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David J. Ley Ph.D.

@davidleyphd.bsky.social
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Shrink, author, sex and psychology expert witness. Black belt in BJJ, Burner, beer and bourbon enthusiast. Oh. And Dad jokes. Sorry.

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David J. Ley Ph.D. @davidleyphd.bsky.social · 07/09/2026
Trump posts map that renames New Mexico 'New America'. Umm, Sooorro instead of Socorro? I think someone needs a geography class. nypost.com/2026/09/06/u...
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Trump posts map that renames New Mexico ‘New America’
President Trump posted a map showing New Mexico rebranded as “New America” during a rapid-fire Truth Social storm on Sunday.
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David J. Ley Ph.D. @davidleyphd.bsky.social · 22/08/2026
It’s okay if you sleep through this. Just moan appreciatively. www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/wome...
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David J. Ley Ph.D. @davidleyphd.bsky.social · 22/04/2026
I think there’s flavors of porn addiction in the catholic 1962 movie Pages of Death. It was definitely invoked by Falwell and Dobson in the early 80’s campaign to get playboy off 7/11 shelves.
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Pincushion the Snipped @hypnodrone.bsky.social · 22/03/2026
Do whatever floats your boat and works for you and your family, but no, perpetuating pseudoscientific myths to your children about “sex addiction” isn’t healthy or ethical. Yeesh, @nytimes.com, do better. 😬 @davidleyphd.bsky.social www.nytimes.com/2026/03/14/m...
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My Sex Addiction Nearly Wrecked Our Marriage. Do We Have to Tell the Kids?
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The Venus Cuckoldress Podcast @cuckoldressv.bsky.social · 06/04/2026
Have you seen the new book by @1crystalwelch.bsky.social and @davidleyphd.bsky.social Check it out ➡️ a.co/d/0bf0GH8k ❤️A clear, practical, and ethically grounded guide to hotwifing for couples.🥂 #hotwife #hotwifing #cuckold #cuckolding
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The Venus Cuckoldress Podcast @cuckoldressv.bsky.social · 19/02/2026
NEW EPISODE with @davidleyphd.bsky.social and @1crystalwelch.bsky.social A Woman’s Guide to Hotwifing: From the Therapist's Office to Real Life Listen now ➡️ www.venuscuckoldress.com/the-podcast
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David J. Ley Ph.D. @davidleyphd.bsky.social · 10/01/2026
2026 has aged fast.
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Mistress Matisse @mistressmatisse.bsky.social · 03/01/2026
Elon Musk is a four star general in the war on women
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Justin Lehmiller @justinlehmiller.bsky.social · 04/11/2025
Online stings to catch sexual predators are on the rise. A growing number are targeting ageplay kink communities, in which adults engage in role play as children. David J. Ley Ph.D.https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/women-who-stray/202511/could-your-kink-be-misunderstood-by-law-enforcement
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Could Your Kink Be Misunderstood by Law Enforcement?
Online stings by law enforcement effectively detect potential sexual offenders. However, they may also pose a potential risk to people who engage in fantasy online roleplay.
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Katie Witkiewitz @katiew.bsky.social · 05/10/2025
Absolutely amazing balloon fiesta day!! Made the full NM experience complete with a close call with a western diamondback rattlesnake during balloon retrieval. 🐍😬 @lcornelas.bsky.social @davidleyphd.bsky.social
Balloons lit up at nightLaura Ornelas and Katie Witkiewitz holding a balloon throat openBalloons in the blue skyRattlesnake in low ground cover
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Katie Witkiewitz @katiew.bsky.social · 04/07/2025
Fridays are also for balloons! Besos Amigos flight with @lcornelas.bsky.social @davidleyphd.bsky.social Missed you @joshuagrubbsphd.bsky.social
In flight, pilot Eric Hodges with Laura Ornelas and Katie Witkiewitz in the balloon basketView of mountains and city from the balloonView of two balloons with city and mountain in background The balloon crew with Katie Witkiewitz, Eric Hodges, Laura Ornelas, David Ley, Morgan and Felix
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Walt Rizzney @cullobsidian.bsky.social · 23/06/2025
If you want a balanced and evidence-based perspective on sex and porn use, follow @silvaneves.bsky.social @nicolerprause.bsky.social @davidleyphd.bsky.social
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David J. Ley Ph.D. @davidleyphd.bsky.social · 06/06/2025
Who had June 5 in the bet on what day Trump and Musk would turn on each other? I know I didn’t. I’d predicted March 3.
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David J. Ley Ph.D. @davidleyphd.bsky.social · 04/06/2025
Hearing that Jobcorps is being defunded across the country, given a week to close?
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David J. Ley Ph.D. @davidleyphd.bsky.social · 22/05/2025
Super thrilled to help author this paper exploring the intersections between modern politics, sexual health, and ethics in psychology. Was honored to support a crew of extraordinary scholars and clinicians.
