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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 02/11/2025

Oh no, I figured out something new about myself and now worry that everyone in my life will think I was lying before. 🥰🫣

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 20/09/2025

There are a lot of things I will never forgive my (former) abuser for, but one of the tamer ones is destroying my entire Buffy dvd collection.

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 13/09/2025

Sometimes, healing from trauma looks like actually enjoying scary Halloween stuff again and being fully aware that I'm not actually in danger and that it's all in good fun. Happy spooky season!

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 28/08/2025

The world is overwhelming right now and its hard to know who is on your side so let me be clear that I am firmly on the Left politically. The reason I say stuff about renfaires and amusement parks is that I need constant stimulation to ward off the deep aching dread lately. Okay thank you

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 27/08/2025

I'm really terrible at making friends. I am guessing it's bc I try to get deeply connected with people and do not know how to be casual but I'm not really sure. Anyway, if anyone is in the Massachusetts area and wants to nerd out and go to the Renaissance faire with me some weekend, let me know.

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 23/08/2025

Hot topic is now selling Buffy the Vampire Slayer merchandise again, which proves that I am not stuck in the past. I'm actually cool. (Yeah, right but I'm excited that people are talking about Buffy)

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a woman is sitting at a table and says be kind rewind .

ALT: a woman is sitting at a table and says be kind rewind .

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 27/06/2025

I wonder...if a cross repels vampires in the buffyverse, would all religious or spiritual symbols do the same thing? Why or why not? I also sometimes wonder what Jenny Calendar would think of the technological innovations of today. Hmmm🤔💜

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 03/06/2025

Yes, partly. But I feel like this shows a larger problem so I don't just mean that one.

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 03/06/2025

If a TV show is too expensive to make, why not just tell the creators and writers that they only have one more season and they better wrap things up? It makes it risky and annoying to get invested in new shows knowing they can be dropped at any time, no matter how wonderful.

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 13/05/2025

"You're so responsible." Thanks, it is exhausting. Rewarding in the long run, but exhausting. I would love it if I had a safe chance to let loose one of these days.

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 30/04/2025

I can't believe it took me this long to get the parenthood game pack in the sims. It adds so much fun gameplay! I needed some happy, wholesome fun today.🤗

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 25/04/2025

Congratulations!! 🧁🙂

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 23/04/2025

I'm so sorry. I'm scared too. 💜🏳️‍🌈

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 20/04/2025

Oh, Gwen rocked! I loved that character. I feel like the game was setting us up for a more choice based second game with Chloe, as I thought they were hinting at in the end. So it would be a shame if it just didn't happen.

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Storm Faerywolf @faerywolf.bsky.social · 19/04/2025

As the USA continues its slide into fascism, the need for subversion is greater than ever. Thank the gods for queer folk, who have been opposing the boring, gray masses for ages. We need rainbow glitter and even a dose of filth! My latest for @thewildhunt.bsky.social wildhunt.org/2025/04/divi...

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Divine Subversion as Queer Resistance - Living, Paganism, Perspectives, Politics, U.K., U.S., Witchcraft

Witchcraft & Pagan News - We need to be queer-as-f**k in the face of overwhelming oppression. Those of us who feel called to be visible can stand as lights for those trapped in the darkness of their c...

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 18/04/2025

Any other Life is Strange fans here who enjoyed Double Exposure? Sure, I wish we could have had Chloe in the game but it does actually make sense if they broke up in the living timeline. I'm really hoping we get that next installment they promised 🤗 #lifeisstrange #lisdoubleexposure

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 17/04/2025

It really would! And I think she absolutely would have been in the show. It's incredibly sad. I felt like she was meant to represent the slightly younger audience of Buffy when she came on, which is likely why so many people were annoyed with the character at first. Nobody likes a mirror.

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 17/04/2025

I'd appreciate at least a little appearance from Giles (Anthony Head) as well. I dunno what they would do for Spike if they wanted him back. Say that he found a way to become human or something? I'm so curious to see what they do with the whole story. I've been waiting so long!

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 16/04/2025

This is a very good read. More people should see it.

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Ducky (Old Account) @plc.ducky.ws · 14/04/2025

I imagine this is a common fear amongst others who are #Aromantic: as friends settle into committed relationships, there's a worry about being sidelined and feeling disconnected — being left behind. Please, don't forget about us ❤️

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 11/04/2025

I don't like this timeline. I was meant to live a life of whimsy, not cold, hard practicality. Maybe we all were.

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 09/04/2025

Oh my goodness, that is gorgeous!!

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 09/04/2025

I would love them to get hotels! I don't always want them to rent the entire house. It doesn't make sense with some of my stories.

