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The Pincus Center @thepincuscenter.bsky.social · 05/08/2026

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Join a judgment-free zone to discuss your challenges and successes in our Monthly Support Group for Mono/Poly Relationships. The online group, led by @drelisheff.bsky.social, meets again on Wednesday, August 12. Sign up here: www.eventbrite.com/e/2026-month...

Dr. Eli Sheff @drelisheff.bsky.social · 01/09/2026

Are you are in a mixed dynamic relationship where one person wants exclusivity and another wants an open or multiple partner relationship? I know from personal experience how challenging that can be, and what a huge difference acceptance and support can make. Join me for my mono/poly support group!

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Dr. Eli Sheff @drelisheff.bsky.social · 20/08/2026

@Dr. Nicole Thomspon recently interviewed for for their Modern Anarchy podcast. We discussed #polyamory and recent #research, #threesomes and their challenges, rates of #infidelity, and more! www.modernanarchypodcast.com/podcast/epis...

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Podcast Episodes | Modern Anarchy

Listen to the Modern Anarchy podcast episodes here.

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Dr. Eli Sheff @drelisheff.bsky.social · 14/08/2026

My newest post on @psychologytoday.com explores the challenges that face neurospicy folks when it comes to sex, and some tips to manage the challenges. #ADHD #Autism #sexuality #relationships Neurodiverse Sexuality and Common Challenges | Psychology Today www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-...

Neurodiverse Sexuality and Common Challenges

Autism, ADHD, and AuDHD are common neurotypes that can all present similar issues around sexuality. What are these issues, and how can neurospicy folks and their loved ones deal?

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Dr. Eli Sheff @drelisheff.bsky.social · 29/07/2026

Recently I had a delightful time with the folks at New York Times Modern Love podcast interviewing me about my #research on #polyamorous #families with #children, as well as my personal experiences of studying polyamory and deciding that I am #monogamous at heart. www.nytimes.com/2026/07/29/p...

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Is Polyamory Right for You? (Gift Article)

Elisabeth Sheff spent 30 years studying polyamory. Here’s what she learned.

The Pincus Center @thepincuscenter.bsky.social · 07/07/2026

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Join an online judgement-free zone to discuss exclusive and open relationships without pressure to choose either one. Our Monthly Support Group for Mono/Poly Relationships meets again on July 8. The group is led by @drelisheff.bsky.social . Register here: www.eventbrite.com/e/2026-month...

Lambda Legal @lambdalegal.org · 30/06/2026

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No ruling will ever change what we know to be true: trans youth deserve to play, to learn + to exist freely. Trans youth need to know their community is with them, no matter what the Supreme Court says. Share this post + leave a note of support so every trans young person knows they are not alone.💜

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Dr. Eli Sheff @drelisheff.bsky.social · 30/06/2026

The number of laws discriminating against trans athletes far outstrips the number of trans athletes even competing in elementary, high school, and collegiate sports. It is RIDICULOUS to spend this much time and effort targeting people who are not harming anyone. INFURIATING! #TransLivesMatter

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The Pincus Center @thepincuscenter.bsky.social · 30/06/2026

On 7/6, Tamara Pincus, LICSW and @drelisheff.bsky.social will bring research & lived experience together to chart the ways in which CNM relationships fall on hard times and how to weather the challenges while making the most of the good times. This virtual workshop offers @aasect.bsky.social CEU's.

Dr. Eli Sheff @drelisheff.bsky.social · 24/06/2026

Shout out to Lambda Legal's win in Coe et al v Blanche! This ruling stalls the DOJ from forcing NYC hospitals & healthcare providers to disclose identities and sensitive health records of transgender youth who received gender-affirming medical care since 2020. Thank you LL! #TransLivesMatter

The Pincus Center @thepincuscenter.bsky.social · 23/06/2026

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Gain insight to make your relationship more joyful. The dynamic duo of Tamara Pincus, LICSW and @drelisheff.bsky.social will bring research and lived experience together on 7/6 for "Cultivating Satisfaction in Non-Monogamy!" www.eventbrite.com/e/cultivatin...