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Christine Call, PhD @christinecall.bsky.social · 21/05/2025
Shout out to coauthors: @tabachnickar.bsky.social @cassie-boness.bsky.social @stef-l-sequeira.bsky.social @davidleyphd.bsky.social Plus many who aren’t on Bluesky Let us know what you think and how you are grappling with this in your work!
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David J. Ley Ph.D. @davidleyphd.bsky.social · 18/05/2025
Unm psychology is on fire!!!
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David J. Ley Ph.D. @davidleyphd.bsky.social · 16/05/2025
I randomly emailed an author of a paper on sexual regret, looking for a PDF. (Don’t know him, just found his email) No lie, he had just this morning been on my own website looking for info on me after reading one of my papers. He initially thought my email was some kind of auto spam. Small world.
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David J. Ley Ph.D. @davidleyphd.bsky.social · 14/05/2025
So.
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David J. Ley Ph.D. @davidleyphd.bsky.social · 14/05/2025
Feeling this pretty hard. Like, rigid, granite, in your face level of over exaggerated expression.
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David J. Ley Ph.D. @davidleyphd.bsky.social · 13/05/2025
folks who believe in sex addiction see it as external to the person, separate from who they are, acting "like a drug" on a person, and not entwined with or reflective of who the person is. they really do believe these people are victims and at the control of their sexuality.
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David J. Ley Ph.D. @davidleyphd.bsky.social · 12/05/2025
Seems like accepting a plane from a foreign country with known Russian ties and using the plane to transport the President might have some security concerns. Surely the plane might not be wired for monitoring or have secret killswitch?
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David J. Ley Ph.D. @davidleyphd.bsky.social · 08/05/2025
G yes.
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David J. Ley Ph.D. @davidleyphd.bsky.social · 07/05/2025
Some rando sent me a ChatGPT “analysis” of one of my articles. Was rather reassuring how inaccurate it was. Apparently ChatGPT believes “porn hijack’s dopamine systems”?
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David J. Ley Ph.D. @davidleyphd.bsky.social · 07/05/2025
Traveling always inflames my sciatica. Yikes. Is there an airline where I could fly inverted? Or doing yoga?
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Talia al Ghoul 🏳️‍⚧️ @usili.bsky.social · 06/05/2025
also you all need to see this, because this is something I don't think *anybody* could predict for where this ad goes
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David J. Ley Ph.D. @davidleyphd.bsky.social · 06/05/2025
Semen is not a magic fluid that gives you superpowers when retained. Can’t believe this still needs to be said. No, Abstinence Won't Increase Your Testosterone. www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/wome...
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No, Abstinence Won't Increase Your Testosterone
Claims that testosterone is increased by abstinence are based on rather poor science, and seem unlikely to be accurate.
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David J. Ley Ph.D. @davidleyphd.bsky.social · 26/04/2025
Utah psychologist, BYU grad, affiliated with LDS Church, author of a workbook on treating porn addiction gets caught with what? (Drumroll) yes. Child sex abuse material. And charged with exploitation of children he treated. (Not a drag queen, btw). floodlit.org/a/a837/
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Robert Virgil Dindinger Mormon sex abuse case
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David J. Ley Ph.D. @davidleyphd.bsky.social · 24/04/2025
My book ethical porn for dicks! Also @silvaneves.bsky.social book on compulsive sexual behaviors.
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David J. Ley Ph.D. @davidleyphd.bsky.social · 18/04/2025
Same. And yet we both survived! I predict lots of future techno panic over this aspect of AI.
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David J. Ley Ph.D. @davidleyphd.bsky.social · 18/04/2025
Are AI generated romantic partners good or bad for us? I think it depends. But 1 in 4 young adults have used them. We have to start wrestling with this, like it or not! www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/wome...
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AI Romantic and Sexual Partners — More Common Than You Think
Many young people are using AI for sex and romantic purposes, and some report they find it more appealing and comfortable than dealing with real people.
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David J. Ley Ph.D. @davidleyphd.bsky.social · 18/04/2025
Every time someone says “COVID was a fake/fraud/panic,” I say “you took John Prine away motherfucker!” Then, well, I can’t say anything else according to my attorney. See. I can listen.
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David J. Ley Ph.D. @davidleyphd.bsky.social · 16/04/2025
Years ago I explored writing a book with a woman who was a former Mormon polygamist sister wife. She’d entered polygamous marriage in order to be with another woman, whom she was in love with. As a lesbian, she embraced polygamy as a means to be with her female lover. Fascinating story…
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koenfucius @koenfucius.bsky.social · 13/04/2025
The idea of porn addiction should be abandoned, argues @davidleyphd.bsky.social—according to a meta-analysis, it is not the frequency of pornography use that predicts problems with porn, but religiosity and the associated moral incongruence leading to guilt and shame: buff.ly/DFbcjUH
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David J. Ley Ph.D. @davidleyphd.bsky.social · 13/04/2025
This is one of the most fun trainings I get to do. Why are group play, orgies, threesomes and cuckolding such popular fantasies? We explore every nook and cranny! ;-)
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Katie Witkiewitz @katiew.bsky.social · 13/04/2025
After one of the most stressful weeks of my career. Thankful to inflate with the Besos Amigos crew today. Saturdays are for balloons. @lcornelas.bsky.social @davidleyphd.bsky.social @joshuagrubbsphd.bsky.social
Truck with trailer and hot air balloon on empty road Balloons inflating on a dirt lot with sun rising in distance. Inflating a hot air balloon with fan. Hot air balloon rising with sun in distance.
