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Carly Findlay OAM

@carlyfindlay.bsky.social
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⭐️ Writer ⭐️ Speaker ⭐️ Arts worker ⭐️ Appearance Activist ⭐️ Cheese lover ⭐️ Rollerskater ⭐️ Feeling fucking fabulous⭐️ CarlyFindlay.com.au

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Carly Findlay OAM @carlyfindlay.bsky.social · 26/06/2026
Blogged: today is my two year cancerversary - here’s what I’ve learnt about survivorship. carlyfindlay.com.au/2026/06/26/t...
Image: Carly, a woman with red skin and short dark curly hair, wearing a pink jumper over a green floral dress, and black boots, her hand is on her hip, she is standing outside a cafe smiling. 
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Carly Findlay OAM @carlyfindlay.bsky.social · 07/06/2026
I wrote this for the ABC: www.abc.net.au/news/2026-06...
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Love story: Accepting my body is my greatest achievement
I'd take a cure for the pain, but I wouldn't take a cure for my appearance. This is who I am and why should I change myself to make other people more comfortable?
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Carly Findlay OAM @carlyfindlay.bsky.social · 08/05/2026
Blogged: my disability horror movies carlyfindlay.com.au/2026/05/04/m... Video: a series of photos of Carly – some in hospital settings, some where she has cancer, one in field of flowers. Text is over photos. Music is Katy Perry – “In another life, I would be your girl”.
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Carly Findlay OAM @carlyfindlay.bsky.social · 08/05/2026
Newly blogged: heating (and cooling) is an access need carlyfindlay.com.au/2026/05/07/h...
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Heating (and cooling) is an access need - Carly Findlay
Heating (and cooling) is an access need. Truly. Today’s temperature in Melbourne was a top of 11 degrees Celsius, it felt like 7. It was very cold. For some of the day, I worked in a very cold, old bu...
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Frances Ryan @francesryan.bsky.social · 13/04/2026
Next up in my countdown to the WHO WANTS NORMAL? paperback (out Thursday) is my piece for Elle on dating in an ableist world. “Prejudice and exclusion is like a mirror at the fairground: it distorts and limits how disabled women see ourselves, and how others see us.” www.elle.com/uk/life-and-...
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From Sex To Ghosting, These Are The Realities Of Dating With A Disability
When Frances Ryan began researching her new book Who Wants To Be Normal?, she discovered that there's one part of life that's stuck in the dark ages for disabled women
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Carly Findlay OAM @carlyfindlay.bsky.social · 13/04/2026
Sometimes people ask where I am, given I’m not active here, and pretty much left the binfire that is X. I am on Instagram - Instagram.com/carlyfindlay Facebook.com/tune.into.radio.carly And blog - CarlyFindlay.com.au And yes, I wore this and felt fucking fabulous. :)
Carly, a woman with red skin and short dark curly hair, wearing  long red dress, black boots and carrying a beaded bag with tomatoes on it.
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Carly Findlay OAM @carlyfindlay.bsky.social · 28/07/2025
I want to work with you! carlyfindlay.com.au/2025/07/28/i...
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I want to work with you! - Carly Findlay
I’m looking for some work! I’d like to supplement my part time job, so I’m looking for one off gigs like: - speeches, MCing, training at conferences, team building days, awards etc (specialising in to...
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Carly Findlay OAM @carlyfindlay.bsky.social · 26/05/2025
My friend Satu and her family needs help right now. Satu’s daughter Chioma was hit by a car and she is in a critical condition in ICU. There’s a GoFunMe to help her family below. Please share this and donate if you can. Thank you 🩵 www.gofundme.com/f/chiomas-ca...
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Donate to Support Chioma and her family., organized by Amelia Begbie
Many will have heard that Chioma was hit by a car on Somerville Rd on Sunday 25th of May.… Amelia Begbie needs your support for Support Chioma and her family.
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Carly Findlay OAM @carlyfindlay.bsky.social · 25/05/2025
Can you help Alyce in Toowoomba? Media release drive.google.com/drive/folder...