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 08/04/2025

A really kind and supportive teacher I have pointed out to me once that sexuality can be fluid. That is something I can hold onto as I explore my asexual identity with the freedom to see where it goes and what it means. (And how that may or may not change!) We are all valid.

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 07/04/2025

I should mention that the books are by Cressida Cowell and I highly recommend them. (My son was around 7 when we started reading them and still loves the story at 12.) The movies are delightful as well but very different.

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 07/04/2025

Oh I want so badly to go to the new isle of berk attraction at Universal studios. Those are the first chapter books my son and I read together and it got him so excited about reading. Plus the story is so lovely.

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Radiant G🌈 @radiantg.bsky.social · 06/04/2025

Happy #AsexualityDay to: 🖤Aromantic Aces 🩶Allomantic Aces 🤍Homoromantic Aces 💜Heteroromantic Aces 🖤Bi/Panromantic Aces 🩶Sex Averse Aces 🤍Sex Neutral Aces 💜Sex Favorable Aces 🖤Kinky Aces 🩶Vanilla Aces 🤍Queerplatonic Aces 💜Demisexuals 🖤Grey-Asexuals 🩶Aegosexuals 🤍Acefluxes 💜Aroflux Aces 🖤🩶ALL ACES!🤍💜

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Jeremy Wylde @jeremygonewild.bsky.social · 01/04/2025

Reminder for all my neurodivergent people out there: at midnight it becomes April Fools Day. Trust nothing. Trust no one. Not everything will be a lie, but operate under the assumption that everything is a lie until proven true.

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 25/03/2025

When people touch me in any way without consent, it makes me not want to have a body at all.

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 22/03/2025

Okay, the new wheel of time season is completely captivating. I had a hard time with the first episode, but then I was all in. It's nice to have a good show to watch again.

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 19/03/2025

I have accidentally created a uniform for myself. I basically wear some version of this outfit almost every day. My closet is full of variations on the same shirt and 5 pairs of the exact same jeans. It makes me so happy.

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 15/03/2025

And it should be! It would be so much fun. Sometimes, stuff like this makes me want to try mods, but I feel like I would kill my poor computer by accident.

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 06/03/2025

I didn't even know there was a cheat for that! I'm off to do some googling bc no matter how much I give them want they want, my sims get that fear.

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 26/02/2025

Oh this is so sad. I will always remember her as Dawn and Harriet the spy. Rest in peace

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 25/02/2025

I love how silly the sims is. It makes me so happy.

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 25/02/2025

I really enjoyed this article about the potential Buffy revival.

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Asexuals.net @asexuals.net · 23/02/2025

Wouldn't it be cool if there was an app for asexuals to find friendships or a relationship? If only we had an app like that... 👀 And if only there was a special day coming up where it could be released... 😏 #asexuality #IAD

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 24/02/2025

I use playing the sims to practice social situations, which works really well except that now when I don't know what to do next, I stand there waiting for my next command, much like...a sim.

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 22/02/2025

I get so attached to characters in shows and books that it's downright ridiculous. I think it really reflects how I've had such a hard time letting go of people in real life too.

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 18/02/2025

Playing all of my sims in one huge save file is such joyful chaos. All of my sims meet each other at some point and when I come upon a family I haven't played with in awhile, they've usually adopted a horse and are bartending at the cute little restaurant I've made or downloaded from the gallery.

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The Grey Rainbow @thegreyrainbow.bsky.social · 15/02/2025

I'm almost certain the media are angered at asexuality because they can't weaponise sexual thoughts, or actions, or both.

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 15/02/2025

I agree with you. Full health coverage for everyone is a right. I'm really sorry you're going through this.

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 14/02/2025

That was me! They look really cute; I'm excited to get them.

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 13/02/2025

One thing that infuriates me is how I have to come out as ace over and over again bc people think that it's something I'll eventually be "cured" of. F you, condescending jerks.

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 12/02/2025

I don't often use voice commands on my phone, but when I do, I always say thank you...can't be too careful. Maybe the robots will remember I was kind.

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 10/02/2025

Sims3 was great but it never played correctly on my computer. I'm glad they kind of downgraded a little bit so I could still play. Plus I think the graphics are cute, just a little more polished than they were in the sims2.

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 09/02/2025

That is so incredibly horrible.

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QueerAF @wearequeeraf.com · 08/02/2025

A new study has found high levels of intolerance and ignorance towards the asexual community among young people, and conclude that the community is facing prejudice at greater levels than most other groups in society. 👇

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Asexual people face alarming rates of intolerance and ignorance in the UK, new research

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