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Corey H.

@chinders.bsky.social
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Oh god not another one of these Right okay I’m a disabled queer trans parent ADHD gym rat techie nerd. I help people with the awesome folks at @distributeaid.org

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Corey H. @chinders.bsky.social · 05/10/2026
At one point in the movie, Reynolds qua Top Gun style American hotshot, 1987, says to his new Russian buddy, “right now the only way to stand up for my country is to stand up TO it” and then I had to cry
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Corey H. @chinders.bsky.social · 05/10/2026
Just watched Mayday (Apple TV) and it’s the perfect fucking tribute to Top Gun for our time www.imdb.com/title/tt2801...
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Corey H. @chinders.bsky.social · 05/10/2026
Hell yeah nice work
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Corey H. @chinders.bsky.social · 03/10/2026
It’s a super great culture so far, the place we’re going is run by a Polynesian family and they’re super chill
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Corey H. @chinders.bsky.social · 03/10/2026
The kids at this preteen parkour class are so damn wholesome and fun
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Corey H. @chinders.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
🩵🩵🩵
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Corey H. @chinders.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
YES BRO I WISH TO JOIN YOU IN THIS ENDEAVOR Also I have other trans ND friends who would be super down
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Corey H. @chinders.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
YES FOR SURE
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Corey H. @chinders.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
In that case I shall let you know next time u head to Tahoe or northwards of there, but that’s not infrequent assuming I get back to my backpacking shenanigans next year
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Corey H. @chinders.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
Oh damn you’re in a totally different place than I thought! Well next time I’m headed east I may hit you up
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Corey H. @chinders.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
Man that’s beautiful light and yay grazing Random, but can @tigerspot.bsky.social and I buy you a meal & say hi when we drive up to Seattle (from the bay) sometime? we’d love to meet the animals too but IDK if they like strangers
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Corey H. @chinders.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
Or volunteer for @distributeaid.org if you want to help from your couch Do something! You’ll feel better. I promise.
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Corey H. @chinders.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
Hmmmmm speaking of, I’ve realized I could do game dev just for fun in my spare time What a concept, news at 11
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Corey H. @chinders.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
Nice!! Also like. That’s how brains do sometimes!
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Corey H. @chinders.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
Sadly nooooo I am plotting various work travel though so I may let you know when I’m next in the Boston-ish area? I know that’s not super close but might be worth a side trip for me
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Corey H. @chinders.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
For instance the book “Atomic Habits” did a good job of balancing structure with content to make a very navigable, memorable book But if they’d done punchy stuff even a tiny bit more it would have become extremely grating
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Corey H. @chinders.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
Well and there’s a cadence to how often is “optimal” for using those punchy structures even if you’re leaning in for like, didactic reasons
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Corey H. @chinders.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
This stylist understood material drape and movement a lot better than Sleeves “No Iron” McGee does
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Corey H. @chinders.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
Ah yes I see It can be done share.google/images/Bt5mZ...
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Corey H. @chinders.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
(What’s bad in tech land for me right now is that my current 8hr a week training thing runs until 4am my time)
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Corey H. @chinders.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
It’s almost as though there are nuances of human communication that the AI has yet to grasp …honestly I find this very comforting
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Corey H. @chinders.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
Done in the tech mines for the night. What’s good in tech land tonight ? I got to see a coworker’s cat today so that was awesome
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Corey H. @chinders.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
I think it’s funny that “knows how to set a boundary and let it go” is an important skill for managing robots now The amount of EQ involved in doing it well is currently very high Given the tech industry’s, well, everything, I think that’s HILARIOUS
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Corey H. @chinders.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
What a weird fucking timeline
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Corey H. @chinders.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
But sometimes a winelib is a good person to have on the team!
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Corey H. @chinders.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
It’s every almost-there-but-hasn’t-reaaaallly-grasped-it ally archetype So: yes
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Corey H. @chinders.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
The phrasing and cadence is impossible to miss once you’ve learned to see it It’s interesting to try to codify it! Removing all em-dashes helps a lot, but it’s only like 25% of the story
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Corey H. @chinders.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
This is helpful cultural knowledge!!
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Corey H. @chinders.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
Huh I couldn’t take the misgendering but I wonder if “assume we’re both AFAB” translates to the same gloss
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Corey H. @chinders.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
(lightest color, in case it wasn’t clear)
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Corey H. @chinders.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
You cannot have your jacket be your lightest item in that fabric/color combo! I don’t know why and someone CAN probably pull it off but not this guy
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Corey H. @chinders.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
Back to this guy: tuck your damn pocket flaps in! Also pay for basic hemming next time!
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Corey H. @chinders.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
As a trans guy I am like an anthropologist of style “ah yes this is meant to communicate this. but…but why? why purely decorative hammer loops?”
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Corey H. @chinders.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
Just no understanding of the language of fashion, they said, revealing their main external source of men’s fashion knowledge
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Corey H. @chinders.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
Polo is not what I would choose for this…casual fit, is what this is supposed to be, I guess A t shirt would be a lot more coherent. Or a short sleeve patterned shirt. Almost literally anything but an old polo.
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Corey H. @chinders.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
Classic ‘tism blunder, my bad
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Corey H. @chinders.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
Yeah I realized after the fact that I got too excited about my special interest and misread the assignment
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Corey H. @chinders.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
You didn’t mention my hyperfixation Noah Kahan This is fair but I’m going to add his name to the list of things people should really check out. The Great Divide is an experience.
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Corey H. @chinders.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
Oooooh that’s super cool looking! @tigerspot.bsky.social have you already ordered a copy or am I grabbing one?
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Corey H. @chinders.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
Honestly checks out
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Corey H. @chinders.bsky.social · 26/09/2026
Thank youuuu
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Corey H. @chinders.bsky.social · 26/09/2026
Do you have a link for such a protocol handy?
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Corey H. @chinders.bsky.social · 26/09/2026
We doin sunset pics?
A building lit from within surrounded by dark trees in the foreground; a wash of sunset fades into twilight
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Corey H. @chinders.bsky.social · 26/09/2026
Honestly I should switch to a kindle or other e-ink device for the same reason
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Corey H. @chinders.bsky.social · 26/09/2026
It’s a good day to remember right now.
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Corey H. @chinders.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
Everyone is being extremely normal
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Corey H. @chinders.bsky.social · 24/09/2026
Oh HELL to the no
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Corey H. @chinders.bsky.social · 24/09/2026
Gotta reset that equity clock or people get uppity
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Corey H. @chinders.bsky.social · 23/09/2026
Hmmmmm gonna have to try that
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