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Broken Rites

@brokenrites.bsky.social
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Divorced/separated ex spouses/partners of clergy, supporting each other & calling for better support of ministers' families, before, during & after breakdown. UK based, international & interdenominational. Est. 1983 brokenrites.org

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Broken Rites @brokenrites.bsky.social · 14/09/2026
That'd be the same public that thinks the clergy should have an exemplary family life yet be available to them 24/7
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Broken Rites @brokenrites.bsky.social · 13/09/2026
Ah, there we are (in image # 5😆)
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Broken Rites @brokenrites.bsky.social · 12/09/2026
We had a blast! 🤩 Albeit a muddy one
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Broken Rites @brokenrites.bsky.social · 31/08/2026
You did a BRILLIANT job, as ever. All the hard work that goes in to giving so many people so much fun is SO appreciated!
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Broken Rites @brokenrites.bsky.social · 31/08/2026
We had such a great time again. Thank you #greenbelt!
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Broken Rites @brokenrites.bsky.social · 31/08/2026
They were amazing 🤩
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Broken Rites @brokenrites.bsky.social · 26/08/2026
Stay true to herself and her values... and sing!
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Broken Rites @brokenrites.bsky.social · 21/08/2026
Seems the main thing we have to fear is fear itself
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Broken Rites @brokenrites.bsky.social · 17/08/2026
Our condolences, and tardy or non-existent is very appropriate in the circumstances
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Jill Segger @quakerpen.bsky.social · 17/08/2026
38d.gs/1_d8
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Stop the NHS mental health cuts!
I just signed the campaign calling to stop NHS mental health cuts
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Broken Rites @brokenrites.bsky.social · 14/08/2026
🔥
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Broken Rites @brokenrites.bsky.social · 14/08/2026
His poor family
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Broken Rites @brokenrites.bsky.social · 12/08/2026
Thanks for shining a light into the shadowy corners. Too many of us internalised this dangerous nonsense. Recovery takes decades.
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Broken Rites @brokenrites.bsky.social · 10/08/2026
Blimey, did Ted Lasso start all this?
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Broken Rites @brokenrites.bsky.social · 08/08/2026
😻 thanks!
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Broken Rites @brokenrites.bsky.social · 07/08/2026
Hope you're ok?
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Broken Rites @brokenrites.bsky.social · 07/08/2026
Excellent questions
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Broken Rites @brokenrites.bsky.social · 02/08/2026
Amen
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Broken Rites @brokenrites.bsky.social · 02/08/2026
Jane is one of our heroes. 'When you come to the church, having been hurt by the church, you should be believed & met with compassion...' Too often we've been treated as a threat, & the ranks close against us. Times are changing withhttps://www.instagram.com/reel/DbNQWyCxlSA/?igsh=Y20wdXdlNWtycnA4
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bbcwomanshour on Instagram: "‘I shouldn’t have to feel ashamed of what happened to me’In an exclusive interview on Woman’s Hour, Jane Chevous shared her experie…"
‘I shouldn’t have to feel ashamed of what happened to me’In an exclusive interview on Woman’s Hour, Jane Chevous shared her experience of reporting alleged abuse within the Church of England, and the impact she says it’s had on her life.In 2023, the Church of England appointed an Interim Commissioner for Independent Reviews to investigate cases of historic sexual abuse. The Commissioner’s first report has been published, focusing on Jane’s case and how her allegations were handled by the Church.Jane alleges that she experienced rape, as well as spiritual and psychological abuse, by two clergymen. She waived her right to anonymity to speak to us.Jane joined @itsanitarani alongside the BBC’s Religion Editor, Aleem Maqbool, to share her experience and what she thinks needs to change to better support survivors.A spokesperson from the Church of England said: “We would like to pay tribute to Jane for the courage, determination and perseverance she has shown in engaging with this review. We are deeply sorry for the abuse she reported, and for the profound impact it has had on her life. We are also sorry that her experience of Church safeguarding left her feeling unsupported and further traumatised.“The National Safeguarding Team has undergone significant transformation in recent years and is now a professional national function, focused on improving safeguarding practice across the Church of England. We are aware that our approach now is different to when the NST started, but we are committed to learning from this review.”You can listen to the full interview on @bbcsounds - it’s the Woman’s Hour episode from 24 July 📻 If you’ve been affected by any of the topics discussed in this post, you can find more information and support on the BBC Action Line website....#bbcwomanshour #abuse #womenView all comments
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Broken Rites @brokenrites.bsky.social · 31/07/2026
Oh! The "you should have Moved On" brigade
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Broken Rites @brokenrites.bsky.social · 30/07/2026
A reminder that our struggles will be worth it in the end. Thank you
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Broken Rites @brokenrites.bsky.social · 27/07/2026
In my dreams...
