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Destiny ✨

@destinysdreamlands.bsky.social
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A 33 yr old fat enby femme (they/them) haunting Philadelphia and howling at the moon. Poet, artist, activist.

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The Onion @theonion.com · 12/10/2026
Nation’s Indigenous People Confirm They Don’t Need Special Holiday, Just Large Swaths Of Land Returned Immediately theonion.com/nation-s-indigenous-pe…
Nation’s Indigenous People Confirm They Don’t Need Special Holiday, Just Large Swaths Of Land Returned Immediately
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Destiny ✨ @destinysdreamlands.bsky.social · 12/10/2026
as someone who has given up on the dream of owning a home, realizing I know more about the process than my friend who really wants to buy a house is... terrifying. just pure misunderstandings of some of the basics.
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Destiny ✨ @destinysdreamlands.bsky.social · 11/10/2026
I stayed home this morning instead of pushing myself to do things out of a sense of obligation while in just... a truly immense amount of pain please clap
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Destiny ✨ @destinysdreamlands.bsky.social · 10/10/2026
baked and frosted cupcakes, put the charcuterie plate together, stocked up on seltzer, and ground an eighth. I think my contributions to the party are finished and everyone else can bring the rest 😂
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Destiny ✨ @destinysdreamlands.bsky.social · 09/10/2026
I'm having one of those weeks where A Series of Events that are mostly disconnected from one another and that all were so out of left field have cropped up, and I am soul deep fucking exhausted by it all.
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Destiny ✨ @destinysdreamlands.bsky.social · 06/10/2026
tonight! Sacred x Profane: An Open Mic by Candlelight the old wooden chapel at First U, free admission, doors and sign ups start at 6:30. #philly #phillyevents #phillypoet #phillymusic #phillywriters #openmic #poetry
poster for sacred x profane, an open mic by candlelight. 

poetry, prose, and song from this plane and beyond. tonight, doors at 6:30, show at 7. 6 minute sets. free entry. donations to First U encouraged. 

