minerva’s Cauldron runs its hardest service of the year. Somewhere in the dining room sits The Fork, the most feared and permanently anonymous critic in the realms. Players are the kitchen brigade — pick a station, survive the rush, and cook something never made before. Four suggested stations shown with icons: Boucher (Barbarian, Paladin), Saucier (Wizard, Warlock), Pâtissier (Sorcerer, Monk), and Poissonnier (Ranger, Rogue, Bard), noted as a rough guide rather than a rule. Two stakes highlighted: the restaurant’s third star is in question, seen by some as resting on old reputation rather than current skill; and the kitchen’s ingredient portals aren’t guaranteed one-way, so something may come back through tonight. RSVP section with blanks for date and time, location, and contact, plus four empty circles representing the four open seats, captioned “Exactly four seats tonight. The brigade needs exactly four hands.”
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Tim Banks: VibeRel Advocate @elchefe.me · 30/08/2026
I did use Claude to help me format this idea out because I’ve never DM’d before. And it says 4, but we could possibly do 6.
Recruitment flyer for “The Last Course,” a D&D one-shot at Minerva’s Cauldron, a three-star restaurant at the crossing of realms. Tagline: The busiest night of the year. The most feared guest in the realms. Four hands, one kitchen. Event details: D&D 5th edition, character levels 3 to 5, 4 player seats, about 4 hours runtime, one-night session, set during the holiday “The Long Ember.” Description: tonight the realms tilt toward the dark, and Minerva’s Cauldron runs its hardest service of the year. Somewhere in the dining room sits The Fork, the most feared and permanently anonymous critic in the realms. Players are the kitchen brigade — pick a station, survive the rush, and cook something never made before. Four suggested stations shown with icons: Boucher (Barbarian, Paladin), Saucier (Wizard, Warlock), Pâtissier (Sorcerer, Monk), and Poissonnier (Ranger, Rogue, Bard), noted as a rough guide rather than a rule. Two stakes highlighted: the restaurant’s third star is in question, seen by some as resting on old reputation rather than current skill; and the kitchen’s ingredient portals aren’t guaranteed one-way, so something may come back through tonight. RSVP section with blanks for date and time, location, and contact, plus four empty circles representing the four open seats, captioned “Exactly four seats tonight. The brigade needs exactly four hands.”
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Tim Banks: VibeRel Advocate @elchefe.me · 30/08/2026
1. Does anyone still read these posts? 2. If so, are any of y’all into one-shots? 3. And if so, would you be interested in doing a one shot I thought up?
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Tim Banks: VibeRel Advocate @elchefe.me · 30/08/2026
Your haircut looks fantastic AND I have the same glasses 😊😊😊
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Tim Banks: VibeRel Advocate @elchefe.me · 28/08/2026
Finding out that the universe will not experience heat death makes me glad I didn’t go long on space heaters.
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Adriana Villela 🇨🇦 🇧🇷 @adrianamvillela.bsky.social · 26/08/2026
On Sept 8 at 12:00 ET, we bring back former panelists, @elchefe.me (GenX), and @cassidoo.co (Millennial), and Divyasha Pahuja (GenZ) to talk about how all 3 generations can help each other in our new AI reality. Don’t miss it: buff.ly/tsuraZ2
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Geeking Out Live: Ctrl+Alt+Gen(AI)?
We've heard from GenX-ers and Millennials talking about their views on AI-assisted software development. We've heard separately from GenZ-ers. But we haven't...
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Geeking Out Podcast @geekingoutpod.bsky.social · 24/08/2026
GenX-er @elchefe.me, Millennial @cassidoo.co, and GenZ-er Divyasha Pahuja share their perspectives on surviving in the age of AI and how the 3 different generations can help each other navigate these uncertain times. Save the date for Sept 8th at 12:00 ET: buff.ly/EiunlC8
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Tim Banks: VibeRel Advocate @elchefe.me · 22/08/2026
This is about where I am, and while the sessions monthly to sixth weeks are mainly validation that I’m staying my tools consistently and correctly, the thought of stopping therapy kind of terrifies me. My therapist got me through the most awful times of my life and it’s one of my routines now.
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Autumn Nash 🎃👻💀🖤 @withenoughcoffee.bsky.social · 20/08/2026
I loved building a Linux distribution as an engineer, contributing to Fedora, and before that as a Security Product Manager. I’m looking for new opportunities that contributing to open-source projects, in roles like Solutions Architect, Forward-Deployed Engineer, Dev Relations Engineer, or Product.
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Tim Banks: VibeRel Advocate @elchefe.me · 16/08/2026
While that’s true, it somehow no longer seems to matter. But we have options.