Please do an image description 
ChatGPT said:
The image is a promotional poster for a snap community action event. The background is a gradient of pink with white dots, and the text is in bold, colorful fonts for emphasis.

Main text content:

Header:
“SNAP COMMUNITY ACTION”
"SNAP" is in a yellow box
"COMMUNITY" is in a purple box
"ACTION" is in a teal box
Message:
“Demand the return of Alyce’s vital accessibility aids from her former landlord”
(The phrase “vital accessibility aids” is highlighted in yellow.)
Event details:
Date & Time:
“Mon 26 May, 10am”
(The date and time are in bold black text on a purple background.)
Location:
“44 Magpie Drive, Cambooya” (also in black on purple background)
Contingency plan:
“& if real estate fails to attend by 11am, we’ll move to Realway Property Partners (295 Ruthven St, Toowoomba)”
Visual Element:
On the right side of the poster, there is a woman in a red floral dress sitting in a pink and black power wheelchair. She is smiling and holding her hand near her face in a thoughtful pose.

This poster appears to be calling for a public demonstration to support Alyce in reclaiming essential accessibility equipment from her previous landlord.
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Carly Findlay OAM @carlyfindlay.bsky.social · 06/04/2025
I did an interview on the Spoony podcast - Spoony is an app for disabled friendships. I’m an ambassador for @spoony.app. I did this interview when I was doing cancer treatment, and I talked about ichthyosis too. Enjoy. open.spotify.com/episode/5Bzr...
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Episode 6 - Carly Findlay: Life with Ichthyosis, Cancer, and the Power of Authentic Advocacy
No Spoons to Give · Episode
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Carly Findlay OAM @carlyfindlay.bsky.social · 20/03/2025
Blogged: Neurodiversity Celebration Week carlyfindlay.com.au/2025/03/20/n...
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Neurodiversity Celebration Week - Carly Findlay
It’s neurodiversity celebration week! I am Neurodivergent. I have a partial ADHD diagnosis. It’s partial (or provisional) because it costs a lot of money to get an assessment for a full diagnosis, and...
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Carly Findlay OAM @carlyfindlay.bsky.social · 18/03/2025
Blogged: What gifts should you give a friend who’s having cancer treatment? carlyfindlay.com.au/2025/03/18/w...
Image: carly in hospital, sitting in a chair having lunch chemo. She’s dressed colourfully and a colourful blanket is over her. A towel covers her arm where the drip and cannula gives the chemotherapy. Text reads: “what are some gifts to give your friend who’s having cancer treatment?”
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El Gibbs @bluntshovels.bsky.social · 17/03/2025
'Now, living off jobseeker, he barely scrapes by. He hardly leaves his house in Crystal Brook, South Australia, he hardly showers, he hardly eats meat. He says being poor in this country is getting harder.' www.theguardian.com/australia-ne...
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Peter is barely scraping by on jobseeker. Experts think this is going to be an election issue
Being poor in this country is getting harder, 62-year-old South Australian says, as two major reports call for the jobseeker rate to be lifted
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Carly Findlay OAM @carlyfindlay.bsky.social · 15/03/2025
Blogged: When parents grieve their disabled child. carlyfindlay.com.au/2025/03/15/w...
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When parents grieve their disabled child. - Carly Findlay
Content warning: ableism, suicide, death This is from the audiobook of a chapter of my memoir, Say Hello - the chapter is called “Grief (and hope)”. It’s a long piece of audio, but please stick with i...
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Carly Findlay OAM @carlyfindlay.bsky.social · 03/03/2025
Most weeks I think about how cancer took my body autonomy away. I wrote this the night before I had my hysterectomy and cancer diagnosis. Reading it almost nine months on, my feelings are still the same. It’s complicated. carlyfindlay.com.au/2024/06/25/h...
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How am I feeling ahead of my hysterectomy? It’s complicated. - Carly Findlay
I’m processing my feelings in the best way I know how - writing it down. I am having a hysterectomy because I have a large growth on my ovary. I have had symptoms which I thought were related to bowel...