the chapel, First Unitarian Church of Philadelphia, 2125 Chestnut Street
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Banned Books Week @bannedbooksweek.bsky.social · 04/10/2026
It's finally here! Are you ready to join us in kicking off #BannedBooksWeek?! This year's event is too big for just one piece of art, so we have THREE! #LetBooksBe bannedbooksweek.org
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Destiny ✨ @destinysdreamlands.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
hello, 34 🥳 birthday adventures well underway! heading to get my haircut for the first time in 2 years, looking forward to some movement and shape to this 😅
Destiny is a fat, white, tattooed femme with glasses and long, rapidly greying brown hair. they have on a green sleeveless shirt over a black dress, pictured from the bust up.
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explore.org @explore.org · 30/09/2026
Introducing your ultimate fighter and champion: Bear 89 Backpack 👑 Thanks for joining us for the biggest Fat Bear Week to date.
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Sarah McAnulty, Ph.D. @sarahmackattack.bsky.social · 30/09/2026
When people in power deliver bad news to you, they expect you to just take punch, accept it, and move on. In these situations, we need to empower ourselves to reject the premise. I want you to look at three time points in the fight to save the academy of natural sciences with me. (Thread)
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Destiny ✨ @destinysdreamlands.bsky.social · 30/09/2026
saw a big ol' dark smoke cloud rising up from the Grays Ferry/industrial areas direction from the Walnut St bridge. stay safe out there philly 🫠
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Destiny ✨ @destinysdreamlands.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
at least when I was living alone I only had to worry about my day getting fucked up by something I did/didn't do rather than having to navigate the "I've asked you to clean up after yourself 50 fucking times" conversation with two people who don't seem to grasp the concept of shared spaces.
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Destiny ✨ @destinysdreamlands.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
we're entering "is it the weather or the usual post vaccine malaise" territory of feeling like shit and wow I'm glad I have nothing on my to-do list today
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WOLFSKULLJACK @wolfskulljack.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
Girlhood
My art from 2020, a female werewolf eating meat
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Sarah McAnulty, Ph.D. @sarahmackattack.bsky.social · 26/09/2026
We’re not going down without a fight
A bunch of people protesting in front of the Academy of natural sciences
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Leftist Gamer Memes @leftistgamermemes.bsky.social · 26/09/2026
🐈‍⬛️🛒🔚🐈
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Destiny ✨ @destinysdreamlands.bsky.social · 26/09/2026
this insomnia blows, but damn, the wind is stunning.
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Destiny ✨ @destinysdreamlands.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
porch sits on a chilly autumn morning while crocheting and drinking some iced chai is probably one of my favorite things on the planet
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Sarah McAnulty, Ph.D. @sarahmackattack.bsky.social · 23/09/2026
Attention Philly Families! It is critical that we show Drexel and city government that our enthusiasm for the Academy of Natural Sciences is going strong! Bring your kids, friends, & neighbors down to the parkway on Saturday from 2-6pm. It's a kid-friendly rally to support the academy!
dinosaurs and bugs happily party together at the Save the Academy family rally. Saturday September 26, 2-6pm 1900 ben Franklin parkway, come dressed as your favorite dinosaur, insect, animal, or just yourself! There's a duck billed dino, a triceratops, a brachiosaurus, a pterodactyl, a millipede, dragonfly, and beetle!
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Destiny ✨ @destinysdreamlands.bsky.social · 22/09/2026
first day of autumn, chilly enough that I need a jacket to sit on the porch, and I ended up finding a vape in the jacket pocket. talk about some equinox magic ✨
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Destiny ✨ @destinysdreamlands.bsky.social · 21/09/2026
water in the basement again after they assured us - with paint and all - that it was fixed for sure this time
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Destiny ✨ @destinysdreamlands.bsky.social · 20/09/2026
"inner darkness aside, I am filled with existential hope." my @twloha.bsky.social order arrived so I broke this bad boy out for service this morning since I'd be in front of like 150 ppl. worth it!
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zach @extrafabulous.bsky.social · 18/09/2026
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Destiny ✨ @destinysdreamlands.bsky.social · 18/09/2026
the young girl (11ish?) across the street was fascinated by the scarf I'm currently crocheting and gathered the courage (she's very shy!) to ask if I'd be able to teach her some time next step to being the local queer witchy aunt completed 🥹
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Leftist Gamer Memes @leftistgamermemes.bsky.social · 13/09/2026
"No, not like that!"
text says "state approved resistance is not resistance" image is a cutscene from final fantasy tactics
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Destiny ✨ @destinysdreamlands.bsky.social · 12/09/2026
my neighbor has said the word pussy more in the last hour than I think I've heard in my entire life. she's like 80. I think I'm delighted?
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Destiny ✨ @destinysdreamlands.bsky.social · 11/09/2026
Coming up quick on the 5th birthday I didn't think I'd have. This is the poem I wrote when I realized I had done enough work to actually want to stay alive, the one that made me realize maybe my book could be a thing because I'd actually be around to write it.
Photo of a page from a book containing part one of the poem:

This Is Not A Tragedy

You wouldn't believe the lies the human brain can create. The mental gymnastics it masters to counter reality, to counter what's right in front of you. 

I remember the conversations I had with myself. The reassurances of my own insignificance, of times ability to... soften the impact for those I left behind.

This was not a piece I envisioned writing. 

This was not a chapter of my story that was meant to be written. 

And yet. 

Somewhere between that bathtub and here, between shattering and now, I met my own gaze in the mirror for the first time. Storm clouds and anger like lightning, grief a monsoon.

I took a breath. 

How to even begin talking about the work? The ripping open old wounds to heal in the present? The reconstruction? How terrifying the pain, how horrifying to realize the more I knew myself the less I was known. 

I was at rest and roaming, pacing the cage of my skin like a lion. Like a liar. Layers to sift through and enough skeletons in enough closets to make my home feel like a cemetery. My hope feel like a grave. 

I kept meeting my own gaze. Kept doing the work. 

You wouldn't believe the resilience the human heart has. 

