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@digitalghost11.bsky.social
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midwestern librarian. ewf. also @redheading.bsky.social redheading.substack.com music. books. gardens. crafts. liberation for all.

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Leaving Terra @leavingterra.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
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Tori Amos News from Undented @undented.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
Who's got the fever for the Flavor of the Gold Dust? On its 14th anniversary, we do! Released on this day in the UK and Europe in 2012, the album reimagines a number of Tori's songs in an orchestral context with the Metropole Orkest. Dive deep at undented.com/catalog/2713...
Tori Amos's album Gold Dust. The cover photo is Tori looking out the window from teh backseat of a yellow taxi cab.
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digital ghostie @digitalghost11.bsky.social · 30/09/2026
okay.
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digital ghostie @digitalghost11.bsky.social · 30/09/2026
sure, i guess. who really knows anymore.
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digital ghostie @digitalghost11.bsky.social · 30/09/2026
conservative parents are a whole thing. they tend to treat their children like adults and their adults like children. i'm not suggesting there's something wrong with taylor. i'm just saying tree hovering around her while she's chatting with other celebs feels... a little unnecessary.
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digital ghostie @digitalghost11.bsky.social · 30/09/2026
if my current job goes poof, i don't know if i have another corporate style job search or onboarding left in me. i am 49 and exhausted from masking and never feeling secure in the workplace.
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digital ghostie @digitalghost11.bsky.social · 30/09/2026
(just for the record - i know that law is a stylist, not a publicist. i couldn't come up with a known publicist to use as an example so... i had to go with law as someone who works with a celeb and is known.)
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digital ghostie @digitalghost11.bsky.social · 30/09/2026
yeah, but their people say something to them and then back off. tree is right there all the time. it would drive me absolutely insane. even law roach backs the fuck off zendaya once she's ready for the cameras.
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digital ghostie @digitalghost11.bsky.social · 30/09/2026
why does tree paine have to escort taylor at events and stay right tf on top of her like some kind of warden? she's 36 fucking years old. no one else seems to have their publicist right on top of them at all times. is this how scott and andrea keep taylor on a short leash? good lord.
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digital ghostie @digitalghost11.bsky.social · 30/09/2026
i don't need whimsy! i just need some extended periods of quiet!
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digital ghostie @digitalghost11.bsky.social · 30/09/2026
omg the airport - any airport - is a sensory nightmare. there is nothing about life in 2026 that's calming. nothing you do or experience is meant to lower your blood pressure or relax you. it's just a constant assault on the senses.
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digital ghostie @digitalghost11.bsky.social · 30/09/2026
yeah, i fail to see how bringing a coffee to an interview says anything about your ability to do a job well or your ability to get along with others. this just sounds like an arbitrary reason to reject a candidate. we all know most of these companies aren't actually hiring. 👀
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digital ghostie @digitalghost11.bsky.social · 30/09/2026
today i went to pick up a rental car. sitting in the lobby, there are ringing phones, some type of corporate radio going with ads every 2 mins, people talking, and some guy sitting next to me watching youtube on his phone with the volume up. it's 10am & i'm already so overstimulated, i could cry.
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digital ghostie @digitalghost11.bsky.social · 30/09/2026
no one has any consideration for others anymore. there's no thought like "hey, it's 8am, maybe i don't need to sit in my car outside my house for 30 minutes blasting my stereo and waking everyone up." i'm so fucking tired of my nervous system being at the mercy of total assholes.
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digital ghostie @digitalghost11.bsky.social · 30/09/2026
i have new neighbors who move their stereo speaker out onto the porch to blast stupid mumblerap for hours at all hours of the day or night. (yes, i finally called the cops. no, it hasn't stopped.) constant lawn maintenance. yelling. loud car stereos. construction.
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digital ghostie @digitalghost11.bsky.social · 30/09/2026
will there be a point where we collectively address noise pollution? because everything is SO LOUD.
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digital ghostie @digitalghost11.bsky.social · 30/09/2026
hi just because you're impatient doesn't mean you can just create a whole new lane in traffic for yourself, especially when it could cause someone to hit you. i stg.
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digital ghostie @digitalghost11.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
it happens and it's okay! no one is perfect. but everywhere i've worked there is at least one person who habitually cuts people off & talks over folks so much that it's distracting. for me, it becomes a character flaw when you won't ever let others have the floor & let them complete their thought.
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digital ghostie @digitalghost11.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
and yes i'm aware i just come over here to complain. 🤣
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digital ghostie @digitalghost11.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
the epidemic of meetings where adults interrupt and talk over each other. i am exhausted. no one ever completes a fucking thought. 🤣
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digital ghostie @digitalghost11.bsky.social · 31/08/2026
it astounds me how much time & energy it takes to get ANYTHING done with IT so i can do my actual JOB. why does everything have to be done by third party contractors who don't gaf?!
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digital ghostie @digitalghost11.bsky.social · 31/08/2026
god i hate calling someone who has me on speakerphone, especially a help desk.
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digital ghostie @digitalghost11.bsky.social · 31/08/2026
thank you, friend! 🩷🩷
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digital ghostie @digitalghost11.bsky.social · 31/08/2026
i'm sorry to hear that didn't work out! i hope you can find someone good to work with. 🩷🩷
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digital ghostie @digitalghost11.bsky.social · 31/08/2026
have any of you tried either midi health or winona? what's your experience? i'm thinking it might be (well past) time for some help with hormones.