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Broken Rites @brokenrites.bsky.social · 26/07/2026
The one who annoys me sometimes stops to to chat with a couple of mates, spreading across the width of the lane, oblivious to the women who are having to turn before the lane ends because not enough poolside space is clear
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Broken Rites @brokenrites.bsky.social · 24/07/2026
Thank you @greenbeltfestival.bsky.social 😊
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Broken Rites @brokenrites.bsky.social · 22/07/2026
That is so lovely 🥰 Some of us loved that sort of thing, and miss it so much. For others it's their nightmare!! It takes all sorts...
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Broken Rites @brokenrites.bsky.social · 21/07/2026
When we moved into a Vicarage with small children, one of them thought the garden was a park. Later, gardening became the perfect excuse for some "me time"! Hope the pooch soon settles in.
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Broken Rites @brokenrites.bsky.social · 21/07/2026
Ah the challenges of downsizing
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Terre-Strial @terre-strial.bsky.social · 19/07/2026
Such a magnificent and magical world… 🦋✨🫶 www.sunnyskyz.com/blog/4101/Ch...
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Broken Rites @brokenrites.bsky.social · 17/07/2026
Well it made me smile😊 Good to be reminded that the pawns are the important ones anyway. Have a fun day
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Broken Rites @brokenrites.bsky.social · 16/07/2026
Isn't that bishops? We can only move one step forward at a time, although when we're getting started we go at double speed. And we do capture diaconally.
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Broken Rites @brokenrites.bsky.social · 16/07/2026
Separating clergy spouses have been asked if they want to get ordained when their housing needs were proving problematic to the church 😮‍💨
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Broken Rites @brokenrites.bsky.social · 13/07/2026
*DON'T! "Don't care enough.." 🤪
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Broken Rites @brokenrites.bsky.social · 13/07/2026
[trying to guess what the motion might be but do care enough to bother to look it up]
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Broken Rites @brokenrites.bsky.social · 13/07/2026
That's exactly why they need you. Calling out the 🐂💩 is a very important ministry. To mix the metaphors, maybe the emperor is actually starkers?
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Broken Rites @brokenrites.bsky.social · 13/07/2026
Ducking and diving is what many of them do best
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Broken Rites @brokenrites.bsky.social · 12/07/2026
Rumour has it Nans will also be included though 😂🤪🥰
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Broken Rites @brokenrites.bsky.social · 11/07/2026
My Mum's cake stall had to move indoors. I imagine the sponge-throwing probably had a queue at the 'wrong' end...
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Surviving Economic Abuse (SEA) @seacharity.bsky.social · 10/07/2026
What would you do if your daughter’s partner was pressuring her to hand over money? By recognising economic abuse, we can stop abusers in their tracks. Take our Spotting the Signs Challenge today: survivingeconomicabuse.org/spotting… #EconomicAbuse
Text: It only takes a few minutes to learn the signs of economic abuse, but it could save a future. Take the challenge.
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Broken Rites @brokenrites.bsky.social · 10/07/2026
Yes please
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Broken Rites @brokenrites.bsky.social · 10/07/2026
In Broken Rites it's common for members (and not just the oldies) to report difficulties arising from unacknowledged neurodiversity in #clergy. Great to see the subject given some airtime. If we all stopped trying to be someone else, we'd all be free to be ourselves and able to work together better
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Broken Rites @brokenrites.bsky.social · 08/07/2026
It doesn't help that "Gentlemen" doesn't have the associations it used to have, unfortunately. They have Clubs now...
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Broken Rites @brokenrites.bsky.social · 08/07/2026
This might be the nearest synod gets to having a fan club
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Broken Rites @brokenrites.bsky.social · 08/07/2026
Grrrr
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Broken Rites @brokenrites.bsky.social · 08/07/2026
Unless the PhD is in self-care, I think that's entirely forgiveable. Get a cushion under your head and take a snooze.
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Broken Rites @brokenrites.bsky.social · 03/07/2026
"..becoming MORE"...! It's not just SEND. Good people sign up to work in abusive systems that either break them or dehumanise them.
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Broken Rites @brokenrites.bsky.social · 03/07/2026
Just had a conversation with a young adult who didn't know how stamps and pillar boxes work
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Broken Rites @brokenrites.bsky.social · 03/07/2026
Are support services for vulnerable people becoming more dehumanised?
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Broken Rites @brokenrites.bsky.social · 01/07/2026
Very true. And everyone upstairs at the HO has checked out.
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Broken Rites @brokenrites.bsky.social · 30/06/2026
The Poverty Truth Network does some good work on this
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Broken Rites @brokenrites.bsky.social · 30/06/2026
So true. There's a real need for culture shift away from "consultations" that are just a con and an insult. Seats at decision-making tables, not just extracting a soundbite then "thanks bye we'll take it from here"
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