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Dr. Eli Sheff @drelisheff.bsky.social · 04/06/2026

In honor of the Week of CNM Visibility sponsored by @openloveorg.bsky.social, the wonderful @tamarapincus.bsky.social and I will be hosting a workshop teaching how to apply research on relationship satisfaction to making your multi-partner relationships thrive! www.eventbrite.com/e/cultivatin...

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Cultivating Satisfaction in Non-Monogamy

In celebration of the Week of Visibility for Non-monogamy, join a workshop that focuses on joy in different relationship structures.

The Pincus Center @thepincuscenter.bsky.social · 07/05/2026

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Our Monthly Support Group for Mono/Poly Relationships meets again on Wed 5/13 at 8 PM ET / 5PM PT. Led by @drelisheff.bsky.social, this is a space to discuss open and exclusive relationship structures, without pressure or judgement. See you online then 💙 www.eventbrite.com/e/2026-month...

Dr. Eli Sheff @drelisheff.bsky.social · 22/04/2026

Building momentum for local policies that protect relationship form, people in #CNM relationships are successful with their grassroots organizing! Details in my newest blog. #polyamory The Shifting Legal Landscape for Consensual Nonmonogamy | Psychology Today www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-...

The Shifting Legal Landscape for Consensual Nonmonogamy

What are people in consensually nonmonoagmous relationships doing to combat stigma and discrimination? Grassroots organizing! Their efforts are making headway in some localities.

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The Pincus Center @thepincuscenter.bsky.social · 01/04/2026

What is compersion? Why might you not be feeling it? Join our Monthly Support Group for Mono/Poly Relationships to learn more common terms in non-monogamy. Expert coach @drelisheff.bsky.social leads the next online group meeting on Wed, April 8. Sign up here: www.eventbrite.com/e/2026-month...

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The Pincus Center @thepincuscenter.bsky.social · 07/04/2026

Our Monthly Support Group for Mono/Poly Relationships meets again tomorrow night, April 8 at 8 PM ET / 5PM PT. Led by @drelisheff.bsky.social, this is a space to discuss open and exclusive relationship structures, without pressure or judgement. See you online 💙 www.eventbrite.com/e/2026-month...

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2026 Monthly Support Group for Mono/Poly Relationships

Monthly coaching support group for relationships where one partner wants monogamy and the other wants nonmonogamy, led by an expert coach.

Dr. Eli Sheff @drelisheff.bsky.social · 31/03/2026

In response to Lindy West's new book, Holly Baxter at the Independent recently interviewed me about the possibility that #polyamory and other forms of #consensualnonmonogamy are sustainable. Refreshingly, Baxter offers quite a balanced view of CNM. www.the-independent.com/life-style/l...

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Is the polyamory dream over — and did Lindy West kill it?

Lindy West drove 3,000 miles to make peace with her husband's girlfriend. The internet has not made peace with any of it. Holly Baxter asks why polyamory generates so much heat — and examines what the...

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Dr. Eli Sheff @drelisheff.bsky.social · 31/03/2026

I find the #SCOTUS decision protecting conversion "therapy" (aka abuse) to be especially problematic given that today is Transgender Day of Visibility. Why do we need a day to celebrate transfolx? BECAUSE THEY ARE UNDER CONSTANT ATTACK!!!!! Shame on SCOTUS! #LGBTQ+ #translivesmatter #celebrategay

Dr. Eli Sheff @drelisheff.bsky.social · 30/03/2026

Led by the eminent Dr. Justin Mogilski, I was thrilled to work with a team of researchers to produce a large international study of consensual nonmonogamies and we recently published an artice detailing some of our findings about how people maintain CNM across time in the Archives of Sexual Behavior

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Chef Kennedy🐸🏳️‍🌈 @kennedy.northsky.social · 25/03/2026

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Harry Potter tattoo regret rate is an order of magnitude higher than regret for Gender Reassignment Surgery and yet no one has been brave enough to suggest we legislate Harry Potter tattoos.

