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blackbird81 @blackbird81.bsky.social · 16/10/2026

Tumblr remains unhinged. Never change 🤣

blackbird81 @blackbird81.bsky.social · 14/10/2026

A fit-fluencer who shows bulge in every clip is fake-crying in some clips about how fans only like him for his dick. Srsly? You're doing that for clicks and complaining that it's working? Make it make sense. (Yes I know the red-faced clips are also intended to drive engagement. Couldn't be me.)

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Ryan: Battle Angel @itsmeryan.bsky.social · 07/10/2026

you guys know you can just look at actual dicks anytime you want

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blackbird81 @blackbird81.bsky.social · 14/10/2026

Been waiting since puberty tbh, which was around when I got into X-Men

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blackbird81 @blackbird81.bsky.social · 13/10/2026

Thinking about all the possible ways this could go down....

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blackbird81 @blackbird81.bsky.social · 13/10/2026

Right? Like, the fantasy is hot, but it'd be a terrible thing for Xavier to do to Miles AND his wife, and Boomer (probably) wouldn't cooperate anyway. (The only way I could see Boomer tolerating it a bit is if he thinks it will help Miles somehow, in a comic misunderstanding.)

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blackbird81 @blackbird81.bsky.social · 09/10/2026

(trying to come up with a pun involving goo gone) 😈

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blackbird81 @blackbird81.bsky.social · 09/10/2026

Apparently the solution to the alleged top shortage is space aliens 🤣 (dropout) www.instagram.com/reel/DeNBVuD...

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blackbird81 @blackbird81.bsky.social · 09/10/2026

Food for thought www.facebook.com/share/v/18ja...

The men who look the least sensitive to rejection are usually the ones who feel it worst.

He’s unbothered. He doesn’t chase. He’s got a reputation for being a little cold, maybe a little cruel, and other gays read that as confidence.

Watch what he actually does. He leaves first, every time. He’s never once asked for clarity about where something stands. He goes vague the second a man gets warm with him. He has an exit planned before the first date starts.

That’s not low sensitivity. That’s a man who built an entire personality around never being in the position again.

Here’s the question worth sitting with: how much of your dating behavior is preference, and how much is engineering to make sure rejection can’t reach you? Because the engineering works. You’re rarely rejected. You’re also rarely chosen, because you’ve never let anybody close enough to do it.

The next time you get a no, try one hour of doing nothing. No cruel text, no replacement on the apps, no deciding he was never worth it. Just survive the hour.

Tell me in the comments: what do you do in the first ten minutes after you get rejected?

#gaytherapy #gaymentalhealth #rejectionsensitivity #gaydating #gaytherapist

From Brian Spitulnik's Facebook page

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Dani Yuan 🔜 LBX @dagger6.art · 03/10/2026

FurAffinity (a furry focused online art gallery) is looking for funding after refusing to comply with advertiser demands. And oh boy are some of those advertiser demands are pretty ridiculous.

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Jet - Local Delinquent Dragon @jetthedrake.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

FA being told by advertisers that the most mundane of art is just too risqué to work with should be a good indicator why trying making your fandom squeaky clean to appease people, who will never be happy, is a shitty idea

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blackbird81 @blackbird81.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

There was one he broke down the whole backhanded compliment thing that women get all the time when someone did it to him. I'm like you're not even hot to me (not into the bronzed bodybuilder types) but I'mma follow you on principle. 👏 (Obviously I did not say that; I'm telling you that.)

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blackbird81 @blackbird81.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

So this is interesting. In the whole fitfluencer fb reels I've stumbled upon a muscular cis guy with gynecomastia. And these people were in the comments swear up and down he's trans masc and are giving him all kinds of shit about it.

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blackbird81 @blackbird81.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

I'm too demi/Gray for this shit. I never understood using sex to sell stuff and now it's happening more than ever in like the most absurd ways

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blackbird81 @blackbird81.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

And also it's not even just only fans models and fit influencers. This dude just now has a fucking greenhouse. Why you need dick print to sell plants? Who is the target audience? I'm so confused. 🤣

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blackbird81 @blackbird81.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

I really do not understand this thirst trap trend on Facebook. And the more I get sucked into it the more of it shows up. I mean the eye candy is nice but it's Facebook 😬

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blackbird81 @blackbird81.bsky.social · 04/10/2026

So, is it Koons (like I originally assumed, despite not knowing he was actually involved) or kunst (German for art)?Surprised the double meaning wasn't intentional. “Jeff Koons is an artist born decades before Gaga, known for his bizarre sculptures. He’s one of …” —@Genius genius.com/2090896/Lady...

