iiinova — where your digital self keeps evolving

Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 02/11/2025

Oh no, I figured out something new about myself and now worry that everyone in my life will think I was lying before. 🥰🫣

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 20/09/2025

There are a lot of things I will never forgive my (former) abuser for, but one of the tamer ones is destroying my entire Buffy dvd collection.

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 13/09/2025

Sometimes, healing from trauma looks like actually enjoying scary Halloween stuff again and being fully aware that I'm not actually in danger and that it's all in good fun. Happy spooky season!

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 28/08/2025

The world is overwhelming right now and its hard to know who is on your side so let me be clear that I am firmly on the Left politically. The reason I say stuff about renfaires and amusement parks is that I need constant stimulation to ward off the deep aching dread lately. Okay thank you

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 27/08/2025

I'm really terrible at making friends. I am guessing it's bc I try to get deeply connected with people and do not know how to be casual but I'm not really sure. Anyway, if anyone is in the Massachusetts area and wants to nerd out and go to the Renaissance faire with me some weekend, let me know.

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 23/08/2025

Hot topic is now selling Buffy the Vampire Slayer merchandise again, which proves that I am not stuck in the past. I'm actually cool. (Yeah, right but I'm excited that people are talking about Buffy)

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a woman is sitting at a table and says be kind rewind .

ALT: a woman is sitting at a table and says be kind rewind .

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 27/06/2025

I wonder...if a cross repels vampires in the buffyverse, would all religious or spiritual symbols do the same thing? Why or why not? I also sometimes wonder what Jenny Calendar would think of the technological innovations of today. Hmmm🤔💜

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 03/06/2025

If a TV show is too expensive to make, why not just tell the creators and writers that they only have one more season and they better wrap things up? It makes it risky and annoying to get invested in new shows knowing they can be dropped at any time, no matter how wonderful.

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 13/05/2025

"You're so responsible." Thanks, it is exhausting. Rewarding in the long run, but exhausting. I would love it if I had a safe chance to let loose one of these days.

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 30/04/2025

I can't believe it took me this long to get the parenthood game pack in the sims. It adds so much fun gameplay! I needed some happy, wholesome fun today.🤗

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Storm Faerywolf @faerywolf.bsky.social · 19/04/2025

As the USA continues its slide into fascism, the need for subversion is greater than ever. Thank the gods for queer folk, who have been opposing the boring, gray masses for ages. We need rainbow glitter and even a dose of filth! My latest for @thewildhunt.bsky.social wildhunt.org/2025/04/divi...

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Divine Subversion as Queer Resistance - Living, Paganism, Perspectives, Politics, U.K., U.S., Witchcraft

Witchcraft & Pagan News - We need to be queer-as-f**k in the face of overwhelming oppression. Those of us who feel called to be visible can stand as lights for those trapped in the darkness of their c...

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 18/04/2025

Any other Life is Strange fans here who enjoyed Double Exposure? Sure, I wish we could have had Chloe in the game but it does actually make sense if they broke up in the living timeline. I'm really hoping we get that next installment they promised 🤗 #lifeisstrange #lisdoubleexposure

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 16/04/2025

This is a very good read. More people should see it.

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Ducky (Old Account) @plc.ducky.ws · 14/04/2025

I imagine this is a common fear amongst others who are #Aromantic: as friends settle into committed relationships, there's a worry about being sidelined and feeling disconnected — being left behind. Please, don't forget about us ❤️

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 11/04/2025

I don't like this timeline. I was meant to live a life of whimsy, not cold, hard practicality. Maybe we all were.

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 08/04/2025

A really kind and supportive teacher I have pointed out to me once that sexuality can be fluid. That is something I can hold onto as I explore my asexual identity with the freedom to see where it goes and what it means. (And how that may or may not change!) We are all valid.

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 07/04/2025

Oh I want so badly to go to the new isle of berk attraction at Universal studios. Those are the first chapter books my son and I read together and it got him so excited about reading. Plus the story is so lovely.

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Radiant G🌈 @radiantg.bsky.social · 06/04/2025

Happy #AsexualityDay to: 🖤Aromantic Aces 🩶Allomantic Aces 🤍Homoromantic Aces 💜Heteroromantic Aces 🖤Bi/Panromantic Aces 🩶Sex Averse Aces 🤍Sex Neutral Aces 💜Sex Favorable Aces 🖤Kinky Aces 🩶Vanilla Aces 🤍Queerplatonic Aces 💜Demisexuals 🖤Grey-Asexuals 🩶Aegosexuals 🤍Acefluxes 💜Aroflux Aces 🖤🩶ALL ACES!🤍💜

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Jeremy Wylde @jeremygonewild.bsky.social · 01/04/2025

Reminder for all my neurodivergent people out there: at midnight it becomes April Fools Day. Trust nothing. Trust no one. Not everything will be a lie, but operate under the assumption that everything is a lie until proven true.

