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A Gross Lady

@bombhand.myatproto.social
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I’m not smart but I try to be kind. Tedious AuDHD elder millennial. She/her 🇨🇦

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A Gross Lady @bombhand.myatproto.social · 5h
“I did Girl Scouts and Sunday School” i.e. the stuff that made *her* look good socially
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A Gross Lady @bombhand.myatproto.social · 12/10/2026
Don’t feel bad, you’re in good company bsky.app/profile/greg...
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Steffani Cameron 🇨🇦 @snarkysteff.bsky.social · 05/10/2026
One of the most astounding videos of a bear I’ve seen. Welcome to Northern BC! (It zooms in after a second. The video isn’t watermarked so I wanted to be sure to credit the poster.)
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A Gross Lady @bombhand.myatproto.social · 01/10/2026
Was the cloud skull-shaped
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A Gross Lady @bombhand.myatproto.social · 01/10/2026
My kid’s like “look a dog!” That’s cool buddy, nice spotting “look a digger!” WHERE I am pretty sure if I ever get in a car accident it’ll be because my kid spotted heavy machinery before I did
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A Gross Lady @bombhand.myatproto.social · 13/09/2026
Autumn crocuses are a thing! I learned about them when I saw one and panicked a little
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ᐊᒥᐢᑿᒌᐚᐢᑲᐦᐃᑲᐣ (Edmonton) In 2030 @edmontonin2030.bsky.social · 08/09/2026
Edmonton FAQs! What is an "Edmonton"?
Queen Elizabeth Hill