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Arknights Molotov Throw: Flaming Bottle
Alt: A lot Molotov cocktail flying through the air
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Tim Banks: VibeRel Advocate @elchefe.me · 16/08/2026
I mean, until recently, the US was generally against camera surveillance as it was a violation of the 4th amendment.
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Tim Banks: VibeRel Advocate @elchefe.me · 13/08/2026
The only valid personality test is “who is your favorite crystal gem and/or fusion?”
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Tim Banks: VibeRel Advocate @elchefe.me · 13/08/2026
Happy “No Longer Have to Register Suppressors or Short Barrel Rifles” Day!
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Tim Banks: VibeRel Advocate @elchefe.me · 10/08/2026
Vomiting out something that sounds like a white guy whose entire personality is to try to be clever, much to the chagrin of everyone else inflicted by those attempts, is hardly fundamentally different than a parrot deciding what sound to produce and it accidentally being funny to someone.
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Tim Banks: VibeRel Advocate @elchefe.me · 10/08/2026
You’ve got William Shakespeare on one side and a parrot that can quote William Shakespeare on the other and this guy is like
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Shane Luis: No One Could Tell The Difference
Alt: Shane Luis saying: No One Could Tell The Difference
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Olivia Guest · Ολίβια Γκεστ @olivia.science · 08/08/2026
exactly 💯 on LLMs: they simulate the output we call language, not the cognitive capacity we call language!
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Tim Banks: VibeRel Advocate @elchefe.me · 09/08/2026
The way intersectionality drains from these liberal white women when the topic goes from men working to dismantle the patriarchy and transphobia to white women working to dismantle white supremacy and colonialism…
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Smurfette Transformation Meme
Alt: Smurfette slowly turning from blue to gray and her hair turning dark, and the whole scene turning from color to black and white
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Tim Banks: VibeRel Advocate @elchefe.me · 28/07/2026
Remember when all the liberals said we were crazy for wanting to defund police? Shit like this is what happens when they have too many resources.
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Tim Banks: VibeRel Advocate @elchefe.me · 27/07/2026
This should probably get a lot of attention
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US prosecutors charge Atlanta man after GrapheneOS phone wipes itself during airport search
The case centers on Tunick's use of GrapheneOS, an open-source operating system that works on Google Pixel phones and lets users enter a passcode to wipe a...
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Tim Banks: VibeRel Advocate @elchefe.me · 26/07/2026
As ghost rider?
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Tim Banks: VibeRel Advocate @elchefe.me · 25/07/2026
These are all very lovely and wonderful contenders for second place but there is no disputing who stands at the top of this list
A striking woman commands the frame with regal calm, her dark curls tumbling wild and radiant around her face, sun-kissed skin glowing amber in the firelight. A delicate gold necklace rests at her collarbone, and her black lace-and-satin dress peeks from beneath a soft cream cardigan — effortless glamour framed by an explosion of fire, as if the flames themselves are in awe of her.
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Tim Banks: VibeRel Advocate @elchefe.me · 23/07/2026
😍😍😍😍😍😍 *swoon*
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Jake Williams @malwarejake.bsky.social · 22/07/2026
To be clear for non-tech followers: an LLM can only output content, such as text or images. That has no impact on the world until we make it so. Text output can be commands or tools called. But we have to explicitly wire those tools to the tool caller. If you do that without controls, that's on you.
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Tim Banks: VibeRel Advocate @elchefe.me · 22/07/2026
Best I can do is a “beans don’t belong in chili” dad
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Gravel Influencer @gravelinfluencer.bsky.social · 20/07/2026
This video of a woman telling an anti-abortion asshole to, "Shut the fuck up" is exactly what I needed to see on a Monday morning
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Pipehawk Consulting @pipehawk.bsky.social · 22/07/2026
The secret service have shot multiple innocent bystanders around the White House this year. The secret service has also been involved in at least 2 self-inflicted GSWs this year. In an era where ICE agents are shooting up our streets, the secret service has been able to stay under the radar.
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Tim Banks: VibeRel Advocate @elchefe.me · 20/07/2026
Like I said, therapy helps 🫂❤️
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Tim Banks: VibeRel Advocate @elchefe.me · 20/07/2026
There’s no scenario where you’re not going to make mistakes and parenting is nothing but lagging indicators. I lived with constant ideation for at least 25 years, so I get that, and it’s important for healing to understand what behaviors were modeled for our parents and what resources were available
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Tim Banks: VibeRel Advocate @elchefe.me · 20/07/2026
😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍
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