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digital ghostie @digitalghost11.bsky.social · 24/08/2026
i'm starting to think about how i can accommodate my brain fog & overstimulation in how i approach writing. tbh i'm worried that i've had such intense skill regression on this front. i can very much relate with how tori has had to pivot to continue creating.
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digital ghostie @digitalghost11.bsky.social · 24/08/2026
i never celebrate the end of a tour, BUT i have to admit that i am so worn out from how overstimulating it is, whether i'm traveling for the shows or following it from afar online. there is SO much more i'd like to be doing with the blog/socials right now but my brain is just... toast. 😐
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digital ghostie @digitalghost11.bsky.social · 09/08/2026
i very much need to ground myself tomorrow before the rest of these show. my energy is all over the place & i really hope i'm not super offputting to new people. had a weird start to this run of shows in detroit and was already socially anxious but now... oof. thanks to those who are gentle w/ me. 🩷
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digital ghostie @digitalghost11.bsky.social · 07/08/2026
no two enterprise experiences are the same. sometimes i get here and the car is ready, sometimes i have to wait half an hour. sometimes they ask for my insurance info, sometimes they don't. for every helpful, kind agent i get one who leans in to talk to me like we're committing a crime.
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digital ghostie @digitalghost11.bsky.social · 07/08/2026
this enterprise agent is a total weirdo. dudebro, the thing where you're constantly bouncing your leg & moving is really unsettling & perhaps you need to decrease your stimulant dosage or something. i know that people stim & that's fine, but this is like "do you have a coke problem" bad.
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Angela @vinekey.bsky.social · 01/08/2026
I love this song so much.. 🕯️
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digital ghostie @digitalghost11.bsky.social · 01/08/2026
what a weird, not so great week.
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digital ghostie @digitalghost11.bsky.social · 01/08/2026
also, my respect for the way you kept your composure. i'm a total aries. do with that what you will. 🤣
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digital ghostie @digitalghost11.bsky.social · 01/08/2026
their response is unreasonable and shitty. 😞
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digital ghostie @digitalghost11.bsky.social · 31/07/2026
💯💯💯
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digital ghostie @digitalghost11.bsky.social · 31/07/2026
this account followed me overnight. i've reported & blocked. i've gone through harassment on tiktok before; i'm still trying to get an impersonation acct with my face, legal name, & employer in the bio removed to no avail. this is NOT OKAY to do to someone you don't like. this is harassment.
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digital ghostie @digitalghost11.bsky.social · 31/07/2026
vibe:
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digital ghostie @digitalghost11.bsky.social · 31/07/2026
totally agree!! i need ari over some house music. category is best ponytail swing. 🤣
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digital ghostie @digitalghost11.bsky.social · 30/07/2026
aww. i'm sorry, friend. 🩷
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digital ghostie @digitalghost11.bsky.social · 30/07/2026
i'm definitely shaking it all the way off. i'm done with being talked to any kind of way and thrown under the bus.
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digital ghostie @digitalghost11.bsky.social · 30/07/2026
if some of you still want a friendship with me and i've unfollowed you, get in touch, okay? i'll add you back. i just don't want to see any more of the content or the discussion or the fighting. i don't want to be engaged with it anymore.
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digital ghostie @digitalghost11.bsky.social · 30/07/2026
including me. 🤣
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digital ghostie @digitalghost11.bsky.social · 30/07/2026
also, i find the cherry-picking of who gets to have hurt feelings and who doesn't kind of... shitty.
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digital ghostie @digitalghost11.bsky.social · 30/07/2026
i'm not talking about this from a place of feeling left out personally. it's very obvious there are popular creators who mostly engage with the content of their friends. this is just group behavior. it's not just my own perception. other ppl have pointed it out too.
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digital ghostie @digitalghost11.bsky.social · 30/07/2026
agreed! it's very frustrating and some folks really do need to spend some time around humans more often.
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digital ghostie @digitalghost11.bsky.social · 30/07/2026
and wow, we thought the drama on rmta back in the day was a thing. 🤣 this is why i have problems being in groups.
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digital ghostie @digitalghost11.bsky.social · 30/07/2026
i can handle respectful disagreement. what i won't do is be talked to any kind of way. i have put up with this from "friends" for decades now and i am now finished with tolerating it for the sake of peace. if you treat me with respect & kindness, you will get that back.
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digital ghostie @digitalghost11.bsky.social · 30/07/2026
also, some folks really hate when you match their energy. but if you come at me with hostility from the jump, you will get it back. and then i will block and forget you exist. i'm allowed to share my opinion just like everyfuckingbody else.
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digital ghostie @digitalghost11.bsky.social · 30/07/2026
i realize that saying "block me" after talking about blocking campaigns might seem contradictory. but i just mean if my speaking my opinion is really not your thing, then feel free to filter me out. but i'm not going to stop defending people who are being bullied. and bullying behavior has happened.
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digital ghostie @digitalghost11.bsky.social · 30/07/2026
the "we all need to block this person" campaigns without actual dialogue and effort to understand each other are not okay.
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