Ethan Kocak @ethankocak.com · 02/07/2026I have a friend who asks me about what I “get out of” caring for animals that, at best, seem indifferent to me. To many folks, a “pet” is something that loves you back. But it’s different for me. 5420
Ethan Kocak @ethankocak.com · 02/07/2026Most of what I “get” out of caring for reptiles, amphibians, fish etc, isn’t reciprocated feelings, it’s more akin to satisfaction at meeting their needs well enough I get to see natural behaviors 5582
Lucy Kemnitzer @lucykemnitzer.bsky.social · 02/07/2026Even with a generally mutually affectionate animal like a dog, I don't feel like I made a deal with them to love each other. The deal I made is: I take care of you, and you exist. If you thrive, I did my part. With the dog, it's also: affection returned is wonderful, but lagniappe. 150
Pseudandry @pseudandry.bsky.social · 02/07/2026Oh man I can't imagine not getting the appeal because the reward is these cool animals live in your house! I don't need to cuddle a fish! It's amazing they can live with me in the first place! Wow! 130
Chris B-Eeeeek!-ler 👻 @cwbuecheler.com · 02/07/2026Yeah for me it's always been "look at these neat little guys doing their thing" and then trying to make sure they can do their things. Is it the *same* as owning a cat or dog? No. But I don't expect or want it to be. Like David S Pumpkins, it's its own thing. 130
Sara McC-B @whoatheresara.bsky.social · 02/07/2026Husbandry is fascinating, even in domesticated animals! The goal isn't to be adored, it's to do your best to see the Little Guy in your house be happy and thrive! 010
Ethan Kocak @ethankocak.com · 02/07/2026This can mean breeding behaviors but that’s actually a low bar for some species. Sometimes it’s just getting a glimpse at just how they live. 1300
