Bothhandsbuck
@bothhandsbuck.bsky.social
357 followers 601 following 321 posts
30 something queer leather kinky trans fellow (he/him). 🔞 Rope, impact, gear, wolf and leatherdog/pup play, power dynamics, community 🖤 Central MA. In service to @convergencenight
![White woman in lace and velvet dress holding kneeling man’s hair. Text: [It is natural to fantasize, to play, & to distinguish fantasy from reality,
& to trust others to do so.
Even kittens naturally play at fighting,
& instinctually trust others to distinguish fantasy & reality.
SM upsets people who fear real play.
They mistrust basic human nature, on trust of which all real play is based.
Some psychologists put on a big worry whether sadomasochists can distinguish fantasy from reality. Better they should worry about people who can't play.]](https://cdn.bsky.app/img/feed_thumbnail/plain/did:plc:iyfco36opjofallgh4axztsd/bafkreigrvbb6t42utn73ik72lw4ixhwhaqfhobhlnd77whnpij6ggxdvty)