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 25/03/2025

When people touch me in any way without consent, it makes me not want to have a body at all.

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 22/03/2025

Okay, the new wheel of time season is completely captivating. I had a hard time with the first episode, but then I was all in. It's nice to have a good show to watch again.

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 19/03/2025

I have accidentally created a uniform for myself. I basically wear some version of this outfit almost every day. My closet is full of variations on the same shirt and 5 pairs of the exact same jeans. It makes me so happy.

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 26/02/2025

Oh this is so sad. I will always remember her as Dawn and Harriet the spy. Rest in peace

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 25/02/2025

I really enjoyed this article about the potential Buffy revival.

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Asexuals.net @asexuals.net · 23/02/2025

Wouldn't it be cool if there was an app for asexuals to find friendships or a relationship? If only we had an app like that... 👀 And if only there was a special day coming up where it could be released... 😏 #asexuality #IAD

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 24/02/2025

I use playing the sims to practice social situations, which works really well except that now when I don't know what to do next, I stand there waiting for my next command, much like...a sim.

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 22/02/2025

I get so attached to characters in shows and books that it's downright ridiculous. I think it really reflects how I've had such a hard time letting go of people in real life too.

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 18/02/2025

Playing all of my sims in one huge save file is such joyful chaos. All of my sims meet each other at some point and when I come upon a family I haven't played with in awhile, they've usually adopted a horse and are bartending at the cute little restaurant I've made or downloaded from the gallery.

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The Grey Rainbow @thegreyrainbow.bsky.social · 15/02/2025

I'm almost certain the media are angered at asexuality because they can't weaponise sexual thoughts, or actions, or both.

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 13/02/2025

One thing that infuriates me is how I have to come out as ace over and over again bc people think that it's something I'll eventually be "cured" of. F you, condescending jerks.

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 12/02/2025

I don't often use voice commands on my phone, but when I do, I always say thank you...can't be too careful. Maybe the robots will remember I was kind.

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QueerAF @wearequeeraf.com · 08/02/2025

A new study has found high levels of intolerance and ignorance towards the asexual community among young people, and conclude that the community is facing prejudice at greater levels than most other groups in society. 👇

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Asexual people face alarming rates of intolerance and ignorance in the UK, new research

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 07/02/2025

The fact that a lot of people don't fully understand this is one of the reasons why spousal rape is so difficult to explain/report. It's what happened to me.

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Slayerfest 98: A Queer Podcast @slayerfestx98.bsky.social · 05/02/2025

SMG always speaks the truth

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Megan Kearney @spookymeggie.bsky.social · 20/11/2024

In case there was any doubt at all

A gif from Planned Parenthood that reads "Protect Trans Kids" in pink, white and teal, with graphic starshine effects

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 03/02/2025

Well played hulu. I'll never ever cancel if this is true. I need my slayer.

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 31/01/2025

At this time, I've settled on getting my news from NPR, The NYTimes and the Boston Globe. I like having multiple sources and do not want my information to come from social media because anybody can fall for a conspiracy theory. I limit my time with the news though so as not to sink into despair.💜

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 31/01/2025

I'm currently recovering from surgery #2 to fix my teeth/gums. I'm very swollen and can't really talk, but (so far) the pain is more manageable than last time. Hopefully, I never have to do this again. I really love all the people who have been supportive🥰

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 30/01/2025

I love my little blue state of Massachusetts.

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Emily K @emkultra64.com · 29/01/2025

Do you know why a president would do all the most evil and heinous shit via Executive Order? Because his party can't easily make it law. And if they can't make it law, they can't make it last. Don't let anyone make you feel like this is The End. Do not let them demoralize you. Live to see them die.

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 25/01/2025

I deleted the fb app off my phone the other day and I already feel so much better in my day to day life. I'm keeping my account for now but if I really need to go on there, it'll be on a regular computer like the olden times.

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 22/01/2025

Who else is just done with tiktok after their weird little thank you propaganda message? I'm enjoying watching YouTube again when I need my cute little videos. I don't know what to do about fb or insta at the moment.

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 21/01/2025

I'm gonna retreat to the little queer utopia that is my sims game for awhile. Feeling very sad today.

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 19/01/2025

I'm well aware that the reason fun hair colors don't show up on me is bc I'm not patient enough to bleach the hair first, but just let me be a little sad that I can't have purple hair please? (Yes, I am distracting myself from the general state of the nation rn)

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Cat🏹 @catarrow.bsky.social · 15/01/2025

The sims4 is the ultimate fanfiction tool. Where else can I create replicas of my favorite places from stories and shows and then let the characters just live? Sometimes, I can make a story or just sit in that fantasy space. It's the zen moments that I need right now. #thesims4

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