A tipi is set up with the Walterdale Bridge and the winter cityscape in the background. Three people stand outside the opening of the tipi.
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A Gross Lady @bombhand.myatproto.social · 07/09/2026
High on “I made up a breakfast casserole and everyone in the house actually liked it so I’m not stuck eating the whole thing for my lunch all week” this morning
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Daniel Craig's Smug Look at SNL
Alt: Actor Daniel Craig looking comically smug in a crowd of fawning people
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A Gross Lady @bombhand.myatproto.social · 06/09/2026
With the orange in the shaft there I think you’ve got it right
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A Gross Lady @bombhand.myatproto.social · 26/08/2026
Ok look, Barkerville is obviously going to win. I won’t complain to @justinmcelroy.bsky.social. But Enchanted Forest deserves to put up a hell of a fight. It’s one of the few remaining of the classic Road Trip attractions, endearing and terrifying in equal measure. Please vote Enchanted Forest.
cbc.ca
Search for B.C.'s best roadside attraction: Semifinal 2, Enchanted Forest vs. Barkerville | CBC News
After four weeks of voting, we're left with Cathedral Grove as one of the two finalists in the Search for B.C.'s Best Roadside Attraction. But what will it face?
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A Gross Lady @bombhand.myatproto.social · 24/08/2026
A real loss. barbara findlay was an icon, a true ally, someone worth emulating.
cbc.ca
Renowned queer lawyer, activist barbara findlay dead at 77 | CBC News
Lesbian lawyer and activist barbara findlay died this weekend at the age of 77. B.C.'s 2SLGBTQ+ community is mourning her loss.
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A Gross Lady @bombhand.myatproto.social · 23/08/2026
Quetzalcoatlish then 😂
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Cheryl in Nova Scotia 🇨🇦🍁🍁 @minibubbly.bsky.social · 23/08/2026
Just listened to some music by this amazing Indigenous band Melawmen Collective from British Columbia and damn they are incredible, roots, blues, rock music, check out their music 🎶 #Queen 🙌🏼 #Canada Credit to melawmencollective
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A Gross Lady @bombhand.myatproto.social · 23/08/2026
That’s beautiful! I don’t really know my pterosaurs but is that quetzalcoatlus?
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A Gross Lady @bombhand.myatproto.social · 19/08/2026
Oh but the company should have no duty of care so it’s even simpler, you just stop buying their product when it kills your loved one. When enough loved ones die that the total of dead loved ones and the bereaved is large enough to hurt profits, then they might stop selling tainted food!
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A Gross Lady @bombhand.myatproto.social · 16/08/2026
The word on the playground was that eating the Ichiban raw would give you worms and we all did it anyway. As if we even knew what it meant to “have worms”, sorry whichever kid’s mom tried to use that as a deterrent
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A Gross Lady @bombhand.myatproto.social · 14/08/2026
I got a big pack from Walmart recently (I know, but small town with limited options), they called them craft sticks and they were in the craft supplies section
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A Gross Lady @bombhand.myatproto.social · 14/08/2026
May I add one? If you can, take a shower RIGHT before bed, take the water as cold as you can stand it and let your body adjust to the cold. Dry off and head straight to bed. The heat should then feel almost pleasant and by the time you warm back up you’ll hopefully be sleeping deeply.
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A Gross Lady @bombhand.myatproto.social · 13/08/2026
“Never heard of her, but right up until she posted mean things about us we were secretly planning to let her accept an award that we were definitely going to win”
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A Gross Lady @bombhand.myatproto.social · 09/08/2026
Fun! I found a Rarity-62 word worth 87 pts in OUTLIER. SHARPSHOOTER · 779 points · 10 rare words. 4 finds no one else found today.
playoutlier.com
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A Gross Lady @bombhand.myatproto.social · 09/08/2026
I hope you have an entire room you can dedicate to displaying this piece appropriately
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A Gross Lady @bombhand.myatproto.social · 08/08/2026
Castanet has a map from BCWS showing the latest perimeter of the Bald Range wildfire which is threatening the whole town of Summerland. No streets on the map image so hard to tell if they’ve been able to hold it at the edge. I’m hoping that everyone’s been able to get out safely.
castanet.net
Evacuation orders still in place in Summerland, Peachland areas as wildfire grows to 9,500 ha
Many properties in the Summerland and Peachland areas remain under evacuation orders or alerts this morning due to the Bald Ridge wildfire.
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A Gross Lady @bombhand.myatproto.social · 08/08/2026
The cats are all safe, and at last update that I saw, the pasture animals were safe as well but I think some of them got evacuated to places that subsequently came under threat. But they’re on it and they’re doing what they can with lots of help being offered
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A Gross Lady @bombhand.myatproto.social · 08/08/2026
No, thankfully! Some Faulder residents have posted on local Facebook groups and one shared a very scary photo
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A Gross Lady @bombhand.myatproto.social · 08/08/2026
It’s at Faulder already, lots of year-round homes small farms out there. It’s really bad
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A Gross Lady @bombhand.myatproto.social · 08/08/2026
They both look like different types of pregnancy test but I don’t know why the cheap one has two dropper wells
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A Gross Lady @bombhand.myatproto.social · 06/08/2026
“It’s not public facing and we can change it when we roll it out” - a dev, probably
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A Gross Lady @bombhand.myatproto.social · 04/08/2026
When SEO first made Google useless for product reviews Reddit was still reliable for a little while, but it didn’t take long for the bot/shill accounts to make that really difficult, too. Even legit good word of mouth is often rendered worthless by the company subsequently having been “acquired”
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A Gross Lady @bombhand.myatproto.social · 04/08/2026
Neat! Do they feel cool to the touch compared to poly resin?
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A Gross Lady @bombhand.myatproto.social · 03/08/2026
As they say, a picture says a thousand words. The question is, does a user with a screen reader come away from the alt text with an impression of the comic that is comparable to a user who viewed the image and who was reasonably attentive to the imagery as well as the text?
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A Gross Lady @bombhand.myatproto.social · 03/08/2026
Bike guy with stick through spokes meme: why can’t we find experienced candidates anymore
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A Gross Lady @bombhand.myatproto.social · 30/07/2026
Leslie Whatmough apparently never having heard of an online auction?
cbc.ca
Penticton gallery faces backlash after donated art ends up at Value Village | CBC News
The Penticton Art Gallery says they made an error after donated pieces of art ended up discarded at the local Value Village. The decision prompted major backlash from local artists and members of the ...
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A Gross Lady @bombhand.myatproto.social · 30/07/2026
The sculptor is on Bluesky! @evafunderburgh.com
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A Gross Lady @bombhand.myatproto.social · 26/07/2026
The late Stuart Mclean, host of the Vinyl Cafe on CBC Radio
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Dave Cooks the Turkey
YouTube video by Stuart McLean - Topic
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A Gross Lady @bombhand.myatproto.social · 25/07/2026
Not quite what you asked but I think Eleanor Rigby might be a familiar enough tune? You probably know this cover by PAIN
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Eleanor Rigby
YouTube video by Pain - Topic
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A Gross Lady @bombhand.myatproto.social · 25/07/2026
I can smell this photograph. ❤️
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A Gross Lady @bombhand.myatproto.social · 24/07/2026
Made myself tear up first thing in the morning today with this one. Love this whole album so much. (Shine On by Alan Doyle)
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Shine On
YouTube video by Alan Doyle - Topic
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A Gross Lady @bombhand.myatproto.social · 20/07/2026
This is very disappointing for personal reasons but I acknowledge that it is the correct decision.
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A Gross Lady @bombhand.myatproto.social · 19/07/2026
Not a great photo but seeing this little guy reminded me that I shouldn’t be clipping ALL the male blossoms to save for a female blossom. I’ve been greedy! 🌱
A close up photograph of a yellow squash blossom. There is a bee on his way out of the flower, well-dusted with yellow pollen.
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A Gross Lady @bombhand.myatproto.social · 19/07/2026
Some (white) people will say that AI is a better and more neutral option than humans, that data is impartial, etc. But racism in, racism out. What data is considered and how it is considered is not impartial, and when a lot of the existing data is the result of racist decision making…
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A Gross Lady @bombhand.myatproto.social · 18/07/2026
“Why do so many millennials live in homes decorated with the landlord special, it must be that they love greys and not any other possible reason”
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A Gross Lady @bombhand.myatproto.social · 17/07/2026
That extra context gave me whiplash
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no brain, only alison @alisonborealis.bsky.social · 17/07/2026
Heads up Canadians! Earthbound Organics is in a lot of our grocery stores and is owned by the company responsible for the parasite-contaminated lettuce causing diarrhea in the USA.
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A Gross Lady @bombhand.myatproto.social · 14/07/2026
We have rocks! We don’t know what all of them are yet but we’ll look them up when they finish tumbling. And now the kid wants to go find rocks of her own so we’re researching where to go on rock walks.
A photo of a white plastic mesh cup of about 250ml volume and a long handle, being held by a white child’s hand above some grass. In the cup is an assortment of glossy rocks of various colours and sizes.
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Salty @dfedmpls.bsky.social · 08/07/2026
My mother wrote a book putting my young child in the cabin where dad tried to kill me. This is the review Amazon keeps taking down from this book listing: www.amazon.com/Granny-Annie... I am asking the internet to read my review instead of the sycophantic reviews there now. #signalboost
This book uses my daughter's likeness. She is visiting Granny Annie at the cabin in Northport, MI that Anne used to own. Her husband Walter took me there after I was diagnosed with autism when I was roughly the same age as my daughter is at time of publication. Walter was arrested in Grayling, Michigan that weekend. He had driven me, while very drunk, for 80 miles.