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Carly Findlay OAM @carlyfindlay.bsky.social · 03/03/2025
I wanted to experience menopause in my own time, but I was thrust into it. Though I’m sure the hot flushes would have been as meh at 50 as they are at 43. I think now I’m reemerging into the world, I’m getting used to it all. It was too much to get used to after surgery and during treatment.
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Carly Findlay OAM @carlyfindlay.bsky.social · 19/02/2025
Department of Infrastructure are seeking your views on the draft Aviation Customer Rights Charter, which sets out the expectations of fair and reasonable conduct by airlines and airports towards consumers. Have your say: www.infrastructure.gov.au/have-your-sa...
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Carly Findlay OAM @carlyfindlay.bsky.social · 16/02/2025
Blogged: My thoughts on Apple Cider Vinegar carlyfindlay.com.au/2025/02/16/m...
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My thoughts on Apple Cider Vinegar – Netflix - Carly Findlay
I’ve been watching Apple Cider Vinegar - the Netflix series based on Belle Gibson’s life. The series comes off the back of the book investigating Belle Gibson - The Woman who Fooled the World by two A...
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El Gibbs @bluntshovels.bsky.social · 13/02/2025
great piece from Sara Gingold at DSC on where foundational supports have got to teamdsc.com.au/resources/wh...
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What’s happening with foundational supports? - Team DSC
Foundational supports are meant to begin rolling out later this year. Sara explores the timeline, the inter-governmental conflict, everything we know about what the supports might look like, and more.
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Carly Findlay OAM @carlyfindlay.bsky.social · 13/02/2025
Blogged: please don’t ask me to work for free carlyfindlay.com.au/2025/02/13/p...
Image: a photo of Carly, a woman with a red face and short dark curly hair, wearing a long purple dress against a grey wall. Next to her is text “please don’t ask me to work for free” and @carlyfindlay.
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Carly Findlay OAM @carlyfindlay.bsky.social · 12/02/2025
Blogged: mentally wobbly carlyfindlay.com.au/2025/02/12/m...
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Mentally wobbly - Carly Findlay
I’ve been feeling wobbly these last few days. Mentally wobbly - my body feels much stronger and more flexible thanks to doing half frog and happy baby poses at yoga on Monday! I have felt worried abou...
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El Gibbs @bluntshovels.bsky.social · 06/02/2025
such good news, but we need an urgent change to our migration system to make sure this stops happening to disabled people and their families www.abc.net.au/news/2025-02...
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Indonesian family's Australian residency approved after ABC inquiries
Lily Lumintang was reading an ABC story about her family's plea to remain in Australia when her lawyer called to say Home Affairs had granted their family visas, allowing them to avoid deportation and...
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Carly Findlay OAM @carlyfindlay.bsky.social · 02/02/2025
Book me to speak for international women’s day in March 2025! carlyfindlay.com.au/2025/02/02/b... Share this post with someone who might want to hear my message! Thank you!
Image: Carly, a woman with red skin and short dark curly hair, standing in front of books, smiling. She’s wearing a colourful blazer. Text reads “book me to speak for international women’s day” and @carlyfindlay.
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El Gibbs @bluntshovels.bsky.social · 24/01/2025
The only increase in employment of disabled people in decades happened between 2018 and 2022, when WFH became much more widely available. With more frequent data, the US recorded the same trend. This will mean lots of disabled people cannot work.
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Carly Findlay OAM @carlyfindlay.bsky.social · 24/01/2025
Blogged: good health news! carlyfindlay.com.au/2025/01/24/g...
Image: Carly, a woman with red skin and very short dark curly hair, wearing a pink and gold dress with big puff sleeves, and gold boots. Shes also got a gold heart pendant on, and a Little Miss Fabulous brooch. She’s smiling
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Carly Findlay OAM @carlyfindlay.bsky.social · 18/01/2025
Here’s a little update on how I am doing, post chemo and radiotherapy, plus a request for work carlyfindlay.com.au/2025/01/18/p...
Carly, a woman with red skin, wearing a long green, pink and gold floral dress, belted with a gold wrap belt, pink shoes, black sunglasses and a pink floral scarf on her head. She’s standing in the shade under trees. She’s got her hands on her hipand is carrying a big yellow flower shaped bag with sunflowers and ribbons on it.