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David J. Ley Ph.D. @davidleyphd.bsky.social · 11/04/2025
Wonder why i despise the proliferation and blurring ofbthe concept of addiction? Heres a good example. I call this “Valley Girl Science.” Just because using bassl spray may be “like” substance use doesn’t mean it’s an addiction. pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC...
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Does nose spray addiction exist? A qualitative analysis of addiction components in rhinitis medicamentosa
Nasal congestion is a prevalent symptom often alleviated with over-the-counter nasal sprays containing decongestants. Rhinitis medicamentosa (RM), caused by the overuse of decongestants leading to rec...
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David J. Ley Ph.D. @davidleyphd.bsky.social · 09/04/2025
Oh even further back than that! Hatterer blamed homosexuality on sex addiction and did conversion therapy to treat it as early as the 60s. Got a big surge after 73 when APA removed homosexuality as disorder. www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/wome...
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Who Is The Real Father of Sex Addiction?
Who is the true father of sex addiction? Could it be a man who treated homosexuality as an addiction?
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Maggie McNeill @maggiemcneill.bsky.social · 09/04/2025
I've been slamming "sex addiction" since early 2011; by November of that year @davidleyphd.bsky.social was calling it "hype" after Newsweek published a cover story on it. maggiemcneill.com/2011/12/04/n... Duggar's case didn't start blowing up until summer of '15. maggiemcneill.com/2015/09/02/i...
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Neither Addiction nor Epidemic
Thought is an infection. In the case of certain thoughts, it becomes an epidemic.  –  Wallace Stevens Back in February I published “Not an Addiction”, in which I criticized the popular confus…
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David J. Ley Ph.D. @davidleyphd.bsky.social · 09/04/2025
It got a big boost in the early 80s when moral majority used porn addiction claims as part of getting playboy magazine banned from 7-11.
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David J. Ley Ph.D. @davidleyphd.bsky.social · 06/04/2025
Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhh. I saw this post and completely misunderstood. Different frames of reference. Like. Completely different. “Does Josh now identify as a sexy older woman?” “Well. Ok.”
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Godspeed You! Woke Moralists @dashwallkick.bsky.social · 05/04/2025
"porn addiction isn't real" finally has scientific proof in a meta study because it finds the root cause - religious upbringing. And this was conducted by people who *went in thinking the addiction was real*! www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/wome...
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Science Stopped Believing in Porn Addiction. You Should, Too
Research finds that porn-related problems are predominantly caused by religious conflict. Clinically, this means people need help, but not necessarily with the porn.
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David J. Ley Ph.D. @davidleyphd.bsky.social · 06/04/2025
Aw shucks. Thanks.
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David J. Ley Ph.D. @davidleyphd.bsky.social · 06/04/2025
Seriously. Especially when it offers an opportunity to present oneself as a visionary savior.
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David J. Ley Ph.D. @davidleyphd.bsky.social · 06/04/2025
This remains a fascinating tale and insight into the personality driven dynamics of mental health and moral panics. One of my alltime favorite back&forths - why did American psychiatrists buy into the claims of Satanic Ritual Abuse w/ so little skepticism? www.psychiatrictimes.com/view/speak-m...
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Speak, Memory
In the 1980s, thousands of patients insisted they were recovering childhood memories of physical and sexual abuse during Satanic cult rituals. Here: a look back at the moral panic.
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Cassie Boness, PhD @cassie-boness.bsky.social · 01/04/2025
We're looking for submissions that advance the research on a range of topics related to behavioral "addictions" including classification and diagnosis, etiology, and heterogeneity! Please share.
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David J. Ley Ph.D. @davidleyphd.bsky.social · 31/03/2025
Great job Nate. I appreciate having a page to refer people to!
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David J. Ley Ph.D. @davidleyphd.bsky.social · 28/03/2025
Just ran across this. (Disclosure, I’m the blogger he mentions. Though I’m definitely not the only blogger/writer who has commented on Sebdler’s fraud). Fake sex researcher loses zoophilia paper over ethical concerns – Retraction Watch retractionwatch.com/2022/03/23/f...
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Fake sex researcher loses zoophilia paper over ethical concerns
Damian Jacob Sendler An alleged sex researcher with a history of making things up has lost a 2019 paper on the habits of people who have sex with animals over concerns about the ethics approval for…
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David J. Ley Ph.D. @davidleyphd.bsky.social · 27/03/2025
And now SAMHSA seems to be next for destruction. (By absorbing it into a structure that will diminish any progress on behavioral health and substance use.)
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David J. Ley Ph.D. @davidleyphd.bsky.social · 26/03/2025
Yikes. Now I know why you’ve ignored my poignant and humorous texts.
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