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Heather Perkinson @hkperkinson.bsky.social · 23/03/2025

Great research-backed ideas for motivating teens to do hard things in school in this interview with author/psychologist David Yeager: The Science of Student Motivation www.edutopia.org/article/the-... @youkiterada.bsky.social @edutopia.org #EduSky

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The Science of Student Motivation

Noted author and psychologist David Yeager on the common mistakes we make when giving feedback to students, and how to tap into purpose and belonging to make classroom work more meaningful.

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Ashley Bendiksen @ashleybendiksen.bsky.social · 24/03/2025

How we wrapped up in Wisconsin! Morning training for professionals who work with youth! This was in-person plus live streamed, and was a powerful way to wrap up the trip: student talk, parent talk, staff/community PD. Thank you @thewomenscommunityinc for all you do! Honored to contribute.

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Ashley Bendiksen @ashleybendiksen.bsky.social · 20/03/2025

I’m thrilled to speak at this year’s Western Regional Joint Threat Assessment Training in Bozeman, MT! My focus — domestic violence, how it impacts the workplace, and best practices to ensure safety and employee wellbeing.

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Ashley Bendiksen @ashleybendiksen.bsky.social · 19/03/2025

Speaking at APCA! 🎙️✨ In college, I was forced to drop out due to an abusive relationship. Years later, I’d return and graduate as Valedictorian. Relational health = mental health and academic success. Grateful to share this message. 🙏🏼

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Ashley Bendiksen @ashleybendiksen.bsky.social · 18/03/2025

I had such an amazing time in Wausau, WI recently. A huge student talk, followed by a parent talk, and a training for youth service providers the next day! These are trips I always value deeply - ones where I can deliver comprehensive community impact. Talk to me for more info! #edusky

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Ashley Bendiksen @ashleybendiksen.bsky.social · 25/02/2025

Back at the airport! Up next GA and WI…. Georgia — Speaking to 1,500+ students at two schools! Wisconsin — Reaching 1,000+ youth and adults: a student assembly, a parent talk, and a community training for direct service providers. So grateful! 🙏🏼 #edusky

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Ashley Bendiksen @ashleybendiksen.bsky.social · 13/02/2025

Educator friends - FREE morning announcement! Valentine’s Day is more than just flowers, candy, and social media brags - it’s a great day to remind students what HEALTHY love looks like. 📥 READY-TO-USE: docs.google.com/document/d/1... (General Dating Violence Awareness Month script in comments)

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Ashley Bendiksen @ashleybendiksen.bsky.social · 02/01/2025

And a new year begins! Thrilled to kick it off as a speaker for the Empowered Parents Summit - over 70,000 parents attending! This is an awesome and free online conference that I highly recommend. Link for more info: summit.strategicparenting.com #Parenting #EduSky #Education

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Ashley Bendiksen @ashleybendiksen.bsky.social · 01/01/2025

I draw one of these at the end of every year. ✍🏻 Year in the middle + a blurb for each month. It definitely helps me reflect and celebrate vs feeling like “nothing happened.” Lots to be thankful for: Memorable speaking trips. Publishing my journalism. Appearing on PBS, NPR. Overall, a great year!

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Ashley Bendiksen @ashleybendiksen.bsky.social · 31/12/2024

Every year, I write my future self a letter to open on #NYE. ✍🏻 This is one of my absolute favorite traditions and I can’t wait to read this today! Highly recommend you try this for next year, and let me know if you do! Also, what are some of YOUR end-of-year traditions? (I love this kind of stuff)

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Ashley Bendiksen @ashleybendiksen.bsky.social · 20/12/2024

Gisèle Pelicot's final words in court on keeping her husband’s surname: "When the trial began, my children were 'ashamed' of the name Pelicot. I have grandchildren called that. I want them proud. My name is known worldwide now. They shouldn't be ashamed. Today, we will remember Gisèle Pelicot."

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Ashley Bendiksen @ashleybendiksen.bsky.social · 17/12/2024

Absolutely thrilled - recorded a virtual presentation this week for a conference of 70,000+ parents! 🎙️// Empowered Parenting Summit 2025 #edusky

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Ashley Bendiksen @ashleybendiksen.bsky.social · 10/12/2024

On PBS 🎥✨📺 No one is abusive in the beginning. This is why teaching red flags is critical - to empower youth to spot them once they do show up. Learn more about how I weave this into my personal/powerful story of overcoming abuse and trauma as a teen. topyouthspeakers.com/speakers-top...

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Beth Sutton-Ramspeck @bsutton-ramspeck.bsky.social · 08/12/2024

Imagine there's no countries It isn't hard to do; Nothing to kill or die for And no religion, too. Imagine all the people Livin' life in peace. You may say I'm a dreamer But I'm not the only one. I hope someday you'll join us And the world will be as one. John Lennon, 10/9/40-12/8/80

Time Magazine cover, headlined, "When the Music Died: John Lennon."
Image of John Lennon.

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Ashley Bendiksen @ashleybendiksen.bsky.social · 06/12/2024

Just recorded a video for an online summit that will reach 70,000 parents!!! I know that this is life-changing information and skills for parents to learn. All the “what ifs” from my trauma as a teen feel very balanced by the work I do now. 🎙️💜 #edusky

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Ashley Bendiksen @ashleybendiksen.bsky.social · 03/12/2024

Spending today putting the final touches on a presentation that will reach 22,000+ students in Canada across 157 schools! The potential impact is immeasurable. I am so so grateful. 👩🏼‍🏫 #EduSky // #PublicSpeaking // Top Youth Speaker® // @edusky.bsky.social

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Ashley Bendiksen @ashleybendiksen.bsky.social · 29/11/2024

Being a child with my mom in the backyard on a sunny day. ☀️ Her holding buttercups under my chin to “see if I like butter!” It’s a time when the world felt right and safe, when I was able to just be a kid and be my age. Before I was ever hurt. She also passed away when I was 27. I miss her daily.

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Ashley Bendiksen @ashleybendiksen.bsky.social · 29/11/2024

The visual of this scene from #Wicked has been on loop in my head. Chilling. It reminds me of that insane shot of Daenerys with dragon wings in the finale of GOT. And gosh, the way I feel both.

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a silhouette of a woman in a witch hat looking out a window

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Ashley Bendiksen @ashleybendiksen.bsky.social · 26/11/2024

Things you might grieve when healing: • Lost time (sometimes a huge chapter of your life) • Lost innocence, growing up too fast • The early safety and stability you deserved • Family relationships you wish you had • Not taking better care of yourself • Recognizing survival mode as your default

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Ashley Bendiksen @ashleybendiksen.bsky.social · 24/11/2024

Things I’m looking forward to this week: Seeing #Wicked and preparing to cry Finalizing edits on a virtual speech A lull in emails Long hot showers My vegan pumpkin pie RPDR during workouts Cleaning, organizing What’s everyone else doing this week? Simple pleasures? Holiday plans?

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Ashley Bendiksen @ashleybendiksen.bsky.social · 24/11/2024

Hi all! 👋🏼 Continuing to introduce myself here. I’m Ashley, a former at-risk youth. I experienced abuse, assault, college dropout, and homelessness. Despite it all, I rebuilt my life, found my purpose, and now speak/train on these issues as my full time work. (A true gift). Tell me about you!

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Ashley Bendiksen @ashleybendiksen.bsky.social · 14/11/2024

Hi everyone! I just learned about Bluesky from a ton of people deleting X! Really hoping to love it + find my community here! I’m Ashley, a #survivor turned full time speaker and activist on abuse prevention, gender and social justice issues. 👋🏼 Looking to follow other survivors and allies.

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