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Carly Findlay OAM @carlyfindlay.bsky.social · 17/01/2025
I wore this tonight and felt fucking fabulous!
Image: Carly, a woman with red skin and very short dark curly hair, wearing a long ruffled white dress that has lemons, pink flowers, green leaves and black spots on it. A big rose gold heart pendant is around her neck, and her brooch is a Cinderella pumpkin coach. She’s standing on the porch, hand on hip, smiling gently.
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Carly Findlay OAM @carlyfindlay.bsky.social · 31/12/2024
I wrote this. Having cancer gave me so many gifts in 2024 (even though it was a very hard time) I promise it’s not toxic positivity. carlyfindlay.com.au/2024/12/31/h...
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A screen shot of my blog, with the headline: Having cancer gave me so many gifts in 2024 (even though it was a very hard time)
An image breaks the text: Carly, a bald woman due to turn, standing near a cherry blossom tree. She’s wearing a pink floral dress and sunglasses, smiling.
Text below is: “Even though seven months of this year was literal cancer, it wasn’t all bad.
Part of me doesn’t want the year to end. “
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Carly Findlay OAM @carlyfindlay.bsky.social · 25/12/2024
I wrote about the way community has supported me this year. carlyfindlay.com.au/2024/12/25/t...
Image: Carly, a woman with a red face, wearing a scarf on her head, an orange, white and purple dress with yellow sunflowers printed on it, dark sunglasses and gold shoes. She’s smiling gently.
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Carly Findlay OAM @carlyfindlay.bsky.social · 14/12/2024
New post: the end of cancer treatment at the Peter Mac carlyfindlay.com.au/2024/12/14/h...
Carly near a Christmas tree at the hospital
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Carly Findlay OAM @carlyfindlay.bsky.social · 12/12/2024
It’s my last day of radiotherapy tomorrow - ending five months of treatment for ovarian & endometrial cancer. I previously had chemotherapy, and a hysterectomy. My life turned upside down when I was told I might have cancer in May. But so many people have held me up - thankful💜
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Carly Findlay OAM @carlyfindlay.bsky.social · 11/12/2024
I wrote an update on my radiotherapy experience - particularly on its interaction with my ichthyosis. carlyfindlay.com.au/2024/12/11/r...
Image: Carly at the NGV, in front of pink spot art and silver balls.
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Carly Findlay OAM @carlyfindlay.bsky.social · 09/12/2024
Thanks for the lovely birthday wishes everyone. I have had a huge weekend and a busy workload & medical schedule. I haven’t sat down to look at my social media yet - I will do soon. 🩵
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Carly Findlay OAM @carlyfindlay.bsky.social · 08/12/2024
Sharing this because it’s my birthday and it’s been a hard year. Has my work helped you? Do you use it in your work? Please buy me a drink - PayPal.me/carlyfindlay Thank you

image: woman with red face and short dark curly hair wearing a black and coloured spot leather jacket over a purple floral dress. She’s standing near a brick wall, smiling. Text next to her reads: “Has my work helped you think about appearance diversity differently, or have you used it in your work? Please consider buying me a drink! CarlyFindlay.com.au/support-me Thanks!” The text is highlighted with taupe and white.
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Jane King @thejaneking.bsky.social · 08/12/2024
Parody is dead
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Carly Findlay OAM @carlyfindlay.bsky.social · 08/12/2024
It’s my birthday today and I feel fucking fabulous 💝
Image: a woman with a red face, wearing a pink floral dress with puffy sleeves, pink boots and floral hat. She’s standing near a duck and flower mural, smiling.
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Carly Findlay OAM @carlyfindlay.bsky.social · 03/12/2024
Cripmas Wishlist for the Government this International Day of People with Disability carlyfindlay.com.au/2024/12/03/c...
Image: a Christmas tree formed by red squares, and text “Merry Cripmas – my Wishlist for the government this Disability Day”.