In that cabin, I begged to go to school the next day so I would not be "The Genetic Curse." That's why he drunkenly got in the car. Anne picked me up from the Grayling police station.

You can note this book doesn't depict me, just my daughter who was underage at the time of publication. My wife and I were not asked for permission for her likeness to be used. Minnesota's 2025 child media law may be applicable here.

For those confused:

On roughly the 40th anniversary of my father's arrest, my mother published a book depicting my child at the cabin my life was threatened at ~40 years prior. The cabin I begged for my life at. She has sent multiple copies of this book to me, unsolicited. I do not appear in the book.

Every time Anne yelled at me that she brought me into this world and she could take me out, she did so with the weight of that event crushing those words into me.

As for the story: It's a children's book where the children have no autonomy or agency as they are ordered around by Granny Annie. That seems true to real life: I had no agency or choice but to mask neurotypical because if I didn't...who knew what would happen?

I've included a photo of the multiple copies Anne has sent to me, unsolicited. Both copies have inscriptions in her handwriting admitting the little girl is my daughter.

I was told “You don’t have to live here.”

I was told “You can’t ask for help anymore.”

I was told “I will not attend your daughter’s birthday” because I hadn’t apologized for your feelings.

I was punished in the will.

Why do you publish my child’s likeness now, in the place I had to beg for my life?
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A Gross Lady @bombhand.myatproto.social · 10/07/2026
When I have had a long day with the kids and every nerve is fried, it’s very hard for me to remember that they’ve had a long day too and unlike me, they have not had 40 years to learn to regulate their behaviour.
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A Gross Lady @bombhand.myatproto.social · 08/07/2026
Lotta dudes real quick to tell on themselves the second any man gets public consequences for sexual assault
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David Shiffman, Ph.D. 🦈 @whysharksmatter.bsky.social · 07/07/2026
Are you worried about the environmental impact of your food choices, but confused by competing sustainability labels? My new book can help! It's now available for preorder with a significant discount! Here's why I decided to write it: www.southernfriedscience.com/why-sustaina...
southernfriedscience.com
“Why Sustainable Seafood Matters” is now available for preorder! Here’s what it’s about, and why I decided to write it.
I am thrilled to announce that “Why Sustainable Seafood Matters,” my second book, is now available for preorder through my publisher Johns Hopkins University Press! Use code HWSSM for 3…
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Dr. Damien P. Williams, dread portent down from a mountain cave @wolven.blacksky.app · 06/07/2026
ADHD Women's Summit— a summit specifically for a cohort of people CATEGORICALLY KNOWN to have auditory processing issues— is *Charging A Fee*. For *Subtitles*. What in the ACTUAL FUCK.
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