Colors started coming back to me. A few notes of a song. A clover. A -

(continued in next image)This is not a tragedy, part 2:

- cup of tea. A meal with a friend. The urge to write. Somewhere along the way, the clouds parted. Bright beams of sunshine breaking through the grey. 

When I look in the mirror these days, I can see the kid that ran barefoot through mint patches, kicking their scent up into the summer heat. The kid with pockets full of seashells, planting orange seeds at Promised Land. 

I recall the way they saw the world, always chasing wildflowers.

This is not a tragedy. 

It's a thank you letter to that little one's dirt smeared face and white knuckle grip on their bouquet. To the light they bring. The light I know was there for me to find in my own reflection the whole time. 

There were storm clouds from the start. There was no me before them and there would be no me without the petrichor.

and yet...

How lovely to play in the puddles. 

How lovely to watch the rain fall -- warm and gentle now, thunder a distant rumble -- into the garden that I've planted with my own two hands.
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Destiny ✨ @destinysdreamlands.bsky.social · 10/09/2026
I've been out of my chai mix for about a week, and I gotta say, nothing reinforces the tism like a morning routine being interrupted. hopefully, some will be here before my first meeting tomorrow. hopefully 🫠🤞
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Destiny ✨ @destinysdreamlands.bsky.social · 06/09/2026
what a good weekend. 10/10. would do again. I am, however, now turning into a raccoon and will not be a person for 24-48 hours 🫡 sushi and movies and not working on anything. gonna play so much Stardew Valley ✨
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Destiny ✨ @destinysdreamlands.bsky.social · 05/09/2026
people bought my book. multiple people. 1/3 of whom were strangers. someone picked it up, read some, looked me in the face, and told me they liked my words. then bought one. fuck, y'all. I think I'm an author. #poetry #poet #newauthor #firstbook #phillypoets
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Destiny ✨ @destinysdreamlands.bsky.social · 05/09/2026
baby's first market 🥰
a table with various crafts and a stack of poetry books. the banner in front says Dreamlands. destiny is a fat, white femme. they're wearing sunglasses, a bright mint tank top, and their goddess necklace. they're sitting in a park with a big smile on their face.
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Destiny ✨ @destinysdreamlands.bsky.social · 04/09/2026
survived an enjoyable businessy lunch that was only awkward because the two of us are similar flavors of neurogivergent 😂 back to market prep and signage shenanigans and all that good stuff ✨
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Sam Frantics @dsoart.com · 04/09/2026
New commandment
Medieval rendition of the “You are not immune to propaganda” Garfield meme. Garfield is drawn in a lithograph style on a blue background, and the text says “Thou are not immune to propaganda.”
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Sarah McAnulty, Ph.D. @sarahmackattack.bsky.social · 03/09/2026
Attention Philadelphia! We're hosting a rally to demand that Drexel University maintain The Academy of Natural Sciences Museum open to the public. Join us on Tuesday morning at 10am in front of the academy. Please spread the word, we need all hands on deck! RSVP here: luma.com/1qwnrqz2
A dinosaur on a white background with the text SAve the academy of Natural sciences museum rally Tuesday Sept 8 10am in front of the academy 1900 ben Franklin Parkway. "Tell Drexel University "Keep the museum open!" with the logos for Philly Science Action, Skype a Scientist, and Green Philly
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Quest 64 Official @quest64official.bsky.social · 02/09/2026
A picture of Brian with the text: 
I've tasted the 9-5 and I've tasted unemployment I recommend not being born
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Destiny ✨ @destinysdreamlands.bsky.social · 01/09/2026
in the home stretch of a project where I was asked for something additional and I've politely explained my timeline requirements twice. someone just encountered what happens when I have to repeat myself a third time. their false sense of urgency is not my fucking problem 🤷
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Destiny ✨ @destinysdreamlands.bsky.social · 30/08/2026
hahahha the overstimulation had to hit on a day where I both have a lot to do and was looking forward to most of it. just gotta get a sign that says sorry for being a bitch the lights were too bright 🫠
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doctober @docseuss.bsky.social · 28/08/2026