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Carly Findlay OAM @carlyfindlay.bsky.social · 28/11/2024
When I was 15 I used the internet to research Savage Garden. The school librarian swayed me gently - suggesting I use the internet to find others w Ichthyosis - the rare severe skin condition I have. It changed my life. I don’t support a social media ban - I support a safer internet.
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Carly Findlay OAM @carlyfindlay.bsky.social · 26/11/2024
Blogged: Some thoughts ahead of Disability Day 2024 It’s eerily quiet. Businesses, brands, govt orgs - where are you? carlyfindlay.com.au/2024/11/26/s...
Carly, a woman with a red face, wearing a gold turban and a pink and gold dress with very puffy sleeves. She’s smiling.  Text reads: “some thoughts ahead of disability  day”
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Carly Findlay OAM @carlyfindlay.bsky.social · 25/11/2024
I wore this and felt fucking fabulous.
Carly, a woman with a red face, wearing a pink heart print hat, a denim jacket over a Cold Chisel tee and a red and pink heart print tulle skirt. She’s smiling.
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John Scalzi @scalzi.com · 23/11/2024
Also: If you don't have money to buy my (or anyone's) books, and you live in the anglosphere, before you pirate them, try to get them from your local library instead. They have it or can get it, they pay for the books, and in many places writers get paid for their books being lent. Everyone wins!
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Carly Findlay OAM @carlyfindlay.bsky.social · 22/11/2024
Just because I have cancer… please don’t diminish the severity of your medical condition or disability, and please don’t avoid telling me that you’re in good health. Me having cancer doesn’t take away from you having a difficult or wonderful time. I want to support and celebrate you. ❤️
Image, a selfie of Carly, a woman with a red face, wearing a chambray shirt over a black top, a silver necklace and a colourful head scarf
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Carly Findlay OAM @carlyfindlay.bsky.social · 18/11/2024
I wrote about slowing down as an access provision. carlyfindlay.com.au/2024/11/18/s...
Image: a selfie of Carly, a woman with a red face, wearing a scarf twisted over her head, and a white floral dress. She’s smiling. “Slow down” is in curved and straight black text next to her.
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Carly Findlay OAM @carlyfindlay.bsky.social · 18/11/2024
Program Manager (Access Fringe) The Program Manager (Access Fringe) will be a catalyst for change, working to make the arts truly accessible to d/Deaf, Disabled, and Neurodivergent artists and audiences. www.artshub.com.au/job/program-...
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Program Manager (Access Fringe) - Job – ArtsHub Australia
Be the change-maker Melbourne Fringe needs!
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s. e. smith @sesmith.lol · 15/11/2024
ICYMI: I wrote about why feminist media (even when it breaks me) is so important to me, and why I cofounded @theflytrapmedia.bsky.social to bring feminist cultural criticism with a bite back to the internet.
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I’m Co-Founding a Feminist Media Collective: Here’s Why Disability Will Be All Over It from the Start
I’m Co-Founding a Feminist Media Collective: Here’s Why Disability Will Be All Over It from the Start   s.e. smith   Fifteen years ago, in October 2009, a mostly feminist group of comrade…
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Carly Findlay OAM @carlyfindlay.bsky.social · 16/11/2024
Hello! I’m here. Lots has happened since I last BlueSkyed. I’m a Melbourne based writer, speaker & arts worker. I am a foodie, (still) baby rollerskater, reader, fashionista, Darren Hayes fan. I have Ichthyosis, & now cancer. The best thing about cancer is finding out I have a nicely shaped head.
Carly, a woman with red skin, balding head, wearing a pink floral dress, standing near a cherry blossom tree, smiling.
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Snarky Platypus @snarkyplatypus.com · 30/08/2023
Platypus sighting initiative starting in Brisbane. It’s like an EXTREMELY DIFFICULT scavenger hunt.
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On the hunt for Brisbane platypus: Where are they, and what do we hope to learn? - ABC listen
The Australian Conservation Foundation wants your help to spot platypus across south-east Queensland.
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Carly Findlay OAM @carlyfindlay.bsky.social · 29/08/2023
Gina Chick is amazing www.abc.net.au/news/2023-08...
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