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Bel Downes (Coffeewith…)

@withdownes.bsky.social
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Linguist/Language Scientist, Australian, Ace, Newbie Stoic, Ex-evangelical, Climate Change Learner, Ambulatory Wheelchair user with L plates. #ReframingFacialDifference Substack: beldownes.substack.com?r=holl6&utm_…

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Bel Downes (Coffeewith…) @withdownes.bsky.social · 07/10/2026
What? Another double espresso? I am so grateful for Australian coffee culture 👋☕️🇦🇺
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Bel Downes (Coffeewith…) @withdownes.bsky.social · 11/09/2026
Today in local cafe chill - double espresso 👋☕️🇦🇺
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Bel Downes (Coffeewith…) @withdownes.bsky.social · 14/08/2026
Currently happening… Vegemite and Cheese Scroll and double shot of Espresso 👋☕️🇦🇺
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Bel Downes (Coffeewith…) @withdownes.bsky.social · 22/06/2026
Currently happening in an Australian cafe… Double shot of Espresso and a Vegemite and Cheese scroll 👋☕️🇦🇺
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Bel Downes (Coffeewith…) @withdownes.bsky.social · 14/05/2026
Today’s coffee with a people watching view in Lambton NSW. Double espresso. No sugar or milk was thought of during this delicious well made Australian coffee 👋☕️🇦🇺
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Bel Downes (Coffeewith…) @withdownes.bsky.social · 04/05/2026
Today, May the Fourth, Star Wars Day, is my birthday… and my friends took me out for a coffee so early this morning that I actually got a Vegemite and cheese pastry! Day made 🇦🇺 How freaking awesome is all that! 👋☕️
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Bel Downes (Coffeewith…) @withdownes.bsky.social · 24/04/2026
Too much admin and adulting done before 10am… So this is what you get from me right now… It’s AI, I can’t draw, but the double espresso and little cake were delicious 👋☕️🇦🇺
AI drawing from a photo I took of my coffee and cake. It looks like a child drew it
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Bel Downes (Coffeewith…) @withdownes.bsky.social · 30/03/2026
So welcome to my wheelchair’s official naming ceremony… I haven’t had any wounds for two months now! 🎉 So my chair’s name is… Helen… Helen Wheels Helen, The Fellow and I are celebrating with a coffee and bakery treats, come and join us - thanks for all your support 🎉👋☕️🇦🇺🧑‍🦽‍➡️❤️
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Bel Downes (Coffeewith…) @withdownes.bsky.social · 23/03/2026
You have no idea how much I’m getting from a daily Stoic practice - deliberately sitting, reading and thinking about values Doing something about the things I can control versus the things I can’t, has really uncluttered my head And there’s no threat of eternal punishment if I slightly disagree
Half drunk coffee and spoon on cafe table.
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Bel Downes (Coffeewith…) @withdownes.bsky.social · 20/03/2026
For a timeline cleanse I thought I’d share a picture from Threads. And I’m going to tell you that a lot of us are waiting for the ‘Raptor’ on the 22 March It’s Threads. It was a typo. It’s now a Threads wide joke This is my new friend Rory who I hope will visit again during the Second Coming👋☕️🇦🇺🦖
AI picture of me and a dinosaur. I have my hand on their opposite shoulder. We are both looking into the camera.
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Bel Downes (Coffeewith…) @withdownes.bsky.social · 18/03/2026
One month anniversary of my wheelchair - and still no foot wounds. This means no more early morning nursing visits, a lot fewer medical appointments, no trips to hospital. More coffee with friends without serious foot consequences and I can walk around the house comfortably… Great investment 🎉🧑‍🦽‍➡️
Me in my wheelchair
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Bel Downes (Coffeewith…) @withdownes.bsky.social · 05/03/2026
Currently happening in a cafe I’m in, in a fortunate place, writing a 5 minute comedy set that’s going to be awesome one day 👋☕️🇦🇺
Latte on oat, little blueberry cake, notebook on cafe table
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Bel Downes (Coffeewith…) @withdownes.bsky.social · 27/02/2026
Quiet and delicious wandering to the cafe today to meet a friend… Latte on oat and Vegemite and cheese scroll 👋☕️🇦🇺🐨
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Bel Downes (Coffeewith…) @withdownes.bsky.social · 24/02/2026
Took myself out for the night. Lasted longer than I thought I would, now happily exhausted at home. Great new venue 👋☕️🇦🇺 (Photos before crowd flooded in)
Me at Newcastle Comedy ClubEmpty stage and seats at Newcastle Comedy Club before crowd flooded in
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Bel Downes (Coffeewith…) @withdownes.bsky.social · 19/02/2026
I bought a carriage… Well at least this is easier to park. I walk at home unaided but this will make things a lot easier when I go out. (Feet are wound free now) This is my choice and it’s a good thing. I was well over all the wounds after each day out with friends. Open to nickname suggestions:
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Bel Downes (Coffeewith…) @withdownes.bsky.social · 11/02/2026
As we agreed Bee… 👋☕️
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Bel Downes (Coffeewith…) @withdownes.bsky.social · 27/01/2026
Just because. What’s your coffee order? 👋☕️🇦🇺 This is a latte on oat with ham and cheese croissant.