someone's got a death note that won't let you specify individuals after the Last Incident and keeps writing "THAT 80 year old dies in their sleep" and the shinigami keep going after a buncha other 80 year olds
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Destiny ✨ @destinysdreamlands.bsky.social · 26/08/2026
if I had a nickel for every time I've screamed "No!!" about a now-dead 80 year old queer icon in the last 24 hours, I'd have 2 nickels, which isn't even enough to buy a treat to drown my sorrows in.
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Destiny ✨ @destinysdreamlands.bsky.social · 23/08/2026
my books arrived today. as in, copies of the book *I wrote*, many copies, all glossy with my name on them and everything. after years and years of hoping and planning, "The Things We Tell Ourselves About Survival" is real. gods, what a gift.
two stacks of books sit in a cardboard box. they are white with black and red text for the title, The Things We Tell Ourselves About Survival. The text sits in front of an illustration of a rosemary sprig. Destiny, a fat white femme with brown hair and glasses, sits on their porch illuminated by a streetlight. their eyes are closed and their hand is on their cheek. they're smiling.
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Destiny ✨ @destinysdreamlands.bsky.social · 22/08/2026
I was about 7 or 8 when I realized that getting a new pair of shoes would mean we needed to skip paying the cable bill. It taught me to hide my needs and expect nothing. The lasting damage this sort of trauma does can't be overstated.
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Destiny ✨ @destinysdreamlands.bsky.social · 20/08/2026
I know it's the sound of the sump pump working which is a thing I'm grateful we even have, but I'm so sick of walking into the house and hearing a literal fucking creek in our basement every time it rains
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Destiny ✨ @destinysdreamlands.bsky.social · 20/08/2026
I'm so pleased with how they came out. this project is turning into a much larger undertaking than I had expected it to be, but at least this part is done. now for all the other appliques, the cutting, layout, assembly..... phew. it's gonna be worth it but damn.
Mixed media piece inspired by "Angel with Cherabim" by Tiffany Studio, 1889. North Window, First Unitarian Church of Philadelphia. Digital print of original stained glass with embroidery on cotton muslin. Original text on the window has been replaced with "10 Years" at the top and "2026" in the center. Mixed media piece inspired by "Isaiah" by John LaFarge, 1892. South Window of First Unitarian Church of Philadelphia. Digital print of original stained glass with embroidery on cotton muslin. Both embroidery pieces from previous photos sitting side by side.
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Destiny ✨ @destinysdreamlands.bsky.social · 18/08/2026
my vitiligo is spreading to around my mouth, which is fascinating to watch and also makes me look like I have a milk mustache in the right light 🤣
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Destiny ✨ @destinysdreamlands.bsky.social · 17/08/2026
didn't buy a pack of cigarettes but sure do have an inadvisable amount of weed now harm reduction 🫠
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Destiny ✨ @destinysdreamlands.bsky.social · 16/08/2026
tomorrow is my last day of vacation before heading back to work and I realized I am much less okay about it than I thought. been low-key having a panic attack about it since yesterday, just didn't clock why I keep almost crying until walking home in the rain. blah what a fucking mess 😩
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Destiny ✨ @destinysdreamlands.bsky.social · 16/08/2026
every time I hear a barrage of fireworks at a time I'm not expecting them, I have a glorious split second where I get to wonder if It Happened 😂
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Destiny ✨ @destinysdreamlands.bsky.social · 13/08/2026
me: food's just not tasting right any more, feels like a lot of recipes changes also me, panicking: omg am I pregnant??? friends, I had a hysterectomy almost 6 years ago 🤣
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Destiny ✨ @destinysdreamlands.bsky.social · 13/08/2026
first at-home ketamine therapy session was a success. I know how to set myself up even better next time, and I get to just fully come down at home rather than riding most of it out in a Lyft.
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Destiny ✨ @destinysdreamlands.bsky.social · 11/08/2026
forgetting to turn your alarm off when you're on vacation is such a fuck you from past to present you 😭
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