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One second I'm a Koons, then suddenly the Koons is me

Jeff Koons is an artist born decades before Gaga, known for his bizarre sculptures. He’s one of the many artists who collaborated with her on ARTPOP’s transmedia experience. He ended up creating the ...

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blackbird81 @blackbird81.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

A stylish sexy sad sack of shit ✨🦚

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Croatia Skye @croatiaskye.bsky.social · 27/04/2026

No words 🤐

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blackbird81 @blackbird81.bsky.social · 23/09/2026

He just like me for real 😂😅😭

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blackbird81 @blackbird81.bsky.social · 19/09/2026

Ooh maybe I should be playing this.

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blackbird81 @blackbird81.bsky.social · 16/09/2026

Dang, Pink is involved in the Macklemore thing? I didn't even know that part.

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blackbird81 @blackbird81.bsky.social · 15/09/2026

Just realized Facebook got me clocked with this "gay male fitness and comedy category". That's why I've been seeing all these thirst trappers. Tch...let me fix that.

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blackbird81 @blackbird81.bsky.social · 27/08/2026

ELI5 what do poppers do for activities other than bottoming? I thought that was their sole purpose but I see people bating with them too now

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Þommy @thomaswebb.net · 14/09/2026

@katelynburns.com I hate it when they frame it as perfection - "I know that these candidates aren't perfect" We're just trying to slow down the rate at which things worsen because that's the only option on the table!

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Katelyn Burns @katelynburns.com · 14/09/2026

One of the more insidious phrasings I've seen with the Dems/trans rights discourse lately is the idea that trans people are being greedy and demanding a "maximalist" approach to trans rights. No, you cannot call the state of rights American trans people had as recently as 2023 "maximalist," sorry.

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🐻Kel The Grizzly🐻 @kelthegrizzly.bsky.social · 14/09/2026

"He kisses me it feels like cannibalism"

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blackbird81 @blackbird81.bsky.social · 12/09/2026

(❤️ for the heart to heart of course, just laughing at the doof who barged in)

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blackbird81 @blackbird81.bsky.social · 12/09/2026

I've since decided to check their profile for a link page and check that for the near-inevitable OnlyFans link. If it's there, I bookmark it to consider subscribing. Either way, then I go on about my business and don't fb-follow bc whats the point?

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blackbird81 @blackbird81.bsky.social · 06/09/2026

I'm too enby to grasp men gendering their penises. To me, it's a body part. A part of MY body...the body of an NB person Dudes be talking about their dicks like it's their conjoined twin or something and I be like 🤔🫠 (Your body your choice. Not trying to shame, just expressing that I find it odd)

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Dave (*￣∇￣)ノ @comictaztic1.bsky.social · 03/09/2026

Wednesdays workout is todays fursday post

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blackbird81 @blackbird81.bsky.social · 03/09/2026

The internet is unmatched messy 😅🤣 www.instagram.com/p/DczlM_qDvq... (Bear - actual bear - catches salmon mid-milt. Iykyk)

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blackbird81 @blackbird81.bsky.social · 03/09/2026

good, but the corp is on some MAGA/Trumper shit sadly i moved to the upper Midwest from a place that had QuikTrips so I get it, but yeah, different chains

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Thierry St-Laurent Dion @tstld.bsky.social · 02/09/2026

"Wistful" Acrylic on cradled wood panel #art #birds #nature #sciart

Painting of a corvid, made with acrylic on cradled wood panel.

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blackbird81 @blackbird81.bsky.social · 02/09/2026

I... 🤣 (Kinda wanna hear it now, but also don't. It's weird) Poor Kathy Bates tho 🤣

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blackbird81 @blackbird81.bsky.social · 02/09/2026

All that, the later secondary mutations some people got, and Scott still can't turn off his power after decades of publication. Even after Krakoa when it's not even the same body? (Was that ever addressed?)

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blackbird81 @blackbird81.bsky.social · 02/09/2026

Apology accepted 🤣 (kidding) I always wondered, when Apocalypse took over Cyclops's body (that's what happened, wasn't it?) why he didn't fix that injury that made him unable to control his power. Instead iirc he made like bio goggles to replace his visor?

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