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Bel Downes (Coffeewith…) @withdownes.bsky.social · 20/01/2026
So just one update: Thanks so much for the support for what was a shout out to a great team of people. Just waiting for a bit of paperwork and my incredible friend who is giving me and my flatmate a lift back and I’m on my way home. (These are my usual boots!) Feeling so grateful. Thanks again 👋☕️🇦🇺
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Bel Downes (Coffeewith…) @withdownes.bsky.social · 18/01/2026
Can I just shout out the incredible people at The John Hunter Hospital (Newcastle 🇦🇺) who are looking after these puppies? My feet infections are easing and let’s face it they look pretty badass at the moment These staff are professional, kind and patient. So grateful to be Australian 👋☕️🇦🇺
Fully bandaged feet
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Bel Downes (Coffeewith…) @withdownes.bsky.social · 06/01/2026
I was sharing his photo on another site, on a Teddy Bear Parade Post… So I though you might enjoy his friendly face too… G’day! This is Edgar Downes 👋🧸🇦🇺
Small brown teddy bear
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Bel Downes (Coffeewith…) @withdownes.bsky.social · 19/11/2025
Had lunch with The Fellow’s family at the shopping centre, and after went to the little newsagent to look around. First visit to shopping centre in five years… Found this book that I’ve been looking for for ages, it was a cancelled order that had just been put on the shelf… Happy here 👋☕️🇦🇺📚🏕️
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Bel Downes (Coffeewith…) @withdownes.bsky.social · 12/11/2025
Today I’m reading Hugh Mackay’s ‘Beyond Belief’. It’s been quite a journey staying off my feet, waiting for them to heal - so I’ve been journeying in other ways. (Rather than tripping… My mind is the better for it…) 👋☕️🇦🇺
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Bel Downes (Coffeewith…) @withdownes.bsky.social · 04/11/2025
It’s 6:50am. We are at a cafe. The Fellow has his last exam - property law - this morning at 9am. He’s in his last year, so it may be his last exam ever. I’m so ridiculously proud of this guy 👋☕️🇦🇺
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Bel Downes (Coffeewith…) @withdownes.bsky.social · 04/11/2025
Just ‘talking through’ it now. This is part of what it’s said… I’ll keep using AI, but please be careful in there… 👋☕️🇦🇺
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Bel Downes (Coffeewith…) @withdownes.bsky.social · 04/11/2025
With my Linguist hat on, this is why AI is dangerous when used as a therapist. I use it to think through tasks that need a lot of research. I give it boundaries that say ‘case study’ not therapy & use good sources And it just sent my this. It’s due to programming and algorithms This chills me 😳
AI text that says: Well done - genuinely.
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Bel Downes (Coffeewith…) @withdownes.bsky.social · 01/11/2025
I didn’t wait until the start of next year to begin a reflection time. Breathe, gratitude, daily reflection, takeaways, actions to do, check in with myself, pack up get up. At the moment, I’m doing a mix of ‘The Daily Stoic’ and a great Critical Thinking guide. A great way to start the day… 👋☕️🇦🇺
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Bel Downes (Coffeewith…) @withdownes.bsky.social · 31/10/2025
Currently happening in a cafe near me… Real cafe latte 👋☕️🇦🇺
Cafe latte in a cafe
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Bel Downes (Coffeewith…) @withdownes.bsky.social · 21/10/2025
Currently happening with bonus law student prepping for his open book exam 👋☕️🇦🇺 Also finished a month of antibiotics last night so really enjoying this beef and sauerkraut toastie and latte on oat.
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Bel Downes (Coffeewith…) @withdownes.bsky.social · 13/10/2025
Two weeks later… Back at the cafe Badly needed this coffee. And they missed me too 👋☕️🇦🇺
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Bel Downes (Coffeewith…) @withdownes.bsky.social · 11/10/2025
So just now I had this for lunch: It was delicious. You’re welcome… 😎🇦🇺
Vegemite and cheese scroll in packaging with Vegemite label front and centreVegemite and cheese scroll.