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The Pincus Center @thepincuscenter.bsky.social · 10/02/2026

Don't miss our online support group tomorrow night, led by @drelisheff.bsky.social! Sign up here: www.eventbrite.com/e/2026-month...

The Pincus Center @thepincuscenter.bsky.social · 26/02/2026

Reposted by Dr. Eli Sheff

Talk with supportive people who understand what it's like navigating a mixed dynamic relationship. Our Monthly Support Group for Mono/Poly Relationships meets again online on Wed, March 11. Led by @drelisheff.bsky.social at 8 PM ET / 5 PM PT. Sign up here: www.eventbrite.com/e/2026-month...

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Dr. Eli Sheff @drelisheff.bsky.social · 25/03/2026

Gina Cherelus from the New York Times interviewed me about "one-sided hashtag#monogamy" in the manosphere. Unsurprisingly, I disagreed with the manosphere view that women want to be dominated and men know better than women do what is good for "their" women. www.nytimes.com/2026/03/25/s...

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Is ‘One-Sided Monogamy’ Just Cheating?

Dr. Eli Sheff @drelisheff.bsky.social · 17/03/2026

How many people #fantasize about or do #kinky things, and how many people think of themselves as kinky people? Find out what the #research says in my newest blog on Psychology Today! #identity #BDSM Who Is Kinky? | Psychology Today www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-...

Measuring the prevalance of kinkiness is a challenge, in part because people are more likely to fantasize about it then try it, and far less likely to identify with it.

Who Is Kinky?

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Dr. Eli Sheff @drelisheff.bsky.social · 11/03/2026

I recently joined Laurie Ellington on The Poly Tantra Kink Podcast for a conversation about parenting in polyamorous and open families. Check it out for information about #parenting, #polyamory, #families, #children, #love, #stability, and #joy based on #research open.spotify.com/episode/0ogT...

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Episode 10: Parenting, Poly, & Play with Dr. Elisabeth Sheff

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The Pincus Center @thepincuscenter.bsky.social · 10/03/2026

Being in a mono/poly relationship can feel extremely isolating. @drelisheff.bsky.social understands from a personal & professional view what kinds of resources can help. Join our Support Group for Mono/Poly Relationships online on Wed 3/11, to learn more. www.eventbrite.com/e/2026-month...

Funkit Toys @funkittoys.bsky.social · 02/02/2026

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rt if u hate nazis and love boobs

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Dr. Eli Sheff @drelisheff.bsky.social · 06/02/2026

Recently the Equilibria Podcast interviewed me about my Longitudinal #Polyamorous #Family Study. We discussed #childcare, the distribution of #unpaidlabor, and how (these) kids from polyamorous families turn out. Spotify open.spotify.com/show/0gVcb9A... YouTube: www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dqlb...

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Demystifying Polyamory: What is it Like for the Children in Polyamorous Families?

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The Pincus Center @thepincuscenter.bsky.social · 15/01/2026

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Let's talk about consensual non-monogamy and ST1's. What does the research tell us? What are the facts? @drelisheff.bsky.social does some myth busting in her class "Playing Mono-Poly: The Monogamy/CNM Dynamic." Watch the full video here: www.sendowl.com/s/polyamory/...

The Pincus Center @thepincuscenter.bsky.social · 22/01/2026

Reposted by Dr. Eli Sheff

Our Monthly Support Group for Mono/Poly Relationships is back on Wednesday, February 11! Join an online judgement-free zone to discuss exclusive and open relationships without pressure to choose either one. Led by @drelisheff.bsky.social. Sign up here: www.eventbrite.com/e/2026-month...

