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Nicole Bedera @nbedera.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

Another big one is teaching your son to see girls as equals. Instead of enrolling him in sex-segregated sports, introduce him to a co-ed team. And help him foster his more “feminine” interests where we can be in mixed-sex spaces, making mixed-sex friend groups.

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Nicole Bedera @nbedera.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

And the last one I’ll mention is for mothers to set boundaries in their own relationships with their sons. The way he treats you is a model for how he treats all other women. If you succumb to the social pressure to make every sacrifice for him, he will expect the same of other women too.

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akatkat.bsky.social @akatkat.bsky.social · 13h

Fathers, men all around need to backup mothers. Don't stand silent in a room when mom speaks. Back her up.

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Zoe Samuel @zoesamuel.bsky.social · 9h

The way his father treats his mother is also going to be his model, so it's on the fathers to step up too!

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Susan Brooks ❌👑 @susubrooks.bsky.social · 8h

Same goes for dads! Sons need to see their fathers treat their mothers well!

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Nicole Bedera @nbedera.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

It is good for your son for you to say no when you need to say no. With a toddler, that might mean teaching him not to climb on your body without asking for consent. With a teenager, that might mean helping with tasks he wants you to do that you don’t have time to do.

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