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Bel Downes (Coffeewith…) @withdownes.bsky.social · 10/10/2025
Also, even though I dress like Steve Jobs, I did buy these spiffy fluro bamboo work socks. Because you always need happy socks! 👋☕️🇦🇺
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Bel Downes (Coffeewith…) @withdownes.bsky.social · 10/10/2025
In today’s great news: After a fortnight (2 weeks) of not leaving the house, my left foot is healing well and… I picked up my new boot today! Ironically it’s a tradie ‘non-safety’ boot because the steel safety cap toe in my last boot injured my foot 🤦🏼‍♀️ 🤷😳 This boot balances my moon boot well 👋☕️🇦🇺
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Bel Downes (Coffeewith…) @withdownes.bsky.social · 16/09/2025
Life side quest achieved this morning: Got to the cafe early and got the last Vegemite and cheese pastry scroll - as a bonus the barista knew my order (Oat Latte) before I said it. I’m a happy little Vegemite… 👋☕️🇦🇺
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Bel Downes (Coffeewith…) @withdownes.bsky.social · 12/09/2025
What I did today in an imperfect yet mostly sensible country that takes coffee a bit too seriously and yet not seriously enough 👋☕️🇦🇺:
Cafe latte in glass with coconut caramel bar on wooden tray
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Bel Downes (Coffeewith…) @withdownes.bsky.social · 04/09/2025
Currently happening. Long black coffee with a friend… 👋☕️🇦🇺
Long black coffee on cafe table in black cup and saucer.
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Bel Downes (Coffeewith…) @withdownes.bsky.social · 31/08/2025
I just learned something that I will remind myself of every day I hear their ‘do your homework’… That little March for Arrogance thing didn’t apply for permits in Newcastle NSW but decided to meet anyway… The little pack had to move because others actually did apply for and receive permits… 🥸🇦🇺❤️🤣
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Bel Downes (Coffeewith…) @withdownes.bsky.social · 15/08/2025
Currently happening in a thoughtful place (I’ve already taken a sip, couldn’t wait!): 👋☕️🇦🇺
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Bel Downes (Coffeewith…) @withdownes.bsky.social · 24/07/2025
I regularly go to businesses and a big busy cafe in a nearby suburb here in Australia and this morning everyone in the neighbourhood is happy, friendly and bright on a cold winter’s day… with all the awful stuff happening in the world, it’s quite lovely here and now… Appreciating this 👋☕️🇦🇺❤️
Latte on oat in a coffee glass on a saucer
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Bel Downes (Coffeewith…) @withdownes.bsky.social · 26/06/2025
Bear and the Beard from Seven Miles… ❤️☕️
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Bel Downes (Coffeewith…) @withdownes.bsky.social · 26/06/2025
This morning’s homemade Australian coffee is magic. Freshly ground beans, brewed with a V60 switch, no hint of bitterness… 👋🇦🇺☕️
Black coffee in white mug with keyboard and mouse at my desk
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Bel Downes (Coffeewith…) @withdownes.bsky.social · 16/05/2025
Your moment of Australian morning… 👋☕️🇦🇺
Caffe latte on oat and passionfruit cheesecake
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Bel Downes (Coffeewith…) @withdownes.bsky.social · 07/05/2025
Australia, go get your flu shot… 🇦🇺💉 If you have a chronic illness (like Diabetes) it is free. Here’s a shot of my post shot shot…
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Bel Downes (Coffeewith…) @withdownes.bsky.social · 03/05/2025
Antony Green has just called the Australian Federal election for Labor and Albanese 😁❤️🇦🇺
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Bel Downes (Coffeewith…) @withdownes.bsky.social · 02/05/2025
Currently happening in a cafe near me right now. Today with bonus friend 👋🇦🇺☕️
Caffe latte with Portuguese tart on a wooden tray
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Bel Downes (Coffeewith…) @withdownes.bsky.social · 16/04/2025
Me: I can’t accept a new work contract this year, back in 2026 Boss: Glad you said this because we can’t offer you a contract again because contracting has changed (it’s not you) Still processing. A little teary but totally fine. I’m not seeing this as retirement, time to do some other things 👋☕️🇦🇺
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Bel Downes (Coffeewith…) @withdownes.bsky.social · 03/04/2025
Same thing is happening with Australian territories 🤷🥸 (Guardian):
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Bel Downes (Coffeewith…) @withdownes.bsky.social · 28/03/2025
So I’ve been making a concerted effort to shop local… 👋🇦🇺 A new stationery shop has opened up next door! Just bought my first Japanese training fountain pen in person… 🖋️🇯🇵😁
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Bel Downes (Coffeewith…) @withdownes.bsky.social · 24/03/2025
Walked to the cafe and got two heartfelt detailed compliments about how I was doing with my hiking poles. ‘Improving on the poles I see!’ But I caught myself saying ‘I feel like I’m skiing everyday’. Everyone (including me!) think I hurt my foot while skiing even though these are hiking poles 🤷👋☕️
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Bel Downes (Coffeewith…) @withdownes.bsky.social · 19/03/2025
Currently happening in a cafe on the east coast of NSW 🇦🇺:
Oat latte in a glass and a colourful cookie with Smarties
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Bel Downes (Coffeewith…) @withdownes.bsky.social · 03/03/2025
Friendly reminder to myself: Never ever watch ‘coffeetok’ again. My double espresso shots here was perfect… No creamer, sugar, flavouring, sugar, pumpkin, sugar etc in sight👋☕️🇦🇺
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