Dr. Eli Sheff @drelisheff.bsky.social · 19/12/2025

Do you and your partner(s) want different things from a relationship? Come to a workshop about balancing exclusive and open relationships, and explore options, strategize compromises, and get support. Jan 11, Hosts Tristan Taormino & Friends with Benefits luma.com/qctzds6c #monogamish #polyamory

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Mixed Dyanmic with Dr. Elisabeth Sheff · Luma

Do you care deeply for someone who wants a different kind of relationship than you do? It can be difficult to wish strongly for a relationship to work out but…

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Dr. Eli Sheff @drelisheff.bsky.social · 23/11/2025

It is Polyamory Day Today!!! Please join me in celebrating #open love, regardless of your own personal relationship style. We #monogamists and #single folks can also celebrate #polyamory because it is about #freedom to #love, and that is good for everyone!

Multi-colored infinity symbols arrayed along the left edge of the image with words reading November 23 is #polyamoryday on the upper right side of the image.

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Dr. Eli Sheff @drelisheff.bsky.social · 07/11/2025

Wednesday, November 12, 8 PM ET / 5 PM PT Support Group for Mixed Dynamic Relationships! My monthly drop-in support group for #Mono/CNM mixed dynamic #relationships meets again this Wednesday. Come get #help with a #non-judgemental vibe. #LGBT+ #polyamory #love www.eventbrite.com/e/monthly-dr...

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Monthly Drop-in Support Group for Mono/CNM Mixed Dynamic Relationships

Coaching support group for relationships where one partner wants monogamy and another wants non-monogamy, led by an expert coach

Dr. Eli Sheff @drelisheff.bsky.social · 07/11/2025

And the United States has helped to fund this genocide. We should be ashamed of ourselves and especially of our politicians who contribute to murdering children, restricting food and water, and making medical assistance impossible. Shame on us!

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Center for Positive Sexuality @ctrsexpositive.bsky.social · 06/11/2025

Meet our Keynote Speakers for #SexPosCon26! Johnathan Flowers' and his talk on “Audre Lorde and a Professional Eros“ Carmen Yau and her talk on “Radical Intimacies: Fetish, Kink, and the Liberation of Disabled Sexualities“ Join us virtually February 21 - 22, 2026 sexposcon.com/registration

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Dr. Eli Sheff @drelisheff.bsky.social · 07/11/2025

Trans lives matter! Clearly there is no need to throw transfolx under the bus for hollow political gain! Outcomes of recent political races demonstrate that we can support transfolx and still win, and that abandoning them does not help us on any level. Trans rights now! www.them.us/story/2025-e...

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Election Night Proved Democrats Don’t Need to Abandon Trans People to Win

Mamdani, Spanberger and other wins tell Dems: you don’t need to cave on transgender rights to win an election.

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The Pincus Center @thepincuscenter.bsky.social · 05/11/2025

Join our online judgement-free zone to discuss exclusive and open relationships without pressure to choose either one. Led by expert coach on consensual non-monogamy @drelisheff.bsky.social on November 12 www.eventbrite.com/e/monthly-dr... #polyamory #nonmonogamy #monogamy

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The Pincus Center @thepincuscenter.bsky.social · 06/11/2025

A sneak peek at some of the topics that come up in our Monthly Support Group for Mixed Dynamic Relationships, led by @drelisheff.bsky.social. The next meeting will be on Wednesday, November 12 at 8 PM ET / 5 PM PT. See you there! www.eventbrite.com/e/monthly-dr...

Dr. Eli Sheff @drelisheff.bsky.social · 27/10/2025

Are you dreading seeing your #family during the winter #holidays? Afraid of what they will say to you or how they will react to your #gender or #relationship #nonconformity? Then this is the perfect #workshop for you! Tickets available through She Bop at www.sheboptheshop.com/freaky-holid...

Image: reddish brown square with photo of Eli Sheff and words reading Freaky Holidays Managing Interactions with Families of Origin for Sex/Gender Nonconformists, November 9 6-7:30 pm Online SheBop

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Dr. Eli Sheff @drelisheff.bsky.social · 16/10/2025

Check out my newest blog on @psychologytoday.com addressing the differences between BDSM/kinky sex and Intimate Partner Violence. #Consent #relationships #negotiation Distinguishing Between BDSM and Intimate Partner Violence | Psychology Today www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-...